Chapter 1982 The daughter-in-law is right
The queen's words made Mrs. Chen and Master Xu's hearts boil.
If these words are said from others, they may not be able to inspire anything, but the Queen said this, so the weight is naturally different and the shock it brings is also different.
"Mrs. Chen, what I said today from their family affairs seems abrupt, but in fact it is helpless. Many women will choose to hide in their hearts when they suffer grievances, and they don't even want to say anything more to others, for fear of losing a bad reputation. It is good to win a reputation for doing good or the overall situation, but it is ridiculous if you ask yourself to suffer humiliation and grievances to achieve anything, because what you can achieve is not your own face, the face of a man, nor your own reputation, but the so-called family reputation."
"I don't mean that everyone has to tell others if they suffer or feel wronged. Some people also like to hide their own thoughts, but they have to have another choice. Now the court actually has relevant laws to protect women, but everyone doesn't need it, why not?
Because the face is not good after the fuss, it is useless to be afraid that it will be useless to make a fuss. It would be better to endure it yourself. Mrs. Chen, do you think this is the case now?
In this case, especially the family members of your powerful and officials, the more you like to cover up the family mansion, the more you like to hide it, the more you hope that you can set an example and let the women of Northern Tang see your courage. Over time, those women who have been wronged will dare to stand up and resist, and what we have to do is to open this gap."
"We always have to take the first step in everything before we can know how to go in the future."
Yuan Qingling emphasized this sentence at the end.
Mrs. Chen was convinced and kowtowed respectfully, "Listen to the Empress, it is better to be a hundred years old. My wife understands the Empress's painstaking efforts and will definitely not disappoint her. She hopes that in the future, women can also hold half of the sky."
"Mrs. Chen, it's OK," Yuan Qingling looked at her and said, "But we need to fight for this day, not by giving or men's awakening."
Yuan Qingling did not advocate male-female opposition, nor did he advocate that women compare with men, but he just wanted to open up a relatively free living space for women.
After Mrs. Chen left, Yuan Qingling and Master Xu had a private conversation for a while.
Master Xu also said the truth, "Actually, the private woman has wanted to move out long ago, but she left her mother-in-law alone. She is really afraid that outsiders would criticize the children for being unfilial. You know, if you are guilty of being unfilial, you can't even say that your relatives are, so this matter has been delayed again and again. In addition, I have only bought four houses and there are still two left. If you want to separate the family, you have to wait until they get married before they can divide them."
Yuan Qingling couldn't help but admire him, "You are so amazing. A woman raised several children so well. Now that the children are old, you don't have to work too hard on yourself."
"The Empress is too good. Parents always plan for their children. Although they have their own way out, they have not yet got married. They will have to spend a lot of money to get married. In the future, they will be able to help their children. The private women do not feel that it is hard, and they can still make money, so they continue to make money. The private women save more money for them, and they will suffer less in the future."
Yuan Qingling patted the back of her hand, "I think you have your own plan, and I won't give you too many ideas, you can do it."
Master Xu said gratefully: "Xiang Niang's care, the kindness of the empress, the people's wife remembered it in her heart."
"Rehabilitate well."
Yuan Qingling felt a little sad. She had worked hard for so many years and remembered the good things of others in her heart. How rare.
After leaving the Lu family, Yuan Qingling returned to the palace. There will naturally be someone to deal with the matters of the Northern Yaman. The queen has already shown her face, so there is a direction for what to do next.
However, Lao Wu said angrily that he would do Qin Huan and his son first. Yuan Qingling thought for a while and said, "It's good to do Qin Huan, his son won't do it."
"How can you not deal with his son?
That's a scourge."
The fifth brother opposed his wife for the first time.
Yuan Qingling sat down with his hand and comforted him, "Don't worry, just ask Gu Si to do Qin Huan. As for his son, I'll keep it for your son, okay?"
This incident arose because of Chi Tong and hurt Master Xu. Bao'er would definitely be very angry. If everything is done when he comes back, he will not even expel his anger. He will keep this Master Qin for him so that he can vent his anger.
The fifth brother suddenly turned anger into joy, "You are still thoughtful."
Yuan Qingling rubbed his temples, "Baoer always said he would grow up slowly with Chi Tong, but he is really too busy. We can help, help, but some of them shouldn't be helped, so let him play."
"You're right."
Chapter completed!