1142. From ah (3)
The preference for boys over girls is very common in rural areas and even more common in fishing areas. Many families take it as a tradition of taking it for granted.
There is no doubt that this is very unfair to women, but for fishermen, there is a reason for the formation of this tradition.
First of all, the old tradition can be used to inherit the blood of the offspring. The child born to a daughter after she gets married will be given the surname of the other person. This is very fearful for fishermen who are floating on the sea all year round. If fishermen are floating, they may be buried in the fish's belly when they encounter a storm. Only blood inheritance can be reliable.
Secondly, fishermen live by rowing at sea to fish. In the past, fishing was a labor force. If a woman couldn't do this job, she had to rely on men to support her family. Therefore, there were more men in the family and more labor, so she could live a better life.
Also, the fishermen have a bad temper and have to fight when they encounter trouble. If there are more men in their family, they will be hard and speak hard. If there are no men at home, they will not dare to quarrel with others outside. Some people are even very hateful and specialize in bullying the families of those male young men.
Take Longtou Village and Wangjia Village as an example. The two villages have fought from time to time in history, and they all rely on men to solve the problem. In the past few years, Wangjia Village could suppress Longtou Village and rely on Wang Youwei. Now, Longtou Village can sweep the surrounding area depends on Ao Muyang. Whether Wang Youwei or Ao Muyang, they are both men.
As for other old ideas such as raising children to prevent old age, this has dissipated a lot now. The main reason is that there are more and more unfilial children in the fishing family, and the girls' families are more filial. If you want to raise children to prevent old age, it is best to raise a daughter.
Ao Muyang called several village cadres and then went to the village committee office to wait for the meeting.
When Ao Muqing and his daughter came late, they had to take care of their two dolls at home and fell asleep before going out.
While the mother and daughter were not coming, Ao Muyang asked first: "Dongzi, Wenchang, you two like boys and girls? You just want boys and girls in the future?"
Ao Wenchang was a little dissatisfied and said, "Longtou, why don't you pick up any pot? My wife can't have children. This is a pain in my heart."
Ao Mudong also twitched: "Longtou, I have never met Zhu'er before. Is it a bit anxious to discuss the child's problem too early?"
Ao Muyang rolled his eyes and asked how many people from Ao Daguo: "What about you? Do you like your son or daughter?"
Several people didn't know what he asked about these, but they knew that Ao Muyang was good at playing tricks, so they exchanged eyes with each other and said, "It's the same for a boy or a girl! I listen to the party in this regard."
"Actually, as long as it was born by my wife and sure it was mine, I would love it if my son and daughter there, and I would rather have it." Ao Mufeng said at the end.
After hearing what he said, Ao Mudong and the younger generation nodded with deep emotion.
Ao Muyang patted the table and said, "It's very good. It seems that our village has a very positive concept of treating future generations."
"You rely on the leader to teach you well." Ao Wenchang praised him.
Ao Muyang said: "No need to say anything about flattering me. Xiaoqing, the girl from Aunt Gezi, went to find me this morning. She had just given birth to two daughters, and then her man's family despised her because of this. She didn't even have any confinement period, and it was in the middle of winter. Xiaoqing ran back with her two children. How do you tell me how to solve this problem?"
As soon as his words fell, the conference room immediately exploded.
"I'm a horse, this family has such a grandson? I don't have a wife yet. They are not satisfied with their granddaughter? This is a problem, and it's a habit that I'm a habit, and I can cure this problem, which is typical of a beating!" Ao Mudong was very angry.
Ao Wenchang was also very angry: "Why are two daughters bad? I dreamed of having a daughter, and I didn't need two, just one! This time I support Dongzi and beat them up!"
Ao Daguo persuaded: "Everyone is more rational, more rational, and it is not the first time we have seen each other, right?"
"You are still rational, a great country, you have to know that the days when you hold your grandchildren or granddaughter are far away. Now the children don't want children, so you may not be sure that your son won't hold you grandchildren in the future. If you take this, you should consider this matter again!"
Ao Daguo wiped his mouth and said, "That's right, their family deserves a beating. If there are no men in our Longtou Village, do you? If the girl married in our village is just pouring water, right? If the grass, beat them up and let them go!"
The opinions were surprisingly unified, and everyone unanimously asked to hit people.
Ao Muyang regretted not being able to find Lu Zhizi. These people were not as reliable as their own daughter-in-law when they were together. They were all a group of birds, and they couldn't help him at all, and they would only cause trouble.
But this was a great comfort for Ao Muqing and his daughter. When the mother and daughter arrived, they saw that the backbone men in the village were so united, they were so moved that they burst into tears.
Ao Muyang asked Ao Muqing's mother, "Aunt Gezi, you know more about Xiaoqing than us. Have you ever been to her house?"
Aunt Gezi is a woman in her fifties. She is not as stingy as Sandeng’s wife. She is just an ordinary fisherman’s wife.
After hearing Ao Muyang's inquiry, she rubbed her hands restrainedly and said, "Oh, I've gone, I must have gone. I did the confinement period I served Qingqing a few days ago. Her man refused to take care of her family. Oh, it's such a sin."
Ao Mudong said irritably: "Aunt Gezi, you said you wouldn't tell us earlier when you encounter such a thing? Can the girls married in our village make them so miserable?"
Aunt Gezi lowered her head and said, "What do you think about this? My daughter gave birth to two girls, which is indeed a shame for her man's family."
Ao Muyang was speechless for a moment. The concept of this older generation of people who prefer boys over girls is really unchangeable.
Ao Wenchang couldn't help but say, "Aunt Gezi, do you think so? Are you Xiaoqing's dear mother?"
When everyone blamed her, the woman burst into tears with grievance: "Young and young men, what can I do if I don't have men when I encounter this? I went to their house. I can only say some nice soft words and do more work, otherwise what can I do? I feel sorry for my daughter, but I can get angry, but when I get angry, I have nothing to say when I go home. Isn't it my daughter who is wronged afterwards?"
Ao Muqing hugged my mother's shoulder and shed tears.
After hearing Aunt Gezi's words, no one could blame her anymore. This really came to the point.
Including them, they can go to beat people and show off their power, but as long as Ao Muqing does not divorce her husband, then after this happens, Ao Muqing will suffer and suffer.
Ao Mudong pinched the bones of his nose and muttered, "Oh, this matter is not easy to deal with. Xiaoqing, you are willing to live with your man? Otherwise, divorce is a matter of all! You can find a dog with three eggs, let alone a man with two eggs?"
Aunt Gezi was stunned: "Ah? Is it a divorce now? It's not a month since I gave birth to a baby, so I'm divorce now?"
Ao Muyang thought for a while and said, "Well, Xiaoqing, call me your man, I'll meet their family."
Chapter completed!