Marriage is legally called marriage establishment. It refers to the civil legal act of a man, woman or partner establishing a husband-wife relationship in accordance with the conditions and procedures stipulated by the law, and bearing the rights, obligations and other responsibilities arising from it.

The true essence of marriage is the mechanism to control the relationship between men and women. There is no necessary relationship between marriage and love, life, family, and childbirth. Marriage belongs to the control ethics, and love belongs to the voluntary ethics.

In ancient times, almost the whole world was engaged in arranged marriages, which emphasized that marriage ethics (controlled ethics) dominate everything that dominated the relationship between men and women. For a long time, love ethics was removed and turned into "love to prepare for marriage". The logic is that love is just a process of choice preparation, and it must be sacred until marriage is obtained.

In fact, as long as you want, love itself can produce sacredness.

When you look at the ancient classics and the Christian Bible, you find that it is basically a description of arranged marriages, without the description of love before marriage. Ancient Christianity was basically arranged marriages. Later, Christianity's adaptation "love prepares for marriage", which influenced the whole world, but in this thought, it does not recognize that love can produce sacredness, it is just a process of choice.

Today's so-called marriage oath is actually a kind of love oath. This kind of love oath can also be sweared before marriage is born, and it can also produce sacredness. If the true essence of marriage is control, then arranged marriage may be the true face of marriage.

After the arranged marriage ended, the control of marriage weakened most of the time. The term "arranged marriage" was invented by later people. Ancient people might have believed that marriage was originally arranged.

Nowadays, it seems to be a popular saying - marriage is the grave of love. Despite this, people are still competing for it. Why? In fact, the reason is very simple, because people still want love to be permanent, and marriage is a way to keep love permanent and the only way.

As for some people who are worried about losing their freedom after getting married, this is actually the excuse of this person. In fact, it is the person who is making excuses for playing with love.

So, what is the mentality of people after marriage? Many people after marriage have a very simple answer in this regard, saying that they have lost the passion they had in love before after marriage, or simply say that they have really entered the "grave" and other things that make people very scared of getting married. In fact, the reason why these people say this is very simple. That is because these people do not handle the relationship between marriage and love well.

We have to control the relationship between love and marriage and we have to rely on ourselves to deal with it. Other people's statements or methods are not the most suitable when they are used on yourself.

What others say: What is love turning into family affection after marriage, what is the passion of love changing and calming, what is marriage becoming the bottleneck of love, etc. No matter what it is like, don’t believe it.

In some ways, these statements do make sense, but I still think that there is still an indescribable reason for our people to explain, which is because of this reason that people are confused about love and marriage.

Love is a burst of love between a man and a woman, and the emotional need to be brought together by admiration and attraction, they appreciate each other, care for each other, and work hard for a common goal - marriage. So if as mentioned above, marriage is the grave of love, then wouldn't people need marriage, but just to find a grave of love to get married for the death of love?

Isn't that a big joke? Is it really because people are so thirteen? I don't think so. In fact, the real reason is because people misunderstand love after marriage and have an illusion for the post-marriage form of love.

The specific reason may be because people lack confidence in love after marriage, or an excuse found for themselves because they are afraid of the helplessness of love after marriage.

After marriage, love becomes family affection. This sentence is not an exaggeration, but it does not mean that there will be no love with family affection. It is too extreme.

Love always exists between men and women who love each other, but the way of existence and behavior manifestations are different.

After marriage, love becomes family affection is indeed a very big change format, which will make both parties feel a little uncomfortable. This is a normal thing and there is no big fuss. However, some people who only focus on the passion of love will feel very lost and will feel the passing of love.

In fact, this is unnecessary, because love exists in the heart, not just on appearance. If you only focus on superficial forms, don’t you think such love is too superficial?!

Marriage is not just for insurance in love, but is actually the foundation for the continuation and sublimation of love. Its existence is not only for the continuation of descendants, but also the task of creating new emotions for people.

People's feelings are not even found in humans, and they are also suitable for gradually developing and improving after the combination of life and production.

Some people say that marriage also needs reform, but I am right, but monogamy is the best form. Although there are many problems in the emergence of marriage, marriage is at least the reproduction quality and quantity caused by humans to avoid promiscuity. It is also a kind of disadvantage of the reproduction quality and quantity caused by humans to avoid promiscuity. It is also a kind of reform that threatens human health. It is not a large-scale reform. It requires harmony with people's survival. The messy sexual chaos is not a sublimation of emotions. It will only cause people to retreat and indulge, and will only be synonymous with death. Reason is the derivative of human civilization.

Although many people say that marriage is the grave of love, Zhao Chaogang is not concerned about it. These people say this in fact, it is an excuse for not being responsible for love. With this excuse, these people can give up love easily and then start another love they say "for freedom". Such people are not qualified to talk about love.

Pingping has been pregnant for more than two months now, and her belly doesn't look obvious now, but in another month, Li Liping's belly will begin to become obvious. If she gets married then, it will be too ugly. Therefore, Zhao Chaogang is preparing to marry Li Liping in the near future. This is the responsibility Zhao Chaogang should bear as a man.

And to be honest, this is something Zhao Chaogang has always expected. If you marry a woman you love, what else can compare to this matter, which is even more happy.

"Pingping, you'd better go to the room to rest. Leave these things to Jingjing and me. The bathroom is too slippery. You should avoid going into the bathroom now."

Zhao Chaogang had just settled the bill, and when he returned to the room, he saw Li Liping bathing Nannan in the bathroom. When he saw this, Zhao Chaogang immediately went in to stop him. If water was stained in the bathroom, the ground would become very slippery. If Pingping accidentally fell down, the consequences...

Seeing Zhao Chaogang nervously letting herself out of the bathroom, Li Liping felt very sweet, but Li Liping was not ready to follow Zhao Chaogang's words and went out. She still wanted to take a bath for Nannan: "Chaogang, there will be more than seven months. The child in my belly is about to be born, so you can ask me to take a bath with Nannan. In the future, as soon as the child in my belly is born, my chances of taking a bath with Nannan will be greatly reduced. Chaogang, don't worry, I will be careful. Besides, I have the jade pendant you refined by Chaogang. Chaogang, I won't have anything to do, don't worry!"

Seeing that Pingping took out all the jade pendant on her neck, Zhao Chaogang stopped talking about anything else. As a result, with the jade pendant he had made for Pingping in his hand, even if Pingping fell from a ten-story high place, nothing would happen. She was really worried.

However, it is no wonder that Zhao Chaogang is the child in Li Liping's belly. He is Zhao Chaogang's first child. As long as he is a human being, he will be so nervous when facing his first child.

Even Li Liping said that Zhao Chaogang was not nervous, but when she turned around, Li Liping changed into a pair of slippers and a pair of non-slip slippers. This was the first time Li Ping was pregnant (Nannan was a child Li Ping adopted from the orphanage in order to deal with her parents.) She was actually very nervous.

"Dad, can you take a bath with your mother? Nannan wants to play water fights with her dad!" Nannan, who was already immersed in the bathtub, said yearningly. For the five-year-old Nannan, the thing she likes most in her heart is to play.

"Okay, since Nannan wants to play water fight, then Dad will play water fight with Nannan, Nannan, see what he wants."

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"Okay, mom helps Nannan, Nannan, hide behind her."

"Dad, you can't beat me, you can't beat me... Dad, Nannan is here, giggle..."

The bathroom was instantly filled with the warmth of home...

Half an hour later, the house finally became quiet, and Nannan had already returned to her bed to sleep. Now Nannan is much more sensible and will no longer bother to sleep with Zhao Chaogang and Li Liping. However, Nannan still has to hold Xiao Zi and sleep with her while sleeping.

The pleasant smell and soft hair on Xiao Zi's body made Nannan feel very comfortable.

Zhao Chaogang not only did not object to this, but on the contrary, he also supported it very much.

Xiao Zi is a spirit beast. Nannan has been with her for a long time. Not only will Nannan's body become better and better because of Xiao Zi's spiritual energy, Nannan's safety is also guaranteed. With Xiao Zi here, even if Nannan is hit by a nuclear bomb, Nannan can be safe and sound. Nannan is her daughter. As a father, Zhao Chaogang has to protect Nannan well.

"Chao Gang, is Nannan asleep?" Seeing Zhao Chaogang return to the room, Li Liping put down the book in her hand and asked softly.

"Well, I'm already asleep. Nannan's sleeping look is so cute." Thinking back to Nannan's sleeping look, Zhao Chaogang's face was full of smiles. His daughter was really cute.

"Nannan is of course cute. She is my daughter, and the child in my belly will be very cute!"

Li Liping caressed her belly with maternal love, and she could clearly feel the growth of life in her belly. Every time the beating of life makes Li Liping feel sweet, because this is her first child, and the child of her and Chaogang.

When he saw Li Liping stroking her belly with maternal love on her face, Zhao Chaogang on the side also came to Li Liping with jealousy and said flatteringly: "Pingping, how is our son doing now? Can I touch it?"

Zhao Chaogang made this request nervously. He now does not look like a cultivator in the Foundation Establishment Stage, and he looks like an ordinary person full of fatherly love.

"Of course it's OK, but you have to be careful. Otherwise, if our children feel uncomfortable, let me deal with you like this." Li Liping said these words while holding Zhao Chaogang's hand with a happy face and slowly covering her belly. To be honest, Li Liping actually wanted Zhao Chaogang to feel the growth of the child in her belly.

"Bang...!Bang...!Bang...!Bang........." Zhao Chaogang's hand just touched Li Liping's stomach, and a sound of life beating reached Zhao Chaogang's hand. Zhao Chaogang couldn't help but smile. Because he knew that the beating of life was the beating of his son's life, and the beating of life was very strong, which means that his son grew up very well.

"Pingping, I feel my son's heart beating. It feels so comfortable!" Zhao Chaogang said here, and he couldn't help but press his ear to Li Liping's belly. He wanted to listen to his son's heartbeat with his ears.

"You..." Li Liping pointed Zhao Chaogang's forehead very dotingly, and then looked at Zhao Chaogang with satisfaction. Zhao Chaogang's movement, which seemed like a child, made Li Liping feel satisfied.

After ten minutes, Zhao Chaogang raised his head with satisfaction: "Pingping, our son is growing up very healthy."

"Really! I'll feel relieved if this happens." Li Liping believed Zhao Chaogang's words 100%: "However, the doctor said that the specific gender of the child is still not checked. How do you know that the child in my belly is a son? Maybe, it may be that the child in my belly is a daughter."

If you want to detect whether the child is a man or a woman, you have to go to the hospital for a B-ultrasound examination and go to the hospital for a B-ultrasound examination. You can’t tell the gender of the child when you are two or three months pregnant.

Because when the child "shenzheqi" official starts to develop, it is three months old. At this time, the child "shenzheqi" official has just begun to develop and takes shape. Of course, the hospital cannot check it out.

Li Liping had already understood this matter very clearly when she became pregnant, so Zhao Chaogang said that the child in her belly was a boy, so Li Liping asked Zhao Chaogang how he knew that the child in her belly was a boy. Li Liping didn't really believe what Zhao Chaogang said.

Unfortunately, the conclusion drawn by Li Liping was based on science, but Zhao Chaogang is a cultivator in the Foundation Establishment Stage and cannot be explained by science at all. Therefore, even if Li Liping's face is full of disbelief, Zhao Chaogang still answered confidently: "Pingping, with scientific instruments, you can't check the gender of the child in your belly now, but don't forget who I am, I am a cultivator in the Foundation Establishment Stage. Don't say that Pingping, you are now two and a half months pregnant, even if Pingping, you have just been pregnant for a few days, I can know that the child in your belly is a man or a woman."

"Chao Gang, do you have any basis for these?"

Zhao Chaogang's confidence and Zhao Chaogang's identity as a cultivator did make Li Liping's disbelief disappear a little, but for the sake of safety, Li Liping still asked this question again.

"Pingping, the life fluctuations emitted by girls and boys are completely different. The life fluctuations of boys are full of a positive aura, while the life fluctuations of girls are full of a negative aura. Such a breath will be produced after a woman becomes pregnant, especially after the embryo begins to develop, such a breath of life will become more obvious.

Therefore, for cultivators, it is very simple to determine whether a pregnant woman’s baby is a man or a woman.

Pingping, the aura generated in your stomach is full of yang energy, so, I am sure, Pingping, the child in your stomach is a boy. Pingping, you can use your spiritual sense to feel it. Is the aura emitted from your stomach full of yang energy?"

After listening to Zhao Chaogang's explanation, Li Liping nervously used her spiritual sense to sense the breath of the child in her belly. Soon, Li Liping showed an extremely happy smile on her face, because the breath she felt was indeed full of yang energy, exactly the same as what Chaogang said, which made Li Liping cry with joy.

Although the idea of ​​favoring boys over girls in society is getting less and less, Li Liping really thinks that the child in her belly is a boy.

Li Liping knew that although her father-in-law and mother-in-law were really good to her, they actually wanted to have a boy. In the hearts of her father-in-law, Chao Gang's family business could only be handed over to her son.

And to be honest, Li Liping actually agrees with Zhao Qiang and his wife's idea.

Chao Gang only has the private restaurant outside, but it is just an ordinary person. Li Liping doesn’t care whether it is a son or daughter inheritance. Anyway, they are all her own children. However, Chao Gang is now a cultivator, and his family business will be extremely big in the future, so Li Liping’s thoughts changed.

If Li Liping had no son to inherit such a big family business, she would not be willing to accept it.

Therefore, since she became pregnant, Li Liping prayed in her heart that the child in her belly would be better if it was a boy. Li Liping had even prepared mentally in advance. If the child in her belly was not a boy this time, Li Liping would continue to give birth until a boy was born.

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