I said, "The other party is so terrible that he actually arranged such a powerful opponent to deal with me. Can I take you as my teacher and help me?"

Liu Zhihui said: "It's not that scary to deal with that person. If I were that person, I wouldn't have let your female companion use such a method to ask questions."

I asked quickly: "Are you saying that person is not at the same level as you?"

Liu Zhihui shook her head: "I didn't say that, a wise man will make a mistake even if he has a thousand worries. The battlefield is changing rapidly. It is not possible to command the army to win battles according to the established war plan."

I asked happily: "Are you really willing to help me?"

Liu Zhihui said to me: "Can you tell me about this girl?"

I said, "Of course."

I briefly said Xia La. I didn't say Xia La was Kang Xue's cousin, but I just said that she was my competitor's cousin, and then said that Xia La was arranged by this competitor to me as a spy.

Liu Zhihui is more concerned about what kind of personality Xia La is.

I told Liu Zhihui that her father had long abandoned her and her mother, and then Xia La did not go home during the New Year and the Festival, so she followed her cousin. In order to strive, she borrowed a lot of money from her cousin, and she followed her cousin's advice.

After listening, Liu Zhihui said, "I don't think it's true."

I asked in surprise: "Did you say she doesn't listen to her cousin? This is not true! Look at her cousin telling her to do whatever she wants her to do. She doesn't listen to her plan."

Liu Zhihui smiled and said, "You first ask her what she grew up, and tell me in detail. I will teach you how to control her mentally."

I asked, "You mean, she always wanted to control me?"

Liu Zhihui said: "Control you emotionally and psychologically and unable to completely conquer you, it also inspires her to conquer you. In this way, her emotions towards you are even more complicated. She wants to control you mentally but can't control you."

I said, "Reversely control her? It's very interesting to hear this. It would be great if I can control a person's spirit, especially her!"

Liu Zhihui said: "There are basically two ways to make a person controlled by you, one is coercion and the other is temptation. But there is another one, which is mental dependence. In medicine, mental dependence, also known as psychological dependence, is a drug that makes people feel satisfied and happy, so it needs to be used regularly or continuously to maintain that kind of comfort or to avoid discomfort. Any drug that can cause a pleasant state of consciousness can cause mental dependence. For example, drugs. In foreign psychology, it can be summarized in a narrow sense as a person's mental dependence on another person. For example, parents who take care of their children and the object in love. If you can know what the other person's mental needs are most and what you can give her, then she will easily become dependent on you."

I said, "It's so complicated, Teacher Liu. I really can't understand it. It seems that what you learn is real psychology, and what I learn is memorizing and understanding articles."

Liu Zhihui said: "Let me give an example and use you as an example. Do you know what you want?"

I said, "I don't know. You know?"

Liu Zhihui said: "Can I analyze you?"

I said, "Yes, so that I can understand myself better."

Liu Zhihui said: "You promise not to get angry?"

I said, "It doesn't matter, just treat it as an academic discussion. Why am I angry?"

Liu Zhihui said: "You have dated many girls for a very short period of time. Your emotional life is quite chaotic, and you also dated several girls at the same time. But you never want to admit or tell them who your boyfriend is because you are afraid, afraid that you will lose other people. In this way, I think you have emotional personality disorder. Maybe you have lost your love and hurt you, resulting in your distrust of your feelings and distrust of the other person. No matter who it is, you will no longer trust. You are forcibly establishing the back of your strong heart. In fact, it is

You are afraid of being hurt by emotions again. You are so desperate to date with multiple women at the same time, which is also due to your serious psychological dependence in your heart. You want to get close to anyone, but you are afraid that the other party will leave you. I think, when you were a child, your parents may not be by your side or you don’t have much time to take care of your emotional and emotional needs. During your growth process, you still feel that you are very lonely and lonely. Therefore, your serious expectations and desires have different properties to warm you, and you also want to get close to them. You are not only for your sexuality, but also for your psychological needs."

When I was a child, I was sent to my relatives' home for a while to board and study. At my relatives' home, people were under the roof, and at my relatives' home, they were busy with their own children. I only felt cold and no warmth in their homes. Later, when I came back to stay at home, my parents talked less and were busy with their own farm work. I rarely communicated with me. I couldn't even feel the warmth of home at home. Later, when I got older, I went to school to stay, and I felt even more lonely.

I looked at her in surprise. Her analysis was like a precision scalpel, cutting through the deepest part of my heart. I didn't even know that I had such a serious personality disorder. As Liu Zhihui said, everyone has a mental illness, but everyone's illness is different.

But what surprised me was that she could see through all the trajectories of my life from childhood to adulthood through such a little bit.

I said, "You are really a god."

Liu Zhihui said: "You are too rewarded. I'm sorry to say that. If I want you to be mentally dependent and spiritually dependent on me, I will understand what you want and what you want, and I will give you. For example, the other person you have always wanted to rely on, and then appropriately stay close to you, from the initial attraction to the final psychological dependence, and complete mental control. At this time, if you use it properly, you will not resist it. Just like a relationship you once depended on, she left you, and you even want to die to end your pain."

My breathing became heavy. Looking at Liu Zhihui, I felt very scared. I wanted to hide my fear of her and said, "I don't believe it very much. You said that if you break up and I want to die, that's normal, but if you ask me to die, I may not be willing to go."

Liu Zhihui smiled and said, "Among ancient emperors and heroes, are there few emperors and heroes who destroyed their country and families for women? The most prominent examples of Jie's sister Xi of Jie of Xia, Daji of King Zhou of Shang, and Baosi of King You of Zhou, probably the story of Gao Wei and Feng Xiaolian, the queen lord of Northern Qi. Are there no beauties around them? Why are they just fascinated by one of them?"

These things are all historical, just for examples. Whether the emperors have spiritual dependence on them is true or false, no one can see it now. But what I know is that I have dependence on my ex-girlfriend, and Wang Da is still in trouble and pain until now.

I said, "I don't know those people, but what I know is that when my girlfriend left me before, I was really heartbreaking and even wanted to die. I analyzed it very well. According to you, I am actually pitiful, right? Because I have lacked emotional sustenance since I was a child, I have become like this."

Liu Zhihui said lightly: "Pity."

She didn't finish the second half of the sentence, there must be something hateful.

I blushed, and after a while, I asked her: "Then do you think, how should I save myself?"

Liu Zhihui said: "Personal disorder begins in childhood, adolescents or early adulthood, and continues until adulthood and even life. There is no clear onset time and there is no general process of disease development. Personality disorders are mainly manifested as abnormal emotions and behaviors, but their consciousness state and intelligence are not obvious defects. Generally, there are no hallucinations and delusions, which can be distinguished from psychotic disorders. They are often without self-awareness of their own personality defects, and it is difficult to learn from failures. They make the same mistakes repeatedly. Therefore, they are often frustrated in interpersonal communication, career and emotional life, which can harm others and oneself. They can generally cope with daily work and life, understand the consequences of their own behavior, and understand the society's evaluation of their behavior to a certain extent, and often feel subjectively painful."

I asked, "Can you cure me? Don't let me rely so much on women?"

Liu Zhihui looked at me and said, "It is quite difficult to directly change your behavior. Whether it is drugs or various treatment methods such as psychotherapy, the results are poor, and medical measures are difficult to work. As a doctor, I can only establish a good relationship with you through in-depth contact, help you understand the shortcomings of your personality, encourage you to change your behavior patterns and encourage and strengthen the positive changes that occur. Help you establish good behavior patterns and correct bad habits. Take your time."

I said, "If you say this, I was desperate for myself all of a sudden. But to be honest, I feel quite comfortable living like this now. Haha. But if you say this, I feel that I really have some mental illness. Actually, I can't treat it without treatment, right?"

Liu Zhihui didn't say anything, looked ahead and said, "You will be fine in the future."

Will I be fine in the future?

What does this mean? Is it that I am good to myself, or will someone cure me in the future, or can someone change me?

Is it her?

I looked at her.

Liu Zhihui said: "I heard you just said that during the holidays and the Chinese New Year, the girl you mentioned does not go home to celebrate the holidays with her mother. So, her relationship with her mother is not very close."

I think so. Even after the Chinese New Year and energy holidays, I don’t go back to accompany my mother. Who are these people?

Liu Zhihui said: "She feels uncomfortable with her mother. She doesn't yearn for the days of living with her mother. Perhaps, she has more fear and disgust than respect for her mother."

What Liu Zhihui analyzed is already considered a profound psychological analysis.

I don't understand these, I can only listen.

Liu Zhihui continued: "When you are with her, she often talks about her cousin, but rarely talks about her mother. She is even indifferent to her mother. She has no father, but she is disgusted with her mother. Her mother must be a very strong woman who makes her feel disgusted. She would rather be with you during the Chinese New Year than go home. This shows that she herself has personality disorder. This is because she has been like you since childhood, lacking emotional sustenance, and her mother may also be like your parents, and she has not given her much care and warmth. There are many excellent people around her, but she only wants to conquer you, which shows that her psychological development is not sound. Of course, what I said can only be used as my own judgment and guess. You have to go to investigate and ask questions in person."

I said, "I didn't expect that such a little thing is so complicated to say, but can I really do it? I really want to control her and make her confess to me what she wants to do to me, and whether she wants to harm me."

Liu Zhihui said: "You go and investigate first, the more detailed the better. Come and find me after you finish."

I took a step back and said to her respectfully: "Thank you, Teacher Liu."

Liu Zhihui said: "No thanks, I'll help you for myself. If you are harmed by others, I will lose someone who is good to me in the future."

I smiled and said, "Teacher Liu, even if humans are really selfish animals, you can just know such selfish ideas. Why do you have to say it out?"

Liu Zhihui said, "Oh, this is a low-level mistake I made. I should say, no thanks, I can't help you, it's a simple task."

I raised my thumbs up, it was amazing.
Chapter completed!