Fengshan originally thought Feng Shu was joking, but what surprised him was that with bare hands and fists, she didn't take long to really hit him with the fruit core, and just like she reminded him, he couldn't make a sound when he opened his mouth.

"Now the world is finally quiet, it's not easy. If they talk nonsense in the future, they will just shut up."

Feng Xiaoqi saw that the three big men could not speak out and laughed.

Feng Shu opened his personal terminal and contacted Feng Yunlai. He quickly connected.

"Sister, sister, we're about to arrive..."

He realized that there were a lot of people around Feng Shu, and immediately changed his words, "Hello, brother-in-law."

However, Junlin did not answer him, but just nodded.

"Xiao Chongshu...uncle?"

Feng Yun called people from all major families according to Feng Shengzhe's seniority. After the Junlin and his wife disappeared, when people from other aristocratic families came to Jun's house, Junting would personally introduce him and Feng Shengzhe. Therefore, although his sister was not there and his brother-in-law was not there, he was also a member of the Jun family, and people from other aristocratic families dared not underestimate him.

Because the Xiao family and the Jun family were close to each other, and the personnel exchanged frequently, even if it was him, he had been to the Xiao family several times, so he was quite familiar with the personnel composition of the Xiao family just like the personnel composition of the Jun family and Ji family.

Xiao Chongshu looked at him, then looked at Feng Shu, and blinked.

Feng Xiaoqi asked for him, "Feng Yun, why do you call him uncle? He is the same as Junlin, and you are also the same as Junlin."

Feng Yun didn't know her, but he still told the reason politely.

Feng Xiaoqi said disgusted, "Why is it like the great-grandfather and the others? Sometimes, they call others in the tone of their children. They are obviously of high generation but call them uncles and uncles with low generation. It's so terrifying."

Feng Shu was very funny.

"Sister Seven, Fengshan, Brother Chongshu, this is my younger brother, Feng Yun."

Feng Yun respectfully shouted again according to her call, "Sister Qi, Brother Fengshan, Brother Chongshu."

Fengshan also nodded with a smile, but Xiao Chongshu was frowning, as if he was still worried about the uncle he had said before.

"Where are you now?"

"We happened to meet Marshal Peng, so we took his starship again. Now we are almost at the Pole Star. He said he was going to go to the Pole Star, but later Grandpa Jun said that it was almost done here, so he changed the route to our Pole Star halfway."

Feng Shu was stunned for a moment before he realized that Marshal Peng was referring to Marshal Peng Tianli, who started his career with battle.

"We are still on the way and will probably get home with you. If you get home first, you will have a rest first."

"Okay. Shengzhe is in the training room, I'll go find him now."

"No. Since you know you are coming soon, you must behave properly and don't cause trouble for Marshal Tianli."

"Yes, we promise to be honest and never slander the Jun family."

Everyone couldn't help laughing.

Feng Shu gave a few more words to not cause fatigue due to excessive training, so he hung up the communication.

"This kid looks very well-behaved."

Feng Xiaoqi is quite pertinent.

"He has been a very obedient child since he was a child. I have not been here for many years, and Junlin has not been here. Although grandpa and others have completely treated him as a child of their family, people outside may not think so, and probably have experienced some unhappiness.

Shengzhe was also sensitive and thoughtful, and his temper was even more awkward. He needed more guidance from his uncle. Perhaps he himself thought that his sister and brother-in-law were not there, so the burden of taking care of his nephew should be borne by him, the uncle.

Sister Qi, you don’t know, Feng Yun was really very boyish since he was a child. After his parents passed away, for a while, he was actually the backbone of the family. If he was not so kind and sensible, he might not have been today.”

Feng Shu remembered the situation when she first met Feng Yun, and the corner of her mouth couldn't help but rise.

He is really a very brave and caring child. Even if he is afraid, he will not retreat.

"It's not okay to be too obedient. Children should look like children. The great-grandfather and others always say that children in the family cannot be too docile, otherwise they will be easily bullied. They would rather have a rebellious personality and dare to argue with their elders for the sake of the truth, and even quarrel and fight for the truth, than to obey their elders' authority to the end out of so-called filial piety."

Feng Xiaoqi doesn't want her child to become a vocal worm. Everything is good and everything is right.

"A child is obedient and well-behaved since childhood, but it does not necessarily mean that he absolutely obeys the authority of his elders, right? Some children are gentle by nature, like quietness, and are better at looking at personnel and handling issues in a low-key and peaceful manner.

Although many children like to play, and some of them are particularly naughty, they cannot be generalized. They think that those obedient and well-behaved children do not like to play. The things that children may like to play are relatively hidden or quiet, and the game itself is not prone to problems, so playing games will less cause uneasiness, so elders will naturally feel more at ease.

From this perspective, we cannot think that children are deliberately wronging themselves to cater to their elders and suppressing their true voices and needs because of this.”

Feng Shu's disagreement aroused the interest of Fengshan and others, and they were obviously happy to see them continue to discuss.

Feng Xiaoqi did not disappoint everyone's expectations, "Of course things cannot be generalized, but if you observe carefully, you will know that most children have their own little tempers. What is a child? People who are immature in physiology and psychology have not yet reached the basic mature average age group. Because their physical and mental immature are immature, they will have various needs.

If the needs are met in all aspects, they will have a comprehensive storm growth. If the needs in a certain aspect are not met, even if the body grows up and becomes an adult, their mentality will still have big or small problems due to childhood defects.

If it cannot be resolved in time, all kinds of bad emotions or consequences caused by this cause will eventually reach the critical point over time and then explode. Perhaps it is just a silent collapse of the individual, and may be vented, and even the people around you will be affected and swallowed together.

Rebellious children show more of their nature, or their instincts. Because they have always been the role of children in childhood, they will slowly transition to the adult stage as they grow up. Because their needs as human beings have been met when they are still children, even if there are some shortcomings, they will not have obvious negative effects on the body and mind. Adults are real adults.

Obedient children are different.

Whether it is because of being gentle or born quiet, children should always be children at any time and place.

Because of their immaturity, they will make all kinds of little tempers, make all kinds of fire for no reason, and will suddenly cry anywhere and burst into laughter in the blink of an eye. They will ask many strange questions and ask countless incomprehensible requirements.

But the so-called obedient good and good kids often look at the eyes of their elders, try to suppress their temper in order to cater to their elders' preferences and take care of their elders' emotions and positions, and try to control their anger. They dare not cry easily, dare not laugh at them, dare not ask strange questions, and dare not make any requests.

Because I have been accustomed to observing other people's emotions, scrutinizing other people's needs, and catering to other people's preferences, I gradually don't know how to express my true emotions or my true needs.

Even if the people around you are really good for you, they always have to work, get married after they become adults, and always go out to deal with all kinds of people. Without those elders who are truly good for you and obedient and good kids, they will easily be bullied by those children who have grown up naughty since childhood.

Why? Because this is how human nature is, bullying good and fearing evil.

Regardless of strength, no matter whether you are good or bad, no matter whether you are good or bad, no matter whether you are beautiful or ugly, no matter whether you are rich or poor, everyone, I mean that everyone has their own selfishness and interests. Everyone is likely to be obsessed with profit. The difference is the degree of the degree, and the impact on the people around you, whether it is positive or negative, acceptable or unbearable.

Obedient children are often difficult to bear.

Because they have been used to giving the good to others and leaving the bad to themselves since childhood. They have been used to greeting others with a smile even if they are in a bad mood. They have been used to being generous and self-sacrificing to make others happy since childhood. They have been used to meeting the needs of anyone around them since childhood and ignoring their inner voices.

If you don’t cry easily, you will swallow blood. Whether it’s your own mistake or not, you will take it all your strength.

Why? Because as long as others are satisfied, happy, and happy, they may give recognition and praise, and then the obedient children will be satisfied and happy, and feel that this is happiness."

Feng Shu didn't expect Feng Xiaoqi to keep talking, "Sister Qi, you probably don't feel it because of your feelings, right? You don't look like someone who always feels wronged in order to cater to your elders."

"Of course it's not personal experience, but observation. If Feng Yun is really obedient and well-behaved since childhood, there may be some repressive elements. You'd better identify it carefully and make plans in the future."

Feng Shu nodded.

Junlin patted her shoulder, which was a silent comfort.

She knows what he means.

The only person sitting here was the kind of child who needed to be careful to observe everyone's words and expressions when she was a child.

Yes, she can say that she was an obedient child at a very young age. She didn't know whether she was a good child or a good child. This was evaluated by others, but she was indeed an obedient child.

How obedient are you?

When she first started practicing martial arts, she would cry because of her wounds and make some progress. Later, she would not cry much, and she forgot how to laugh. Even if she was blue and purple, she would insist on daily classes. Even if the rain poured in the sun, even if the spring was cold and snowy, she would appear in the martial arts practice field on time.

On 365 days a year, as long as she is not sick, she will always be able to dance with a stick, she will always read books and practice calligraphy, she will always subconsciously lower her eyes when she sees people, unable to look directly at her elders, and even unable to make friends with her sisters.

She always hopes to be recognized by her parents and appreciated by her grandfather, but no, never once. She always expects to be able to hug her mother like her sisters and be hugged by her father, but no, never once.

Looking back now, no matter what she did or didn’t do, most of the people in the Feng family were as indifferent as their grandfather. The father was often silent, sighed, or simply avoided talking. And whenever the mother mentioned her or saw her, she would always curse hysterically, and her eyes would usually be filled with hatred.

She has never been recognized or appreciated. Her original nature of crying and laughing was probably wiped out because of her family life in those years.

Yes, it's not just suppression, it's been erased.

She learned how to cry and laugh after she followed her master to leave the Feng family again. Even if the master was a monk, he would show intimacy with her like a senior brother. He would hug her very occasionally, and more often, touch her head, like comforting a poor puppy who was abandoned.

However, even though she still felt that she was expelled from the family, the older she was, the more she knew that things could be viewed from another perspective.

For example, his father still felt sorry for her. If not, he would not kneel down and beg his grandfather to let her practice martial arts. And his grandfather would have done his best to her as an elder. If not, he would not have taken the blame for the world and let her inherit the essence of the Feng family's martial arts as a woman.

She was too young and wanted to be recognized and praised by her elders in person, so she worked tirelessly and never slacked off, her body and mind were tense, and she had no time to care about her, and she never really learned to listen and communicate.

What's more, in that time and space, in that era, there was no male member of the Feng family inheriting the family business, and the real crisis was facing the crisis of extinction of successors or even extinction of family members. If it were the social environment of the current cosmic era, she believed that her grandfather and the others would be very open-minded and willing to train the girls in the family, whoever can do it, and those who can work harder.

Unfortunately, in the past, women had virtue without talent. Even men lived uneasy. It was just that women were more difficult. In human history, women lived much more difficult than men, but this cannot deny that men lived a relaxed and happy life at the same time. They also had to face many difficulties, even desperate situations.

However, it cannot be ignored that in most cases, the difficulties, even desperate situations that women need to face are often day after day, year after year, and many women only walk from one cage to another cage throughout their lives. What builds the cage is the woman himself, a man, and even a social culture.

Even if men control most of the power and wealth in society, they still find it difficult to escape the cage of time.

Whether it is a rebellious child or an obedient child, it is life after all. Life is a great joy. Ironically, at the same time, life is also a silent sorrow and a full of desolation.
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