Chapter 323: Frightened by his daughter
Mrs. Yao helped Yao Anxin to get out the "outline of story routines" that the old lady wanted, and she suddenly felt that the stories of men and women who had seen before were no longer interesting. The more she read, the more she was the routine, and the more she looked, the more she was the loophole.
It seems that you can guess the ending just by looking at a beginning.
The more I read the story, the less interested I am. The more I read it, the more I feel that it is better to write it yourself. What I write is more logical than it.
"Since my mother dislikes them for not writing well, then write one myself."
"I'll write?" Mrs. Yao was stunned, "This is not very... OK."
"What's the matter? My mother will not take it out for others to read it." Yao Anxin looked dissatisfied.
She also realized that her mother stayed at home all day, except for those who were busy with some, and had no interests or hobbies.
It was these stories that aroused her mother's interest, otherwise her mother would not have spared time to accompany her to read the script and do the homework assigned by the old lady.
"But..." Mrs. Yao hesitated a little. She always felt that this was not good.
She is the eldest wife of the Yao family and the mistress, but she does such a thing that cannot be put on the table. Wouldn't it be embarrassing if it spreads?
"What are you worried about?"
Mrs. Yao was vague and said that her daughter would understand when she married her in the future, and that she would not be free to be a girl after she married her.
In fact, to put it bluntly, Mrs. Yao was worried that she would write in the house, and that would be bad if she didn't pay attention to her and let Mr. Yao run into it.
After all, she is a woman who writes this kind of love and love behind her own man's back, which is a bit too much.
Yao Anxin couldn't understand for a moment: "How could it be? The old lady said that marrying someone is freer than being a girl."
Then, Balabala said what the old lady Gu Qingling said to her.
When you are a girl, your family is staring at every word and action. If you don’t have money yet, you have to ask others for money if you want something. But it’s different when you get married. Once you have a shop and manage it properly, you have money in your hands, and no one can stop you from thinking.
Mrs. Yao was silent and never expected that the old lady would tell Yao Anxin about this.
"Well, the old lady said a long time ago that if a woman wants to have a certain degree of autonomy, she must control the economic power. When your economic power reaches a certain level, even men must listen to you." Yao Anxin looked proud and gave an example.
And this example directly shocked Mrs. Yao.
Because Yao Anxin is not someone else's reference, it is the old lady Gu Qingling.
Although Yao Anxin didn't know what the old lady in other families looked like, Gu Qingling told Yao Anxin that the reason why the Yao family listened to her was not only because she was the "old lady", but also because she should hold the economic power of the Yao family in her hands.
Everyone wanted to live a good life, so everyone was counting on her fingers to see a little leaking from her fingers, so everyone was holding her.
"The old lady said that if I get married in the future, the most important thing is to hold the economic power in my hand. No one can touch it, even my future husband." Yao Anxin said seriously, "He wants, I can give him a little, but the premise is that he makes me happy. If I am unhappy, I can't give it at all. Of course, all of this premise is that I have the ability, so I must study hard now. Only by learning the old lady's ability, I don't have to worry about someone who dares to bully me in the future."
Mrs. Yao: “…”
——My good dear!
——Old Lady, what did you teach my daughter?!
Although she didn't want to admit it, she had to admit it, the old lady was right.
Now, who among the Yao family is not too arrogant to live a life with the old lady?
What is the reason why they slapped the old lady?
In addition to the old lady being the old lady, it is more because of her wisdom and the old hen she holds in her hand that can lay golden eggs.
"Mom, I don't quite understand why you are worried that others will know about your story. Isn't the financial power of our big house in your hands?" At this point, Yao Anxin was puzzled again and said, "Although his father has a salary, his salary is compared with the money you earn, that is, Xiaowu sees Dawu. Logically speaking, shouldn't you do whatever you want?"
Mrs. Yao didn't know what to say for a moment, and she didn't know how to explain to her daughter. Some things were not as simple as her daughter thought.
There is no way, Mrs. Yao could only start with "The Woman's Ring" and family rules, and told Yao Anxin what "the male leads to the outside, the female leads to the inside" and what is the rules of her daughter's family.
Unfortunately, what Mrs. Yao said was some of the differences between what she said to Gu Qingling.
Although Yao Anxin can understand it, she does not particularly agree with it.
"Mom, the male lead is outside, the female lead is inside. This sentence does not mean that the man will take care of all the things outside. Women just need to take care of the whole family, but rather…" Yao Anxin told her what Gu Qingling taught her without hesitation.
In addition to the male protagonist, when a man has the ability, he can act as the umbrella of the family and protect the entire family.
Because men are strong enough, women don’t need to worry about things outside. They just help men “fill” the rest of the content, that is, they will take care of the backyard.
But in fact, does women really need to take care of the backyard?
No!
No.
As the mistress of the family, she must not only manage the land in front of her, but also needs to manage her own family's business and run a way for her future husband's family to make money.
The man is actually just a man’s own career.
"A man only needs to do one thing, that is, do his work well. Women need to do more. She not only needs to give birth to children for men, but also needs to take care of men's family and manage a business..."
Yao Anxin counted it one by one to Mrs. Yao, but Mrs. Yao was in trouble.
Although she is not as good as the "miss mother" described by her daughter, she actually seems to have done a lot.
For example, if the male lead is outside and the female lead is inside, if she really wants to say that, does she just need to take care of the Yao family's cottage affairs and have children?
Actually, it is not the case.
Not only did she need to take care of the Yao family's back home, but she also needed to manage her own shop and the old lady handed it over to her. It was opened in her name, but it actually belonged to their big house (that is, Mr. Yao), a new construction team, etc.
In addition, she also had to do a good job in "maid diplomacy", deal with the head mistresses of various major families, and expand or maintain connections for the Yao family.
"Yes, mom, isn't my daughter wrong?" Yao Anxin blinked and said, "Did your father just need to work hard to study and get fame? Before, the old lady asked him and his second uncle to be responsible for the Yao bookstore, but just wanted to train his father. But as soon as his father wanted the imperial examination, the old lady arranged for someone to take over the work and got busy."
Mrs. Yao: “…”
Chapter completed!