Qiao Liang came to the restaurant where Feng Yunming ordered to eat several times and entered the private room with a familiarity. After entering the door, Qiao Liang smiled and said, "Minister Feng, what's the good thing today? Why do you think about treating me to a meal?"

Feng Yunming smiled and didn't say anything, staring at Qiao Liang.

Qiao Liang was puzzled by Feng Yunming and looked at Feng Yunming in confusion, "Minister Feng, do you look at me like this? Is there a flower on my face?"

"Xiao Qiao, why do I feel that you are a lucky star?" Feng Yunming smiled.

"Is that true?" Qiao Liang was confused, "Minister Feng, why do you say that?"

"Xiao Qiao, let me tell you good news. Secretary Luo's side has already passed the matter of Zhao Jiezhu as the executive deputy county magistrate." Feng Yunming smiled.

Upon hearing this, Qiao Liang immediately showed a huge joy on his face, "Minister Feng, really?"

"Of course it's true. Could it be that I will lie to you?" Feng Yunming looked at Qiao Liang with a strange smile, "Or why do you say you are a lucky star? This matter was originally told by Lao Zhang. Secretary Luo wanted his niece Tang Xiaofei to take over the position of executive deputy county magistrate. When I went to report to him in the morning, his proposal about Zhao Jiechu was rejected. As a result, guess what? Not long after, Secretary Luo called me back, and suddenly changed his words and agreed to let Zhao Jiechu serve as executive deputy county magistrate."

"How could Secretary Luo suddenly change his attitude?" Qiao Liang raised his eyebrows.

"A big thing happened today, I think you probably won't know." Feng Yunming said.

"Minister Feng, are you referring to the negative news about Secretary Luo on the Internet?" Qiao Liang's eyes narrowed.

"That's right." Feng Yunming nodded, "Things in this world are so strange. When we force them but cannot get them, we will turn around."

Qiao Liang nodded subconsciously. While he was happy, Qiao Liang began to pay attention to another message, "Minister Feng, are you saying... Secretary Luo changing his attitude because of the negative news on the Internet?"

"Yes." Feng Yunming smiled, "This negative news will not be exposed sooner or later, but it was exposed at this time. Xiao Qiao, I have a little doubt if you did this."

"Minister Feng, this matter is no joke." Qiao Liang couldn't laugh or cry.

"Okay, there are no outsiders here, look at you scared you. In my impression, you Qiao Liang are not afraid of heaven or earth." Feng Yunming smiled.

"Minister Feng, that's two different things." Qiao Liang grinned.

Feng Yunming nodded, no matter how much he joked, Feng Yunming still knew Qiao Liang. At this moment, Feng Yunming said meaningfully, "Xiao Qiao, what do you think of that post on the Internet?"

Hearing Feng Yunming's question, Qiao Liang's eyes flashed. He obviously had more knowledge about the relevant information in Songbei. When he saw the post online this morning, Qiao Liang's heart skipped a beat. He thought of Xi Lan's special attitude towards Tang Xiaofei, and Xi Lan's previous request for him to ask Tang Xiaofei for help... and even Luo Fei asked the Municipal Bureau to go to Songbei to arrest Xi Lan and other abnormal actions.

Therefore, Qiao Liang was not without speculation about this before, but there was no evidence. He didn't want to sue randomly. In addition, his relationship with Tang Xiaofei is OK now. The other party is now actively cooperating with his work and is no longer as disrespectful to him as before, so Qiao Liang didn't want to speculate too much.

Feng Yunming asked this now, Qiao Liang concealed his true thoughts and said, "Minister Feng, I really don't have any opinions on this matter. After all, there are too many unreliable news on the Internet. It is hard to guarantee that someone will deliberately spread rumors."

"If you really spread rumors, the cost of spreading rumors is not low. You have to get in with such a thing." Feng Yunming said.

"That's true." Qiao Liang nodded.

Seeing that Qiao Liang was a little absent-minded, Feng Yunming was a little surprised. He knew that Qiao Liang and Luo Fei had a bad relationship. At this time, Qiao Liang did not take advantage of the situation and arranged Luo Fei. Feng Yunming couldn't help but admire him, feeling that Qiao Liang's mind and demeanor were far superior to his peers.

Feng Yunming naturally didn't know that Qiao Liang's reaction had a special reason. At this moment, Feng Yunming was not interested in gossiping about Luo Fei. He smiled and said, "We won't talk about this anymore. It's better to eat more food. If you have nothing else to do tonight, let's have a drink."

"Minister Feng, you made a special call to ask me to come for dinner. How dare I do anything else? I will definitely have fun with you tonight." Qiao Liang said with a smile.

"This is what you said. You won't leave if you finish drinking the two bottles of white wine on the table tonight." Feng Yunming said with a smile.

Qiao Liang shook his head immediately, "The two bottles of white wine are a bit too much. If I finish drinking with you, I will probably not be able to find the east, west, south and north."

"I think you Xiao Qiao is modest. I have drank it with you several times, but I have never seen you drunk." Feng Yunming smiled. He has no other hobbies now, but he only likes to drink two drinks. Every time he comes out to eat with his friends, Feng Yunming will basically bring out his own wine. He has dinner with Qiao Liang tonight. These two bottles of white wine were also brought by Feng Yunming himself.

Then start serving and drink.

Feng Yunming seemed to be in good spirits tonight, and talked and laughed with Qiao Liang while drinking.

"Minister Feng, you are doing organizational and personnel work. What do you think is the most important thing to do in the system and do things well?" Qiao Liang asked after politely holding Feng Yunming a glass of wine.

Feng Yunming picked up the wine glass and drank it all, then put it down, lit a cigarette and took a few sips, saying, "If you do things within the system, if you want to rise to the top, many people think that the most important thing is to have a backer and background or outstanding ability, but in fact, I think, the most important thing is to learn to observe your words and expressions."

"Oh..." Qiao Liang was slightly surprised and looked at Feng Yunming, "Observe his words and expressions?"

"Yes, observe your words and expressions." Feng Yunming nodded, "This is not ordinary, but very important."

Qiao Liang blinked at Feng Yunming, his face feeling sleepy.

Seeing Qiao Liang's expression, Feng Yunming smiled, "The so-called observing words and expressions means to understand a person's inner thoughts, purposes and interests by observing the other party's emotions, language, expressions, and postures, and thus adjusting one's words and deeds and response methods in a targeted manner. Surviving within the system, observing words and expressions is a necessary emotional intelligence and a relatively advanced survival ability. Those who do not understand this method are confused about people and things, cannot see clearly, and cannot understand them clearly, and can't walk on the wall everywhere. Those who are proficient in this method can be like fish in water and get along with each other. Some people think of observing words and expressions, and think of flattery and vulgar interpersonal relationships, which is not the case. In fact, whether you do business, go on a career in officialdom, or even have a relationship, observing words and expressions is a basic and essential interpersonal ability."

Qiao Liang looked at Feng Yunming intently and thoughtfully, "Minister Feng, do you think what skills do you need to observe words and expressions?"

"Of course," Feng Yunming nodded, "Xiao Qiao, I know you have worked as a secretary and are generally familiar with the skills of observing words and expressions. However, after all, you have little experience and may not be able to master these skills."

"Yes, please give me advice from Minister Feng." Qiao Liang nodded.

Feng Yunming laughed and then said, "There are four basic techniques to understand the words and expressions. The first is to master the basic skills. The first is to get along with others. Guiguzi says: Therefore, knowing yourself first, knowing yourself before you know others. In other words, to understand what others are thinking, feeling, and what you will do next, the most important thing is to understand yourself first. Learn to have a profound insight into your own inner weaknesses, desires, and emotions, and you will understand others, because human nature is all the same. What we often say about thinking from the perspective of others is actually the premise of thinking about your own thoughts, feelings and interests.

For example, when giving gifts, there is a trick that you must not give gifts you don’t like. If you don’t like a gift yourself, you don’t like it, but you give it to others. Will others like it? For example, if you say a sentence, you will feel uncomfortable after listening to it and easily hurt others. Can you tell others? If you can truly recognize yourself, understand your own desires and feelings, you can at least understand others to 80% of the degree. The remaining 20% ​​is actually just individual differences...

"Well. Qiao Liang nodded and listened to Feng Yunming's talk with interest.

Feng Yunming continued, "The second skill is to focus on interests. The so-called world is bustling, all for profit, and the world is bustling, all for profit. Human nature is reflected in all aspects, and interests are one of them. Everyone and everything may change, but in the end, the word "profit" cannot be separated. When considering the problem, learn to consider from the perspective of others' interests, figure out where his interests are and what he cares about, many things will disappear, and the clouds will clear the sun.

For example, if you take a plan to the leader in charge, you will be displeased after reading it, frown and seem to be unhappy with the plan. At this time, you should think that the leader in charge may not be dissatisfied with your entire plan, but will deny it completely, but will involve the assessment content of the field he is in charge. Are there any unreasonable projects? Is there any content that violates his interests? For example, which tasks are too heavy, and it is difficult to complete, etc.

The third skill is information integration. What is the personality of each person in the unit, what are their advantages and disadvantages, who has worked with whom, who has had a holiday with whom, what is the career resume of a leader, which departments does the leader have in charge, and who especially likes to sit at the same table when eating... All of these are big data within the system. Your brain should analyze and integrate and store these big data like a computer. At critical moments, it can help you make analysis and judgment.
Chapter completed!