The Taikoo Li Shopping Center in Xilitun, the capital, is one of the national five-star shopping malls.

This is a stylish landmark and modern urban tourist attraction with numerous "first" and "only" titles.

In the capital, I have yet to encounter a shopping mall that can surpass it in every aspect.

But nothing is perfect, and this place has two shortcomings in Gao Yun's opinion.

First, the shopping center tends to focus on light luxury goods, such as mk, kate spade, Swarovski, luna, ash, etc., but there are few truly top international luxury brand stores.

Second, being too famous, with a huge flow of people, a mixed bag of good and bad people, and there are all kinds of weird people, whether they are in weird clothes or people with mental problems... Maybe when you have a meal in a certain restaurant, you will meet a bunch of Internet celebrities taking selfies with their faces.

, while chirping about which country leader’s son he had recently dated, which made people laugh and cry.

If the time were moved forward earlier, this area would be even more chaotic. There would also be a lot of people who shoot short videos, lighting, camera, directors, assistants, etc., just like a small crew, surrounding a person who was wearing unusually cool clothes and posing.

Women occupy the road for filming work.

Fortunately, Taikoo Li has recently banned this kind of behavior. If the roadside staff sees someone taking a video with their mobile phone, they will ask them to delete it, but photos are allowed.

Of course, there are many advantages.

What impressed Gao Yun the most, who had just gotten off the bus, was that there were so many beauties here, all of them dressed in fashionable clothes and with good figures. It was summer, and the long legs on the roadside were so white that they dazzled people's eyes.

"Look at those three people."

"Damn, one man and two women,"

"I'm envious. I think this handsome guy is not only handsome, he must also be rich and rich!"

Gao Yun was looking at others, and the passers-by around him were also looking at him. For no other reason, the beauty with the fairest legs on the whole street was on his left, and the one with the prettiest appearance was on his right. It would be strange not to attract attention.

.

Fortunately, both Gao Yun and Shen Qiongxiao were wearing sunglasses and masks, otherwise they would have been recognized.

"By the way, Teacher Shen, Anta contacted me recently and wants to invite you to shoot an advertisement for five million. Are you interested?"

Shen Qiongxiao is also very well-known now. Videos of art candidates will occasionally show him and Gao Yun exercising together. In the past six months of fitness, her figure has changed significantly. Coupled with her appearance, she also has considerable commercial value.

Many companies related to education and sports brands have made offers to Gao Yun.

Shen Qiongxiao thought for a moment and said, "Tell them my phone number and let me talk to them."

"oh?!"

Gao Yun was a little surprised: "Didn't you go back to work? Do you have time to do this? Shooting commercials is quite troublesome."

Shen Qiongxiao shook his head and said: "Actually, before I gave you extra lessons, I was a little tired of the current psychological counseling job. I have been doing it for four years since graduation. I am tired. After that, I stopped working for so long, and now I am back to work, and I am even more uncomfortable, so I

Consider changing jobs or taking some time off."

Gao Yun agreed: "If you don't want to do it, then resign. From now on, you can do whatever you like. I support you."

He also doesn't really want his girlfriend to become a psychological counselor, or a psychiatrist.

Because the consulting (therapeutic) relationship is an alliance, the relationship between the patient and the counselor is hidden and confidential. If you, as a doctor, want to treat the other party, you need to have an in-depth conversation with the patient.

Empathy and back-and-forth between empathy and being empathized with.

The patient's mentality is obviously unhealthy. After being exposed for a long time, the doctor himself will also be infected, and it is a high probability that psychological problems will occur.

In fact, many counselors in the industry are not good enough and may develop feelings for patients, violating professional ethics and codes, and may have a relationship with the patient and become a couple.

Gao Yun was not worried about the latter situation happening to Shen Qiongxiao. He just didn't want his girlfriend to be too tired. After all, the other party had enough ability and sufficient material conditions, so he wouldn't find another job just because he quit his job. If you are worried about your career, not to mention working hard for your livelihood, you are qualified to say that: people, the most important thing is to be happy! Doing what you like is the most important thing!

Shen Qiongxiao, who had just graduated, liked psychological things very much, but as the old saying goes, when a hobby turns into a career, it will change. Her four-year career as a psychological counselor made her a little tired. At this time, Gao Yun's words " I support you' also helped her make up her mind.

"Well, I will submit my resignation application to the headquarters tomorrow."

Qiu Ting couldn't help but said: "Sister, do you really want to resign? But you majored in psychology. You are the director of the capital branch of Blue Road Club, with an annual salary of one million. That is a position that many psychology students at Peking University dream of... "

He obviously didn't understand what he said, and finally asked: "If you resign, what will you do in the future?"

Shen Qiongxiao then remembered that her cousin, who was influenced by her, was in the same major as her, and was facing the critical point of entering her fourth year of college and about to enter society.

Psychology majors are notorious for being unemployed upon graduation, even at Peking University. Even if students in this major find a job, most of them will not find a career directly related to their major. Most of them are indirectly related, and they feel that what they have learned is of no use. land.

Therefore, Qiu Ting is probably very confused. When she asks this question, it is better to say that she is asking herself.

Shen Qiongxiao walked naturally between the two, took Qiu Ting's hand, and asked an irrelevant question: "Why did you choose psychology?"

Because of you? No!

Qiu Ting thought about it carefully and said carefully: "Because I was influenced by you since I was a child, I prefer psychology, so I chose this major."

"So now that you are in your senior year of college, you should have a certain understanding of psychology. What do you think it is useful for?"

Qiu Ting thought again, and it took a little longer.

It happened that the three of them passed by a milk tea shop. Gao Yun said with a smile: "Come on, let's go in and chat. I'll treat you to the first cup of milk tea in summer!"

Two medium and one small, three kinds of big breast tea with different flavors were served on the table.

Qiu Ting said: "Healing others, healing yourself. It allows us to face ourselves and the world more clearly, and to face stress and negative emotions better. Psychology is not like a skill to make a living, but more of a learning Logic and thinking.”

Shen Qiongxiao nodded and said: "Yes, psychology should actually be regarded as a kind of general education. As a human being, you should more or less understand what is going on with people. This kind of self-awareness is very precious, no matter what you do in the future No matter what job, I believe this knowledge can help you experience the rest of your life. But it is not professional knowledge for making a living. Even if you learn it thoroughly, it will not make you make a lot of money or buy luxury goods. Cars and mansions, fame and wealth, success in the worldly sense. Psychology will tell you that the definition of success is not fixed and can be decided by yourself..."

"Hiss Liu~~"

Gao Yun took off his mask, holding a small cup of milk tea in his hand, sipping from the cup while searching for the beauties in the store with his eyes. Several groups of customers had obviously recognized him and waved to say hello.

"Look, it's Gao Yun!"

"Ah, he's still smiling at us, he's so handsome!"

"Go! Go up and have a chat!"

Some people took out their mobile phones to shoot videos, and a few young ladies boldly came over to chat with Gao Yun. The latter gestured to Shen Qiongxiao and sat at another table next to him, leaving the two sisters chatting one-on-one.

Shen Qiongxiao said softly: "Actually, psychology is a discipline that is separated from philosophy. Before psychology officially became a discipline, it belonged to philosophy. The reason why psychology can become an independent discipline is because it breaks away from philosophy. They have broken the fetters of philosophy and advocate experimental verification of natural science. This is essentially different from philosophy. The former is metaphysical and speculative. The latter is empirical. There are a large number of objective scientific experiments and real data. However, psychological research needs to be combined with philosophy in order to Conduct prerequisite reflection and ethical review. I recommend you a book "Living the Meaning of Life", written by Frankl, professor of neurology and psychiatry at the Medical University of Vienna. Go back and read it. If you have read it, slow down. , go and see it again..."

Gao finally figured it out. In the name of going shopping, Dr. Shen wanted to provide psychological counseling to his cousin who was about to enter the society. Well, there were many aspects, from the outlook on life to the world, and maybe also the emotional outlook... Counseling Well, a small tree will not grow straight if it is not repaired!

"Ayun, I really like you so much!"

"You are much more handsome than in the video!"

Gao Yun's table was surrounded by many young ladies. Some of them, who were not too hot, tried to get on top of him, and some bold and unruly people stretched out their little hands to try to feel Gao's arm muscles...

"Don't be like this." Gao Yun smiled and shook hands with the extended paws one by one, resisting these female perverts without leaving any trace.

"My fans can't be so new to the market, please stay calm!"

Another table.

Shen Qiongxiao said: "The uses of learning psychology you mentioned before are correct, but in a nutshell, there is only one use of learning psychology. Make your life happier, accept yourself better, and gain growth."

"You just asked me what I will do after I resign. In fact, I can do anything. Tingting, you need to know that psychology graduates can not only serve as psychological counselors, college teachers and other corresponding jobs in the traditional sense, because their research content and The universality of research methods also has a very broad and urgent need in the business world; human-computer interaction user research researchers, product managers, strategic analysis, marketing analysis, human resources, management consulting and other positions. And you can also start a business, You can choose to develop a career that interests you, is beneficial to society, and has never been done by others. Your family has the capital to do this, do what you want, form your team to take risks, and be proficient in psychology. Everyone is a master of management. Of course, the premise is that you can learn relevant finance, computer, marketing, management and other knowledge on this basis..."

Seeing Qiuting's deeply inspired look, Shen Qiongxiao said: "Secular life itself is like a giant simulation game with very complex settings. Each self-awareness is loaded on a body and then carries out various tasks. "Studying philosophy is about thinking about how the game itself came about, how it is set up, and the reasons behind the setting."

"And psychology is about studying all the players in this game, including yourself! Understand the characteristics and reasons of human beings' informed thoughts, cognition, emotions, will, and behavior. This game is made up of people. Find out what these represent for you. I also understand the rules of this game... This will not help you improve your game level, but it will make it easier for you to be happy. This kind of clear logical thinking can help you in your career development, love path, or relationship with others. Get along more harmoniously and reduce unnecessary conflicts.”

Qiu Ting suddenly recalled her high school days. In her opinion at that time, Shen Qiongxiao was simply an omnipotent goddess. Shen Qiongxiao not only helped her with her homework every weekend, but also helped her with her homework when she encountered any worries or troubles. , the mentally mature cousin continues to enlighten his young self just like today. Any problem seems to be no problem in his eyes and can be easily resolved.

"I want to be like my sister!"

Therefore, Qiuting was influenced by it and chose the same major as Shen Qiongxiao. After in-depth exchanges so far, she felt that her cousin was back, and the relationship between the two seemed to be reconciled...

However, Qiu Ting glanced at Gao Yun's empty seat: "Where's your relationship? Sister, how is your relationship with Brother Yun going?"

"Very good!" Shen Qiongxiao turned his attention to the other table.

Gao Yun was chatting and laughing with the young ladies, and they were having a good time. When he saw the look she was looking at, he responded with a smile, turned around and said to the young ladies.

"I'm over there. Teacher Shen is calling me. You two can chat."

"Okay, goodbye Ayun." The young ladies looked reluctant to leave.

He said goodbye to all the female fans and returned to his original position: "Are you talking bad about me?"

Shen Qiongxiao also laughed: "I'm saying you are too charming and too popular."

Then, the topic changed: "Tingting, is there anything you want to buy?"

"Sneakers, sister, what do you want to buy?"

"It's similar to you, a complete set of sportswear, worn when exercising."

Qiu Ting suddenly became interested and praised: "Sister, you are so perseverant. Your abs and buttocks are showing. You can take me with you anytime. I also want to work out with you."

Shen Qiongxiao hesitated for a moment: "Okay, I just happened to be on my way. When it's time to exercise, I will pick you up and go to his gym together."

"good!"

"呲流~~"

Gao Yun sipped the milk tea without saying a word, thinking to himself, you are trying to lure a wolf into the house! Your cousin’s blue contact lenses have started to glow green since she saw me, can’t you see?!

…

Not long after, the three of them walked into NikeLab DSM PEK in Taikoo Li.

NikeLab is a concept store owned by Nike, which is nicknamed "the laboratory of hooks".
To be continued...