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The first thousand two hundred and eighty-six chapters marriage taboo

In a person's life, marriage is the most memorable thing, and it can also be said to be the most festive time in life. In such a festive day, no matter how many taboos or difficulties are, they should be followed.

Because marriage is a new beginning in a person's life, which means that your life has found your partner, and giving you a new beginning and the most auspicious beginning is better. Therefore, when getting married, don't ignore some taboos of marriage, because this is another new beginning in your life.

There are many taboos during the marriage process, and there are actually many taboos that need to be paid attention to during the marriage negotiation stage.

Marriage negotiation refers to specific negotiation activities for marriage partners within the scope of the marriage spouse and the methods permitted by folk customs. It serves engagement for men and women. During the marriage negotiation stage, there are some taboo rules that need to be followed.

It is not advisable to find too many matchmakers to talk about matchmakers to avoid disasters and tragedies. It is generally believed that matchmakers should not show off their own things without success. At the beginning, try to avoid people's eyes and ears, otherwise, not only will the marriage not be successful, but they will also be cursed.

When the media has not said it, distant relatives and close neighbors will know it, which will ruin the woman's reputation. If it is not said it in the end, the woman will think that she has lost her reputation and will lead to disasters or tragedies.

In real life, young men and women fall in love, whether they know themselves or introduced by others, are hidden and confidential at the beginning, and only when they reach a certain level will they gradually become public. This is the same reason.

This is the development and evolution of this folk taboo custom over thousands of years.

After the marriage negotiation stage, the next step is the procurement stage. There are also some taboos in the procurement stage.

When collecting lottery, you should avoid using dead animals. In laying lottery, it is commonly referred to a man asking a matchmaker to come to the woman's house to propose marriage. In ancient times, live geese are often used as gifts for the proposal. Now, there are birds such as chickens and geese as gifts for the bidding. However, whether it is geese or other poultry, you should use live ones as gifts for the bidding, and avoid dead ones.

Because marriage is a great joy in life, it is too unlucky to be associated with death.

Tabooes that conflict with the age of marriage and the zodiac sign. In terms of age of marriage, all dynasties have their own regulations, and all ethnic groups have their own taboos.

If some men and women are not suitable for marriage, if they are still unable to resist marriage, they will suffer after marriage at the least. If they are severe, they will suffer punishment, conflict, restraint, and harm. In order to avoid these disasters, there are many taboos in marriage age.

For example, Daur women are not allowed to get married at the age when their mother gave birth to them. They are not allowed to get married at the age of sixteen, eighteen, and twenty, but men do not have this taboo.

In the taboo customs of marriage age, it is not advisable to have too much age difference between men and women, and it is not advisable to have too early or late marriage, which is reasonable and scientific.

The zodiac sign is the human zodiac sign. No matter what year a person is born, there will be a corresponding animal as the zodiac sign.

When getting married, there is a saying among the people that women are avoiding tigers and sheep. The common belief that women are avoiding tigers is probably directly derived from the people's "fear of tigers".

There is an ancient proverb that "Women born in the Year of the Sheep and guard the empty house", which is popular among the people that "the eyes are exposed and the five husbands guard the house" is at their effect. Because the eyes of the sheep are considered to be "the eyes are exposed and the four whites are exposed", women born in the Year of the Sheep will be unlucky and become the object of taboos for men when they are married.

After the Nacai stage is completed, it is the engagement stage. There are many taboos to pay attention to when getting engaged.

Engagement is commonly known as engagement. It is an important matter before marriage to determine the relationship between a man and a woman through engagement.

The first item of engagement is Najib. The so-called Najib is a kind of etiquette to inform the woman of the marriage news obtained through divination after asking for names. This is the main ritual during the engagement stage, commonly known as "sending to the final", "passing the final", "deciding to the final" and so on.

There are many taboos in "determined employment", which are to ward off evil spirits and eliminate disasters. For example, the deposit during the determined employment must be an even number, avoid odd numbers, and also be paired with etiquette, avoid odd numbers.

The second item of engagement is Nazheng. Nazheng is also known as "Nacoin", "big betting", "excessive gift", etc. The man and the woman have reached a marriage agreement, and the man's family will formally send the betrothal gift (commonly known as "betting gift") to the woman's family. This is Nazheng's ritual.

There are also many taboos in the rituals of the ceremonial ceremony to avoid unfortunate events. For example, the number of betrothal gifts should not be odd and the number of shoes for women is not given, which contains the mentality of preventing the woman from slipping away when wearing shoes.

After getting married, you officially enter the marriage stage. First of all, you have to choose the time to get married, that is, you have entered the invitation stage. At this stage, you need to think about some taboos even more.

Inviting a date is one of the "six rituals". In the past, it was said that the man's family chose a date for marriage, and prepared a date to inform the woman and asked for their consent. The choice of a date for marriage was due to the good fortune and avoiding misfortune.

According to the "Cultural Customs of China", in the old days, in Nanjing, "If a man wants to marry, he will first send the male and female horoscopes to the Xing family for good luck. He will definitely make no conflicts or punishments. He will record the newcomer's bathing, where will the water fall, when will the newcomer get on the sedan chair, when will the gang be avoided, and who will avoid it. It is called the day of sending off."

In terms of wedding dates, there are taboo regulations on year, month and day.

First of all, there are taboos for certain years. People have a choice about which year to arrange marriage. Some years must be avoided to eliminate evil and ward off evil spirits.

Many areas of the Han people are afraid of getting married in the year when spring begins, and believe that this year is a "width year" and "will not raise children after getting married in a widow."

Whether there are two beginnings of spring should be avoided, different places are very different. Some places think that getting married this year is good, which means "double spring and double happiness". Some places think that getting married this year is not good, because "double spring and double happiness".

The Dai people in Dehong have the custom of avoiding "bad and joyful" and are not allowed to hold weddings because of filial piety during the death of their immediate relatives and elders.

The second is that some months are taboo. The Han, Wa and other ethnic minorities are taboo to avoid marriage in May, July and September. It is said that these months are "evil months" and there are many ghosts. Because evil ghosts appear, marriage is not easy to succeed during this period.

Again, it is taboo for certain days. The Han people and many ethnic minorities have the custom of avoiding single-day marriage, which reflects the folk belief that "good things come in pairs".

In some parts of the Han people, it is especially taboo to marry on July 7, which reflects the mentality of the couple who need to look with each other. Instead of being separated for a long time like the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, you can only meet on July 7.

After the four stages of marriage discussion, Na Cai, engagement, and inquiries, we have truly entered the marriage stage. There are also many taboos in the marriage stage, and there are twenty-two things to pay attention to:

1. Flowers tend to wither, so the marriage is taboo, and there are only combos and pomegranates. Because the red petals of the former bloom from the heart of the leaf. Their appearance can mean that a leap girl gets married and is sincere and waits for her husband, while the latter means that she has many children and grandchildren.

2. The bride should not have a pocket in her clothes to avoid taking away her parents' wealth.

3. After setting up the bed until the eve of the wedding, the prospective groom should not sleep alone in the new bed. They should find a minor boy to sleep in the new bed with the groom. Otherwise, it is commonly known as "hidden in the empty shop, and if you don't die, you will die." It is considered a bad omen.

4. On the day of the wedding, when the bride goes out, both sister-in-law and sister-in-law should avoid it and cannot send it off. Because "女" and "女" are homophones, while "女" and "女" are homophones, which are not auspicious.

5. On the day of getting married, when the bride leaves her parents' home, everyone should cry as soon as possible. The words "cry and cry, don't cry, don't cry" are taboos.

6. Three days after the marriage, the newlyweds will return to their home. They must rush back to their husband's house before sunset that day and cannot stay overnight. If there is a special reason, the couple should sleep separately, so as not to avoid the blood on the bride's honeymoon from the bride's family and causing their parents' family to be unlucky.

7. On the way to marry, if the sedan chair meets, it is called "joy and joy", which will bring ominousness. The solution is that firecrackers must be set off each other, or matchmakers on both sides exchange flowers prepared by each other, which is called changing flowers.

8. Neither pregnant women nor filial piety should witness the newcomer going out or passing through, nor should they touch the newcomer's clothes and all items in the new house.

9. When the groom goes to the girl's house to pick up the bride, the bride may leave her house or cry with joy due to excessive excitement. This is very common and not a problem (even a good thing, leaving a "water head" to boost the girl's house). But after passing by the house, you cannot cry.

10. Brides should not wear "old shoes" on auspicious day of their wedding. All wedding shoes, embroidered shoes and evening shoes should be all new. If you are afraid that the new shoes will be hard and uncomfortable, you should use higher-quality soft leather. You may as well be a little loose and add thick pads. You should not wear too high high heels.

11. The bride should be careful not to step on the groom's shoes, as it would be shameful.

12. When a bride enters a man’s house, avoid stepping on the threshold and stepping over it.

13. If a newlywed is a married couple, that is, the groom, the newlyweds must pass through the crotch of an unmarried brother to show that he has "offended" before he can go out. If the sister is "climbed", some people will feel that it will be "underdeveloped" to wear them under a female skirt, so they will instead give a skirt to an unmarried sister, commonly known as "aunt's skirt". Unmarried brothers and sisters should not witness the newlyweds going out or passing by, and should temporarily avoid a higher place, such as going to the next floor.

14. When the bride enters the man's house, the old man and the younger sister should not look towards the gate and watch the bride enter the door, but should avoid it to prevent conflict.

15. The couplets to get married should be hung before the "top" (i.e., on the eve of the marriage), and can be removed one month after marriage. There are different couplets at both men and women's homes, so they must be clearly distinguished when purchasing.

16. If a woman remarries, she should not wear a kilt or a big red dress. She should choose pink, orange, gold or silver instead. In addition, she should not be "upper" anymore, because "upper" means "adult", she was already "adult" when she first married. She did not need to bring a suckling pig when she returned to the door.

17. The man does not need to be "beared" for the second marriage. If the reason for the second time is that his ex-wife dies, the first thing his second wife does after passing the family is to offer tea in front of his ex-wife's spiritual seat, and then offer tea to his husband and aunt.

18. On the night of the bride's marriage, she would find an unmarried sister of the bride to sleep on her bed that night, and put fruits and red envelopes on the bed, wishing the bride a vigorous and smooth life.

19. It is not good to get married in the sixth month of the lunar calendar, which means a half-month wife.

20. When installing a bed, place the bed in a straight position and avoid facing the sharp corners of the table, wardrobe or any object.

21. On the day of engagement, no matter how hot the weather is, all people who participate in the engagement should not fan their fans, otherwise they will have the intention of breaking up.

22. After the wedding banquet of engagement is completed, neither party can say goodbye, otherwise there will be a meaning of remarriage.

There are many of these twenty-two marriage taboos, and it is a bit cumbersome to do according to the above taboos. However, marriage is a big thing in your life after all, and the preparation is a bit perfect and the omen is better. It is both very good for you and your wife, right?

Zhao Chaogang did all these marriage taboos very well. Of course, even if Zhao Chaogang did it very carelessly, Zhao Qiang and his wife would help Zhao Chaogang do these things well. People in the countryside pay more attention to some taboos that need to be paid attention to when getting married. In the countryside, when doing weddings, it is a good omen.

At five o'clock in the morning, Zhao Chaogang went to the tablet of his ancestors to burn an incense stick and told his ancestors about his marriage today. He asked his ancestors to bless his wedding today and his life will be even more prosperous in the future.

After worshiping his ancestors, Zhao Chaogang began to prepare to go to Li Liping and Liu Jingjing's house to marry them. This work was actually ready yesterday. I also practiced it a few times, so Zhao Chaogang is very easy to prepare now.

At seven o'clock in the morning, Zhao Chaogang got on the wedding car in a suit. He did not allow the use of highly polluted vehicles such as cars in the secret realm of the martial arts world. Therefore, the wedding car prepared by Zhao Chaogang was not a car, but a very luxuriously decorated and beautiful carriage.

The materials used for making carriages are all spiritual materials, among which the wood used for the main body of the carriage is a spiritual material called Xiangle Shenmu.

The medicinal effect of Xiangle Divine Wood is very extraordinary. It can be regarded as a top-level spiritual material in the cultivation world, with the effect of expelling and resisting inner demons. More importantly, the camphor tree can condense its own foundation and improve the cultivation qualifications of cultivators. It is precisely because of the function of Xiangle Divine Wood that Xiangle Divine Wood has made Xiangle Divine Wood the top-level spiritual material in the cultivation world.

As we all know, if you want to build a building, the most important thing is to lay the foundation when building it. You have to lay a solid foundation. Otherwise, no matter how beautiful or tall the building you build is, it will be a shoddy project.

Once you encounter danger or have a time, the building will have major problems and may even collapse completely. Therefore, when building a house, whether in ancient times or in modern times, you attach great importance to the foundation of the house.

Especially in modern society, when building high-rise buildings, in order to make the foundations of these high-rise buildings very solid and solid, the construction parties will specially dispatch some engineering vehicles to lay foundations.

Even when building a house, you must attach such importance to the foundation. Therefore, when cultivators practice, the foundation is equally important.

However, many cultivators will be confused by powerful power when they first start practicing. Therefore, in the early stages of their cultivation, they use any means to improve their cultivation and take pills to improve their cultivation speed. This is common.

However, this way, improving one's own cultivation through taking a lot of pills is actually a great deal of trouble for cultivators.

When the cultivator's level is very low, such dangers are not obvious, such as below the Nascent Soul Stage. However, once the cultivator reaches the Nascent Soul Stage, these dangers become more and more obvious.

A cultivator will find that no matter how much he practices, his cultivation will not increase any further. Even if there is an increase, the growth rate will be like a snail, and even when practicing, it is extremely easy to get into a devil.

At this time, this cultivator will find that his cultivation level is growing so slowly, or he cannot grow at all, or he is very likely to get possessed. In fact, it is because he does not pay attention to the importance of the foundation when he practices in the early stage, which makes his cultivation foundation very poor.

Just like a foundation that can only build three floors at most, if you want to build a building of more than ten or dozens of floors on it, the result is conceivable.

Therefore, the camphor tree has become one of the top spiritual materials in the cultivation world. This is because it can condense the cultivator's own foundation. As long as the camphor tree has a very bad foundation, even if the cultivator's foundation is laid, he can lay a solid foundation through the camphor tree and continue to move forward on the road of cultivation.

Therefore, in the cultivation world, the fragrant tree is used to create magic weapons to drive away the inner demons, temper their own foundation, or improve the cultivation qualifications of cultivators. Especially those cultivators with strength above the Nascent Soul stage are even more yearning for the magic weapons refined by the fragrant camphor tree.

As long as the magic weapon of camphor tree or camphor tree is refined, this world of cultivation will turn blood into a river. This is the real blood into a river, rather than just a descriptive blood into a river.

The foundation of a cultivator is unstable. When he practices, he is more susceptible to invasion by inner demons or other demons, especially when he breaks through the realm, the possibility of being taken over by extraterritorial demons is even greater.

Of course, this situation is not so obvious in the Nascent Soul Stage. However, after reaching the Nascent Soul Stage, the shortcomings of the unstable foundation of the cultivator will become more and more obvious. If you are not careful, you will die. Therefore, once there is a camphor tree that can expel the inner demons and condense your own, the madness of those cultivators in the Nascent Soul Stage can be imagined.

Once the cultivators in the Nascent Soul stage start to show their power, the surrounding area will be a battlefield within a few hundred kilometers. At the same time, the creatures within these hundreds of kilometers, the creatures in the Nine-Story Nine will be killed by the aftermath of the battle between these cultivators in the Nascent Soul stage. All the creatures in the Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story Nine-Story N

The camphor tree can allow cultivators to not have to worry about the invasion of the inner demons when practicing. They can also constantly condense their own foundation and improve their cultivation qualifications. Therefore, as long as the trace of the camphor tree appears, those cultivators who are at high levels, especially those who use the medicinal power of the elixir to force their cultivation, resulting in unstable foundation will yearn for the camphor tree. These cultivators will vow to fight for the camphor tree to the death.

The camphor tree is indeed very precious, but it is nothing to Zhao Chaogang. Zhao Chaogang, who has a small world, has the camphor tree as much as you want, and at most you spend some time cultivating it.

Therefore, Zhao Chaogang has enough camphor tree to make the wedding car used for his marriage. Only magical spiritual wood like Camphor tree can be worthy of Zhao Chaogang's identity as the master of the small world.

In a big event like marriage, Zhao Chaogang, the lord of the small world, certainly has to come up with the best things.

As for whether anyone would discover the magical effect of the camphor tree and thus have the idea of ​​these camphor tree, Zhao Chaogang didn't care at all.

In the entire jade area, the only cultivator is Zhao Chaogang, and there are countless puppets on Zhao Chaogang, so if others want to fight the camphor tree, isn’t they asking for death!

Unfortunately, Zhao Chaogang took it for granted. He forgot this sentence: Once there is a proper profit, the capitalist will become bold. With 50% profit, it will take risks; for 100% profit, it will dare to trample on all human laws; with 300% profit, it will dare to commit any crime or even risk hanging.

When facing more than 300% profit, many people will risk hanging to make this profit of 300%. The profit represented by Xiangzang Shenmu is not only 300% profit, but this is 300%, 300,000, or even 300 million profits.

Faced with such a huge profit, even gods may be moved. Therefore, it is conceivable what kind of problems will arise in the future. (To be continued...)

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