Mengmeng didn't feel refreshed because of this tall hat.

"It's my own business. It's not my willingness to make a contract. It's not that I chose you on my own initiative. What do you feel proud of? It's at most that you can make a contract with me, and it has nothing to do with your self-confidence."

Feng Shu was so amused and crying. Is it just so willing to be her lucky?

Not wanting to really anger it, Feng Shu kindly did not remind him of the loopholes in his words.

"Mengmeng, I really don't have a complex of inferiority complex. Do you want me to be inferior? If I were really an inferior person, how could you endure it for so long? Thinking about it with logic, you will know that it is impossible, so it just means that I really don't have the inferiority complex that you don't like."

"What does it have to do with me whether you are inferior or not? Don't use me to elevate yourself."

"I am not raising myself, but analyzing the problem you want to know."

Feng Shu blinked, "Although the Feng family is a family of military generals, it is not as powerful as the civil servants, but it has a long history and has emerged in many generations. Therefore, even if the dynasties change, our family can stand tall in the wind and rain.

Given that the family's background is still quite profound, the patriarchs of all generations have led the way and devoted themselves to the peace and defense of the country until they die. Under such subtle influence, the Feng family has never had a child with obvious inferiority.

Because the family has achieved great military achievements and its achievements are enough to go down in history. If you were born in such a proud and upright family, you would still feel inferior. To be honest, I really don’t know what kind of family you need to cultivate proud and confident children.”

"Don't talk to me about the Feng family in the past. I can tell you the Feng family now, and there have been children with extremely inferiority complexes.

The Feng family is excellent now, right? People have emerged in the past dynasties and have stood firm for tens of thousands of years in the storms. Of course, there are only a few more than ten thousand years of history. But no matter how you look at it, it is much stronger than the Feng family you used to be. But even such a powerful family will have children with inferiority."

Feng Shu was helpless, "Even if this is the case, it doesn't mean I will definitely feel inferior."

Mengmeng replied quickly, "The family's profound background and upright style cannot mean that you must not be inferior."

"Yes, it's not necessarily. I don't plan to convince you."

"It's obviously because of your inferiority complex that you can't convince me at all."

Feng Shu finally couldn't help rolling his eyes.

"Mengmeng, why do you have to put your reputation for inferiority on me? What did I do to make you feel that I was too inferior to you that you can't even see it?"

"all."

Mengmeng hummed, "The most obvious thing is how you deal with your relationship. You are too indecisive. If you want it, you should, and if you don't, you should go down. If you are really confident enough, you will know that no matter how you do it, you will have a way to achieve the results you want.

But you are too inferior, so you will still make so-called careful considerations due to relationships between all parties, fear that your children will not have a fig leaf if they don’t get married, fear that they will not be able to stand the divorce too early, and fear that they will go crazy if they insist on divorce. To be honest, what are you thinking about them?

Is it not you who should take care of the most and protect the most? The person you should feel most and beloved is you Fengshu, not your son and man.

They have their own ideas and things they want to do, and not all their words and deeds are related to you, and it can even be said that most of them are actually not related to you. Why, because their lives are theirs, and yours are yours.

If you like King's Landing and really want to live with King's Landing, then your life can overlap a long way, but it is obviously not the case now. Since you don't like him, why should you give priority to him and your children?

The first thing you need to consider is how to achieve your wish at a comfortable pace. What you have to do is do what you want to do, what you can grow up, what makes you happy and happy, rather than worrying about whether others will be angry, hurt, disappointed, painful, and resentful after your reactions, etc..”

Mengmeng's words made Feng Shu stunned.

Mengmeng, who was serious at this moment, really looked like an old and sophisticated elder. Even though she did not agree with everything, she still thought that what it said was very reasonable.

"People who pay too much attention to others' needs often subconsciously ignore themselves. This is especially true for those who live for others."

Mengmeng shook her head. It could actually understand why she developed this way.

Although she had food, drink and a place to live, she was indeed treated like an invisible person by the entire family when she was young. What can a child know?

She was confused and actually didn't know anything at that time. As a child, she was born to be curious about the surrounding environment, wanted to explore the outside world, and would explore with infinite enthusiasm to establish various relationships with the people around her.

But it is obvious that the Feng family's initial approach was so bad that even if there was any improvement later, it would be useless. They had missed the best time. She was used to being alone, and she was used to being isolated and ignored for a long time.

Therefore, when the people around her pay a little attention again, she could not feel at ease and put forward various instinctive needs to the people around her as confidently as other children. In other words, she rarely realizes that she can also have a place in front of others, can properly put forward her own opinions and requirements, and can do whatever she wants to do without any concerns whether others are happy or not.

She has been silently observing the flow of personnel and affairs in the outside world. She just quietly acted as a bystander without saying a word, just like she was just a tree or a stone with no life at all, floating as small and weak as dust in the air, unknown to everyone.

But she is a person, and she has a beating heart. She will be happy, know how to laugh, be unhappy, and know how to cry. She has always been the sight of bystanders, so that she can often quickly enter other people's thinking, understand what they are bothering, happy, dancing for whom, and furious about what they are doing.

When the Feng family began to strengthen communication with her, her reaction was to silently obey and act politely as a child who was living under someone else's roof. The sweat that should be shed must flow twice as much as possible, the punishment that should be shed must be doubled, and the homework that should be shed must be twice as much as possible. After gradually knowing, no more drops of tears fell.

It’s not that she can’t cry. She just forgot how to cry.

"Always give priority to others, rather than being kind, is inferior. Always make yourself surrender to others, always make others superior in front of you, even if you are not worse than others, even if others are not stronger than you, your style of conduct is basically like this. You are really too weak.

Although it can win the reputation of kindness and make many people praise you, Fengshu, some people will also dislike you like this. People who truly love you will definitely hate you when they see you ignore yourself and feel that they are so angry that they will not be able to become steel.

It’s better to be a naughty person who is arrogant. What if most people hate you? Those who like you are like you, and those who are willing to protect you are willing to protect you. Even if people in the whole universe think you are hateful, even if you are really a murderer, you will never be able to become a Buddha immediately, but at least, you can still love yourself.

You don’t need to work hard to get along well with people in the universe, nor do you need to be afraid that people in the universe will hate you. This is unrealistic.”

Feng Shu was about to doubt that he was auditory hallucinating.

"Why is it so good to talk about it today?"

"I feel frustrated because I see you not taking it seriously. It's even more trouble when I think that we may be in trouble because of your personality."

Mengmeng actually shook her whole body seriously.

Fengshu was amused by it.

"Okay, at most I'm soft-hearted, but I can't say it's inferiority complex, right?

I am not as kind and generous as you said. I am a little bit out of a lust, but I am not very brave.

I have no ambition because everyone around me is like this. Although I don’t look down on glory and wealth, I do not seek it. What I value the most is actually some basic principles of dealing with people, such as the simplest one: Being a person must be conscience. Whether it is my ancestors and parents or my masters and senior brothers, they are all people who pay attention to conscience, and they always keep their promises when doing things and never make promises lightly.

As for doing good deeds, we always pay attention to the best of our ability, rather than being ready to sacrifice our lives for others at any time. No, there is no such thing.

The Feng family is more habitual in fighting for the safety of the country. Even if they are still wrapped in horses and bodies, they will move forward. However, the elderly, weak, women and children are guarded by the family at the end. The family will never allow us to participate in this cause of devoting our lives to the country and the country to the limit.

Not to mention the master, he always smiled and said that as long as I could survive, he would care about others' death. It's not that he didn't do good deeds, but he never liked his disciples who suffered a lot of grievances or even lost their lives because of doing good deeds.

So you see, most of the education I have received is actually teaching me how to protect myself and how to treat myself well. For others, the elders only hope that I can help with others as appropriate as possible under the actual conditions when I have spare time. Help others with pleasure. If I have to bet on my own wealth and life, this is too heavy and I cannot be happy at all.

I'm not stupid."

"They taught, but I think you didn't learn it well at all, at least you didn't learn the essence."

Mengmeng strongly refuted, "For example, it is normal for you to take Xiao Chongshu and others out in that ghost place, but taking the entire team away together is completely beyond your ability. Especially, this kind of help is still free. You are asking for trouble.

If you don’t talk about this, then we can talk about you and Junlin. Now you have three children and you are still in good cooperation when exercising. The degree of fit is so high, why are you still struggling with when to get divorced?

The idea of ​​divorce can be had, but you should not think of too detailed aspects. I have never seen many couples who have never had the idea of ​​divorce from their spouses in their lives. It is very normal to have such an idea. It is not that this is necessarily inappropriate and bad, nor even that it is impossible to divorce after getting married. Of course, it is too early to divorce if you really can't live.

The question is, can you two survive? No, although you have been married for a certain number of years, you have actually lived together for a short time, so it is not an exaggeration to say that you are still in the honeymoon period of your newlyweds.

You said you don’t want this person, but you do live with the other person and don’t want to hurt him at all. This is a very irresponsible approach. You are a typical person who is cheap and acts good-for-bear. Why do you need to use his body if you don’t want him? Why don’t you divorce now? You don’t want him anymore. Why are you still afraid that he will suffer from the pain of divorce from him? What are you afraid of?"

Mengmeng scolded her for being so bloody.

"Am I that bad?"

Feng Shu couldn't help but want to argue for himself.

“Isn’t there no way I can do this?

Moreover, we got married from the beginning for Feng Shengzhe. Although he is now an adult, he still needs us psychologically. As parents, we have not been by his side to watch him grow up, which is a very serious dereliction of duty. Given this situation, I don’t want to divorce Junlin immediately. I have to develop some feelings with Feng Shengzhe before talking about it.

No matter what the reason is, Junlin doesn’t want to divorce me anyway, so he will maintain his marriage. This is not a difficult conclusion.”

"You are avoiding the important things."

Mengmeng hummed, "You are obviously unwilling to admit that you like the other person too. If you don't have any good feelings for him, how can you accept that he sleeps next to you every day?

Feng Chuyi said that the person next to the pillow is the person who is willing to let the other party stay by his pillow for a long time, the person who wants to hold hands until old age.

Why? Because you let the other party enter your territory, and you allow the other party to exist when the self-protection strength is the lowest in sleep. This is equivalent to putting your weaknesses under his nose and giving all your life to him. He will choose whether to kill you or protect you.

And you know what choices King Landing will make, so you are actually so irresponsible because he loves you. You are so inferior that you want to enjoy love and maintain the rights that only singles who want to withdraw at any time will have. It's so despicable."

Feng Shu felt that if she let it continue, she would not only become a negative woman, but also become a heinous woman.
Chapter completed!