Chapter 2556
I felt distressed when I looked at Zhu Lihua's crying look.
She pushed me away, and I held her in my arms again and said, "Okay, stop crying, I still like you very much, I will always like you. If you don't mind, I will be your boyfriend. I will be responsible."
Julihua said, "I want you to have only me in your heart."
I didn't say anything.
Julihua said, "You can't do it."
I said, "I really can't do it because there are too many women in my heart, especially Helanting. I can't let go of her. No matter who I am with, as long as she calls me and asks me to go to her side, I will definitely run to her side without hesitation. This kind of emotion is uncontrollable. Even if I have a girlfriend, I can't control my own emotions."
Julihua said: "Just pretend nothing has happened."
I said, "Stop crying."
I don't know how to comfort her.
Did I ever see Julihua crying?
She is so strong, so vulnerable in the face of feelings.
After a while, Zhu Lihua said to me: "Okay, the work report is over, I'm going to work hard."
At this time, she returned to her normal appearance and seemed to have nothing to do.
I said, "Oh."
Then, she turned around, took a few steps in small steps, and walked to the door of the office.
I was behind her and looked at her foolishly.
Suddenly, she turned around, smiled at me, and said, "Why are you so sad? Smile."
I can't laugh.
She said, "Do you want me to be happy like you usually coax me?"
I laughed at this sentence and said, "Silly, no need. I just want to make you happy, I don't need you to make me happy."
She said, "Then you coax it."
I walked over and hugged her gently and again: "No matter how we do in the future, no matter what our relationship continues, I will always be by your side."
Julihua said, "So too. Well, why are you so sentimental? I'm going to work hard."
I said, "I should have said this dialogue. You are sentimental. Like Lin Daiyu, I suddenly feel sad. I'm a little uncomfortable."
Julihua said: "Don't men like women like this the most?"
I said, "No, I only like strong women, not women who moan when they are sick or not. That's called, "
Julihua said, "You are the one who does it."
I pinched her ass and said, "You're the one who did it!"
She pretended to hit me, and I stretched out my face and said, "You hit me, are you willing to hit me? I'll let you hit me!"
She didn't hit me, but kissed me in the face and said, "Let you go today. Next time you will make me unhappy, I will beat you to death."
I said, "You don't want to bear it."
She squeezed my eyes mischievously, then turned around and opened the door and left.
Alas, how did this Julihua and me become such a relationship?
Turn around and go back and make coffee.
I didn't have the habit of drinking coffee, and I usually drink tea, but Xiao Ling just happened to send a few bags of coffee and said that it was imported from me. I brought it to me by a friend and drank a few cups. It was quite good and I was very energetic.
I feel like someone is behind me.
I quickly turned around and was startled. Helanting was standing close at a distance.
I rubbed my chest: "You're going to scare people! You can walk without sound! Can you knock on the door when you come in?"
Helanting took my brewed coffee and brought it over to drink it.
I said, "You, okay. Drink it. When did you come?"
Helanting said: "Ten minutes ago."
I was stunned and asked, "Ten minutes ago?"
Helanting said yes.
I said, "Where is it?"
Helanting pointed out the window.
She's been outside the window?
But, from this corridor, can you see what I am doing?
I walked over and the curtains of the window were not all pulled up, leaving a little straight gap, which was enough to see the entire scene of what I did in the office.
I turned around and said to Helanting: "What did you see just now."
Helanting said, "You and Julihua, both saw it."
She looked calm when she said this.
There was no expression of unhappiness, and it should be said that there was no expression of it.
I said, "I saw me hugging her."
Helanting didn't say anything.
I said, "Haha, okay, my and her."
Helanting interrupted me: "I have something to talk to you!"
She was cold.
I said, "You're angry."
Who wouldn't be angry?
If she doesn't like me, she won't be jealous, if she likes me, she will definitely be jealous.
But with her personality, even if she is jealous, it is a big deal that falls or a death. As long as she is willing, she can be as calm as water and without any turmoil.
Helanting said: "I still have some things to do when talking about it."
It seems that it would be better if I comfort her now.
I have no intention of hurting anyone, and I don’t want to hurt Helanting at the very least, but I can’t let go of so many beauties around me, and I can’t bear to let go, nor do I want to, even think about all the beauty of everyone, and all of them are taken into my pocket.
Although I know this is impossible, I just want it.
After all, humans are selfish and greedy animals.
OK, I'm a scumbag.
I said, "Tell me."
Helanting has been hurt by emotions, and I can never give her the sense of security she wants.
What women and men want are always different.
If you ask a man what kind of woman he likes.
Basically, most men must say that they have a good figure and beautiful appearance.
If you ask a woman, there are many answers given by women. Many people will want to say that they are rich, although she doesn't say it.
But is money really what women want?
Women in this society nowadays do not lack the ability and ability to make money.
They will also say that they have a good personality and a good temper, are good to her, are handsome, talented, humorous, filial.
The man every woman wants is different.
According to Maslow's hierarchy of needs, people's needs are divided into five types like a ladder from low to high, namely physiological needs, safety needs, social needs, respect needs, and self-realization needs.
If a woman has no way to solve her food, accommodation, transportation and clothing, she will definitely not be thinking about having a handsome partner, but a man with food in her hands, which is the so-called rich man.
If a woman can solve her food, accommodation and transportation problems, but she has suffered emotional trauma, she must want a man who is dedicated to her and a man who is so dedicated that she can make her feel down-to-earth.
If a woman has a messy social circle and has a bad relationship with relatives, friends and colleagues, she doesn’t want a handsome guy with a rich and secure feeling, but wants a man who can give her care, care, understanding and tolerance, and gives her a sense of intimacy and warmth between people.
If the first three levels have been reached, then the girl is eager to gain her own reputation and achieve status and the opportunity to prove herself. She must find a partner who can gain a higher value in survival status of the powerful.
If the first four levels are achieved and the girl has achieved her own reputation through her own efforts, then she hopes to realize her needs, in order to realize her dreams and prove herself, like Helanting and He Mingzhu, who are rich and powerful, they work hard to build companies and groups to realize their own needs.
When no level is satisfied, it will move towards the next level of needs. When you know what this woman is missing, you will know what she really wants.
It's like Jack chasing Ruth in Titan, not just because of her handsomeness. There is no shortage of rich and handsome men beside Ruth, because Jack gives Ruth the freedom and happiness that she desires the most.
Xue Mingmei lacks a sense of security and respect needs, and does not have family warmth. So after she met the fitness coach who took care of her meticulously, she already recognized that he was her lifelong companion. Because the fitness coach could protect her, be her harbor, be kind to her, take good care of her, respect her, understand her and tolerate her.
Sister Cai used to long for the pursuit of constantly having money, status, and reputation, so the partners she looked for were those who were mainly rich men.
Julihua is quite like Ruth in some aspects. She has a stern and stereotypical family environment, no freedom, and is too serious. When she meets me, her life changes a lot and she will laugh because I often make her laugh. She feels my humor. She actually longs for free in her heart like me. She longs for freedom like Ruth. This freedom is the freedom of the heart, not the freedom of action. She actually wants to love unrestrainedly and do some crazy but beautiful things that others do, such as loving a man regardless of consequences, tangling cotton with someone, and doing everything she wants to do with someone. But she has been seriously bound by rules and regulations since she was a child. She has never let go of herself, but that night, she really let herself go, and I love her regardless of consequences and everything. This may be the only thing she did in her life that she really let herself go.
Of course, Julihua also recognized me because of the sense of security I brought to her. This sense of security is not the sense of security between partners, but the sense of security that I can save her life and protect her. This is more dependent and at ease than the sense of loyalty between couples, because she always firmly believes that as long as I am here, she is safe.
And Helanting.
Helanting has obviously been hurt by emotions.
At these five levels, she only lacks a sense of security, but what I cannot give her the most is a sense of security.
So, this is why she likes me but is not willing to give herself to me.
Many times I want to show that I am very dedicated in front of Helanting, but I can't do it at all. If I face too many temptations, I can't hold on to myself, so I simply don't keep it. I really lose Helanting for this reason. I think I will regret it, but even if I regret it, I can't change myself.
Chapter completed!