327 This Is True Selfless Love(1/3)
Well, okay, in fact, what Cao Zhiqiang is doing at this time is to issue "good guy cards" and then politely refuse in this way.
This way of rejection has only one purpose, which is not to say that you are not good or that I despise you, but to say that you are too good and I don't deserve it. Let's continue to be friends, no, let's be siblings.
In this way, even if the other party is rejected, they will feel much better and reduce the sense of loss of being rejected.
Although this trick was no longer effective at the end of the 20th century, it was still quite sharp and useful in 1983, and it immediately suppressed Yu Fangfang and Yu Yuanyuan.
As a result, after a while, Yu Fangfang came back to her senses and said with an moved expression: "Then, if that's the case, wouldn't it be better? If you are together, wouldn't you get what you want?"
"No!" Cao Zhiqiang waved his hand and turned his head.
"Sister Fangfang, you still don't understand!
People like Sister Yuanyuan have a very high status in my heart!
She is like the snow lotus in the sky, noble and sacred, awe-inspiring and inviolable!
In my mind, she is like my biological sister, even closer than my biological sister.
Facing a relative who is closer than my own sister, I can be filial, reverent, and loving, but I must not have any inappropriate thoughts.
I feel guilty for any blasphemy against her."
Having said this, Cao Zhiqiang turned around, put his hands behind his back, and sighed as if he was turning his back to all living beings: "So, Sister Fangfang, you shouldn't say those words. In my opinion, this is an offense to my Yuan."
Sister Yuan.
I admit that I love Sister Yuanyuan very much, very much, very much.
But this kind of love is a love that transcends the world, a love that is free from vulgar taste!
I can do things for her silently without asking for anything in return, but I never expect to have her, let alone blaspheme him.
Because I don’t deserve it, I don’t deserve it!”
Upon hearing this, Yu Fangfang was dumbfounded and didn't know what to say.
On the contrary, Yu Yuanyuan's eyes suddenly turned red: "Zhiqiang, I, actually I'm not that good, you..."
"Sister, stop talking!" Cao Zhiqiang waved his hand again, "I know that you only have family affection for me, not love. I know it, I know it.
What you are like now is just that you have just been betrayed by someone, and there is a gap in your mood. You are also bewitched by others, so you are a little confused about the situation and mistakenly think that you love me as a man and a woman.
But it's not like that.
At best, you just regard me as a substitute."
"No, you are not a substitute!" Yu Yuanyuan said anxiously, "No!"
"Alas!" Cao Zhiqiang sighed again, "Whether it is true or not, it doesn't matter anymore."
Having said this, Cao Zhiqiang turned around and looked at Yu Yuanyuan who was in a serious mood: "Sister Yuanyuan, there are many kinds of love, not only love between men and women, but also family love that transcends vulgar taste.
I know that I love you, and I know that you have a crush on me, but I don't have that kind of possessiveness towards you, and I also know that you don't have that kind of love between a man and a woman for me.
I like to write poetry, you like to read poetry.
I love your nobility and quiet beauty, and you appreciate my talent and integrity.
I once confessed my love to you and wanted to have you, but you didn't agree.
I once thought it was me who wasn't good enough, and I also thought it was you who didn't have the courage to break through the shackles of the world.
But later I realized that it was actually none of them.
My impulsive confession was right, your rejection was right, and neither of us was wrong.
The reason why you rejected me before was actually for our own good.
I am so much younger than you, and you don’t want both of us to suffer from the strange eyes and pressure of the world.
You also don’t want our pure relationship to be invaded and desecrated.
Because the relationship between us is a completely selfless spiritual love that transcends physicality and selfishness.
Just seeing each other will make you happy.
Even if we can't see each other, as long as we hear each other's news and know that everything is safe with each other, we can be happy and smile calmly.
If I know you are well, my heart will be clear.
Yes, we have such a feeling.
Outsiders don’t understand, sister Yuanyuan, don’t you still understand?”
After Yu Yuanyuan heard this, she took a deep breath and nodded gently: "Yes, there is indeed a pure relationship between us. I, I... I'm sorry, Zhiqiang, it's my fault."
Cao Zhiqiang walked up to Yu Yuanyuan, held her shoulders with both hands, and said seriously: "No, we are all right.
I have to say it’s wrong, I can only say it’s the world’s fault!
We all met the right person at the wrong time.
Who told me that it was too late to meet you and know your heart too late."
Sighing again, Cao Zhiqiang patted Yu Yuanyuan on the shoulder: "Okay, Sister Yuanyuan, don't think too much, go back and think about it, everything will be different.
I still have something to do, so I’ll take a step forward. You can stay here as you please, stay if you want, and leave if you want. I...hey..."
Having said this, Cao Zhiqiang showed a forlorn expression, walked straight past Yuanyuan, and left the room.
After Cao Zhiqiang left, Yu Yuanyuan was still jealous and moved, staring blankly at Cao Zhiqiang's back, as if she hadn't come out of the previous atmosphere.
On the contrary, it was Yu Fangfang who suddenly let out a breath as the door to the room was closed after Cao Zhiqiang left.
Looking at Yu Yuanyuan who was still in a daze, Yu Fangfang frowned and said: "He, what does he mean? You, what on earth are you playing? Why do I keep hearing more and more? You guys are virgins
Where is the object, or does it not count?"
"Sister!" Yu Yuanyuan rolled her eyes at Yu Fangfang, seemingly annoyed that she interrupted her train of thought, "Why are you so vulgar? The relationship between us is not as dirty as you think!"
Yu Fangfang blinked: "Okay, I'm vulgar and I'm dirty, so what's the relationship between you two?"
"You don't understand!" Yu Yuanyuan wiped the tears from the corners of her eyes and smiled slightly, "So that's it, that's it! It's a pity that I only understand it now!"
"What on earth is it?" Yu Fangfang asked angrily, "Don't tell me those useless things, just tell me directly, what's the relationship between you two?"
"He is a more intimate lover than a close friend." Yu Yuanyuan looked at the door with a smile on her face, "I can truly understand him, and he can truly understand me!
I will always care about him, and he will always care about me.
We all love each other and want to be close to each other, but we deliberately keep our distance so as not to get too close.
He will give everything for me, but he will not want anything from me.
On the other hand, the same goes for me. I can give everything to him, but I don't want to get any reward from him.
It is a kind of selfless love that only gives and does not take!
It is a kind of Platonic spiritual love that is free from vulgar taste, and it is a higher level of spiritual love.
This is true selfless love.
You wouldn't understand this kind of love now!"
Yu Fangfang blinked: "Then, will you get married?"
"I don't know." Yu Yuanyuan shook her head, "Maybe, maybe not. But no matter whether it is, I will always love him and never change my heart!"
Speaking of this, Yu Yuanyuan suddenly turned to Fangfang and smiled: "Sister, I understand, I completely understand.
In fact, I don't love Yang Weiguo at all. I have never loved him.
Being with him is just a habit, a passive habit, or in other words, a kind of ignorant and pitiful one.
Yes, I just felt sorry for him, so I agreed to be Yang Weiguo's girlfriend, but I never really liked him.
Of course, I have never liked other men before, at least not that kind of true love.
It wasn't until I met Cao Zhiqiang that I knew that he was my true destiny and the man I had been waiting for.
It was also him who made me truly understand what love is and what I really want."
"Don't be so ridiculous." Yu Fangfang frowned, "If you are really as good as you said, and you both like and love each other, then why doesn't he want to be with you?
Because of age? Not really, you’re not much older than him, why do you have to work so hard?”
"So you don't understand, you don't understand." Yu Yuanyuan shook her head.
After sighing slightly, Yu Yuanyuan said with a look of reminiscence: "Actually, when he saw me for the first time, I knew that he had evil intentions towards me and was interested in me. It was just that at that time, I was still
I don’t understand him, and I don’t understand me either.
I thought he was a scoundrel, so I didn't have any good feelings towards him.
Later, I slowly got to know him, his past, his family, his sadness, his despair, and his persistence after his enlightenment.
You don't know his past and family, and you don't know what happened to him. You never know what a young man like him has gone through.
Do you think that his current achievements are all achieved easily? Are they all due to pure fate?
No, absolutely not!
That was the outburst after he was forced to make a decision and tried his best!
To be continued...