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Chapter 1513 The essence of marriage

There is a popular word on the Internet, which is "Voldemort".

As for the source of this word, it is undoubtedly a character in the famous movie. However, this word became popular on the Internet and its meaning was changed.

This word became popular on the Internet, and it was the homonym of "supporting brother demon". The truly popular word should be "supporting brother demon".

Whether it is "Voldemort" or "Brother-supporting Demon", the word "best" is popular on the Internet and generally means that after marriage, the woman will fund her younger brother from her original family, and mainly fund money.

Obviously, no matter which of these two words is, they are derogatory words.

This world is fair. Such behavior of the woman will bring such a derogatory title, and the man will naturally have it. The corresponding derogatory title of the man is "Mama's Baby Ma".

The so-called "mama's boy" is easier to understand, generally speaking, the man has no opinion and listens to his mother in everything.

A more popular saying is, do not marry Voldemort, do not marry a mother's boy!

Nowadays, many women believe that it is very appropriate to fund their younger brothers when they are capable. Otherwise, where is the family affection?

In fact, this idea is wrong. The easiest way is to put it into the situation and think about the man you marry if he is a mama boy and listen to his mother in everything, that is, the woman’s mother-in-law, can the woman bear it?

From a legal point of view, after a man and a woman get married, no matter whether the money earned by the two people is put together or whether the two people are in charge of their own income, the income after marriage is the common property of the couple. Since it is common property, it means that the couple owns it together. Why should the woman think that if she has the ability, she can support her younger brother?

From the perspective of family affection, should the brothers be kissed or the husband be kissed?

The essence of marriage is that two strangers who are not related by blood are combined to become two relationships that support each other for a lifetime!

Support each other and live a lifelong relationship, or a family that is closer?

When you are old and sick, you are hospitalized in bed, is it your younger brother who is at the bed or your husband who is at the bed?

I believe that as long as there is no problem with the three views and no water in my mind, it is very simple to understand the answer to this question!

When a person lives in this world, his relationship with his original family can never be left because it is a blood relationship, but this does not mean that the blood relationship between the original family will be closer than a marriage relationship!

Because people are still an independent individual, with their own personality and personality, and will form their own small family. Compared with their original family, their own small family should be put first.

As parents, they should think clearly that since they have given birth, they should raise the child, cultivate a good personality and correct view. This is what parents should do, otherwise what should they have for having children?

Parents who have given birth to a child but keep telling them how hard they work, are not qualified parents.

Let me ask you, since you feel it is hard, what should you do when you have a child? Do you want to suffer or suffer?

Besides, parents themselves have not made a personal appearance, but imposed their dreams and goals they failed to achieve when they were young and their goals they failed to achieve when they were young. This kind of parents is the most tragic thing!

To be honest, raising children is the responsibility of parents, and it is not the responsibility of sisters to their younger brothers. This must be clear!

The corresponding "mama's boy" is as disgusting. After the "mama's boy" gets married, there will basically be a situation where he does not control his income or gives it to the woman, but to his mother. He has to make decisions on both big and small matters. In this case, the woman cannot tolerate it. Why should the man tolerate "Voldemort"?

The basis of marriage is trust and respect. Trust is a system established over a long period of time and will be a very long process. However, the collapse of the trust system only takes a moment!

Respect in marriage is actually quite simple. Things involving both parties must be discussed and made together. Some personal things involve individuals can make decisions, but they must also let the other party know.

Some people say that marriage is the grave of love, but this is purely fart!

Love and marriage are two different words, and they are different things. Of course, there will be differences. However, love does not include marriage, but marriage must include love.

However, love in marriage has undergone a qualitative change after a plain life of food, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and has become more mellow and full of all aspects around us, making it difficult for people to notice the existence of love again, and even think that after marriage, there is no passion in love, and love disappears.

In fact, love in marriage has never disappeared. With love as the cornerstone, responsibility, trust and respect in marriage are all based on it, and will eventually be sublimated into family affection.

Yes, the ultimate relationship between two strangers is like this. Love will be sublimated into family affection and will always exist. This sublimated family affection is much stronger than the family affection in blood relationships.

It is undeniable that some people will have unhappy marriages, but compared to only a small number of people with unhappy marriages.

It’s like people with very unfortunate family members, relatively speaking, are only a small part of them.

There is yin, there is yang, and there is yang, there is yin, and yin and yang coexist.

Just like in today's families, most families cook with women. According to the proportion, there are fewer families cook with men.

This ratio can also be reduced and compared, that is, the chefs in the restaurant are basically all men, and female chefs relatively only take up a decimal number.

An Xin’s situation is no longer just to support her younger brother, she is repaying her entire original family.

Before An Xin got married, there was nothing to blame, because before she got married, An Xin's original family was her closest existence.

But, what is the essence of love?

In addition to pleasing each other, we also include understanding each other, because love is in the direction of marriage. You must understand each other's situation, personality, three views, etc. thoroughly to know whether the other person is the best life partner for you.

An Xin's approach of making money to her original family will inevitably make the man who is in love with her retreat.

If someone knows this situation and still fails to retreat, then there is only one possibility left. This person is not really dating An Xin, but dating An Xin for the purpose of playing.

An Xin is not stupid, so she can naturally understand this. This is probably the real reason why An Xin has been single over the years.
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