80. Digging skills and long-term love
After graduating from university, I have been very busy at work and I really don’t have time to fall in love.
The man she has the most contact with on weekdays is Yao Yuan.
It is understandable that Meimei likes Yao Yuan all day long.
But liking is not love. Meimei is a college student, so this is clearly distinguished.
If you like, appreciate, and think that this man is good, it is not love.
She could use Yao Yuan as her brother, brother-in-law, and teacher to joke with him without restraint, which means that she was very correct in her heart.
Of course, Yao Yuan also understood this. Meimei was joking with him, and he would occasionally make fun of Meimei.
However, Meimei does not have as much experience and scheming as he does, and she always falls into the pit he dug in this intentional or unintentional joke.
Speaking and digging holes for others is Yao Yuan’s well-trained skill, and he has long since formed a habit unconsciously.
By talking to others, designing a few small tests in it, allowing others to unconsciously answer the questions they want to know. This technique of testing other people's inner thoughts is not something that ordinary people can do.
The difference between Yao Yuan's attitude towards others and towards Meimei is that he tests the thoughts in Meimei's heart and will remind Meimei to let Meimei know how she exposed her thoughts and increase her experience.
Of course, he will remain calm and not tell the other person.
He trained Meimei. Being a senior cadre, this skill will be of great help to her.
But Meimei's personality can basically be learned from him by just one thing, but she can't learn this, she always falls into his trap, and never makes progress.
Meimei herself also shocked the pit Yao Yuan dug for her.
She was naturally talking to Yao Yuan.
Could it be that she really likes Liu Jian in her heart? How is this possible! She just appreciates his marketing talent, and there is nothing else that she likes, including having a lazy confession to her.
Looking at Meimi's expression, Yao Yuan knew that Meimi had nothing to do with Liu Jian now, so he felt relieved.
Then he enlightened her and said, "You don't have to worry, this is just an illusion, an illusion of love over time.
In my understanding, love over time is purely nonsense. When both of them are rational at the beginning, they cannot attract each other, which means that the two are not suitable. When they get along with each other all day long, although they have a good impression of each other, they are still not suitable, unless they lose their rationality.
Sister-in-law, you are a rational person. As long as you don’t lose your mind, you will not be with Liu Jian.
Those who have fallen in love over time are nothing more than two kinds of people.
The first one is that no one attracts the opposite sex who is better than the other party to fall in love with them, so they are the most suitable ones to be together. No one wants the two, so they have to assume that they have fallen in love over time and get together.
If couples who are together like this are too familiar with each other, they will pass by in a simple life without much intention.
This is not suitable for you and Liu Jian. As long as you never let go, Liu Jian has the ability to find a wife, and it is difficult to find an excellent and beautiful wife like you.
As long as you don’t agree, sooner or later he will lose patience and become unreliable, and will look for someone else’s.
Let’s talk about the second type. One party is not satisfied with the other party, but is moved by the other party’s long-term persistent pursuit. When his head heats up, he agrees to the other party.
I believe that most people who do this will regret it soon, and because of their affection, they are embarrassed to refuse the other party again, and they will also pretend to be in the four words of love over time.
This latter situation is probably not as good as the former. Even ordinary days may not occur, and marriage will always be in danger.
What you and Liu Jian are most afraid of is probably this situation. But sister-in-law, you are rational and can always have the upper hand, and you shouldn't do such a thing."
Meimei slowly grinned and said, "I'm afraid of saying it thoroughly. If you say it thoroughly today, I know how to prevent it. Alas, how did you know so much? I didn't find anything you don't know."
Yao Yuan said: "I spent most of my life reading books, so I know more, nothing is strange."
Yao Yuan said this, so Meimei stopped asking questions.
In fact, Yao Yuan and his previous life had a love affair over time. The two of them were together and said they had a lot of work, but they didn't remember anything worth remembering in life. They lived together for many years, and even a day of resistance was not as good as a day.
This is also one of the reasons why he didn’t marry the other party and didn’t say he wanted to get married, right?
Yao Yuan is also a human being. When he is fine, he will think about these things and the experience he gains from thinking about them is what he said to Meimei.
As the two of them talked, they planted vegetables in the flower pots, moved them to the heating bag and the stove, packed them, and sat on the sofa in front of the coffee table to drink tea.
At this time, Kang Kang was there, washed the two children, put them on the kang and coaxed them to bed, and talked to her mother for a while, and then came here.
He Meimei and Yao Yuan have a lot to say. He doesn’t have so much to say when he is a couple.
However, when talking to Meimei, no matter what she talks about, it seems like two friends are chatting. This is completely different from the way she talks with Kangkang.
Sometimes the two of them also discuss the important matters, but after discussing, they will unknowingly go down. I don’t know if Kang Kang is going down first or Yao Yuan’s head starts, but in the end they will talk about chaos and talk about Kang Kang into Yao Yuan’s arms.
Sometimes, Kang Kang also complained that Yao Yuan and her had nothing to do. Yao Yuan also wanted to talk to Kang Kang, but he didn't know what the two of them did, just talked so hard.
What we are obsessed with is more about each other's body, and what we like is to hug or rely on each other. The beauty of resisting is so beautiful, Yao Yuan is in his prime. If he can still speak well, that would be a ghost!
But Meimei is also very beautiful, but Yao Yuan has no idea about this.
Later, Yao Yuan thought that he and Kanggong are the true love, right? If Kanggong changed to Meimei, their topics were so serious, and I am afraid that they would really change what he said, "Fall in love over time."
Kang Kang was suspicious, and she came back. Yao Yuan would discuss love with Meimei again, which was a bit inappropriate.
Meimei took the initiative to change the topic and said: "As soon as those New Year's goods entered the factory, Secretary Zhang called me over and praised me, "Although I am young, I still have a relatively detailed consideration. Although I was not careful in thinking for a while, I could quickly react and think of ways to make up for it. It was rare and rare. I felt embarrassed to say it."
Yao Yuan said: "He praised you for being mature, which is a good thing. He specifically asked you to go over, which means that the thing he was worried about was solved, and he was very happy. Another thing is that if this thing cannot be solved, it actually has little impact on him, and it has the greatest impact on you, and it is easy to make enemies. He is so worried that it means that he is thinking about something in his heart."
Speaking of this, I asked Meimei: "Can you guess what he is thinking?"
Meimei thought for a while and said, "He is considering it, I am still competent and did not cause him any trouble."
Yao Yuan shook his head and said, "No. Representative Zhang is not a selfish person and will not consider his own pressure first. With you, he will definitely bear the pressure, and the pressure is not average. However, he never said it.
If a person always thinks about something in his heart, he will show it more or less. If he doesn't say it, it proves that he hasn't thought too much about it. He feels that he should bear the pressure for the future of the factory and there is nothing to say."
Meimei nodded and said, "Secretary Zhang's character is worth learning from every cadre of the mining machine."
Then he asked, "What is he thinking?"
Yao Yuan said: "He is already thinking about officially mentioning you as the deputy factory director. She is afraid that you will not be considerate in your work and will cause dissatisfaction among other cadres. When he proposes that you be the deputy factory director, you will not be able to pass the internal situation first. Therefore, he is so anxious. Seeing that you have solved the matter so well, he will be so happy and unable to suppress the joy in his heart, so he will make an exception and call you over and praise you."
Meimei opened her mouth and said for a long time: "Brother-in-law, you are simply modern Sherlock Holmes, this should be the case!"
Yao Yuan smiled and said nothing else.
When training cadres for many years, how can this analysis ability be achieved?
But Meimei's mood then fell down and said with a little discouraged look: "If you don't have you this time, the consequences will be very dangerous."
Then he sighed and said, "Why is it so difficult to do something in a mining machine? If you are not careful, you can cause a big disaster and get blamed. How can you do the future work?"
Yao Yuan looked at her and said, "At this time, you know that you are always blamed, but you know that it is difficult to do it? I didn't let you come back and stay in school to teach, why are you not obedient?"
He changed his tone and said, "But it's not too late for you to regret it now. You can immediately ask Representative Zhang to resign and play with your sister in clothing. It is worry-free and comfortable. If you are happy, you can also go to play all over the country. If our mother didn't want to leave you alone at home, fearing that you can't eat or drink, we wouldn't have been at home during the New Year, so we would have gone to a warm place in the south to play."
Kang Kang was lying on the bed and read a book on clothing design, and he interrupted: "Don't listen to your brother-in-law talking nonsense, it's not easy to get clothes. The new clothes launched in each season are enough for me to suffer. Fortunately, your brother-in-law is smart and can first look and think, otherwise I will be so tired that I can't get it out."
Speaking of this, I asked Yao Yuan: "Are you sure the cheongsam will be popular this year? Will the ones on both sides change to one-third of the thigh? The old style is too high. There are also those bell-bottom pants that have a thigh of one foot or two pants. Is this not changing the robe?"
Yao Yuan said impatiently: "What are you changing to the opening? You haven't seen the girls on the street showing more and more time, and you want to go out directly to the streets naked? This is called sexy! Your thoughts really have to go to the south with you again, why are you always so conservative?
What do you want for bell-bottom pants? It is the two openings below that show your body shape and length of your legs. Do you understand? I will definitely make sense of mine if I want you to be one foot or two, just do it!"
Kang Kang was still a little worried: "You said that this thing was wearing some little gangsters in the past. If we do this, will something happen?"
Yao Yuan said: "Look at what fabrics are all worn by those little gangsters? They are all cheap things and cannot be used on the table. We make them, but high-end fabrics are worn by people with status in society, not the same level. Also, how many times have you told you that when you make clothes, first of all, what grades of people you make are for and what ages you wear, so that you can have an image in your mind."
Chapter completed!