Wang Da said: "What a pity, Mr. He is going to miss it."

I said, "Yeah, miss it."

Wang Da said: "Okay, plan your own future."

I said, "How else can I plan?"

Wang Da said: "If you don't rely on her, you will be a little difficult to leave in the future."

I said, "It's a bit difficult in prison, so work hard. If you can't go on, then forget it. Leave the prison and go to Hei Mingzhu's men to do things well."

Wang Da raised his cup: "I wish you success and success."

I said, "Thank you for your blessing."

If I leave Helanting, I will feel uncomfortable and sad. The road I will continue will be very difficult. However, in this world, no one will never be with you, no one will always be by your side to protect you and take care of you. There are many roads, and you can only walk alone and break through alone.

But I still feel sad when I think about giving up completely.

Wang Da said: "I'll give you a suggestion."

I asked: "What suggestions."

Wang Da said: "It is recommended that you give up, but don't give up all of them."

I said, "What does this mean?"

Wang Da said: "Actually, although you seem to be not a couple, you are just a couple, and the relationship is like a lover. You go to help Hei Mingzhu and cause harm to her. Why is this hurt so profound and makes her so painful? That is because she has always liked you deeply in her heart. The more she likes you, the more painful it will be. Then you go to help Hei Mingzhu, and she is like a broken up, so if she wants to separate from you, it is equivalent to breaking up. You have already worked hard to find her, but it cannot be saved. There is no way, so don't save it. If you don't act to save it, but the window for recovery in your heart should be opened for her. If she wants to make peace with you one day, you can make peace with her."

I said, "Give up? Still want to make up?"

Wang Da said: "Yes. It's not that reconciliation is to reconcile between lovers and pursue being lovers, but that the relationship is as good as before, and it's good to maintain the same relationship with her before."

I asked, "Will she look back? Can she look back when she decides? She will do it without hesitation!"

Wang Da said: "As long as you are a human being, you will change, especially for your feelings. No matter what her personality is, as long as she still loves you, one day she will truly let go of her hatred. She remembers your past goodness and is reluctant to leave you, and will probably look back."

I said, "Oh, then wait for the next life."

Wang Da said: "You can't say that, she's very likely to turn back. After all, you are a different betrayal from her ex-boyfriend. You are not with her, and then cheat on other women. You are just her good friend, and then you have followed other good friends, and you are not saying it's the emotional and physical cheating between couples."

I said, "It seems to be similar to her."

Wang Da said: "It's still a little different. Think about how she treats her ex-boyfriend and how she treats you?"

I said, "Yes, that's true. She treated her boyfriend the same hatred as the enemy."

Wang Da said: "That's it. Now she doesn't treat you as hatred as an enemy. There is still hope. We can't attack blindly, we need to wait."

I asked, "Wait? Wait for the opportunity? Wait for her to get sick?"

Wang Da said: "In fact, what you do now is like the way you did when we picked up girls, and after being dumped by girls. Do you remember your college girlfriend? Do you remember my girlfriend? They all dumped us, but we went to beg them to make up with tears and we went to beg them to make up. Did they make up? I begged her to bow down, but she looked down on me even more. Human nature is cheap, the easier it is to get, the more I don't cherish it, the more she looks down on me. The more she begs her, the more she looks down on me. The more she begs her, the more she gives up. To be honest, I have had so many loves, and I really haven't succeeded in regaining it. Then I saw my friends around me to make up for it, but it just adds to my pain. But I found a very interesting thing in so many love breakups. Do you know what it is."

I said, "What's interesting? Is the pain very interesting?"

Wang Da said: "No. Even if you go back to save this woman and pursue her, you will find that she has become less cherishing and loving you like before, but has become very arrogant, like your aunt and queen mother, who are arrogant and blame you, and is very harsh. Perhaps what we are trying to save is not the woman we used to be, but the feeling and the investment we are unwilling to pay. When I fell in love later and stopped regaining her, I found that most of the girls would come back to me on their own initiative, and eight out of ten would come back to me."

I said, "How many fucking times have you talked about?"

Wang Da said: "There are only seven or eight who admit it. If you don't admit it, there must be dozens of them."

I said, "You talk more than me. You don't need to be affectionate."

Wang Da said: "I am a prodigal son. The prodigal son always keeps his essence without mercy. Pay attention, he is the essence of the spirit."

I said, "Come less."

Wang Da said: "If I go back to save the previous woman, it would be a waste of life and my own time. Then after I stopped saving her, I discovered this phenomenon, which is that most of them would take the initiative to save her."

I asked, "Can you? Really?"

I thought about it, damn it, will it be? The women who left me at that time really left, how many people could come back.

Wang Da said: "When a person is not in love, if he does not fall in love, he will have an emotional gap. At this time, he feels lonely and thinks about his former love partner. In fact, people can choose to start a new relationship, but for a new unfamiliar resource, people are more willing to choose an old partner because they think it will be easier, but this is just an illusion. It is sometimes more difficult to redeem a new girlfriend than to have a new girlfriend."

I said, "You are right. I agree with you very much. It is really difficult to save it. It is better to pursue a girl again."

Wang Da said: "So, don't try to save it. Wait until she takes the initiative to look for you. If she doesn't take the initiative to look for you, then you really forget it. If she takes the initiative to look for you, then there will be hope."

I said, "Come on, she can't take the initiative to look for me."

Wang Da said, "Let's wait."

Although it is unlikely, I am actually looking forward to it. If I don’t look for her, will she really look for me and save me?

Because I think Helanting can't really say that she will give up just by saying that she will give up.

I asked, "If she finds me, what do you think you should do."

I asked Wang Da with a smile.

Wang Da said: "Look at you like that, you still say you don't love her. You are obviously looking forward to it and love her very much, and you pretend to be unloved."

I said, "Okay, okay, I admit that I love her very much."

Wang Da said, "That's right."

I asked, "Say, what if she looks for me?"

Wang Da said, "First of all, you ignore her. She thought you really gave up. If she really loves you, she would be confused. Should she give up her arrogant face? You must not look for her again during this period. If you look for her again, it would be the same as this time. She would flatly refuse. Anyway, you just said that you should give up resolutely, so give up or not. If she struggled to look for you for a while, then you would definitely take the initiative, return to your previous relationship with a magnificent return, and even better than the previous relationship. When she turned to look for you, you would first refuse, and you would not want to. I used to be so humble and beg you to make peace. If you don't make peace, then forget it, just don't make peace."

I asked, "It's better to be unreconciled? Why is it really unreconciled?"

Wang Da said: "Human nature is cheap, and you can easily get it even more disrespectful. If she lowers her head and looks for you, she will definitely be the same attitude, and she will call you to do things for her with a fierce attitude. That is a signal to lower her head and find you. However, you still don't like it because she is still stepping on you high and you have to deliberately create some difficulty for her."

I said, "Indeed, if she really came to me on her own initiative, she would definitely ask me to do something, run errands for her or do something. Then I won't do it anymore? I will refuse directly?"

Wang Da said: "Yes, refuse directly."

I said, "What if she refuses directly and doesn't ask me?"

Wang Da said: "You have to create difficulty for her, so that she feels that you are not someone who waves and leaves, or something she controls casually. If she makes investment, she cherishes you and she feels that you are precious. You have to let her see clearly and let her know that you Helanting doesn't cherish me. I will naturally have someone to cherish you. If you don't cherish me, I can also not cherish you. How you treat me, how I treat you, and if you make up, she will not dare to treat you like this next time."

I said, "Come on, she can't cherish it very much."

Wang Da said: "It's because it's easy to get, so I don't cherish it. You have to refuse. I'm not a rag, and I can't be yours anytime. I'm not such a casual person. Although you are indeed a casual person, you can't treat her casually, you can't easily agree to her, and you have to pretend that you really want to give up."

I said, "You are the fucking casual person. I think if I follow what you said, did, and refused, she would definitely hang up the phone and ignore me."
Chapter completed!