Chapter 384: The most hurtful feeling of a quarrel
[69 Book Bar - WWW.69SHU.COM] Lan Yifeng and Huo Qingcang glared at each other. When it comes to educating their children, parents cannot have two attitudes. Otherwise, the children will not know who to listen to, or
Just listen to what is beneficial to you.
However, what children think is good for them is not necessarily a good thing. Therefore, it is important to cultivate their ability to distinguish right from wrong.
Xuanxuan found out that her parents were arguing because of her, so she felt that she had gone too far.
"Xuanxuan, new clothes must be washed before they can be worn. Otherwise, the residue on them will be bad for the body, so Mommy asked you and Jin'er to change clothes." Lan Yu finally had a chance to interrupt, and spoke at the right time, Xuanxuan
It suddenly dawned on me.
"Ba Ba, Ma Ma, it was my fault. Please stop fighting over me, okay? This is the first time my father bought me a gift, so I wanted to wear it." Xuanxuan took the initiative to admit to them that they were in the wrong.
, and then showed a bright and reassuring smile: "My sister and I are going to change our clothes right now. We will wear them after they are washed."
She said and led Jin'er upstairs. Huo Qingcang knew that he had misunderstood her and opened his lips slightly, but did not say a word. People are like this. The older they get, the more they care about so-called face, and even apologizing becomes more difficult.
It's going to be difficult.
Lan Yifeng invited Lan Yu and Huo Mingzhe to sit at the table and served them millet porridge. He usually served Huo Qingcang rice, but today there was no share for him. Jin'er and Xuanxuan quickly changed their clothes and came down.
, the family started to eat, but the atmosphere at the table was very wrong.
The four little guys were all sensitive to the cold war between Baba and Mommy. They didn't look at each other or talk to each other, which was completely different from usual.
Huo Qingcang took a few bites, put down his chopsticks, kissed the four treasures, and then said: "I'm at work."
"Thank you for your hard work, Baba. Goodbye Baba." The four children greeted him one after another, but Lan Yifeng still didn't look at him. He walked to the door with his briefcase and stood for a while, but she still didn't see him off as usual.
At the door, give him a parting question.
Huo Qingcang turned his head, his eyes full of disappointment, opened the door and left.
"Mama, did you and Baba have a fight?" Xuanxuan finally couldn't help it and asked tentatively.
Lan Yifeng patted his daughter on the head: "Adults, we all have quarrels over some things. But after the disputes are resolved, we will make peace."
"Then when will your dispute be resolved?" Jin'er also asked curiously.
"Soon."
"Mama, I don't like to see you and Ba Ba arguing, and I'm not in a good mood either." Huo Mingzhe said this with a stern face.
Lan Yifeng suddenly realized that when she and Huo Qingcang were angry, the child was the one who was most affected.
For the sake of her child, she decided to have a good chat with Huo Qingcang when he came back in the evening.
She promised the children that she and Baba would reconcile tomorrow, and then looking at their happy faces, she immediately felt that her idea was right.
She had taken care of the child alone before. Later, although Huo Qingcang moved in, he was always treated as an uncle. Now, he has changed from uncle to father. It didn't take long at all. She and he never considered what to do.
Educating children as a pair of parents.
It seems that they will have to think more about it in the future.
After sending the child away, Zhao Jiyan was waiting for her at home, saying that he was ordered by Huo Qingcang to take her pulse and see if she had any fetal movement.
Lan Yifeng joked while handing him the partition: "I thought you were just a psychiatrist."
"I originally studied Chinese medicine, and later became a psychiatrist."
"Then you are really young and promising." Being proficient in Chinese medicine and psychology at such a young age is really impressive. She suddenly thought of Tao Shanshan again, "By the way, how is Tao Shanshan now?"
"Still receiving treatment." Zhao Jiyan took her pulse and said while packing her things: "She thought she was killing you, so she had nightmares day and night. Later she found out that you were not dead, so she thought
All the suffering I have suffered over the years has been in vain, so her behavior is a bit extreme. During the process of guiding her, we found that, in fact, when she was a child, she had some paranoia in her personality. If we want her to get better now, we have to
It is difficult for her to learn to let go, but because of her fixed personality since she was a child, it is difficult for her to learn this. Therefore, the progress of treatment has not been very fast."
She didn't quite understand what Zhao Jiyan said, but she just knew that this matter was a bit tricky.
She saw Zhao Jiyan outside the gate and saw him driving away. Just as she was about to go back, a person suddenly appeared on the wall, the blond young man, who smiled and greeted her: "Hi, sister, good morning."
"Good morning. You got up quite early. I rarely see you at this hour." It was not that she deliberately wanted to tell him what time to get up, but once he got up, he would play very exciting rock music, and everyone would
Everyone knows, ah, he woke up at this point.
"I finally got my jet lag back. Alas, every time I get jet lag, it takes me a long time."
Jet lag... Lan Yifeng suddenly thought of Huo Qingcang. He didn't seem to be jet lag. It should be said that he didn't even get a good rest after getting off the plane.
She said hello to the handsome blond boy, went upstairs, and when she stepped into the entertainment room, she found many new toys, especially for boys.
These should be the gifts he bought for the boys...
She squatted down and fiddled with a small truck on the ground. Huo Qingcang chose these, which were all what the children wanted. Since he remembered it so clearly, she could even see such a picture. In a big-name British specialty store, he
He carefully selected new clothes for the children, and then turned to the toy store on the side. Every time he picked up a toy, he would think about whether this toy is suitable for children to play with and whether they would be willing to play with it. After thinking about it, he
Only then will the toys be placed in the checkout box.
When the clerk saw this pile of toys, and looked at Huo Qingcang's oriental face, he might have thought that he was also a nouveau riche from China, who came to England to buy goods and pretended to be a wealthy man.
In fact, this is Huo Qingcang's most sincere heart for the children.
Aunt Liu was right. When two couples quarrel, they can't always compete with each other about who will bow first. Moreover, she and Huo Qingcang have agreed not to quarrel all night. This time, she should take the initiative first.
Chapter completed!