Chapter 2118

I raised a glass of red wine, clinked glasses with Wang Da, and finished drinking.

Wang Da looked at me after drinking the wine in the glass and said, "Is it really that disheartening for a woman?"

I said, "Isn't that so upset? If you like someone, but you can't get her, are you so upset?"

Wang Da said, "Then what do you think?"

I said, "I have no idea. Now I have to play if I have to play. Anyway, if there are girls, I will come to the beauty. I have that attitude."

Wang Da said: "It's easy."

I said, "Can you say that, just say it casually."

Wang Da said: "It just so happens that what she hates the most. Since you want to be with someone, why do you still want to treat it casually?"

I said, "She cares about me, why don't she care about herself?"

Wang Da said, "It's a social event."

I said, "Then I can be with her, I can control myself, and what about my social engagements."

Wang Da said: "She doesn't believe you can control yourself."

I said, "Yes, so it's noisy."

Wang Da said, "Oh, it's difficult. If you have to get along, you have to obey her, do whatever she says, compromise, lie on firewood and hide your courage, and serve her with shit and urine."

I said, "Damn. Let me die."

Wang Da said, "So you don't love enough. If you love enough, you will change yourself for her."

I said, "Then do you say she loves enough? Why don't she change a little for me? She hit me like that, scold me! She doesn't show any mercy. You didn't see her hit me like that, and she really slapped me, making me dizzy, and I forgot whose name I was. Am I a dog? No, even her dog is inferior."

Wang Da said: "After saying this, you may be worse than a dog in her heart."

I frowned: "It sounds so ugly."

Wang Da said: "It is probably true. You are not that high in her heart. Otherwise, how could she not be willing to change for you at all."

I said, "Okay, if you don't change, don't change. Forget it, I didn't expect to have a future with her."

Wang Da said: "What else do you want to do with me? Why do you want to talk about this issue?"

I said, "Do you think I want to solve this problem when I talk to you about this problem? You are wrong. I just want to find you and talk about my depression."

Wang Da said, "You can't let go, so you are depressed."

Well, I admit it, I really can't let it go.

I said, "I can't let it go."

I whispered quietly.

Wang Da said, "Then let it endure it."

I said, "No."

Wang Da smiled and said, "Oh, after all, you are also very pitiful."

I said, "I often dream about her these days. Even if I am with other women, I always feel like I am missing something in my heart. I feel very sorry for her. She is obviously not my wife. Do you know this feeling? Do you know how uncomfortable it is?"

Wang Da said: "It's not uncomfortable enough. You haven't closed the door and cried for a few months. You haven't jumped to death by jumping off the building."

I said, "Can you have a good chat?"

Wang Da poured me wine and said, "Actually, I think you are good at flirting with her. As for whether there is a future, it depends on whether you are willing to retreat. The key is to the relationship between you.

I asked, "How could I flirt with her?"

Wang Da asked: "Do you know why you can attract Helanting?"

I said, "I don't know, who knows, who has studied it."

Wang Da said: "Most of the feelings are based on the premise of being a good match. If you have a high survival value and a lot of money, you can attract most girls with low survival value. In the past, why did our two girlfriends cheat on others, especially your girlfriend? Because they are rich, they just want to find a rich man to rely on. As outsiders, if you want to gain a foothold in this city, the first thing is to solve the problem of houses. Women are the biggest enemy.

People are age, and studying is nothing, but after graduation, they are soon twenty-five years old, at the downhill age. At the golden age of twenty-five, they most hope to find a reliable person who has a house that they imagine can make them gain a foothold in the city. If they pass twenty-five, it will become increasingly difficult to find. Thinking about what we had back then? We didn’t even have the capital to gain a foothold in this city. When they graduated, they would be confused when they saw that we had nothing."

I said, "They all want to enjoy the fruits of their lives, and they are not willing to work with us, and they are not willing to work with us to earn the future. They make money for cars, houses, one square meter, one square meter. To put it bluntly, they are actually very selfish. Marriage and love are nothing more than two aspects: one is material and one is love, and they are for material things. We are foolish in thinking that we can work with them one square meter and one square meter, which is too self-indulgent."

Wang Da said: "Yes, they are with us. I believe they have feelings and love, but they are more for material things. They also hope that we have everything, and it is too difficult to achieve both. So they will leave us and go with rich people, even if they don't like it. However, they have encountered many pitfalls, including your Jingjing, who went into prison later. Because rich people are not stupid, they know that these women are with them for money, so many of them are playing with them. This path is difficult for them to work."

I said, "The key is that no matter how much we show, we are proactive and promising, we are very promising. They will also look down on us. Even if we work harder every day, it is useless, they only see what is in front of us. If your girlfriend, if she saw you have a car and a house now, she would not leave you back then, right? But she did not care how motivated you were back then."

Wang Da said: "So I think it is inevitable that we break up with them."

I said, "Just say Helanting, don't touch those women before."

Wang Da said: "Helanting is different from these women. She is a successful person herself. She does not have the so-called car and house worry about these material things."

I said, "The mentality is different. Even if Helanting doesn't have a car and a house, she will not be so anxious, nor will she have to find a rich man to be with her. She will work hard on her own and buy a car and a house. This is her backbone, her arrogance, and her personality that I admire."

Wang Da said: "She will not place hope on others, and will not hope to pray for material things from others. She will get what she wants through her own efforts. Therefore, her requirements for her partner are not how rich, successful, capable, or something. She has seen that she has been too independent since childhood and wants to make a particularly strong appearance. No matter how hard her family and friends are, she will not easily throw out her heart. No matter how great the suffering is, she will bear it silently. Her logical thinking is strong, her intelligence is superb, and she is cold on the surface, and she is not good at dealing with people.

He said, he has a strong mind and ability to do business and manage, and is not ruthless to people and things. In terms of emotions, she is like a blank piece of paper. So when facing a person who abandons her, she will think of suicide. With you, if you have what she wants, she will think you are very interesting, humorous, making her feel relaxed and happy, and don’t have to think so much, so you can melt her iceberg. You can make her happy. Although she doesn’t show off on the surface, I can actually see that every time you are with her, every time you quarrel with her, she enjoys it. It’s just that she doesn’t laugh.”

I asked, "I've finished speaking?"

Wang Da said, "It's over."

I said, "I just attracted her little by little, and I have no other ability, right?"

Wang Da said: "Yes, but what you still have to do is concentrate on her, so that she can feel safe and have a sense of belonging to family. This is what she longs for."

I said, "Mr. Wang, you have to figure out that we are facing a personality problem now. Those who feel humorous and belong to each other are all empty. How to solve the main friction between the two people in their personality is the most important thing."

Wang Da said: "I think you or you change it, or she or two of you change it. Since you can't change it, then forget it and separate."

I leaned on the chair, lit a cigarette, and said, "I can't bear to leave."

Wang Da said, "Then you change it."

I smoked silently.

I can't change it, I can't change it.

How do I change it?

Wang Da said: "There is no so-called real problem between you. If you really love each other, you are a good match, rich or not, it is all false. I believe that no matter how poor you are, people like Helanting will be willing to follow you if you are beaten to death. Even if her whole family opposes it, then so what? You are talking to Helanting, not talking to her family. Besides, will Helanting listen to his family? What you are facing is just a small problem, one is a problem of your own personality, and the other is that you have to overcome your own inferiority complex."

I said, "I can't do it, really, I can't hold my head up in front of her. There must be some inferiority complex, but this is also a small problem. The key is that the two of them cannot change their personalities, and I cannot accept it. I don't enjoy this pleasing process of being a cow and a horse for her."

Wang Da said, "Let's go, don't think about that. Find a woman like my wife. It's so nice to have sex with Helanting."

I said, "I will jump off the building."

After telling Wang Da about these things in his heart, they really got much better.

I was quite dizzy when I drank one person and one bottle of red wine.

I kept dreaming of Helanting when I went to bed at night. Can I really not forget it? Can I really not go any further?

I rarely feel lonely, but every time I think of her, I feel lonely.

It’s difficult to be a human being, it’s really not easy to love someone, I don’t want to be a human being in the next life.
Chapter completed!