"But, is she willing to see you? If she doesn't want to see you, I will let you find her rashly. If she gets angry and tells her leaders, we will be punished!" Xu Nan expressed her concern.

"Don't worry, I'll ask her at the door later. If she's willing to meet, she'll meet. If she doesn't want to, I'll leave immediately and will not cause any trouble!" I said hurriedly.

"Okay, let's go." Xu Nan took the key.

Xu Nan opened the door after door, and the last door was a small iron door on the aisle under the attic.

"I'll wait for you below for half an hour. Click now, don't wait for the captain or others to come. It will be bad if they find out!" Xu Nan said.

"Didn't the captains go to the office building for a meeting? They won't be back so soon."

"Ma Shuang is so good. Let Ma Shuang know and talk to her!" Xu Nan was still worried.

I said, "Well, if you find someone coming from the aisle, you call me right away, I'll come down, and then you'll say we're here to patrol."

"Anyway, hurry up!"

I went up and arrived at the small attic. I took a few deep breaths, and then knocked on the door three times.

There was no sound inside.

Did she fall asleep?

Since I have come and I am not willing to leave like this, the door opened when I am about to knock again.

She stood straight, as tall as me, with a small waist and long legs, and a prominent upper circumference, making her whole body look slim, sexy, long and plump, just like a Korean car model beauty.

Although this top beauty is not as exaggerated as Xie Danyang, her extremely handsome face and natural model figure, melancholy eyes, straight nose bridge, delicate cherry mouth, and super perfect figure are really her deadly weapons.

This natural appearance is more intelligent and wise. I really don’t know how many men she fascinated outside before she came in.

She spoke first: "May I ask, what's the matter with me?"

I suddenly came to my senses. I had been staring at her for a long time: "Sorry, you, you are very beautiful, I'm a little distracted to look at her." I swallowed.

She naturally saw all this, probably to help me relieve my nervousness. She just smiled and said, "Come in."

After I went in, she took me a stool: "There is no place to sit here."

"Haha, you're so polite." I said politely too.

"I was surprised that you suddenly came to me. What's wrong?" She put her hands on her knees and slowly sat on the bed.

During this process, she bent down, which made her long waist and hair look down, and her hips are tilted, and I couldn't help but take a few more glances.

She just looked at me and didn't say anything.

I could only say self-deprecatingly: "Haha, sorry, you are so beautiful, I see that you have lost your soul."

She burst out laughing and said, "Thank you for the praise. From a psychological perspective, men like beauty, first of all, it is determined by human biological nature. Most of the standards for women's external beauty are closely related to fertility. Men regard the opposite sex that meets these standards as beauties, and quickly position and chase them visually. Behind the love of looking at beauties, there is the endless reproduction motivation of human beings. Secondly, seeing young and beautiful opposite sex will make men feel happy and satisfied. Seeing beauty can also bring many benefits to men. Men staring at beauties for 10 minutes a day is equivalent to doing 30 minutes of aerobic exercise, and the average life span can be extended by 4-5 years."

I think she is quite happy. Beauties like the feeling of their charm that makes men fall in love with them.

I asked intentionally: "I am like a pervert in front of you, you are still so happy."

She slimly stretched her forehead and hair: "People have a need to be affirmed by others, which is also an instinctive need. Sexual desire is also a human instinctive need. Lust is a man's nature, and lust is also good for men. Lustful men make women feel that their masculine characteristics are prominent, they have strong sexual abilities, and are more likely to attract women's attention. Although lust is a man's nature, there are many benefits, but I want to remind you that in human society, loyalty is a kind of morality. Men can appreciate beauty, but they cannot make ambiguous or cheating actions in behavior."

loyalty.

I didn't feel a little ashamed, so I coughed gently and said, "Why don't you ask me what I have to do with you?"

She said: "I've asked just now."

"Oh, hehe, yes, I want to ask you something. I came to visit and I should have brought something, but it was inconvenient, so don't mind." I looked at the room with only simple furniture and nothing was said.

"Tell me directly. Do you have any questions and ask me for advice?" she said to me.

"Haha, can you guess it?" I asked her.

"You don't know my identity. There are only two situations about me. One is that I am very beautiful, and the other is that I have professional knowledge of psychology. So, from me, you can get only two things, one is me, and the other is a psychological problem. Although you want to get my body, you are even more in awe of me. That is, you want to ask psychology questions."

It's indeed amazing.

"I listened to your advice and read a lot of books on psychology, such as Freud, but I think I am stupid by nature and really cannot comprehend many of the exquisite and profound principles. It is even more difficult to achieve such things as you, through micro-expressions and speculations, and it is even more difficult to penetrate people's hearts through micro-expressions and speculations."

She listened carefully, then looked at the book she borrowed me to read on the bed and said, "You learn these things, just a psychological summary, and it doesn't even count introductory. Learning is related to interest, talent and your own qualifications. Maybe you like table tennis very much, and you are the same age, the same health and the same figure as athletes, but no matter how hard you work, you can't reach the level of being selected for the national team for eight hours a day, and you can't practice for ten years."

I agree with her statement: "You are right. What I want to ask you is that there was a mess in our prison area D yesterday, and there were some female prisoners."

When talking about the female prisoner, I felt that saying this word was not good in front of her, so I changed it to say: "The women in the prison area are in chaos. The mainland is divided into factions, fighting each other for revenge, seriously injured two, and minor injuries. When I heard this news, I thought of some women I had taught before. I had taught me, but it was useless. Some taught me the psychological problems became more serious, while others committed suicide. For this reason, I felt very guilty. What I couldn't understand even more is why humans should kill each other, alas."

"You don't have to care too much about self-blame. Even a wise psychologist can't guarantee 100% responsiveness to many patients with difficult mental illnesses. Humans have a revenge mentality, and belong to the 15 instinctive desires of human beings. Different people have different requirements for these 15 basic desires. Take sex as an example, sex is pleasant to almost everyone, but the driving force for everyone is not consistent. Some people are addicted to it throughout their lives, while others invest very little in this regard. The same is true for other desires. Some people pursue it successfully, some are indifferent to fame and fortune, some people value family affection and family, and some are "workaholics"."

I sighed, "Listen to a group of people is better than reading for ten years. Then what do I say and do if I meet women who need guidance in the future and want them to give up revenge or give up pessimistic suicide?"

"We continue to discuss the psychology of revenge. As I said just now, people have 15 basic desires and values, namely: Sex: Freud regards this as the first priority, and there is no need to say more about the need for sex. Food: There is no need to say more about the desire for food. Curiosity: The desire to learn is irresistible, just like when you come to me now, it is driven by curiosity. A sense of honor, morality. A fear of being rejected by society: This makes us abide by the rules. The female prisoners in prison basically have a fear of being rejected by society. The score of schizophrenia is very low. This does not mean that they do not have this sense of fear, but that their brains automatically selectively escape from amnesia. Sports: Fats may not realize that people's desire for exercise is born. Order: Everyone wants to have a place in daily life. Independence: the desire to make their own decisions. Revenge. Social interaction: the desire to be a part of the people, that is,

Make this mean wandering around the commercial streets aimlessly. Family: This desire shared with family may not be suitable for busy bosses. Social reputation: the desire for reputation and status. Disgust: the aversion to pain and anxiety. Citizenship: the desire to serve public and social justice. Power: the desire to influence others and is often overexpressed by dictators. These 15 basic desires and values ​​are almost none of the prisoners in prisons. Therefore, almost every female prisoner who goes to prison will have mental illness. Because of various factors such as fear, many of their negative psychological emotions will be backlogged quickly. Once there is a fuse, they will be vented through violence and other aspects. If their negative psychological emotions are too much, they will not be vented, and the spiritual aspects of people will even collapse. And many of their ways of releasing their id are by hurting others."

I listened attentively, and after listening, I said, "I learned this in college, but I basically forgot it haha. You are so awesome, I remember almost everything."

"From a psychological perspective, revenge psychology means that a person's behavior causes a certain amount of damage or gain in the interests of another person, which will make the latter expect that the former will also cause damage to the interests of no less than that amount or make the former also produce a satisfactory gain in interests. This reaction of a person is called revenge. Revenge psychology is the internal logic of human behavior, the core principle that human behavior follows, and an important part of human nature. If coins have two sides, one side of revenge is revenge, and the other side is gratitude. Usually, a person's damage to the interests of another person will cause the former to ask for compensation or the former will cause the latter to cause the latter to also cause the latter to cause the same damage to the interests of a person. This reaction of a person is called revenge. On the other hand, a person's benefit in interests due to the actions of another person will make the former gain in interests of a person, which will make the former gain in interests of a person's behavior, which will make the former gain in interests of a person's behavior. This reaction of a person is usually called revenge. On the other hand, a person's benefit in interests due to the actions of another person will make the former gain in interests of a person's behavior, which will make the former gain in interests of a person's satisfaction, and this reaction of a person is usually called revenge. On the other hand, a person's benefit in interests due to the actions of another person will make the former gain in interests of a person's behavior. This reaction of a person is usually called revenge. On the other hand, a person's benefit in interests due to the actions of another person will make the former gain in interests of a person's benefit, which will make the former gain in interests of a person's satisfaction. This reaction of a person is usually called

Gratitude. From another perspective, we can also understand revenge psychology as: an instinctive response, a self-defense protection mechanism that resists external adverse factors. Revenge as a response to protecting one's own interests from losses is a self-defense protection mechanism that resists external adverse factors. This is easier for us to understand. But how can we understand gratitude as a self-defense protection mechanism that counters external adverse factors? The answer is: one's behavior increases the interests of another person. If the latter is not grateful or is not actively grateful to the former to increase the interests of the former, you, the former will likely actively ask the latter to be grateful to yourself; if the former does not obtain the benefits that meet your own standards, the former will likely take action to retaliate against the latter. Therefore, for the purpose of self-defense and protection of one's own interests, gratitude must be taken to take action and meet the requirements of the other party."

I said embarrassedly: "I was confused when I heard this, and I really couldn't understand it. Ask this question, how should I restrain myself if I want to take revenge?"

I asked so much, Liu Zhihui did not show any impatient expression. On the contrary, her stretched eyebrows and gently swinged gestures looked very happy and happy. "People do anything and have a long subconscious foundation, and it will never happen temporarily. Every subtle action has deep psychological reasons. Just like the happy communication with you now, it is also a psychological instinct. Revenge is the result of anger venting after the accumulated negative emotions in the heart. People have anger. When anger is aroused, they must self-regulate and deal with it coldly to avoid excessive revenge. Of course, it is easy to say, but once you encounter something that makes people angry, as you usually say, the brain loses its mind, so the key is to look at the person's usual psychological adjustment ability."

I asked again: "If I meet women who come to consult me, some of them are emotionally excited and want to vent violently, while others are emotionally depressed and want to commit suicide, how should I help me?"

Liu Zhihui suddenly smiled gently and said, "Zhang Jian, I want to ask you another question first."

I don't know what her smile meant, but I felt a little fluctuating in my heart. It wasn't that my intention was to me, "Okay, ask."

"Do you have many girlfriends? Ask this way, are there many girls who are interested in you, including many beautiful girls? And some of them have good conditions at home?" she asked.

I wonder why she asked this, but thinking that since I came here, beautiful women have been getting started, with all kinds of identities and powerful beauties: "Haha, no, no."

She said: "That's that there are many. Zhang Jianzhu is so young, charming, courageous, generous and loyal. It's normal for many girls to like it. There will be more and more wealthy and beautiful women who have good figures in the future. "

I raised my back and felt like I was about to fly into the sky: "No, no."

She looked straight at me and smiled softly. After being proud for a while, I suddenly came to my senses. Damn, have I been hypnotized by her again?

Immediately, I returned to my calm expression and asked her: "Did you use me for a hypnosis experiment again?"

She smiled and smiled happily: "Do you know?"

I felt a little unhappy: "It's still fake for you to praise me! What's so charming, generous and loyal, are all fake!"

She kept giggling, and the flower branches trembled slightly, saying, "You are so interesting, you are so serious."
Chapter completed!