When I wrote it, I knew that when the last chapter came out, there would be a lot of heated discussions.

I also know that many people will feel that way when they read the last chapter, a knife stuck in their hearts.

Or maybe, a knife stuck in the heart was suddenly pulled out...

This is also the reading experience I pursue when I write. I want you to get it.

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Let’s talk about Lin Sheng.

I took a general look at the comments section and the chapter, and there were many, many compliments, so I would like to thank you in advance.

Let’s talk about the controversy.

There are two questions.

One is: Did Mr. ** do this to retaliate against Qu Xiaoling?

My answer: No.

There is no revenge. Let me guess that the brother who raised this question is not very old. I have no other intention. I really envy the young ones.

But my personal understanding of the psychological transformation of a boy into a man is that revenge is no longer important.

Just like... when you were a teenager, because of a moment of unfair treatment, you shouted to counterattack...

But many years later, when you become famous one day, do you really still have the mentality of counterattack in your heart?

No more anymore.

You won’t feel that everything you have done and worked hard for is for such a ridiculous and childish reason as [counterattack].

At that time, there may be ten thousand things in your mind, each of which is more important than the so-called "counterattack".

You are doing it for yourself, not to prove to someone who has been unfair to you.

Because... after you succeed, the person or thing that is unfair to you no longer has a sense of existence in your heart.

Therefore, what Lin Sheng did was not revenge.

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The second question is: Is it a double standard for ** students to do this? You can’t show it, but I can sleep with others? Is it a double standard?

Well, I want to say that the brother who asked this question probably didn't understand it. Maybe he read too fast.

When you wonder whether ** students have double standards,

This logic has a premise, and this premise is: in your heart, there is a preconceived standard of "right" and "wrong" for this matter.

Do you think it was wrong for Qu Xiaoling to be a young lady, so ** students cannot accept other people's mistakes, but they can do wrong things themselves.

If you look carefully, **Sheng confronts Qu Xiaoling twice, once at the entrance of Zhang Shengji's restaurant and once at the entrance of the KTV.

Both times, he did not accuse or scold Qu Xiaoling.

I didn’t criticize Qu Xiaoling from a moral perspective.

He did not insult Qu Xiaoling like: What you did was despicable and shameless...

He never made any accusations like this.

Not a word.

Not even a single sentence.

Why?

Because there is no such thing as "right" or "wrong" in the heart of a student.

He doesn't think there is anything right or wrong in this.

The only thing he was thinking about was: Do I want to be with this woman?

The only thing he struggled with was: should I accept it or not.

There is no standard of right or wrong.

It's just a matter of whether I accept it or not.

Therefore, readers who feel that there are double standards can consider this point first.

**The student never accused Qu Xiaoling of being a young lady, nor did she accuse her of being a morally wrong person.

Because there is no right or wrong, so for him, this is actually a choice.

Therefore, there is no so-called double standard.

Because there is no standard of right or wrong at all.

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Okay, enough questions.

Let's take a look at **Sheng's mental journey.

Consider it from Brother Haonan’s psychological journey: Because it is a serial, many people will ignore the previous content after reading it.

Brother Haonan first met Qu eating with another man, hugging each other and talking and laughing.

Brother Lei tore the veil apart for him and made him face the truth: this is what the lady is like.

Haonan decided that he still wanted to be with Qu.

Then two days later, I met this woman who wanted to go out with another man.

For Haonan, there is no right or wrong...

If it was wrong to be a young lady, he would not have wanted to talk to Qu after the night when he threw out 8,000 yuan. Talking to Qu meant whether they could still be together.

He doesn't think it's wrong to be a lady.

What was wrong was not being a lady, nor was being a lady wrong.

Wrong is the choice!

Precisely because it was not his fault, when he encountered a song that was about to be released, he did not criticize the other person with a single word.

I didn't accuse the other party from a moral level.

The only point of his accusation was actually that the subtext was "your attitude towards feelings is too hasty", or to put it more clearly: your attitude towards me was too hasty.

What does it mean?

It's just that if you have a fight, you will go to bed with someone else when you are angry.

What about in the future? We will never quarrel in our lives?

Otherwise, if we have a quarrel, I will worry about whether you will run out and sleep with someone else?

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This is called: What do you think I am?

You like me, you flirt with me.

You want to be a good person, so you flirt with me.

If you want to make money, let me go.

Before you took off your pants, you suddenly regretted it and asked me to come back.

What do you think I am?

Is it something that comes and goes when you call it? Is it still a Band-Aid?

Therefore, for Lin Sheng, being a young lady is not a problem.

This casual attitude is the problem.

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For Brother Haonan, he is a Jianghu person - or in other words, he is a young man who thinks he is a Jianghu person in his dream.

For Jianghu people, he could accept Miss Qu Dang and accepted her.

But you can't say you love me today, say you want to make money tomorrow, say you want to be a good person the day after tomorrow, then sleep with someone the day after tomorrow, then suddenly say you regret it after taking off your pants before sleeping with someone, and then call me back at the last second.

I am a Jianghu person with a Jianghu spirit.

This is unbearable.

You can be a young lady before, but as long as you say, from today on, you will be with me, wholeheartedly, and from now on, it will be the same, no problem, I will go out to lick the blood with my knife, even if I go out to rob the road and do beheading business to make money, I will support you.

, as long as you don’t dislike it.

But you can't say you love me today. When you meet true love, you have to behave.

Tomorrow I say you want to make a lot of money and have a good life, you go away and I will make my money and pursue my good food and clothing.

The day after tomorrow, I changed my words and said that I still missed my true love and wanted to be a good person, so please come back...

Why are you trying to change your face with me?
To be continued...