The next day, during lunch time after the cultural class, Hou Xu came as scheduled, and Gao Yun called him to an empty living room.

While eating, he learned about the progress of his task.

1. Build your own circle of friends.

2. Spend an hour every day chatting with the opposite sex, whether online or offline, regardless of age or appearance.

3. If there is a pretty girl you find pleasing to your eyes, immediately try to invite her out.

This was a task set by Gao Yun more than three months ago, and Hou Xu could be said to have carried out it with all his concentration.

The first was the construction of a circle of friends, where he gradually began to publish his life and study routine, mostly the research progress of the topic, as well as which book lists he had completed, the names and photos of the documents, and which scholarships and honors he had received.

.Occasionally interspersed with some selfies taken while studying and experimenting.

The slightly brighter ones are the beautiful travel photos that I left behind when I traveled to various places at home and abroad. There are also on-site images from two visits to the Ivy League universities in the United States for study and exchange.

There was no information about his wealthy family background, and what was conveyed to the outside world was that of a normal doctor of psychology. Generally speaking, this person seemed a bit boring and uninteresting, and spent most of his time on his studies.

But this is the reality. Hou Xu is such a person. He usually focuses on his studies and has few recreational activities. He occasionally plays stand-alone games and travels when he has more free time.

Real, self!

Gao Yun repeatedly emphasized to him that only by showing yourself truly can you attract the opposite sex who truly appreciates you.

To deceive, to pretend, to pretend to be rich if you don’t have money, or to pretend to be talented if you don’t have talent, is a problem with your moral character. Moreover, sooner or later, the lie will be exposed one day, and then the girl will be deceived by you for money and sex, and she will become angry.

You can use any means, including calling the police and exposing yourself, and your retribution will come.

Taking a step back, the IQ and quality of the girls you attract through your inferior deception are definitely of concern.

If you want to have a long-term relationship, if you want to find someone of the opposite sex who understands you, who truly understands you, who has common topics and is truly compatible with you, then you need to show your true self.

Starting from your circle of friends to your every move in real life.

Of course, this premise is that you must be valuable in order to show your true self in this way. If you are not valuable, please improve yourself.

You are slovenly, weigh 300 pounds, have a round waist, a ferocious face, dirty manners, a bad personality, a vicious face, and you still shout all day long that you still want a perfect and sweet love?

Well, it's difficult...

This is a cruel fact. The higher the overall value and the more beautiful you are, the greater the probability of finding love, because there will be many opposite sexes interested in you, and you have more rights to choose.

Secondly, truly perfect love can only occur between two people with a high spiritual level, and this requires a certain amount of luck.

Many people with good character, inner excellence, and stunning looks are not lucky enough to find true love.

For Hou Xu, it does not involve that far. No matter who looks at him, although he may be a little boring and concentrates on his studies, everyone has to admit that he is definitely a very outstanding young man.

Judging from the circle of friends alone, it is not considered to be a privileged family background: Hou Xu, a Ph.D. from Peking University, received a scholarship, has no bad hobbies, looks good, has good clothes, is thin, tall and energetic, and has a bright future. He can be said to be very outstanding.

Already.

"Well, not bad, not bad."

Gao Yun looked at Hou Xu's circle of friends and nodded: "Have you been to Sichuan and Tibet? It's pretty good!"

Hou Xu recalled: "It was during the summer vacation of my senior year. I drove there by myself. I wanted to go there again."

Gao Yun said: "Go, I haven't been there yet. I will go there after I pass the exam."

"Then senior brother, you should really go and take a look at Sichuan and Zang. Really, it feels so different."

The Sichuan-Tibet Line is called China's Landscape Avenue by National Geographic. Countless people regard this highway as their lifelong dream.

Gao Yun was somewhat yearning for it, so he took advantage of the situation and set a small goal in his heart. When he was admitted to college, he would just go there to relax and reward himself.

After chatting for a while, I brought up the second task of communicating with the opposite sex for one hour every day.

In Gao Yun's opinion, Hou Xu completed this task very well. He spent more than one hour every day, on average, two hours chatting with the opposite sex.

At the beginning, Hou Xu went to squares and parks to chat with the elderly aunts, and just chatted with each other.

"Where are you exercising?"

"Hey, your dress is beautiful. Where did you buy it? I'll buy a set for my mother later!"

"Hey, you dance very well!"

"How old are you this year? Sixty-seven? I think you are only in your fifties. You are too young!"

Over time, I became familiar with the aunts. They saw that this young man had good conditions in all aspects, and they rushed to introduce him to him.

"Brother Yun, don't tell me. The girls you introduced to me are pretty good in terms of looks, family, education, etc."

Gao Yun smiled and said: "As expected, I asked you to chat with Auntie just for this purpose, to broaden your channels for making friends. How about it? Did you meet in the end?"

Hou Xu smiled sheepishly: "One of the photos was quite beautiful. I couldn't help it. I met him once and he was very nice. But after the contact, I felt like he was just rushing to get married. He asked about houses, cars, and families. I know.

After my family met me, they were very enthusiastic towards me. I felt that it was too purposeful and I didn’t continue.”

Too purposeful? This guy really wants a sweet love?

Gao Yun smiled: "Well, besides aunt, have you ever talked to girls of the same age?"

"have!"

Hou Xu handed over his mobile phone: "Brother, just look at my chat history, the five at the top."

"Let me see."

While Hou Xu was chatting with his aunt, he was also chatting with the female classmates around him, mostly on WeChat. But unlike before, the content was limited to academic exchanges. Instead, he was talking about everything, and he was looking for something to talk about.

"Have you eaten?"

"What are you doing?"

"How are you?"

Some female students responded well, while others stopped chatting for a few words. The latter were generally pretty or had boyfriends.

But at the beginning, when Hou Xu saw that the other party was no longer chatting, he would ask more questions.

"Why didn't you reply to me?"

"Busy?"

In fact, this is a very stupid behavior. Suppose 1, the girl is really busy and did not see your message. Then if you ask this kind of question, you will appear to be LOW, because the girl did not want to ignore you, she just didn't see it.

So when you say something like this, firstly, it is a denial of your own charm, and secondly, it implicitly blames the girl, which is a real point reduction behavior.

Assumption 2: If the girl doesn’t reply, it means you feel there is no need to reply, it means your value is low, and she is not interested in you.

What should I do if they don’t reply?

If you don't reply, you'll be kicked down. Stay calm. It's time to be busy with your career and study, and improve your own value. She just ignores you and you ignore her. There's no need to ask.

If you are really interested, continue chatting with her at another time and try to make an appointment. If you can't get an appointment, hurry up and say hello to the next one. There is no need to be discouraged. There are so many women in the world. Find the girl you can.

If the value is high enough, no matter how straight the guy is, no matter how good he is at chatting, there will be girls chasing him.

Gao Yun can see from the chat records that Hou Xu gradually understood this truth in the middle period, and changed his nervous and caring attitude in the early stage. Chatting with girls became more casual and indifferent, and it was not that he had nothing to say, but

They are chatting very purposefully.

"Looking at your circle of friends, I found that you have been watching Thirty Only recently, and I am also watching it. Which character in it do you hate the most?"

"Do you believe in horoscopes?"

Hou Xu used some small questions to speculate on the other party's character and outlook.

"Yes, you have understanding!"

Gao Yun briefly scanned the chat records of the five girls and praised: "It's done very well. It seems that you can now apply theoretical knowledge to real life. You have mastered it, you have mastered it!"

Hou Xu smiled and said: "At first, maybe because I rarely chatted with girls, I was a little nervous. Later, I chatted more and relaxed. I felt it was quite simple. I calmed down and put both parties on the same page.

On an equal footing, but with yourself as the center, and then just chat with them normally."

Gao Yun lamented: "It's easier said than done." After a pause, he asked again: "Then what if she ignores you?"

Hou Xu said directly: "Hey, they ignored me too much. I was quite embarrassed at first, but then I decided to just ignore them. I don't want to do anything with them, so it doesn't matter."

"Yes, it doesn't matter!" Gao Yun said in a serious tone: "No matter what you want to do with her, it doesn't matter to you. Don't feel frustrated just because the girl you like ignores you, and show it in front of her, and go to

It's stupid to ask why others ignore you. Men must be able to keep their composure. If you can't keep your composure, there is no charm at all!"

Hou Xu seemed to understand: "Oh."

"The last item, apart from the blind date, have you ever gone on a date with a girl?"

"Yes, yes, yes."

Hou Xu took back his mobile phone and clicked on the top dialog box in WeChat. It was a girl named Hu Xueya. Her profile picture was a selfie of herself. She was very beautiful, innocent and slightly sexy, pure and lusty.

"That's it." Hou Xu explained: "Two weeks ago, I met at a friend's birthday party, and she took the initiative to invite me. We went shopping together and had some snacks."

"..."

Gao Yun clicked on this girl's circle of friends and found that the content she posted was very high-quality, including pastries baked by herself, dishes showing her cooking skills, Hanfu, modern and other personal photos, playing the piano and singing, and occasionally painting with a paintbrush.

, fitness sports, traveling to take pictures of beautiful scenery, skiing, diving, golf, etc.

All in all, the information conveyed by this girl's circle of friends includes but is not limited to: I am good at cooking, I am very talented, my family is well off, my life is very stylish, I have many hobbies, I am beautiful...

Just looking at it gives people a very high-class feeling!

As for character design, this guy is definitely a master of character design! Damn, his circle of friends is better than mine!
Chapter completed!