Junlin did not expect that the time and space of her life would be so different in the time and time, and he could not help but reach out and touch her cheek to express comfort.

"Is life very hard before?"

Feng Shu was actually sympathized with by him, and she couldn't laugh or cry.

"I have had a place to eat, drink and live since I was a child. I can also read and practice calligraphy, and have dedicated people to teach martial arts to strengthen my body.

It would not be like those children born in poor families who do not eat or cover their stomachs and have no way to seek medical treatment when they are sick. Many children died because of this and were directly thrown into mass graves. The ones who were born in poor families came, but when they died, they could not even expect a thin coffin.”

"However, the Feng family did not really treat you well."

"I can compare with the best. When I was a child, I didn't know, but now I understand that I used to be in a blessing but I didn't know how to be blessed.

Although I have been hungry and even bullied because of my personal maid, I have indeed been protected by my family, and there is no doubt that this is true. You don’t know how despised a girl’s life was at that time. If she hadn’t been born in the Feng family, the girl would have been abandoned at birth, or even killed by her family members.”

Junlin frowned, "This kind of thing is very common?"

"It is very common in families that cannot afford to raise children. The son is used to pass on the family line and inherit the family's wealth and power, but the daughter is a money-losing product. After raising her, she has to marry her with a dowry.

At that time, after getting married, my daughter often spent her whole life at her husband's house and would never see her parents' brothers and sisters again, unless she was married relatively close. In short, having a son is profitable, and having a daughter is compensation.

A family with financial conditions can naturally have a daughter and can raise it. By marrying a daughter, they can get married and get to know families that are helpful to the family.

However, families with poor financial conditions must be careful in everything, and it is not easy to allow their families to have enough food. Limited resources, such as money and manpower, naturally need to be used on the edge of the knife and dare not waste them easily.

The waste here refers to raising a daughter. The consequence of dispersing resources is that it is impossible to raise a son wholeheartedly and support his son, which is harmful but not beneficial to the family's growth.

As I said just now, women have almost no possibility of making a living, but men can gain fame and fortune by studying, practicing calligraphy and martial arts to join the army, make a name for themselves, and give back to their families. For many poor families, whether to choose a son or a daughter is a very realistic choice, and there is almost no choice."

When the granaries are full, etiquette is known. When the most basic living conditions are not met, childbirth should not be the primary consideration for men and women in diet.

However, various factors have to continue marriage and childbirth, otherwise men and women will not be able to gain a foothold in traditional society. At this time, whether to give birth or not is not a problem, but whether to give birth to a boy or a girl is a big problem.

Everything is just to survive.

“When you first came here, were you confused?

A completely different world. Adult men and women have to survive for their own lives.

Regardless of gender, both men and women, there are federal funds as the pillars from birth to ensure the minimum food and clothing until adulthood. Regardless of gender, both men and women can enter school normally and get the minimum knowledge popularization.

Even if there is no family protection or parenting, as long as it is a child born within the federal limit? If nothing unexpected happens, you can rely on the federal government to live normally to adulthood. You can gain the ability to make a living. After graduating from school, you can choose to enter the military department? You can also do business by yourself? Or do something else? to survive."

Feng Shu nodded.

"Yes. When I come back to my senses and try to understand it, I am indeed surprised. It is very different from where I used to live. Can children living in this era be protected to the maximum extent? They do not need to face the survival crisis until they become adults.

But I also understand why the Federation did this. Zergs are always a major concern for humans. Their fertility is too amazing. If humans do not protect every child of their own? Let children become adults under protection, sooner or later, human living areas will be eroded by Zergs."

"Do you miss home?"

"So suddenly?"

Fengshu didn't understand why he suddenly asked this.

"No matter how chaotic that world is? No matter how unequal men and women are, they are still your hometown? Isn't it?"

Junlin suddenly felt a little frustrated for some reason.

No matter how good the interstellar era is, it is not her hometown. From her description, we can see that she is still like the people of her original time and space? She has a strong idea of ​​being unable to leave her hometown, just like her fourth sister Feng Wan? Until she dies, she hopes that she can return to her roots and return to her hometown.

"The golden nest and silver nest are not as good as the doghouse of my own, of course I will think about it. No matter how bad it is, it is my house. Moreover, now I finally understand that my family treats me well. I have always had some luck, and there are always people around me who truly love me and support me."

Seeing that he showed a hint of depression, Feng Shu smiled slightly.

"what's on your mind?"

"I will never go to the place where you live, and I can't be there, observe and experience it. This is really frustrating.

Given the great differences, even if you describe your hometown and history to me every day, I still find it difficult to understand thoroughly. Just like just now, if you didn’t start from scratch and give me a general impression, I might be confused by what you mentioned about women and I can’t really understand why women at that time were so persistent in having a son.

You have suffered.”

Junlin hugged her to show comfort.

Because her younger brother was not born normally, she suffered so many years of unrestrained disasters. Even though the family gave her shelter, she could not receive the same care and care as her sisters. Although she said she was lucky, it was compared with poor children. Compared with her sisters, her life in the Feng family was really unsatisfactory.

Feng Shu was really amused and crying.

"Hey, don't sympathize with me forever. If I were so miserable, I would have been unable to survive. Do you think you could see me here?"

"Well, I know. Your good luck is all used by me. It is precisely because of all the unhappiness in the past that God has given you my wishful husband."

“Where did you learn the words?”

Feng Shu pushed the person away in anger.

"In the book?"

Junlin wasn't sure how he knew this statement.

"The good ones don't learn bad ones."

“Is this bad?”

"Oh, this is for jokes. Cheating usually means taking this idea as if it really exists."

Junlin admitted directly, "Don't you think I'm suitable for you?"

"Yes, no one is more suitable for me than you."

Feng Shu rolled her eyes.

Junlin also knew that she didn't want to talk about this topic anymore, so he asked her if she wanted to go to Arios and see how he dealt with it.

"Don't go. So what if you ask? Let your brother-in-law deal with it, that's it. Don't interfere."

"I didn't want to interfere. I wanted to kill him before, but you said so. If I don't work hard to learn how to be a gentleman, I will definitely be even more disliked by you, right?"

"It seems like I'm despising you now."

"So you didn't dislike me at all?"

Seeing that his tail was about to shake again, Feng Shu quickly dodged away again, two meters away from him.

"You like to be disliked so much? Even if you are really disliked, it is someone else's business. What is it related to you? Always keep your mind floating with other people's opinions. Are you tired?"

Feng Shu thought he was too good at doing things.

"Are you someone else?"

Junlin narrowed his eyes slightly, as if as long as she dared to nod and said yes, he would make her look good. Feng Shu kept silent consciously and pretended that she hadn't heard it.

"Or, am I someone else to you?"

He insisted on asking why, and Feng Shu felt helpless.

"No matter how loving the couple is, they need to have their own personal space. It is impossible to be like one person, with unconditional consistency in everything, consistent ideas, and consistent actions. One person is the shadow of another person, following each other, and even one person becomes a puppet of another person, without any self.

If you have to go to the bottom of the matter, yes, I think seeking common ground while reserving differences is the best way to get along with each other.

We are husband and wife, but I am also one of others to you, and you are also one of others to me. This kind of boundary is something I am happy to see and willing to always maintain and abide by.

One day we are so happy that we are infinitely close to being the same person. Even if we are separated, we have the same ideas and the same behavior patterns. This means that we are old and we can no longer show our new side and explore each other's new side. That is a pity."

Junlin thought for a long time before he hated that she was quibbling.

"I don't know how to refute your statement, but I don't treat myself as an outsider, and I also treat myself as an outsider. This is very clear."

"What we are discussing is actually two concepts? Otherwise, why would you be upset? Forget it, if you are unhappy, you will not be happy. Anyway, you cannot smile all day long. If you become like that, you will be Brother Chongshu."

Feng Shu thought that in the past, Junlin always had a stinking face in front of her, as if she owed him thousands of dollars. Now, speaking so easily and freely is a good sign.

"You don't like my smile? You used to say that I look good when I smile."

"When did I say that?"

"You said it and made me smile more."

"I haven't said it."

"You said it."

"When and where are there anyone testified?"

"When we were together in private, I don't remember the exact day. The location, on the bed."

"roll!"

Seeing him smiling, Feng Shu turned around and left.

“Where to go?”

"Let's find my brother-in-law."

"Didn't you say you won't go?"

"I don't have to ask the Fu brothers and sisters when I go."

"But if you go, your brother-in-law will not not give us an explanation."

"Wouldn't you have any explanation if you don't go?"

"Why do you always ask questions? You can't confirm my answer and cooperate?"
To be continued...