"...I'm very happy today." On the way back, Luo Chenxing smiled for the first time, "The savage Meng Xishan used to never talk to us. I really didn't expect that someone could be friends with him."

As he said this, he looked at Jiang Jinkong with admiration again, "It seems that there will always be a way to turn it into an impossible, it is really magical."

Jiang Jinkong smiled indifferently: "Actually, it's very simple. It's just that you can treat others as much as you want them to treat you."

"Take basketball as an example, if you want others to run to the left to catch the ball, you need to throw the ball to the left first. If you want others to run to the right, you have to throw it to the right. Can this concept be understood?"

"If," his tone brought a hint of mystery for no reason, "what should we divide every direction into orbit?"

This metaphor of some "stream of consciousness" made Luo Chenxing seem to understand something, but he still had only a few understandings.

"Let me put it this way, the relationship between people is one-to-one." Jiang Jinkong explained patiently, "For example, if you pursue a girl, if you treat her as a goddess, then your own positioning can only be what modern people often call "limbing dogs."

"Because there are gods, there must be believers who hold him to the altar, and these two correspond to each other."

"For example, if you treat others as your elder brother and flatter everywhere, of course you can only be a younger brother; if you treat others as your superiors, behave in front of him and only talk about official affairs, then you can only be a subordinate. Because what you are doing is what your younger brother and subordinate should do."

"Sometimes, it's not that two people are born with only one relationship, but that you choose to make you a relationship."

Luo Chenxing seemed to have some idea when he heard this: "Is this what I meant that I first found a position for others, and then in the subsequent contact, I would do something that would make him more in line with this identity, but in this way, I would divide myself into the corresponding level?"

Jiang Jinkong nodded in appreciation: "That's right, that's it. But the most fun thing about the relationship between people is its ever-changing changes, and it can be manipulated completely by artificial means."

"For example, if you want to be a lover with a goddess, first of all, you have to treat her as an ordinary girl, then she naturally can only treat you as an ordinary boy. If you are not in a hurry to ask for anything from her, she doesn't need to consider whether to give you anything. The right to choose will not be held in her hands, and you are equal, and there is no division to be active and passive."

"After you have a preliminary sense of familiarity, you should position your relationship as a good friend and do what a good friend can do with her. Next, position your identity as her boyfriend and do what a boyfriend can do. Every positioning must be based on your existing relationship and be improved to a higher level."

"Remember one thing, not what relationship you have, what you have to do. But what you have to do, what relationship you have to become, do you understand?"

"Any relationship has the same truth." He said these words casually, as if he could easily give hundreds of examples, "What relationship you want you to become must be guided by yourself in the corresponding direction."

"For example, your superior is your superior during working hours, and you have to complete the work tasks he assigns you. But at other times you can completely treat him as a friend."

"Since you are a friend, do what your friends should do. You can get along with other friends, and you can get along with them as well. You can talk about whatever you should talk about, without any scruples."

"Be friends with your superiors?" Luo Chenxing couldn't help but question, "Can you really do this?"

Although he heard it simple, it was still hard for me to imagine how he would be wearing a siding shoulder to shoulder with Sikong Sheng, who was the eldest brother in the past. Not to mention that he was truly on par with Yan Yueque, Feng Qiwu and others.

Jiang Jinkong replied: "What's wrong with that? If you have a very interesting personality, have a rich spare time, and have the same hobbies as your superiors, then what's the difference between you and your real friends except for the relationship between superiors and subordinates?"

"Why does the relationship between superiors and subordinates necessarily become an obstacle to communication? If you perform well in your job, you are also his noble person. He can support you, but you are also helping him, and you are still equal."

"By the way, this is the next thing I'm about to tell you." Speaking of this, he naturally drew the topic, "I know why you will be at ease when facing your superiors, or people with better conditions than you. Because you think you only need to ask for anything from him, but he doesn't need to ask for anything from you. You can't give anything from the other party, and you are not worthy of being on an equal footing with him, right?"

This statement was simple, and Luo Chenxing nodded immediately. He had to be protected by Sikong Sheng before and received the resources he rewarded, but he could not give him any resources. He was very important to him, but he was dispensable to him. Under such a relationship, of course he could only be a little brother, so how could he dare to have any intention of usurpation?

Jiang Jinkong struck while the iron was hot and added: "Yes, so no matter at any time, skills are just auxiliary, and his own strength is the most important thing."

"For example, if you are asked to discuss business with others, even if you can quote the classics, it will be very expensive, but if you can't even get a little start-up capital, will the other party sign a contract with you?"

This is true in shopping malls, and the saying "weak countries have no diplomacy" is exactly the same.

If you do not have the military strength that is worthy of the other party's fear, why should the other party accept your cenit and repair it? Even if he directly accepts all the land, you will not have the ability to resist.

Without ability, there is no capital for negotiation.

"Being friends with your superiors is also on the premise that you can do your job well. Otherwise, your job will be a mess, and your superiors will be very annoyed when they see you. When it's time for a spare time, even if you get close to him, do you think he will care about you?"

"This is not because of the limitations of your superiors and subordinates, but because you cannot bring him any value."

"If you pursue a girl, but you don't have any shining points that can attract her, and you rely on only 'not pleased', then you may make her feel special, but you will never let her really choose to date you."

Luo Chenxing nodded repeatedly when he heard this. This is much more reasonable. It is not that people overestimate themselves and force themselves to pursue things they cannot get, but that when their own strength is satisfied, your horizons must be broad enough and you must have the determination to climb up.

If you only know how to flatter, then of course you can only be a younger brother; if you can give advice to your elder brother, then you are his think tank; if your strength is better than your elder brother, then you don’t have to let him agree, and you will naturally no longer be a younger brother.

Thinking of the experiences over the past few days, Jiang Jinkong's various things he did seem to be "miracle", but in fact they are closely linked to his own strength.

If he hadn't taken out the plug-in antidote and just said a few words of "all members won" it would have been impossible for anyone to buy it.

If he hadn't really understood the habits of various monsters, and with just one sentence "I like animals", Meng Xishan would not have looked at him with admiration. Even if he had first-class eloquence and could make others happy, his value would be just a coaxing person.

Left and left and right shots are just auxiliary skills. If you want others to be interested in playing basketball, you must first be able to play basketball.

Simply put, it means "the blacksmith must be strong himself."

"With strength, every word you say casually is truth. Without strength, even if you say the truth, you will not be recognized."

"My..." Speaking of this, Jiang Jinkong, who was talking all the way, unexpectedly paused and changed his words stiffly, "A person who is very important to me once said that only when you first control the opportunity in the competition can you have the right to decide whether to kill the other party or to 'point it' to him'. All of this is based on the winner."

"Although most of his thoughts seemed very extreme to me at that time, at least I agree with this sentence."

"The first thing you have to do is to become a winner and become the best. If you do not have the strength to save all nations, then your compassion for all living beings will be just a joke in the eyes of the world."

Looking at Luo Chenxing who had already understood something, he smiled faintly.

"So I don't need to say more about what to do next?"

...

As a standings that determine the status of each student, they have always been the most popular.

The names on the list will change from time to time.

But the recent changes have surprised everyone.

A name that had been forgotten and should have completely fallen into hell has become a shining new star, rising.

"Have you noticed that Luo Chenxing has been rising so fast in the standings recently!"

Now no matter where you go, the most common thing you hear is the discussion about this name and this person.

"How did he do it? Could it be that he cheated?"

"How do you cheat on the ranking list of Tiangong Gate? Do you want to show me one?"

"But he has no background or background, so where do he get the cultivation resources? It's really strange..."

In this way, no one can see through the mysteries of the people's conversations or suspicions or jealousy.

...

When Luo Chenxing was respected by Sikong Sheng, it was not that he was so good at flattering, but mainly because of his strength and his mind (self-worth). In addition, his family status (background value), the combination of the two formed his total value.

The other younger brothers' rating criteria are mostly the same, and Luo Chenxing's total score ranks among the top among the younger brothers, so he naturally became the right-hand man around the elder brother.

When the Luo family announced their cooperation with the Two Lakes Chamber of Commerce, his own value did not change, but his background value soared infinitely, causing the total score to increase significantly, which attracted a group of people who curry favor.

After the family was destroyed, his background value dropped directly to zero. When his own value did not change, the total score naturally also decreased sharply, which attracted a lot of bullying.

The background value can no longer be changed. All he can do now is to double up and improve his own value to recover the total score back to the average.

However, Luo Chenxing's mentality has been much more balanced now. According to Jiang Jinkong, all the students in the Tiangong Gate actually have this set of scoring standards, that is, the sum of their own value and background values.

Some playboys may have very low value, but their background value is very high, and their overall status is equally high. Some candidates have average background value, but their own value is extremely high, so everyone should be respectful.

If you want to be a good person here, you must concentrate on improving the total score. If the score increases, who cares if you are an orphan of the destruction of a family?

Luo Chenxing sometimes admires Jiang Jinkong. After a few words from him, everything seems to have become very simple.

During this period, he has been practicing in virtual fantasy.

This is one of the basic functions of micro-time and space. Spiritual practitioners can enter the virtual space and conduct various fighting exercises. The damage they suffer here will be cleared after returning to reality, but the improvements obtained and the secret techniques they understand are real.

After entering the system, you can choose to fight with two people or human-machine battles. Two people are two spirit cultivators who also establish virtual characters in micro-time and space to compete with each other; human-machine battles are the spirit cultivators who fight with virtual opponents from the system.

Here, all the data is simulated according to the conditions of the spiritual practitioner. If it is not debugged, the level in reality will be the same as the level here, and the simulation level reaches 100%. It can be said that except for this environment that is not true, everything else is true. Therefore, the enemies that can be defeated here can also be defeated in reality.

There is such an item in the trial mission of Tiangong Gate. Students do not need to go out to hunt monsters seriously. As long as they use original simulation data to defeat enemies of the corresponding level in the virtual space and provide combat data reports, they can receive points rewards. Because this means that you already have the strength to obtain the same points.

To put it bluntly, in the virtual space, you can debug your own model data at will, so that you can become a top-notch person, and enjoy the pleasure of slaughtering everything like cutting melons and vegetables, but it is meaningless for your own improvement. When you return to the real world, you should do whatever you want. This function is the most widely used, but the office workers use it to vent their dissatisfaction with their boss.

...

There are two ways to demonstrate your strength.

One is to catch a few people around you, make a tough fight, and make a name for themselves, so that others dare not bully themselves again.

But in this way, the few people who were regarded as "stepping stones" would become enemies.

As the ruler of the Tiangong Sect, Jiang Jinkong naturally would not favor one person so much, destroy the future of some students, and create a certain student. So what he recommended Luo Chenxing to choose is to practice in virtual space and earn points. At that time, his ranking on the points list will improve, and he will not say anything, and others will naturally know that he should not be underestimated.
Chapter completed!