In fact, this cannot be entirely blamed on Gu Qingling. The era she lived in in her previous life was too far from the current world. The farmers she remembered were like that. The farmer was already miserable enough, and there could be even more miserable?
And the original owner was another person who didn’t know the sufferings of the world, so he didn’t know even more.
So, after all, this is a cognitive difference.
Ye Maosheng and Miss Yao Qi have written a letter for so long, and they have some understanding of this a bit of awesome and arrogant lady.
Therefore, when he chose this place as the place for marriage, he was mentally prepared to get angry.
He just wanted to give her a warning and let her know clearly who he was, where he came from, and where he grew up.
If she couldn't even accept this, then these things would definitely become her "picky" point in the future.
If he doesn't want to be a "hate couple", he needs to let her wake up.
However, he seemed to underestimate Miss Yao Qi.
Although Miss Yao Qi is so charming, when she chose Ye Maosheng, she had already been vaccinated by the old lady Gu Qingling, and told her that the worst situation was that she would have to rely on her own dowry in the future.
So, the most important thing is not what the Ye family looks like, but how much dowry you have, whether you can support yourself and your future husband and children.
If other people in your husband's family are jealous of your dowry, how should you keep these things?
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After entering the bridal chamber, Miss Yao Qi no longer had any thoughts of love and beauty. She felt that she would have a tough battle to fight later - she needed to explain to Ye Maosheng clearly what her bottom line was and also asked his bottom line.
They need to set a "run-in period" to adapt to each other.
This is also what Gu Qingling taught her - you can't do anything, you don't need to hide it, just tell your husband.
Then you have to understand his bottom line. During this running-in period, you must all drop out of school, run in with each other, and find a balanced point.
He is a scholar or a local official, and he must not be an impulsive person. If you reason with him, he will definitely be reasonable with you.
As long as you don’t touch his bottom line, even for the sake of the Yao family, he will never make things difficult for you, the “legitimate mother”.
If he dares, you will go back to your parents' home for help.
Of course, if you touch his bottom line and die by yourself, don’t blame your parents for being cold-blooded and not helping you.
Before she got married, Gu Qingling made a mark on Miss Yao Qi and told her what she could do and what she couldn't do.
Miss Yao Qi just has the self-esteem of everyone, and is not really stupid.
With so many preliminary preparations, even if she is dissatisfied with the current situation, she will not make a fuss, but will first find a way to negotiate with Ye Maosheng. If she fails to negotiate, she will make another fuss.
Therefore, when Ye Maosheng came back from outside and entered the room, Miss Yao Qi, who looked calm and wanted to talk to him.
Ye Maosheng:????!!!
Where is Xipa?
Shouldn't it be me who lifted the Hippie?
"Seven... Miss?"
Miss Yao Qi looked up and expressed satisfaction with Ye Maosheng's appearance, saying, "You can call me Ru Yue in the future."
"Ru Yue." Although it was a bit unexpected, Ye Maosheng still exchanged gifts, "You can call me Maosheng."
"Okay, Maosheng," Miss Yao Qi didn't feel any shame (I originally had it, but because I wanted to talk about things, I forgot it), patted him and asked him to sit down, looking like he was doing office work. "I have something I want to talk to you, and I think it's very necessary."
Ye Maosheng raised his eyebrows and sat down.
This feeling is really wonderful. On the wedding night, he didn't answer the wedding invitation, nor did he see a shy bride who was even talked to by the bride?
The daughters of the big family are like this...
Strong?
Miss Yao Qi expressed her dislike for the living environment of the Ye family very bluntly. She wanted to ask clearly how long she would stay here. If it was a long time, she wanted to start a new yard.
She is not used to living in such an environment, and she wants to build a yard as she wants.
Of course, if Old Man Ye and Old Mrs. Ye live with them, she will leave a yard for them and arrange for servants to serve them.
She was used to being served by others and had little assets. It was not realistic to let her serve her in-laws without any action. However, she could guarantee that the servants she arranged were trained according to the standards of aristocratic families, and she could definitely arrange everything for her properly and there would be no problems.
So the question now is whether Ye Maosheng agrees, and whether the others in the Ye family agree.
"This is my bottom line, so what about you, what is your bottom line?" Miss Yao Qi raised her chin slightly and signaled him to answer her question.
Miss Yao Qi, who was well-behaved in front of Gu Qingling, was a little proud when she arrived in front of Ye Maosheng. Although she was not arrogant, she could see that she placed her position a little higher.
Even though the effort has the meaning of negotiation, the tone has a bit of "instruction".
Ye Maosheng laughed a little. The situation was much better than he thought. Moreover, he had learned a little about her personality in the letter she wrote, and said, "We won't stay here for too long. If you want to set up a new yard here, the problem is that there is no... But after your yard is repaired, are you going to be empty or are you going to live in?"
He reminded Miss Yao Qi that if she wanted to be empty, it would be better to be empty from the beginning, not to let anyone move in, otherwise once someone moves in, when they come back a few years later, the yard will become one of them.
Even if it is said well at the beginning, once you start, it will be difficult to finish later.
"If we don't stay for too long, how long will we stay?" Miss Yao Qi frowned slightly, "If it doesn't take long, I can consider to endure it."
Using the word patience shows that Miss Yao Qi dislikes this place, Ye Maosheng laughed again: "I have three months of marriage leave."
"Three months..." Miss Yao Qi calculated, "But where do I live with so many servants? How often do we come back in the future? Every time I come back, servants should have a place to stay, right? What if I bring more things..."
Balabala, the more she talked, the more she felt that even if we didn’t stay for a long time, it was necessary to build a new yard.
One, she was not used to the "broken house" of the Ye family; the other, she was used to being spoiled and lived with them, so she was afraid she would not be used to it.
Instead of doing this, it is better to separate from the beginning. The distant fragrance is smelly and the nearest smells, and maybe it can avoid some unnecessary troubles.
He doesn't have to worry about the money. She wants to live in a new yard, so she builds it herself, and everything here is hers.
Just like when she was in the Yao family before, she usually lived in her own yard, but if something happens, she would still go to the old lady's yard.
Ye Maosheng quickly understood that Miss Yao Qi wanted to maintain her previous life in the Yao family - she regarded his parents as the old lady Yao who greeted her every day.
I usually live my own life, and go to my elders to pay tribute and speak when I need it.
He was also very interested in the "bottom line" and "run-in-time period" proposed by Miss Yao Qi. He felt that Miss Yao Qi did not seem to be as "brainless" and "impulsive" as shown in the letter, and he clearly had some ideas.
Chapter completed!