Chapter 66 Family Problems
Yuan Yan felt speechless about her mother, but it was good that she thought this way, which was much better than finding out that she had a relationship with a man, so she was too lazy to explain.
"Mom, you also said that I am an adult, so don't worry about my affairs too much. What should I do? I know very well. What consequences are there and what problems are there. Although I cannot communicate with others in this regard, I can find answers to everything on the Internet, so you don't have to worry too much about me."
Yuan Yan's mother touched her head and said with distress: "Silly girl, your identity and your eyes make you not have a boyfriend. You are old and have physical needs. Mom can understand it, but it can achieve your goal just by doing it outside. Like you now, it will have an impact on your future marriage. Moreover, judging from your situation, you have been completely overdoing it, which will cause great damage to your body."
She pointed to the bed as she spoke.
Yuan Yan's face was flushed. If she just masturbated, it would be really too much to make the bed look like this... But now she is not convenient to explain and can only make a default.
Seeing her silent, my mother continued to comfort her: "It is understandable to release the pressure occasionally, but if you do it too often, you will destroy your body. Did you do it yourself last night?"
"Mom..." Yuan Yan felt helpless. If there was a spell that could disappear in the closet, she would definitely make him disappear without saying a word. This made him feel embarrassed when he heard the most private words between mother and daughter.
"So, you didn't pay attention to keeping warm last night because you were playing and just came from the south, so you caught a cold. But now you not only haven't had a good rest, but you're also getting worse. This is indulging, which will also harm your body."
Yuan Yan obediently agreed to her mother's heartfeltness so that she would not say more. "I know I was wrong and I will pay attention to it in the future, no. It will definitely not be like this in the future. Don't worry, let's see the doctor now!"
Her mother shook her head: "The doctor is a friend whom mother is familiar with. She will not complain if she waits for a while. It is rare for us, mother and daughter to talk about such in-depth topics. Mom might as well say a few more words to you."
"No, right?" Yuan Yan smiled bitterly. Could it be that she really wanted to teach me experience, right? God! She had already shifted her resentment to Yang Ruidi. If he hadn't come to that, there wouldn't be any trouble now.
"Yanyan, you are not young anymore, a girl as old as you. Who has never had a boyfriend? Don't be reserved because of the identity of a star. How much benefit do you get when you show up like this? With just one income, we invest in everything and just withdraw. Just take a good rest for a while, then play happily for two years, and find a boyfriend you like." Her mother not only did not have the pride of being a star for her daughter, but she never liked her very much.
Yuan Yan knew what her mother meant, and knew that she was the closest person to her, and would not harm her. She said so just for her own good, so she did not make trouble with her, but said calmly:
"Mom. I know your kindness. But everyone has their own choices and their own preferences. Everyone has different values, just like grandpa has his own way. You have different choices with your different choices. I think as a job, I can enjoy the process and leave some young memories. What's wrong with it?
Besides, singing in acting is not a job that cannot be used on the table, and you don’t need to look at it from a strange perspective. Yes, there are many messy things in the entertainment industry, but this is also a microcosm of a society. Which one does not have similar things? Needless to say, in the underworld, there are all crimes, bullying men and women, and smuggling and drug trafficking, but there are also grandpas who have their own principles. In the officialdom where you are, are there no messy things? There are also.
But I will not let you down, and I will not do things that fall into self-destructive because of curiosity. As you said just now, my family does not need me to make money. The money I earn is not a big amount for my family, so I can also do whatever I want, not look at people's faces to make a living. Don't talk about unspoken things, such as bed scenes, kiss scenes, etc. I don't have to take it for income or opportunity. This is my hobby. I have done this. Can't you accept it yet?"
Hearing his daughter's words, Yuan Yan's mother sighed, "I know you know how to keep yourself clean, I know too."
It’s a small dye vat in the big dye vat of society, but you should be enlarged and dye vat under the spotlight. In the officialdom, there will be no less dirty things in society than in the entertainment industry, but everything is going on in secret, and most of them will not be made public. But the entertainment industry is different. The media is eager to announce the scandal of celebrities. Even if there is nothing, you can catch up on the wind and make up a lot of scandals. This will be unfavorable to you in the future. While you are young now, there are no scandals, so you can retire early.”
Yuan Yan rolled her eyelids slightly and knew that she would not be able to discuss the results with her. Everyone has different values. My mother has prejudices on the entertainment industry. "Okay, I will consider it, but nothing can be solved in a short time. I still have some promised work to deal with."
Her mother also knew that this would not be able to change her in a day, so she didn't force her to, "You might as well stay in Beijing. Your grandfather has long wanted to lead the Yuan family's career to the right path. I don't want you to follow his old path. If you follow him, you will be affected by him a lot. This will make your personality too strong and will have a bad impact on your future marriage. Come here to do something, and your father and I can help you with all aspects, and there will be no difficulties."
Yuan Yan grew up with her grandparents, and she has a deeper relationship with the Shenchuan family than the home in Beijing where her parents work. Now when she hears her mother's words, she can hear what she means, that she wants to keep her distance from her grandfather. I think of them usually keeping distance from her grandfather, and now that they don't go back during the Chinese New Year, they can't help but feel a little angry.
"Mom, I know what you mean. In your opinion, grandpa is not the right way. It is a black background. It is black for a day and a black life. You and dad have already established a foothold in Beijing. You don't want these things to be a drag on you, so you want to try to draw a line with your family. But don't forget that grandpa is also for the Yuan family, and can you and dad have today, is it really the result of hard work?"
Hearing Yuan Yan's words, her mother's face darkened and she said unhappily: "Don't talk nonsense, kid."
"Hmph, as a daughter, I shouldn't comment on my parents randomly," Yuan Yan sneered, "But as a junior, I also know that I can't forget my roots. You know better than me about the system in the officialdom. You and your father work very hard, but if I had no grandpa's connections and spent money to pave the way, could my father enter the power department so quickly? Can he be promoted so quickly in recent years? Of course, you may be the help of your grandpa, so you have no agreement with your grandpa.
Grandpa is planning for the Yuan family. He does not want his children to be high-ranking officials, but hopes to protect the Yuan family better. I believe that both you and my dad know it. Perhaps for the Yuan family, Grandpa doesn’t care about sacrificing himself, but now everything is developing well. How can we start to draw a clear line with Grandpa if we listen to your opinion?”
"Enough, you don't understand many things. The complexity of society and the changes in the current situation are not something you can understand." Yuan Yan's mother said unhappily.
Of course, she knew very well that she was also from a wealthy family, but she had no power. Marrying the Yuan family was originally for the benefit of the family. However, compared with Yuan Zhifeng's complex background, her family was a pure businessman. Both her father and Yuan Yan relied on Yuan Zhifeng's strong relationship network and paid money from the two families, and gradually gained a foothold in the officialdom.
In fact, it is not that they forget their roots, but that many things in the officialdom are not something that outsiders can know. They have already penetrated into them and have more pressure than outsiders. No matter how they are bleached, Yuan Zhifeng's identity has a foundation, just like the institutions in Shenzhen such as the Fourth Office will stare at him. So the couple, for the sake of the Yuan family's long-term and for the sake of their children, wanted to arrange them as much as possible. However, Yuan Yan has grown up in Shenchuan and has her own thoughts and a sense of belonging. What they can do is to bring her younger brother Yuan Zhen with her since childhood, and then send her to study abroad according to the model they expected.
Chapter completed!