Love is so great, so it is natural for Li Liping to make such a decision.

Before, when Zhao Chaogang was still in prison, Li Liping was able to marry a gay man for Zhao Chaogang to deal with her parents' forced marriage.

Also, after a fake marriage, Li Liping even adopted a child, namely Nannan, in order to deal with the urging of her parents and her so-called husband's parents, while Li Liping herself was silently waiting for Zhao Chaogang's return in the school.

At that time, Li Liping was a little girl in her early twenties and a little girl who was not well-versed in the world. However, such a little girl finally made such a difficult decision and continued to persevere until Zhao Chaogang was released from prison...

From this we can clearly see how much Li Liping loves Zhao Chaogang.

For love, Li Liping is willing to give everything, even her own youth.

You should know that for a girl, youth is definitely her most precious thing. Once this girl is willing to give you all her youth, it is really congratulations, you have received the true love of a girl.

Li Liping’s true love for Zhao Chaogang. Therefore, no matter how long she was, no matter what pressure she was under, Li Liping finally persevered and waited until Zhao Chaogang was released from prison.

At that time, Li Liping could have waited hard for eight years for Zhao Chaogang, so now Li Liping would certainly turn a blind eye to some of Zhao Chaogang's secrets in order to love Zhao Chaogang.

Li Liping may indeed want to know Zhao Chaogang's secret. However, she still has a degree. She will not cross certain boundaries, because Li Liping clearly knows that if you love someone, you have to consider this person.

Love is not a game. It requires careful care from both parties and mutual understanding between them. Therefore, Li Liping never forces her to know everything about Zhao Chaogang.

Besides, who doesn’t have some secrets? Including Li Liping, there are actually some secrets that are not easy to know by Zhao Chaogang. It’s not that Li Liping was deliberately hiding these secrets from Zhao Chaogang, but some secrets between women. It’s really hard for men to know, otherwise, that man would definitely be very embarrassed.

Just like some of Li Liping's best friends told her that there were little secrets about women, Li Liping would not tell Zhao Chaogang, because this is the secret between their best friends. It cannot be told to others.

Also, for example, the men who had pursued Li Liping before, Li Liping was not easy to tell Zhao Chaogang about these things, so as not to have bad misunderstandings.

Things like this. Many couples actually have the same problem. Many couples will not talk about their ex when they get along with each other, because once they talk about these topics, some bumps will arise in their hearts.

It doesn't matter if the person who listens is broader. However, if the person who listens is very narrow, then confessing his previous love is simply seeking death...

There are many secrets like this that are not suitable for telling Zhao Chaogang. I believe that there are many such examples of the same secrets that cannot be told to her partner. There are also many other couples. If someone thinks that there should not be any secrets between husband and wife, what about now?! I believe that they will change their concepts!

In fact, it still takes a little bit to get along with couples, so that couples can get along better.

Should there be secrets between husband and wife? This is related to everyone's psychological boundaries. Boundaries are a person's psychological boundaries. Based on this boundary, we determine what is mine and what is what I should be responsible for.

If life is like a garden, then the boundary is the fence of the garden, and everything in the fence is the scope of my management. When two people who are mentally mature or capable of meeting each other's psychological needs are together, the fence of the garden can be open to each other.

In ancient times, there was a story that well described the way couples get along. This story even led to the birth of an idiom, that is, "to stand up with the case and the eyebrows."

"Holding the case to match the eyebrows" means that when delivering meals, the tray is as tall as the eyebrows. Later, it describes that couples respect each other, are very polite and equal.

'Check the case and the eyebrows' is a special word to praise the happy marriage of a couple. It comes from "Book of the Later Han Dynasty? Biography of Liang Hong": "When you are a person (lin) and you go back, your wife will have food. She dare not look up at the front of the geese, and she will hold the case and the eyebrows."

It is said that during the Eastern Han Dynasty, there was a famous scholar named Liang Hong. Because of his noble character, integrity and literary talent, he was very famous in the local area. Many people wanted to marry his daughter, but Liang Hong refused their kindness, but refused to marry him.

There is a girl named Meng Guang in his hometown who always wants to marry him. She is not good-looking, black and fat, and has great strength. According to historical records, "Say she lifts a stone mortar hard" like a weightlifter.

When he was thirty, his parents asked, "Why didn't you marry yet?" He was very old at the age of thirty. Not to mention that in ancient times, today, people who were not married at the age of thirty had to ask, and why they didn't marry. She said that I was right and wrong, Liang Hong would not marry.

Then Liang Hong was happy when he heard this and said that there was such a woman, so I'll marry her back!

I guess at that time, he asked the matchmaker to help him and set up a bridge. He had never seen this person before, so he married Meng Guang back.

After getting married, Meng Guang became happy, and he was trampling his eyebrows and eyes, and he was messing around. When Liang Hong saw her, he became unhappy and ignored her for seven days. She was panicked. She said, "Why, why did you marry me and ignore me?"

Liang Hong said, "It's better to draw your eyebrows and eyes than to face the sky." (I guess he dare not say that you are not very good-looking, and you are not good-looking no matter how you draw it, right? Then I won't draw it anymore, so let's live a good life.")

Liang Hong said, "I always hope that my wife is a person who can wear slaughter clothes and live in seclusion with me in the mountains and forests. Now you are wearing clothes made of precious silk fabrics, applying makeup, and dressing up. How can this be my ideal wife?"

Meng Guang heard this and said to Liang Hong: "I dress these days, just want to verify. Husband, are you really my ideal wise man? I have long been preparing for the clothes and supplies for work."

After saying that, he rolled his hair into a bun, put on a coarse cloth, set up a loom, and weaved it by hand.

Seeing this, Liang Hong was very happy and hurried over and said to his wife: "You are my Liang Hong's wife!"

Later, they went to the mountains of Baling (now northeast of Xi'an) together and lived a secluded life. Deep in Baling Mountain, they made farming and weaving, either chanting poetry and books, or playing the piano to entertain themselves.

Soon, in order to avoid the officials who summoned him to the capital, Liang Hong left the place and arrived in Wu (now in Jiangsu).

Liang Hong's family lived in a lodge under the corridor of the Gao Botong's house in a large family, and lived by pounding rice for others.

Every time she returns home, Meng Guang prepares food and brings it to her husband, bows his head and dares not look up. He raises his face at the same time.

This is where this idiom comes from and where it comes from.

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It is not a bad thing to have boundaries between husband and wife. "Handing together with each other" is a portrayal of the boundaries between husband and wife. With boundaries, they will clarify each other's responsibilities and obligations. Knowing what you should be responsible for, what responsibilities you bear, and what results your behavior will bring. Be responsible for this result will make each other better and make each other better assume the responsibility of taking care of their lives.

In principle, whether there should be secrets between husband and wife? Without a standard answer, the best one is suitable.

Trust is the first element. Having a secret between each other does not necessarily mean distrust. Perhaps this is also a kind of love.

Respect the other party to have secrets about us, and trusting the other party will give the other party a sense of security. When the other party keeps secrets about us and we start to question it, it is also when we are unsafe, worried and anxious inside, which often induces the other party to be insecurity and distrust, and a marriage crisis arises.

If the other party keeps us secrets, it is very distressing for us. If you want to protect your marriage, it is best to grasp the boundaries and define "problem ownership". In any relationship, whoever suffers will change. Even if you think your pain is caused by the other party, forcing the other party to change will destroy each other's relationship.

If you want the other person to have no secrets to you and happen to be completely open to you, congratulations on enjoying the intimacy of "I have you in the mud, and you have me in the mud";

If you both don’t care whether the other party has secrets, congratulations on enjoying freedom; if the other party is unwilling to be completely open and you hope that each other has no secrets, congratulations also. This is to let you learn to accept and let go, accept what others are different from you, and let go of your expectations for others. This feeling is like climbing to heaven. Although it is difficult, it will lead you to a sudden enlightenment of life. You have to thank the other party, who (she) is your ladder to climb to heaven.

For most people, a good marriage requires both parties to work hard together and slowly merge in the process of learning to accept each other and letting go of themselves.

The ideal couple's relationship is to be intimate and appropriately alienated, and keep some secrets in honesty." As a couple who have been with you for a lifetime, both parties are still individuals and should have their own secrets.

But the secret is a double-edged sword. If not done properly, it will affect the relationship between husband and wife. If done properly, it may help deepen the relationship between husband and wife.

Many couples have their own secrets before they meet or get married, which can be reserved for a certain amount, especially about ex-lovers. If it is a matter of nothing serious, they can be kept completely.

But it should also be determined according to the situation. What kind of secrets should be honest and what kind of secrets should be kept in your heart, and you should be clear in your heart. However, whether it is honest or concealed, the main principle is still to not affect the relationship between husband and wife.

Sometimes, in order not to hurt the other person's feelings, keeping your own little secret is another way of love, and a kindly keeping secret.

Li Liping knew these things very well, so she was not interested in some of Zhao Chaogang's "little secrets". Even if she knew these so-called "little secrets" were not actually small secrets at all, but big secrets. However, in the end, Li Liping did not ask about Zhao Chaogang's related matters.

Li Liping knew very well. If she should be the secret she knew, Chao Gang would definitely tell her. Instead of the secret she should know, she would forcefully ask for it. What does that count?

If Li Liping really does this, what will be the final result? That is something imaginable.

As a wife, you must fully understand your husband. Li Liping has done a good job in this regard.

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"Kao Gang, why are these dolphins all pink? This is completely different from what I saw in the aquarium and the dolphins I imagined in my heart. Chao Gang. These dolphins are pink. Is it because these dolphins are dolphins in the martial arts secret realm?"

Li Liping was very curious about the colors of the dolphins in front of her, all the colors of the dolphins in the face were pink. Among the dolphins that Li Liping had seen in the aquarium before, the colors of the dolphins on the body were not so cute pink. If Zhao Chaogang had not told Li Liping that these were dolphins before, Li Liping would not have thought that these would be dolphins.

"Haha... Pingping, these are dolphins. Moreover, these dolphins are not unique to the martial arts secret realm. These dolphins are actually Chinese white dolphins on the earth."

Zhao Chaogang smiled and patiently introduced the pink elves in front of Liping...

Chinese white dolphin (scientific name: sousachinen). The Dolphin family belonging to the cetacean family is a close relative of bottlenose dolphins and killer whales. Many citizens and fishermen think that Chinese white dolphins are a kind of fish. In fact, they are mammals like other whales and dolphins. Like humans, they are constant temperature, breathe with the lungs, give birth to children, and feed young children with milk-juice.

The earliest record of discovery in China was in the Tang Dynasty and in the early Qing Dynasty. It was called Luting in the estuary of the Pearl River in Guangdong, and some fishermen also called it Baiji and sea pigs. Although it was called "white dolphins". However, the newly born white dolphins were dark gray, the young ones would be gray, and the adult ones would be pink.

It is mainly distributed in the Western Pacific Ocean and India Ocean. It is commonly found in my country's East Sea. It is a national first-class protected animal. It is known as "mermaid" and "water giant panda".

The Chinese white dolphin has a slender body and a spindle-shaped body with a protruding beak. The newly born white dolphin is about 1 meter long and weighs 200~250kg; the dorsal fin is protruding, located near the center, and is in a backward triangle;

The pectoral fin is round, with a wide base, and is extremely flexible in movement; the caudal fin is horizontal, strong and powerful, and is divided into two symmetrical leaves with the center in the center, which is conducive to its rapid swimming. The eyes are black and shiny, and there are 20 to 37 conical homotypic teeth on each side of the jaw (number of maxillary teeth = 30 to 36;number of mandible teeth = 24 to 37), and the teeth are sparse.

The snout is narrow, pointed and long, less than one-tenth of the body length, and the beak and forehead are obviously separated by a "v"-shaped groove. The spine is relatively few, and the vertebrae is longer. There are 5 fingers on the fins.

The whole body is ivory or milky white, with many small gray-black spots scattered on the back, some of which are slightly pink on the abdomen, short dorsal fins, thin and round pectoral fins and well-proportioned triangular caudal fins are all about reddish brown-gray.

The pink on white dolphins is not caused by pigment, but by blood vessels under the epidermis. This is related to regulating body temperature. It usually fades from the dark gray of birth to the pink of adulthood.

Specimen identification: the body is thick, the beak is medium long, the base of the dorsal fin forms a thickened ridge, with larger dorsal fins that are nearly triangular, the fin limbs and caudal leaves are both wide, with round tips, the front end of the mandibular slightly exceeds the upper jaw, there is no deep dent between the beak and frontal augmentation, and the base of the dorsal fin forms a thickened ridge; the caudal stalk has a well-developed dorsal ridge and abdominal ridge; the juvenile body is dark gray, and becomes lighter with age, sub-adult gray and pink are mixed, the adult is pure white, and often pink is exposed due to congestion; some adults have dark spots on their bodies, and a few individuals have rings formed by dark spots on their necks behind the breathing hole.

Chinese white dolphins rarely enter sea areas with a depth of more than 25m, and their main habitats are mangrove waterways, bays, tropical river deltas or salt water along the coast.

Chinese white dolphins along the coast of China sometimes enter the rivers. Chinese white dolphins at the mouth of the Zhujiang River once entered the Pearl River to reach the sea of ​​Minzhou, Zhuqiao, and entered the west river about 300km away;

The near Xiazhou once entered the Jiulong River in southern Fujian Province about 60km; the entrance of Fujian once entered the Fujian River 45km; the northern part of the East China Sea once entered the Yangtze River section of Suzhou Province about 220km.

The Chinese white dolphins on Hong Kong Island are either alone or in groups, most of which are individual or paired. The largest group is about 20. Groups with more than 10 heads are usually accompanied by pairs of trawlers.

The group of Zhu-Jiangkou Ling-Ding-Yang can reach 44. In the late summer, you often do things like jumping through water and probing, and you don’t often see it while riding waves. You like to follow the trawler fishing boats. You often see them 100 to 200m in front of the trawler floats, and follow the fishing boats for more than 2 hours (jefferson.2000).

Chinese white dolphins are mainly distributed in the east-south coastal areas in China. According to literature records, they can reach the Changjiang River Estuary at the north, extending southward to the estuary waters of Jiangsu and Zhejiang Province, southern Fujian, Taibao Island, eastern Fujian and western Fujian, and sometimes enter rivers.

According to relevant survey data in recent decades, there are two areas where Chinese white dolphins are concentrated in China, one is Jiulong-Jiangkou in Xiazhou, and the other is Zhujiangkou in eastern Fujian.

The Chinese white dolphin group at Zhujiangkou is mainly distributed in the Lingdingyang, Wanshan Island and southwest waters of Hong Kong Island.

According to survey data from the South China Sea Fisheries Research Institute from 1997 to 2000, the northern boundary of Chinese white dolphins is located in the opposite waters of Shenchuan Airport, and the southern boundary is located in the east--O-Xiao-Pu-Tai-Island area; on the east--Dao-Zhen-Wan, Long-Guzhou, the northern waters of Hong Kong Island New Airport and the coast of Lantau Island, and on the west--Xiangzhou Bay and Ao-Gate opposite sea surfaces, there are Chinese white dolphins distributed, with a distribution area of ​​no less than 1200km^2.

The dense areas of white dolphin activity are mainly in the southeast of the Lingdingyang, including the surrounding Neiling-Ding Island, between Mahjong-Shi to Dayu Mountain and near Guishan Island. The sighting rate of dolphins is relatively high; while the western waters between Qi-Ao-Islam to Ao-Gate are relatively low. The distribution trend is high in the east and low in the west, and the difference is significant.

Chinese white dolphins do not integrate into large groups. They often have 3 to 5 together or move alone. Except for their mothers and young dolphins, the white dolphin groups will not have fixed members. Their group structure is very flexible, and the members of the group are often replaced.

According to records, there can be up to 23 white dolphins in the group, and the average is 4. They are lively and in sunny weather, they often jump on the water surface, and sometimes even jump out of the water surface nearly 1 meter high. The swimming speed is very fast. Sometimes they can reach more than 12 nautical miles per hour.

Among all kinds of fishing boats, white dolphins especially like to feed behind double tugs. The dolphin groups behind double tugs are also much larger than others.

Chinese white dolphins have developed lungs like terrestrial mammals. The breathing intervals are very irregular, sometimes 3 to 5 seconds, sometimes 10 to 20 seconds, and sometimes 1 to 2 minutes or more.

The outer breathing hole is half-moon-shaped and opens at the top of the head and forehead. When breathing, the head and back are exposed to the water surface, directly breathing oxygen in the air, and making a "chi-chi-" sound.

The feeding and digestive system of Chinese white dolphins is exactly the same as that of land mammals, and has teeth, esophagus, stomach, liver, spleen, and intestines. Adult dolphins have 125 to 135 plaid teeth on top and bottom jaws, which are sparsely arranged. The function is not to chew, but to predate.

The food objects are mainly salty freshwater fish in the estuary, which are swallowed quickly without chewing. The stomach contents of dolphins are anatomically analyzed, including thorn-headed plum fish, phoenix snails, silver pombe, black pombe, white omen fish, dragon-headed fish, big yellow croaker and other common varieties in the Pearl River Estuary, with food mainly small and medium-sized fish.
To be continued...