Chapter 1644 Jie Yuhua
"Um..." Yi's mother looked at Mo Qianlong a few more times when she heard this. She was quite "more" at ease to make friends with such a girl, at least she looked serious.
"Sorry, we still have something to do now. What do you have to say to me when you come back." She did not make an explicit inspection in front of outsiders, after all, this was not a glorious thing.
Mo Qianlong insisted: "It's not too late to go first. It won't waste too much time on your part."
Perhaps it was because she had a kind of power to calm people's hearts and had always been strong. Yi's mother miraculously gave in, nodded, and signaled Yi's father to close the door.
Both girls Liu Mo and Song Panlei were eavesdropping at the door, and the boys Mo Gucheng and Xilingchen... Although they knew that this was not good, they cared about Long'er and listened together.
In fact, the ward is not very soundproof. Before, they were far away from the ward and did not listen deliberately, so they didn't know what the people inside were. Now they can still hear the movements and stills inside clearly with their spiritual power.
Mo Qianlong persuaded Yi Xin's parents to sit on the chair, took out his handkerchief and helped Yi Xin, who was crying, wipe her tears and helped her stand up.
As soon as Yi Xin saw Mo Qianlong, he immediately felt a strong sense of security, like a fugitive who had been running in the dark jungle for several nights, and finally found a safe place to live.
As long as she is there, she feels that she doesn't have to worry about anything and the problem can be solved. Such trust and dependence are something she has never found in her family.
At the same time, she couldn't help but start to blame herself. Why could she be so at ease and push all the problems to Sister Long'er to solve? For her own affairs, she had delayed her for an afternoon and caused her a lot of trouble... When she thought about this, she burst into tears, and she was moved and guilty.
Before, she cried in Song Panlei's ward, and Sister Longer wiped her tears. Yi Xin didn't want to make herself really a useless person, so she thanked Mo Qianlong softly, took the handkerchief and wiped her tears well.
Mo Qianlong turned to Yi Xin's parents again and said politely: "Uncle and Auntie, I'll do an experiment for you."
She knew that there was no way to change Yi Xin's parents' attitude in words. When they were old, they would only be more stubborn than Song Panlei and Xie Shaochen. After all, they were outsiders and were not suitable to teach them directly. Then, they could only stabilize them with actions.
Mo Qianlong took out a scale from the bracelet and placed it on the table. This was the gift she brought from the Seven Realms. She was originally going to give Mo Liangcheng, and there were many oranges and rabbit models. She first put these models aside and raised her hands lightly. Under the operation of ice magic, a large amount of visible frost automatically gathered and solidified on the table to form many character models. Her eyebrows, eyes and shapes were all lifelike.
It was the first time Yi Xin and her parents have seen such a magical skill, and they were enjoyable to see it. Even Yi's mother is not in a hurry for the time being.
One of the models was made from Yi Xin as the prototype, and Mo Qianlong placed it on the left side of the scale.
The tray on the right was still empty. Mo Qianlong picked up the model in turn and put down his parents, tutors, classmates and friends... The scale was tilted to the right and heavier, and the "Yi Xin" on the tray on the left also began to shake.
When the last model was put down, "Yi Xin" slowly slid down and fell on the desktop.
Mo Qianlong explained: "This refers to the pressure that Xinxin himself has to bear, from all aspects."
She cleaned the tray and did the next second experiment.
Put "Yi Xin" on the left and the tray on the right, put all the models on it at one time.
The sudden increase in pressure caused the scale to tilt sharply to the right.
Bang--
"Yi Xin" flew out directly, fell to the ground and broke.
"Once all the pressures are pressed on Xinxin and she can't solve them one by one, these pressures will easily crush her."
Mo Qianlong bent down and collected the fragments of "Yi Xin" and asked her to stand up on the table again. The model was already full of cracks and could not even be even a little bit stuck. The other models were not broken and were still standing well.
"If Xinxin has been crushed, then her relationship with all aspects, such as friendship and family, is likely to be broken and can no longer be pieced together. After all, it is difficult to reunite the broken mirror."
Yi's father saw the broken "Yi Xin", although it was just an ice sculpture model, but it had the appearance of a daughter. Seeing the cracks on its body and its incomplete face, it was still shocking.
This shock calmed down his anger a lot. He felt that Mo Qianlong's words made some sense and couldn't help but think deeply.
Yi's mother didn't think about it and felt that she was not wrong: "I'm telling you the truth. If she weren't my daughter, I wouldn't bother with her. But would she not care about her like this? I'm so tight that she dared to make bad friends outside, and she was implicated in the clinic. If I didn't care about her, would she have lost her life long ago?"
Mo Qianlong advised at the right time: "You guys find it strange, right? You obviously have so much control, why do she still make friends? But I want it, it is because you control her too tightly that she is rebelling."
"If you don't control her communication so strictly and let her make friends with you widely, it will be easier for her to tell from it which people are worthy of deep friendship and who will not be able to continue to contact in the future."
At this point, Mo Qianlong asked again: "Put your heart in mind. If your parents treat you like this, will you, as children, rebellious?"
Yi's mother was unhappy and glared with confidence: "We just study hard when we are doing it. How could there be so many messy things?" She meant that we knew how to be conscious, Xinxin was not conscious at all, regardless of whether she was studying or not.
Mo Qianlong said: "Since that's the case, why do you never believe that Xinxin can be conscious as a parent?"
Yi's mother choked back in one breath and said angrily: "Then what you mean is that we should let her do everything. We can't even care if she becomes a trash person?"
Mo Qianlong explained gently: "Of course you have to take care of it, but the degree of control is different."
"If it is right, let her come back in time. Pay attention to her every day, instead of just learning from others. Do you have to be a father and mother who is a father and mother? How can you ensure that others have not talked to you or talked bad things about her?"
Yi's mother was anxious again: "So we were about to take her to have a checkup!" Yi's father pulled her sleeve next to him and told her to leave. After all, it was her daughter's private affairs. Yi's mother was excited and ignored him, "If she was really bullied by that **, why would we suffer such a big loss in vain? We have to sue him!"
Mo Qianlong asked, "Do you really believe that your daughter will do that?"
Yi's mother glanced at Yi Xin next to her with anger: "What if she was forced? She was so stupid, she didn't dare to say anything if she was bullied!"
Yi Xin suffered another heavy blow in her mouth. She bit her lip and buried her head lower, and invisibly it seemed that she had also verified Yi's mother's method.
Mo Qianlong gave Yi Xin a comforting look, signaling her not to be nervous, and then continued to say to Yi's mother:
"Did you ever wonder why she is like this? Also, because you usually take too seriously her, she will be scolded by her every time something happens to her. Over time, it will naturally lead to her being afraid to express herself and not having the restrained personality of her own thoughts."
"Because you won't help her solve problems, and you will only scold her, so there are many things that she would rather have with her friends than with you."
Yi's mother raised her voice: "Then aren't we just solving the problem now? We don't fully believe that Song Panlee, so everyone feels at ease when the inspection report comes out!"
Mo Qianlong advised him kindly: "If you don't trust your daughter so much, once you find out that it is a misunderstanding, will your relationship create an inhealthy barrier? That barrier may be bigger and deeper than the cracks of broken ice."
"And since Xinxin knows that you will not believe anything, I am afraid she will not tell you anything in the future. What if she continues to rebel or embark on the road of illegal and criminal activities, who will be the responsibility at that time? Or will you regret that what she did at the beginning deeply hurt her heart?"
These consequences really made Yi's mother unable to ignore them. She didn't expect that from when her daughter had so many secrets in front of her parents, does this mean that her daughter's heart is getting farther and farther away from her?
As she thought about this, she felt a little soft, but after thinking about it, she was still unwilling to accept it: "Then let us forget about that ** thing? Even if our daughter is really bullied, will we still suffer this mute loss?"
He gave him a slap and said, very disrespectful to others... Yi Xin's rebellious mentality emerged again, and she felt a little sad for him. After all, he didn't care about him, but at least he was not that bad at treating him, and he also helped him a lot, so she still had to admit this.
Mo Qianlong didn't say much: "Since that's the case, please ask Sister Song to understand with you."
She opened the door, and before she could speak, Song Panlei took the initiative to come in.
Song Panlei has been outside for so long and has learned a lot of things. She really regrets now. She didn't expect that the few words she was angry that made Xinxin so miserable. Xinxin just comforted herself in the ward without grudges...
She wanted to make up for her mistakes. Now she sincerely apologized to Yi Xin's parents and told them that she had been in trouble before.
The best way to refute rumors is to clarify the rumors themselves, admit their mistakes and apologize.
Yi's father thought she was like this, it should be true, and his daughter was indeed not that kind of person. But Yi's mother still insisted: "You were blind before, so how did I know that your current one is not blind? Besides, how could you guarantee that there is no matter between them 100!"
Yi's father laughed angrily: "Why do you really hope that your daughter will be bullied?"
Yi's mother widened her eyes in anger: "I don't want my daughter to be bullied! I'm afraid she will be bullied! Why are you both the same? You are so cowardly, forget it if you know what's going on!"
"No matter how stupid it is, you will give birth to it," Yi's father said angrily and coaxed her, "If my daughter is really stupid enough to be bullied, she is the child we gave birth to again. Do we really have no problem?"
Yi's mother said, "That's all right for you!" She was also amused and she was not so tense.
Yi's father held her shoulder: "Okay, follow me."
As a result, it suddenly became a scene for Yi Xin’s parents to show their love?
Seeing that Yi's mother no longer insisted on taking her daughter for examination, Mo Qianlong suggested that there were still some things that she needed to go with her uncle and aunt, and Xinxin, okay.
"A metaphor, you keep keeping the canary in a cage and keeping it tight. When you put it out, it encounters a shriek. What do you think it will do?"
Mo Qianlong paused for a moment, leaving Yi Xin’s parents and Yi Xin some time to think, and then continue.
"The Canary didn't know that it was not its companion, it only knew that everyone was a bird. So, no matter how shrieked, it felt very reasonable, and naturally trusted the shriek."
"It thought that the shriek would not deceive itself, who is also a bird, but it did not expect that its ending would be taken away by the shriek."
"This is precisely because Canary used to look at the outside world in the cage. It had no experience in soaring in the sky, and of course it would not be clear what the shrike was like."
Yi's mother heard what she meant and subconsciously retorted: "So isn't the cage also a kind of protection? If she was allowed to fly from the beginning, it might still meet a shriek!"
Mo Qianlong said: "What if the canary is kept shutting it so that it is too depressed and makes it depressed to end up in depression?"
Yi's mother was stunned and a little worried: "What should you do?"
Mo Qianlong suggested: "Let it fly out and see its bird companions appropriately, and don't have to fly too high or too far. When it comes back, it will naturally listen to everything it sees outside, because it feels new to the outside world and will also want to know more from you."
"After that, you can hear what it is, and tell how it is in its state."
"Communication is a very important thing in itself. Because you are parents, not children."
"Some things that parents don't know, and their children won't understand. But even their children don't know, over time, if the children don't know everything, once the children make a mistake, as parents, but don't listen to the children's reasons, they will start scolding directly. Will the children realize that they are wrong?"
"No, she won't. She will only blame you, why don't you give her a chance to explain? If this kind of resentment accumulates over time, it will produce a terrible backlash."
After almost the truth was explained, Mo Qianlong took out the jade slip and showed them those real cases, but he thought that his parents were too much in charge, his children were rebellious, and did all the bad things he could not do, and finally spent his whole life in prison. The news that his parents regretted was often more convincing.
Someone commented below: "My parents these days, I always say anything for your own good. I love you, but I just deceive myself and give up my thoughts."
"They hope that their children will become dragons and girls will become phoenixes. They will spread their wings and fly high, but they will always cut off their wings silently. They will only live in their own experiences. They will not be wrong in listening to ours, but they are just morally kidnapped children."
This is often the reason why most families fail to educate. They all forgot that birds belong to empty and do not belong to cages, and they are not their parents' possessions.
If you don’t treat him as a human being, you won’t be able to become a human being when you grow up. You have been trapped in a cage for too long and you can’t even remember how you fly.
Chapter completed!