Chapter 562: Suggestions
"You don't have to feel sorry for me, but I just feel that there is a psychological problem and I need to deal with it in time."
Zhao Qingluo has a good understanding of her. She knows that she has postpartum depression and does not want to bring this depression to her own people and affect their lives.
Moreover, she has never been a person who is willing to trouble others. She should not let the people around her be troubled by her psychological problems. This is the least hopeful thing.
But Yue Tingcheng changed his mind. He was thinking about postpartum depression. To be honest, it was not very serious. He also hoped that Zhao Qingluo could adjust himself, not so severe that he went to see a psychologist.
"Actually, I suddenly remembered that it was not so serious, and there was no need to see a psychologist. I can take you to relax or something. I don't want you to come into contact with these things, and think there is any psychological problem."
At first, when I heard Zhao Qingluo say this, I didn’t think about the reasons carefully, but after thinking it through, I didn’t want her to think that she had a mental problem.
After hearing what he said, Zhao Qingluo seemed to understand that he didn't want to let himself go.
"I know, in fact, you are feeling sorry for me to a certain extent, and don't want me to think about it or feel sick. But I really feel that for the sake of the children, I am willing to see a psychiatrist." As he said that, he seemed to have made up his mind and generally did not allow anyone to stop him.
After seeing her say this, Yue Tingcheng still wondered what it had to do with the children. Besides, there are so many children now that the children don’t feel the attitude of their mothers.
"Children are so young now, it is impossible to feel your attitude. I think if you can adjust yourself, don't go to the psychiatrist. Maybe he will make the problem even more serious."
He actually understood more or less. Sometimes he was not sick, but after seeing a doctor, he felt like he had such a serious illness.
This will not be of any benefit to treatment, so I hope he can think clearly and not act rashly.
But after hearing what he said, Zhao Qingluo felt that since she had made a decision, she would not compromise easily.
"Maybe you don't quite understand how serious this postpartum depression is. Sometimes I feel very depressed and can't lift my energy when I see the children."
This is what she feels most. Sometimes she doesn’t want to see the children again if she can’t lift her spirits. This is really unfavorable for cultivating relationships between them.
So she hopes that by seeing a psychologist, she can adjust her mentality and get along well with the children, so that they can feel that their mother has always been by their side and will not leave.
When she saw her saying this, her attitude was very sincere and decisive, Yue Tingcheng was very helpless and agreed to her request.
"Don't worry, I will ask my assistant to find the most reliable and authoritative psychologist. Then I will accompany you and we both face this difficulty together."
After the two hit it off, they called their assistant and asked him to contact the most authoritative psychologist in the city.
"Yes, please contact me as soon as possible. I need to take her with me."
He only breathed a sigh of relief after everything was resolved.
Looking at Zhao Qingluo who was teasing the child in the room, she found that her expression was very relaxed now, but there was still something between her eyebrows that seemed to be pressing against her.
After walking over, he hugged her and the child into his arms, and said, "Don't worry, I've solved everything. When we pass tomorrow, I will tell him everything. Don't hide anything."
Until he solved everything, to be honest, he was very grateful and thanked him for staying by his side in the most difficult times and never leaving him.
"Thank you for doing so many things for me, and I am willing to work with you to overcome this difficulty so that our children can grow up in a healthy and happy environment."
But after hearing her say this, she scraped her nose and said jokingly, "Don't think this is such a big problem. As long as it is adjusted by a psychologist, everything will pass. Don't think too much. Have you heard it? The child is growing up like us."
After hearing this, Zhao Qingluo's smile rose slightly. He always understood that when he was by his side, it was enough that he didn't need to worry too much about him.
When it was time to see a psychologist two days later, the man accompanied Zhao Qingluo to find the psychological clinic and went in. He saw that he was a very young psychologist, who was still very questioning at the beginning.
"Can you solve the problem at such a young age? Since we have found it, we must cure the problem, do you know?" Standing in front of the psychologist, he looked at what he said condescendingly. His tone was originally mediocre, but the listeners seemed to feel that the pressure was very high.
But he is definitely an authority in terms of psychology. Although he is young, he is very experienced and does not allow others to question his profession.
He nodded and agreed repeatedly, and said with confidence, "Don't worry, a powerful person like you must be looking for an authoritative doctor. He actually found me. Do you have to question my level?" As he said that, he took out all the instruments and wanted to test what kind of psychological problem Zhao Qingluo belonged to so that he could prescribe the right medicine.
Zhao Qingluo sat down and after a series of tests, the psychologist said, "The problem is not very big. As long as you cooperate well, I can definitely solve it. As long as you can adjust it yourself, nothing is a problem."
After hearing what he said, Zhao Qingluo was relieved and was afraid of hearing bad results, which would affect her mood.
Nodded, the doctor of Shishihe said, "Since I have chosen to see a psychologist, I am ready to cooperate."
Seeing that she was so enlightened, the doctor nodded and said, "Then let me talk about what kind of troubles or thoughts you have. There is no one else in this place now, and you can completely treat me as a person to express my feelings."
Zhao Qingluo was also very relaxed at this time, and she treated this place as a place for joy to chat and spoke.
"I suspect that I have postpartum depression, and sometimes I can't even raise everything and think about it."
After hearing her say this, the psychologist nodded and said in agreement, "Many people who come here like you have this situation. This is a common problem for postpartum mothers, but I can help you adjust it. Is there anything else?"
I always feel that he doesn't look like a person with postpartum depression, it's like more things are pressing on her, making her breathless.
I knew what the psychologist meant, so I slowly spoke, "I always felt that after I gave birth to a child, everyone's attention was on the child and I wouldn't notice my attitude. This made me very irritable. I knew it was very unfair."
It was like I shouldn't have fallen into this kind of emotion, lowering my head and looking upset.
The psychologist was able to understand her when she saw him like this, so she advised her, "Most parents must be like this, and they have never been exposed to cases of postpartum depression, especially after the child is born, they will definitely focus on them."
Moreover, looking at the woman sitting opposite her elegantly, she is definitely a wealthy person, and she doesn't seem to be worried about ordinary life.
Just as the two were talking, Yue Tingcheng, who was sitting aside and not talking, spoke at this time, "How should this family member cooperate? I want to make her feel happier."
The psychologist then looked at Yue Tingcheng, who was sitting aside, and found that his identity was not ordinary and was very precious everywhere.
But he didn't think that if you have good conditions, I would say good things to you. He also gave his advice truthfully.
"It's like that. There are more or less things about her postpartum depression, but more because her own pressure is too great, which makes her breathless."
When Yue Tingcheng heard the psychologist say this, he quickly walked to Zhao Qingluo and put his hands on her shoulder to comfort her.
"Then what method should we use to relieve her? I also know that she is under pressure, about the children and about the studio, so I hope to do my best to help her."
After hearing what he said, the psychologist nodded and understood. His statement was about to be suggested, "The only thing that can solve this problem is that you and me will cooperate to adjust her psychological problem, but it is mainly necessary to cooperate with the family. Do you understand what I mean?"
After hearing this, Yue Tingcheng nodded and said, "Don't worry, I understand what you said, so I'm looking for a way to help her now."
The psychologist looked at Zhao Qingluo's medical records again and gave a very compromise method and said, "I am very depressed now. At this time, we need to take her out for a walk and see the beautiful scenery to distract her from."
After all, when a person is in a depressed mood, the best solution is to relax and let her go for a walk and enjoy the beautiful scenery. Only in this way can she distract her attention and feel more pleasant.
Chapter completed!