This is true.
Before Brother Can appeared, Gu Qingling was like a bystander in this world.
The original owner's son and daughter belong to the original owner, she is just doing her duty for the original owner, not hers. Wei Can'er is different. He is pregnant for ten months and he grows up little by little in her belly. The wonderful blood twitching is impossible to describe in words.
Even after Brother Can was born, Gu Qingling sometimes felt the gastrointestinal motility in her stomach, and she thought it was fetal movement, and couldn't help but recall the time when Brother Can was in her stomach.
Bloodline is not just a blood relationship.
There are also experiences from nothing to something, from small to large, and the cultivation of feelings bit by bit, and the increasing memories.
It was also at this time that Gu Qingling suddenly understood why men are generally colder than women in parent-child relationships.
In fact, it is not that men really don’t like children, but that during the process of a woman’s pregnancy, the child is in the woman’s belly. Before the child is born, women first cultivate a “ten months” relationship with the child because of their physical advantages.
Men are different. If a man has no involvement in the process of his wife's pregnancy, then the child has no sense of existence before he is born.
Can something without a sense of existence really make a man have a strong relationship with him?
The father-son relationship is slowly cultivated through the later relationship (of course, I have been hypnotized and have made good fathers prepare for their father in advance).
Therefore, Gu Qingling's feelings for Can Ge'er are different from those for Uncle Yao, Yao Erye and others.
One is the true love between mother and son, and the other is responsibility.
So, why does Li Wenchong seem particularly special?
Is it just because of the special nature of the ancients that the ancients attached great importance to the inheritance of incense?
Of course not.
Because Can Ge'er may be the "only" flesh and blood of Li Wenchong, the word "only" is particularly valuable. In addition, Can Ge'er is young and cute. As she is in her thirties, she had thought of being a father, but she fell into despair and knew that she would never have children in her life, Can Ge'er's appearance was naturally a "unexpected joy".
For Li Wenchong, Cange'er is a "scarce resource" and has been valued by Li Wenchong because of its scarcity.
Immediately afterwards, Gu Qingling fueled the fire and provided many opportunities to cultivate father-son relationships. This scarce resource has truly become Li Wenchong's favorite and his treasure from the beginning.
Li Wenchong didn't understand what Gu Qingling meant. He only thought that Gu Qingling said this because she liked children.
As for women, how many women don’t like children? How many women will not sacrifice for their children?
The reason why maternal love is great is that everyone knows that there may be cruel fathers in the world, and there will definitely be no mothers who will leave their children alone.
Look, even if Gu Qingling is an old lady, she chose to marry him because of her children?
The law of heaven is far away.
Taken for granted.
Fortunately, Li Wenchong didn't say it. If he said it, he would definitely be refuted by Gu Qingling.
"Bad! Women are weak, but mothers are strong. That's what people have created to "bound" women." Gu Qingling never thought that women should sacrifice for their children, making it seem like women who don't sacrifice for their children becomes a "sin".
Everyone is also human, why do you have to ask women to sacrifice?
Where is the man?
If you contribute a particle, nothing has to do with him?
So, he is cold-blooded. He doesn’t care about his children or doesn’t want them. This is normal operation?
How can this be done in the world?
Fortunately, Li Wenchong didn't say it.
He smiled and said, "Hahaha...you're right, I should really thank you. And you have found that we seem to have one thing in common - we are all grateful for the appearance of Can Ge'er."
Gu Qingling smiled: "You are right."
Although he has many things, at least he is really like Brother Can.
As long as she has a common goal, she will have the confidence to continue the marriage.
"I suddenly felt that," Gu Qingling continued, "I can 'seek common ground while reserving differences'."
Li Wenchong was surprised: "Hasn't we always been like this?"
Didn't she noticed that she had a lot of thoughts, and often he didn't know how to "cooperate" with her?
But there is no way, who made him spoil her?
He could only pave the way for her and then scan her for another one.
"Always?" Gu Qingling raised her eyebrows and signaled Li Wenchong to give a few examples.
Li Wenchong touched his nose, and suddenly his emotional intelligence exploded: "This... let it go? I'm afraid that if I say it, you'll get angry? I've already made you unhappy..."
"Don't worry, I'll never be angry for no reason, I'm very reasonable."
Li Wenchong: “…”
I thought you would say, you have a good temper and won't get angry.
Li Wenchong was speechless, but had to speak.
He coughed twice and picked up several "harmless" things.
For example, Gu Qingling likes to do business, and he is a prince, so he naturally does not have a hobby in this area, but for her, he contributed all the money.
You know, except for Emperor Mingguang, few people know that Qian Laifu is his person.
You can imagine how much Li Wenchong was indulging in her so that he would give Qian Laifu.
"Is that so? Did Qian Laifu work with me and didn't make any money?" Gu Qingling raised her eyebrows, "As far as I know, his assets have doubled now. Did the money he earned in the end fall into your pocket?"
"No." Li Wenchong looked helpless, "half of them entered the royal brother's private warehouse."
Qian Laifu said he was his man, but in fact, the money that Qian Laifu earned was not his own. He would also hand over to Emperor Mingguang to prevent Emperor Mingguang from spending it without money.
Although Emperor Mingguang is the emperor, he seems to be very rich, in fact, his private warehouse doesn’t have much money at all. He doesn’t have much money, so he has to pay so many concubines in the harem to give benefits, so...
Li Wenchong had to raise a few money bags and find a way to "contribute" to Emperor Mingguang.
Some of Gu Qingling's partners were all drawn by Li Wenchong, who were from Emperor Mingguang.
Gu Qingling was not sure about this.
"Are you referring to taxes, or something?"
"Taxes are taxes, and other things are other things." Li Wenchong emphasized, "The taxes are submitted to the treasury. The treasury belongs to the Ming Dynasty, and it is not the emperor's own. The emperor's brother is thin-skinned and generally embarrassed to use the treasury."
Gu Qingling immediately understood and chuckled: "So, he has the nerve to search for you and ask you to supplement him? Didn't I always hear you say that it was your royal brother who supplemented you?"
"Yes... I have any good treasures there, and I'll ask him for them too. But this doesn't prevent me from giving them to him, and this doesn't conflict."
So, on the surface, Emperor Mingguang is favoring Li Wenchong, but in fact, is it Li Wenchong who has been secretly supporting Emperor Mingguang? Gu Qingling was a little surprised at this answer.
Chapter completed!