Chapter 116 Holding hands
There are more than a dozen ways to invite, including direct invitation, tentative invitation, hypothetical invitation, game invitation...
These are all small tricks. No matter how the methods change, the success rate of invitations does not change much.
If you really want to increase the probability of success, you can only make an invitation based on the premise that both parties have a good impression of each other and want to get to know each other in depth.
If a girl doesn't like you yet, then at least you have to give her a certain sense of security and trust, otherwise you won't be able to date her.
Gao Yun has already exceeded these requirements, so now the two of them are sitting in the Maybach and arriving at the intersection of Nanxiang Pedestrian Street.
The street is 8 meters wide and 787 meters long. It has a history of more than 740 years and is the most Beijing-style old alley in the city.
Once upon a time, the streets and alleys here were crowded with dignitaries, there were countless palaces and palaces, and there were also former residences of celebrities; Qi Baishi, Mao Dun, Prince Gong's Mansion Garden, Chiang Kai-shek's palace, etc.
Today, most of the buildings are still well preserved, but tourists are not allowed to visit inside and can only look at them from the outside.
In addition to these scenic spots, what is more important is that it is a commercial pedestrian street with everything to eat, drink and have fun; clothing stores, jewelry stores, toy stores, handicraft stores, domestic and foreign gourmet restaurants of various styles, cafes, bars...
Most people place their first date in a restaurant or a movie theater, which are actually not good choices.
In the former, if you are not talkative enough, the quiet environment of the restaurant will easily turn you off, and the economic cost will be higher.
The latter, watching a movie, two people can't communicate at all, why did you ask out?
Places like commercial pedestrian streets are particularly suitable for first dates. They are very convenient for breaking the ice. The environment is lively and full of topics. It is not a quiet place. You can eat and play if you want. The economic cost is not high and there are still opportunities for physical contact.
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"Ah Hui, go find a place to park. We'll call you when we come out."
"Okay, Mr. Gao."
Gao Yun put on the hat that Miss Lu bought for him in the afternoon, covered himself up a little, and entered the bustling South Alley with Teacher Xiao Jiang.
The ground is paved with large green bricks, and on both sides are antique buildings from the Yuan, Ming and Qing dynasties, with small red lanterns hanging high. In fact, there are various businesses and snacks inside. The neon signboards in front of the door are flashing, and pedestrians are walking shoulder to shoulder.
, bustling.
“It’s not much different from the ancient city pedestrian street in Hushi.”
This was Gao Yun's first thought. He felt that all the pedestrian streets in the country were very different, and then he started looking for opportunities to hold hands.
Dr. Hall, professor of anthropology, divides the field of distance in communication into four types: intimate distance, private distance, social distance and public distance.
Only when two people reach the first closest distance, which is 15 cm to 44 cm, can you try to hold hands. If they don't even reach this distance, it means they are avoiding you. Don't try, or you will be dumped if you try.
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Secondly, when making physical contact, you must be decisive and don’t hesitate. When a man gets along with women, he must not be timid. He must be aboveboard and dare to take action, including striking up conversations!
In most cases, women can clearly see your hesitant behavior of reaching out or not approaching you to strike up a conversation. They are not blind, but are very sensitive to this kind of thing. They can clearly see your indecisiveness in their hearts.
Even if they don't laugh at you, they will still lose points for you.
Now, because the pedestrian street is quite crowded, the distance between the two is about twenty centimeters. Gao Yun did not hesitate and directly stretched out his hand to hold her.
"!"
There was a struggle, but not with much force. Jiang Jingqi's eyes were shocked and she turned her head subconsciously. Even if the light was dim at night, her face still turned red at a speed visible to the naked eye. No matter how lingering and enchanting the night was, it couldn't match that touch of red.
Beauty, beauty is endless. As the saying goes, looking at a beautiful woman under the moonlight is ten times more beautiful than in the daytime.
Gao Yun tightened his grip and showed an embarrassed smile: "There are too many people. I'm not familiar with the road and I'm afraid of getting lost."
This excuse was a bit shameless, and it obviously failed to convince the other party. After all, it had only been two days since the two officially met. Ten minutes ago, Xiao Jiang pretended to be a teacher and taught him a lesson, and now they are holding hands?
"You! Let go!"
Jiang Jingqi's voice was fierce, but her red face seemed unconvincing.
What should I do if I lose it? I’m your student?! You have to be responsible!
Gao Yun pretended not to hear, held hands and continued walking forward, asking: "Are you hungry? Is there anything you want to eat?"
"..."
Jiang Jingqi struggled again, each time her strength became weaker than the last. Gao Yun held on tightly and followed her strength, swinging their hands back and forth.
Seeing that this plan didn't work, Teacher Xiaojiang tried another one. He used his left hand to squeeze Gao Yun's hand in a whimsical way. However, his expression remained unchanged and he asked again: "What's delicious on this street? Take me there."
Have a taste.”
"……Go forward."
Jiang Jingqi pretended to be calm. The hand was warm and strong. The calluses on the palm and knuckles were rough due to long-term training, but it actually gave people an inexplicable sense of security.
There are many men and women on the street, holding hands or holding waists like this, with natural and intimate expressions. It seems that they are infected by the environment, and Teacher Xiaojiang's struggle is getting weaker and weaker...
The two of them held hands and came to an ice cream shop called ICE STORY.
The area is small, and there are only two or three tables in the room. The blue and white decoration looks relatively refreshing and clean. There are blue sleepwalking dolls, little tin soldiers and other toys on the ordering table, which look very cute.
"A strawberry flavored dark cloud ice cream."
Jiang Jingqi must have come to this store often, so she turned around and asked, "What flavor do you want?"
"Let's eat one." Gao Yun suggested, and then explained: "I'm controlling my intake. Order one for you to eat, and let me take a small sip and taste the taste."
Too much! Really too much!
Jiang Jingqi decisively refused: "No! I'm not used to this. You can ask for another one yourself."
"What a waste!"
Gao Yun advised: "I'll just take a small bite! Just such a small bite! If it doesn't work, you can just leave some for me after you finish."
"..."
Despite all the talk, Xiao Jiang remained silent, neither agreeing nor rejecting. Gao Yun knew this, and pulled her to sit side by side at a table indoors. Only then did he let go of his hand.
Jiang Jingqi was a little uncomfortable: "Why don't you sit across from me?"
Gao Yun smiled and teased: "You want to negotiate with me? Let me sit across from you?"
When you are not sure about your relationship, try to sit side by side with a girl when you go out to eat. In this way, you may even reach an 'intimate distance' of about 15 centimeters. Each other can feel each other's body temperature, smell and breath, which is very conducive to communication and physical contact.
This will warm up the relationship.
"We should talk!"
Jiang Jingqi seemed to have completely regained her sanity. When the hands she held were separated, the hormonal transmission was shut down, and her smart IQ took over the high ground again...
Chapter completed!