While Li Zhongxin complained about his mother's statement, he also understood his mother's attitude towards him.

How to say it! My mother’s requirements for him were a little stricter and she said more about all kinds of things, but the starting point was to be good to him, so he could only accept reality silently.

But Li Zhongxin didn't understand what method he could use to reverse his mother's educational model that was not suitable for him.

Li Zhongxin also knew in his heart that Chinese people raised children, but they didn’t know when a saying “raising children in poverty and raising children in wealth” emerged. According to that statement, it is believed that educating boys should be strict and can be more materially harsh, and even let boys bear more suffering. For girls, they can do anything.

But in fact, the true meaning of this sentence is to raise a son in poverty, and to invest in a boy's life. It focuses on cultivating his strong will, character and sense of responsibility, so that he can endure hardships, be independent, not afraid of setbacks, and be a person who stands tall and ambitious.

Raising a daughter with wealth is an investment in cultural cultivation. It requires shaping a good temperament, broadening her horizons, increasing her experience and insight, making her independent and independent, understanding what she wants, rather than letting her children suffer, and having nothing to endure the beating and scolding of her parents, and doing something like filial son under a stick.

According to some people's views, to put it bluntly, if you want your son to become a real man, you have to work hard, polish your will, hold your confidence, and train your physical strength.

According to many people in later generations, a superior material life is the number one killer to ruin boys, and will breed hedonism, a desire to be lazy and labor-loving, and a comparative mind.

Parents should control the boy's expenses. The necessary growth must not be reduced. However, parents will unconditionally meet the requirements for children to buy new shoes and clothes... Parents must agree carefully, and they should not exchange for the number of names and scores they get.

Then it means that the flowers in the greenhouse cannot withstand the invasion of storms. In principle, parents should let the boy deal with them by themselves. Even if they encounter setbacks, they should not feel distressed, and they should not take care of them.

When men grow up, they have to accept various social challenges. When they are young, they must learn to take on things within their ability. Parents should consciously let boys dress themselves, pack their schoolbags, etc. from an early age.

What I want to say is that boys will suffer a little grievance from childhood and will have a deeper understanding of life. Therefore, even if a boy does something wrong, even if there is a misunderstanding, parents may as well be "harsh" and give appropriate criticism and punishment. Moreover, there must be a reason for everything. For example, if you are bullied by others, parents should ask clearly whether the child will provoke others first. Let boys know how to take on their own responsibilities from childhood.

Children often have "three minutes of popularity" when doing things, and they start complaining and want to stop halfway through doing things. But boys must have a beginning and an end to do things. At this time, parents must not agree to stop. They must cheer up appropriately and urge their children to complete them seriously. If one acquiesce to the child to give up halfway, then next time, next time, you will develop a character of procrastination, not seriousness, and giving up when you have difficulties.

The girls who are "rich" are knowledgeable, independent, and have their own opinions, and know what they want. When they grow up, they are not easily tempted by the prosperity and vanity of the world.

Gu Zhu

Li Zhongxin felt that his mother was poisoned by such a saying, and he was even less clear whether his mother could instill such thoughts into the teachers and students in the school. If that were the case, it would be a sin.

The reason why he is so promising now has nothing to do with his mother's education. Apart from making her feel that there was something wrong with her mother's attitude towards him, she had no other effect.

Wang Yaqing and Haruko said with a smile on their faces, and suddenly they saw Li Zhongxin standing there standing there. The smile on her face disappeared instantly. After glaring at Li Zhongxin, she slowly spoke up with anger: "A big man, not only walking, but also standing there like a wood, trying to scare people! He brought the fruit and didn't bring it yet, what are you doing when you stand?"

Wang Yaqing didn't see when Li Zhongxin came here. Did she hear the conversation between her and Haruko? Wang Yaqing didn't care much about whether she heard the conversation. She really didn't care about Li Zhongxin listening, but she was really shocked by Li Zhongxin standing there without any movement.

Li Zhongxin brought the fruit over with amused and cry, and then ran to the other side.

At this time, Li Zhongxin was speechless. He was not doing well. Now it’s better to hide from his mother, otherwise he would be scolded in a while.

"Look at you, what are you doing? Haruko came to our house and why did you run so far? Why, do you think I'm nagging, or you dislike me, or do you think you both hate us?" Wang Yaqing's face turned black when she saw Li Zhongxin hiding from her far away, and she said to Li Zhongxin with great dissatisfaction.

"I'm not thinking about what I did, it's wrong. It's a bit of annoying. I'm thinking about staying away from you. Hello, chatting with Haruko to avoid getting angry.

I'll pass now, can't I just pass now? One of you is my real mother and the other is my future wife. How can I hate you?" Li Zhongxin just explained a few words and saw Wang Yaqing getting angry. He immediately lowered his voice and said, "You'll pass now," and then slowly moved to Haruko's side.

At this time, Li Zhongxin couldn't understand his mother. He treated Haruko like a spring breeze and smiled very brightly, just like Haruko was her daughter. When he saw him, he seemed to see an enemy, and Li Zhongxin was also drunk.

"Look at you, why, you don't like to listen to a few words? You also know that I am your dear mother! You are not married now! I can still talk about you well. After you get married, my wife will tell you. If I want me to talk about you, I am too lazy to talk about you." Wang Yaqing looked up at Li Zhongxin and said in an unhappy tone.

When Wang Yaqing saw Li Zhongxin coming from there and sitting next to Haruko, she couldn't help feeling a sour feeling in her heart.

She sat there, the more she looked at Li Zhongxin, the more she felt disliked.
Chapter completed!