So, Helanting always cheated on my money, not because she wanted to make money for me, nor because she wanted to teach me a lesson, but because she was worried that I would spend my money on other women?

I asked Liu Zhihui: "Then she is just afraid that I will spend my money on other women." 『→.s.h.u.g.e.1a"

Liu Zhihui said: "Men must have ambitions and domineering in their careers, and make repeated breakthroughs in a certain knowledge, talent, wealth, status and power to go to a higher level. The more successful these breakthroughs and achievements, the more they will attract more and better women. Although a woman needs a man with a strong sense of commitment and loyalty to her, she can get dedicated resources investment. At the same time, when this man with a strong ambition is getting more and more resources, he is more sufficient to attract other women. A woman will never say verbally that she wants to be the first in your heart. She will say that she supports you and gives you space to conquer the world, but in terms of behavior, she cannot control herself and become the most important first in your heart. She is worried that more and more resources will attract more and more quality women to like you. You should consider whether you don’t give her a sense of security enough?"

Indeed, how did I feel safe to give Helanting?

If Helanting really loves me, she will feel that there are strong enemies around her. Whether it is Liu Zhihui or Hei Mingzhu, they are her powerful enemies. Even Chengcheng, Zhu Lihua, Xie Danyang, and Xue Mingmei should not be underestimated.

She understood how powerful she was and how strong she was, but that was just a career. No matter how powerful she was, she could not always occupy a man's heart, so that this man had a special liking for her and would not change in this life.

Is this also a mechanism for her own self-psychological protection?

I said, "Sense of security, then she didn't give me any so-called security."

I want to ask Liu Zhihui the question, which is the problem between my relationship with Helanting now.

Is this right?

Even Wang Da said that I was doing it, and I would never die if I didn’t do it. Am I really doing it all the time?

Liu Zhihui said: "Have I said that it is difficult for you to pass this level of your own?"

I said, "I've said it, but I just think that she always ignores me and I can't stand it."

Liu Zhihui said: "She rarely expresses her emotions, and she doesn't have many words. She just lets you say and do it. When you can't feel any expressions of her, any movements of her, and if she doesn't communicate with you or talk to you, you will think badly, you will think that she doesn't love you, she doesn't like you, right?"

I said, "She just doesn't communicate with me, and I don't know how she falls in love. It's not that I quarrel with her, we can't even argue with each other. She doesn't say anything, why are we quarreling? I really don't know what she is thinking."

Liu Zhihui said: "Actually you should understand her more."

I said, "I understand her very much. She said she was busy. OK. I understand her. It would be impossible for her to ignore people for ten days and half a month, or even a month. What kind of love is there?"

Liu Zhihui said: "You know more than me who she is. She manages the company, prison, and her work. She keeps a high degree of energy and physical strength every day to deal with various things. She consumes a lot of energy and physical strength. In terms of emotions, she can only share a small part of her time and energy."

That's right, Liu Zhihui is right.

I remember when I asked Helanting, he said it was not suitable. The most important thing was to think about getting rid of the enemy first.

She herself was in danger, and she was worried that we would not be in love at all. One was life was in danger and the other was having no time to talk about love.

But I never expected that she was so busy that I didn't feel that she cared about me at all.

This week and two weeks are OK. If it is always ten days and half a month, then we will definitely not be able to stand it. We can’t even argue because I can’t find her at all. I feel that we are in a cold war.

I have met many couples who quarrel because of long-distance relationships. It is because of this failure that we are now in the same way as long-distance relationships.

The Cold War once or twice, OK, I took my face to find her. It doesn’t matter, as long as I can be together.

But with the number of Cold Wars, I am also questioning whether we are talking about love. We are together, but we are no different from being single. Since this is the case, why both of us are in love? We are so chic, so single.

If I wasn't thick-skinned enough, I would have gone to find her. I'm afraid we'll have already separated, so how many months can we last for?

I said, "I can understand Helanting's point, so I try to be tolerant and accommodating, but what about? She just ignores me. This is not a matter of time span, but a matter of her attitude towards me. No matter how much I give and take the initiative, she will still be like that."

Liu Zhihui said: "Two people do not mean that if two people give a lot, they can go to the end. Everyone has different expectations for rewards. People are always selfish animals, and this is even more so in love. They all hope that after their efforts, they can get rewards. Helanting has a problem. She will not let you know what she wants in her heart. She doesn't tell you, she asks you to guess, it's obvious that you can't guess."

Liu Zhihui is like a saint, and can clearly and clearly cut through the problems between us.

I said, "Yes, what should I do."

Liu Zhihui said: "When you two get along, don't care about the so-called face. If you love her and want to be with her, you should work hard, give more, and take the initiative."

I said, "It makes sense to say it well, but after paying so much, I can't get any response at all, or even no response, it's still a long time for a month."

I shook my head: "There is no reward for giving and no response. It is too difficult to make me not sad."

Liu Zhihui said: "If you give, you will expect rewards. You let her know what she should do and tell her what you are expecting."

I said, "Haha, let it go. Is it useful?"

Liu Zhihui said: "When there is a problem with your communication, you don't understand her, she doesn't understand you. I see, it's really hard for you to go on."

Indeed, the biggest problem between us is communication.

I smiled helplessly: "So, it's over between us. Alas."

I sighed.

Liu Zhihui said, "It depends on yourself."

Liu Zhihui's analysis of us was thorough and clear. She didn't tell me whether we should continue or how to choose. She only analyzed the causes of our relationship problems and then told me how to solve them.

Just like a waiter expert, listing the menu, telling me all the flavors, methods, and ingredients of each dish, and then how to order the dishes is my own business.

Liu Zhihui listed the causes of our relationship, but this disease requires Helanting and I to treat it. If she always did this, our relationship would not be able to continue.

I pretended to be relaxed: "Then forget it, then give up. After a while, I should have come out."

I smiled, a bitter smile.

Liu Zhihui said: "It is difficult for a person to get out of deep in love."

I said, "Maybe I fell in love with another woman and came out."

I'll look at her.

Liu Zhihui said: "You are still a little moral and will not talk about love with others before you let go of her."

I said, "That's all the advantages, and the whole body is full of shortcomings."

I walked to the window, lit a cigarette, ignored the bustling opening scene downstairs, and looked into the distance.

The sky is blue and there are a few white clouds floating, but this blue color makes me look so melancholy.

It's so difficult to let go of Helanting.

Even if you want to be with other women, you can't let her go. You are poisoned by her love, and it is difficult to detoxify.

I once broke up with Yu Jingjing and took a long time to get out. I wanted to die and it hurt so much.

Now, it’s okay, the feeling of wanting to die is not that strong and not so painful.

Maybe it was because there were many excellent beauties around me. I didn’t think the person I loved would fall when he left, but the sad feeling continued, and I kept pressing on me every day. Her figure and face kept appearing in my mind, making me unable to forget her.

I think it is Liu Zhihui who may be the most suitable person for me.

She knows what I want and what I want. She always makes me feel so comfortable and smooth. She can become a woman who makes me feel that she understands me the best, a person whose souls can communicate with each other.

If you have this kind of confidant in life, what else can you ask for?

If I mean, if I could really let Helanting go, I would probably be in trouble again.

Because I don’t know how to choose between Hei Mingzhu and Liu Zhihui.

I smoked a cigarette, looked back at Liu Zhihui, and asked, "You said just now that people are selfish, and love is even more selfish, right?"

Liu Zhihui said: "Yes."

I said, "But I like so many women all of a sudden. I'm so tangled and my head hurts so much."

Liu Zhihui said: "I will not accept that my man has two women, and I will not share my man with others."

She saw what I wanted to ask her.

I smiled awkwardly and said, "I'm afraid all men in the world hope that they can have three wives and four concubines. It's difficult to give up this, and it's difficult to give up that, and it's difficult to give up anyone. So if no one wants to give up, the final result may be that none of them will be able to get any one."

Liu Zhihui said: "It's very likely."

In fact, this problem had already occurred when I and Helanting were both together. I couldn't really let go of the Black Pearl, which led to the later life of that matter. If I could really let go, it wouldn't be like that.

The same is true in the future. Even if I choose any woman and choose to be with Hei Mingzhu, I can’t let go of other women. I guess my relationship will break down due to this problem.
Chapter completed!