Chen Jian followed the old man silently and walked towards the air-raid shelter above, because Chen Jian really didn't know what to say.

Chen Jian has lived with the old man since he was a child and was raised by the old man. In Chen Jian's memory, the old man never said the word "fear", just as if this word does not exist at all for the old man.

Moreover, Chen Jian's personality is actually very similar to that of the old man.

Chen Jian and the old man actually knew this very well.

It is precisely because of this that Chen Jian knew very well that when he felt scared, he would not say it easily, even when facing the old man alone.

However, just now, the old man with a very similar personality to Chen Jian said the word "fear".

This is no longer as simple as being afraid!

The word fear, literally, refers to the uneasiness or panic in the heart when encountering difficulties, dangers, etc., which basically means the word fear.

However, the word fear is often used in a more specific way, while fear is not the case, and is often mainly used to describe the heart.

For example, many people like to keep pets, the most common pets are cats and dogs, while some people are afraid of animals like dogs.

At this time, we cannot say that we are afraid of dogs, we can only say that we are afraid.

From this we can see that the word "Fear" is often used in actual use.

The old man would say the word "fear" at this time because the subject of the old man was very specific, and the subject of the person he was afraid was Chen Jian, who was afraid because he was worried that something would happen to Chen Jian.

When you change to Chen Jian’s position, you should use the word fear, because Chen Jian faces the unknown, and fear comes from the unknown.

Some variety shows have set up game sessions. This game session is to put certain items or small animals in a box, so that the stars or guests participating in the show can reach in and touch through the small holes left in the box, and then guess what is placed in the box.

Of course, the side of the box facing the audience is made of transparent material, and the audience can clearly see what is placed in the box.

Such a game session is often very good. The audience below laughs, and the stars or guests who reach out to touch the things in the box will be scared to the tip of the sword.

The audience laughed because they saw what was in the box, something common to us, not something terrible.

Celebrities or guests will be scared and scream. Although there are some elements of performing for the performance of the show, in fact, you can't see the things in the box and really reach into the box to touch it, which is really scary.

This kind of gameplay is actually a vivid explanation of the origin of fear from the unknown.

"At any time, I will make it my first goal to save my life!" Chen Jian was silent for a long time. When he was not far from the air-raid shelter, he said: "Grandpa, I will use four words as the standard for doing things in the future, safety is the first!"

The old man nodded and said, "Yes, safety is the first priority. If your life is there, everything will be there. If your father could save his life back then, why would you suffer so much since childhood?"

When the old man said this, he stopped and looked at Chen Jian quietly, his eyes full of loving gazes, but there was a look of guilt mixed with.

The genes engraved in the bones of Oriental people are that they do not want their children to endure hardships. They strive to make their own families prosper and provide their children with better life and better conditions. Otherwise, there would not be such a widely circulated saying that would allow their children to win at the starting line.

It is precisely because of this idea that millions of small families form the oriental family.

In fact, there is an essence that has not changed, that is, everything is for future generations. It is precisely because of this essence that when major events occur, Orientals are very dedicated and sacrificed, because although Orientals usually care about their small family, when facing major events, Orientals are very clear that without everyone, how can they come from their small family!

Only when the large oriental family is stable, safe and prosperous, will the small oriental family be safe and prosperous.

This behavioral characteristic is completely incomprehensible to Westerners, because this behavioral characteristic is the characteristic of Eastern culture, the cultural gene of dialectical thinking that coexists yin and yang, opposite but unified, is deeply engraved in the bones of Eastern people.

What Westerners emphasize is one, two, and there is only opposition and no unity, so naturally they cannot understand the behavioral patterns caused by this cultural characteristic.

"Grandpa!" Chen Jian also looked at the old man quietly and said, "No one wants his children to endure hardships, so do I. I don't want to see my son and daughter endure hardships, but endurance can make people grow up quickly. If I didn't have the hardships I endured when I was a child, how could I be the one I am today? How can I wash away my father's grievances?"

After a meal, Chen Jian said: "Only those who endure hardships can be the best. Our ancestors have warned us a long time ago, but now people have forgotten this warning, and those who forget this warning are not at the bottom or the real high-level people, but at the middle level. This is terrible!"

"The bottom class is born to endure hardship, and you will work hard. They have the motivation to change their destiny!" The old man nodded and said, "The real high-level leaders have seen through everything. Their children have learned more than anyone else, but the middle class is not the case. Most of them climb up from the bottom. After life gets better, there are many people who don't want their children to endure hardship!"

"There is a saying now, called the anxiety of the middle level." Chen Jian smiled and said, "It means that there are still many people who are sober!"

"Where are you?" The old man also smiled, looked at Chen Jian, and asked, "How do you plan to raise your child?"

"It's definitely not like when I was a child." Chen Jian replied: "Because the knowledge I came into contact with and the training I received were of no use to them, but I will let them know this and do not need to learn it, but I need to know what's going on. In addition, in every era, the concept of suffering is different. I still hope that they will endure hardship, but they will demand them according to the standards of hardship in this era, and they must keep pace with the times, right?"

The old man patted Chen Jian on the shoulder and said, "Grow up!"

"I've grown up long ago!" Chen Jian curled his lips and said with dissatisfaction: "You old man just discovered it now?"

"No, it's not that I just discovered it now!" the old man said with a smile: "But I just as sure now, I'm sure of you growing up!"
Chapter completed!