Chapter 749 Domestication
Ye Wu finished speaking and cried. With Gu Qingzhou's company, she fell asleep.
Before going to bed, she grabbed Gu Qingzhou's hand and refused to let go no matter what.
Gu Qingzhou was lying beside her.
Ye Wu dreamed of her mother.
It was the time when the tender and cold flowers were getting thick. She was swinging under the tree and her mother wrote at the stone table not far away.
The sunny lines shone brightly on her mother's face. She smiled gently, with a rosy complexion and a beautiful face. She is still the mother who loves her most in her memory, not the pale and thin mother.
It was only five in the morning when I woke up.
The night is sunny, and the Qionghua outside the window is as frost.
"Awu?" Gu Qingzhou asked in a low voice, his voice full of sleepiness.
Ye Wu said: "Teacher, I'll get up and go to the toilet, you can continue to sleep."
Gu Qingzhou got up and took a crutch for Ye Wu.
"Can you do it yourself?" she asked.
Ye Wu nodded: "I can."
She moved hard and went to the bathroom.
Gu Qingzhou did not follow him.
When Ye Wu came out of the bathroom, Gu Qingzhou had already turned on the small light at the head of the bed.
It was a little cold in the middle of May.
Gu Qingzhou helped her onto the kang.
Ye Wu closed the thin quilt and sat halfway against the head of the bed. She had no intention of lying down for a long time.
"What's wrong? Tell me if you have something to do?" Gu Qingzhou also half sat up.
Ye Wu nodded.
She said: "Teacher, I dreamed of my mother. After so many years, the first time I dreamed that she was not a hideous face, but a gentle and beautiful person."
Gu Qingzhou felt a little relieved: "You are so sad in your heart, and you have buried too many secrets."
Ye Wu deeply agrees.
"Teacher, I'm sorry." Ye Wu's voice was even lower.
Gu Qingzhou asked her why she wanted to apologize.
"I don't really want to check the cause of my mother's death." Ye Wu said, "I have been carrying the sin for so long. I know it's very painful, and I know the ease after letting go.
There are people in this world who believe me wholeheartedly, which is enough for me. Let me continue to bear it. No matter what the matter really is, that fire is a scar in our whole family's heart.
My mother was burned to death, and our hearts were burned beyond recognition. No one wanted to uncover the scars, and I didn’t want to. Teacher, I know you want to help me, but unfortunately I want to disappoint you.”
Gu Qingzhou touched her hair.
"Silly kid, why do you want to apologize?" Gu Qingzhou asked, "You know I want to get your favor and your gratitude, so I took the initiative to ask to help you?"
Ye Wu glanced at Gu Qingzhou.
What's strange is that Ye Wu was not angry at all. She knew everything, and Gu Qingzhou's confession made her feel warm.
Of course she knew Gu Qingzhou’s intention.
Anyone wants to curry favor with the Ye family and her, and Gu Qingzhou is no exception.
If she said something righteous, Ye Wu would be alert to her and even look down on her.
"So, if you don't want to investigate this matter, I naturally agree with you." Gu Qingzhou said, "Awu, you have to remember that you did not set fire."
"Why are you so sure?" A little nervous flashed in Ye Wu's eyes.
She wants trust.
However, when trust was really placed in front of her, she became timid again.
Gu Qingzhou said: "I told you that I know a very outstanding Western doctor."
"Dr. Ainold, you said it."
"Yes, it's Dr. Ainold. He preached in China for many years and has a prominent position in the American church. He knows a lot.
He is now in the burn department, and some patients are abused, so we have talked about this. He once told me that people who have been abused for a long time will suffer from masochism from the bottom of their hearts.
That is to say, you are used to being abused, and this habit is terrible, and it will make you subconsciously have no intention of resisting.
Just like the weather has sunshine and cloudy weather, no matter it rains or sunny, we will not think about why this is, or even change it.
In your family, if you are most abused, it means that you are the one you are most accustomed to, and there is no anger or resistance in your subconscious mind.
On the contrary, those who have never been abused, or who have pityed you and sympathized with you, are full of anger. So, I trust you very much, and you will never burn your mother to death." Gu Qingzhou said.
When Ye Wu heard this, she looked at Gu Qingzhou in a daze.
She really never thought of resisting.
Yes, why did she never want to resist and just want to bear it?
"Teacher, it can't be me, right?" Ye Wu asked crying.
Gu Qingzhou nodded: "It's not you. Awu, my trust in you may be a means to solve your problems, but it is not false. I trust you."
Ye Wu touched the corner of her eyes and said, "Teacher, is your words true?"
"I will take you back to visit a Western doctor in the psychology department and ask him to explain to you, how about it?" Gu Qingzhou asked, "It just so happens that I will take Erbao there too."
"Do you take Erbao to see the psychology department?" Ye Wu's attention was diverted.
Ye Wu likes Erbao very much because Erbao smiles silly and is pitiful.
Erbao is blind, so why does he have to look at the psychology department? Ye Wu doesn’t know much about this.
Gu Qingzhou said: "Yes, I want to take Erbao to see the psychology department. I have diagnosed myself with Western ophthalmology. Erbao's eyes have probably recovered. But he still can't see it. This problem is very complicated. I want to try everything."
Ye Wu said, "Seibao is so pitiful to the teacher. When will you take the second treasure?"
Gu Qingzhou said: "It's OK tomorrow."
Ye Wu thought about it and felt a little hesitant.
Gu Qingzhou said: "It's okay, the adjutant will take you there. On the way, someone will carry you into the car. If you carry you out of the car, you can leave by yourself."
Ye Wu nodded: "Okay, let's go together tomorrow."
That day, Gu Qingzhou took her to see a Western doctor.
Gu Qingzhou asked a lot of questions, mainly the eyes of Erbao.
Finally, the relationship between abuse and abuse is mentioned inadvertently.
This Western doctor started talking big about this.
"There is no systematic research or academic argument for the relationship between abusers and abusers, but my teacher is very knowledgeable about it.
My teacher said that people can be domesticated.
A person's mentality of suffering and fear is very fragile. Once it is compromised, she will feel dependent on the perpetrator.
Children who are abused will have fear or fear of their parents who abuse themselves. Over time, they will develop sympathy and dependence, and in the end they will even help the perpetrator in turn.
This kind of relationship is very unlikely to allow the abused person to resist on his own. Once it exceeds a certain period of time, the abused person will be psychologically domesticated."
Gu Qingzhou asked: "How long will it take?"
"Three months to half a year are enough to tame a person." said Western medicine.
Gu Qingzhou praised him for his insightfulness.
This Western doctor is quite young. Seeing Gu Qingzhou being a beautiful girl, he blushed a little.
Ye Wu's expression is very complicated.
In the complexity, she also felt a complete relaxation.
This time, she believed in Gu Qingzhou's trust, and she also believed in herself.
She is not the murderer.
Perhaps, she didn't need Gu Qingzhou to help her find out anything. What she needed was just this kind of spiritual affirmation and liberation.
Gu Qingzhou helped her.
Chapter completed!