Chapter 241 When the human stars shine(1/2)
Wu Jing was a martial arts athlete when she was a child. When she grew up, she started working as a martial arts actor and filming movies. She has suffered countless injuries since she was a child.
My nose started to break when I was 6 years old, my brain started to bloom when I was 8 years old, my lower limbs were paralyzed at 14 years old, my foot was broken at 17 years old, I had more than 100 stitches on my body, a section of my thumb was broken, and I had fractures all over my body. I even used crutches to get married.
Yes, after filming "Wolf Warrior 2", his leg was seriously injured. After that, he used crutches to walk and participate in activities for more than a year.
Therefore, Lu Zimo just said, 'I feel like Brother Jing's leg is lame again...' This is not the first or second time, but the Nth time!
"No wonder, no wonder he sat down anxiously after the fight with me. It turned out that by that time he was in so much pain that he couldn't walk."
Gao Yun wanted to laugh but was a little worried: "Is there nothing serious about him? I remember that when he was filming Wolf Warriors two years ago, he suffered a serious leg injury."
Clayton thought for a moment and said, "No problem. He praised me for my good massage and said he would come back to practice again when he has time."
"Yes!" Gao Yun said with a smile: "Come on, but don't spar with me in the future. Where is Zhang Ye? Let Zhang Ye bring the medical kit. Clay Eaton, you and him will go there later.
Let’s go to Brother Jing’s house and give him some treatment.”
"OK!"
There are not many celebrities that Gao Yun truly admires, Wu Jing is one of them, and after all, what happened has something to do with him, and the other party also has good intentions towards him, so he must be responsible.
After thinking about it, Gao Gao picked up the phone and made a call to express his condolences.
"Okay, thank you Ayun! Let them come over."
This move can be said to be a timely help for Wu Jing. Now he is at home, and his old injury has recurred and the pain is excruciating. His wife Xie Nan is helping him massage his leg muscles, but after all, he is not a professional doctor, so it does not have much effect. Without this
He even called and planned to go to the hospital.
Wu Jing hung up the phone and said with emotion: "It's really not easy to start from scratch at such a young age and reach this level."
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The meaning of life must be found in the world and society, not in oneself or in the inner spirit, because people themselves are not closed.
Humans are social animals. Whether you want to achieve success in your career or live a more comfortable life, you must maintain good interpersonal relationships.
Friends have many enemies, enemies have few enemies. Gao Yun is very good at this.
In interpersonal communication, the principle he has always pursued is the TFT interpersonal strategy, which was originally a computer program written by Anatole Rapopet, a Soviet-born computer scientist, and its full name is "Tit for Tat" (
Tooth for tooth).
In 1980, Axelrod, a professor at the University of Michigan, set up a competition. He invited a group of game theorists to each design a program to play a 200-round "Multiple Prisoner's Dilemma" game to see which strategy would win in the end.
But the one that got the highest score in the end was the simplest program - TFT.
The TFT interpersonal strategy is very easy to understand and consists of seven words: simple, kind, and irritating.
The so-called simplicity means that the logic is simple and easy to identify, allowing the other party to understand your style in a short time; repay grievances with directness and repay kindness with kindness.
The so-called goodwill means that the first step is always to express goodwill, always choose to cooperate first, and will never take the initiative to betray, but this goodwill is selective and will only release goodwill to three types of people; values and dreams are consistent with mine
People who can understand and support my emotions, or people who have taken the initiative to help me.
This is not a utilitarian or purely realistic issue in making friends. Think about what will happen if you release your kindness unconditionally? Holy Mother! The Holy Mother hates ghosts and ghosts, and will be struck by lightning from the sky.
The last item; can be angered.
That is, I have shown goodwill first, but the other party does not appreciate it, or repays kindness with evil, then I will get angry. I may not be really angry in my heart, but I will definitely let the other party know how powerful I am through words, actions, or specific events.
This is 'simple, kind and irritating'.
These seven words can almost be said to be the essential core of interpersonal communication, and they are principles that can be used by anyone at any stage of life.
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""When the Human Stars Shine"?"
At 1:30 in the afternoon, Li Xiao arrived at Gao Yun's villa on time, and this new book was a gift from him.
Before the college entrance examination, Li Xiao once left a message in Moments, saying that as long as he passed 500 points, he would give him a gift. It turned out to be a book?
The packaging is pretty nice, with a bow tied on it, and the gift of a disciple book is in line with the teacher's status.
Maybe you want to use this book to teach yourself some truths?
Gao Yun had never read this book, but just hearing the name felt very special. He solemnly stretched out his hands to take the book, and poured tea for Li Xiao himself.
"What have you been busy with lately, teacher?"
"It's the same as usual, teaching and educating people, and occasionally being invited by companies to give lectures."
Li Xiao sat comfortably on the sofa, looked him up and down, and said, "What about you? School is about to start. Have you gone to military training?"
Gao Yun respects this person who is similar to his life mentor and tells the truth about his film and television investment and Yunxiao education platform.
Li Xiao was very happy after hearing this, especially for Yunxiao Education. He bluntly said that this matter was of great significance. If you need any help, you can contact him.
"Actually, this is the purpose of giving you the book "When the Human Stars Shine". The content of the book can be read or not. It is mixed with old European-style self-centeredness and self-absorption. It is more story-based and is more suitable for teenagers, not so much.
suits you."
"But I think you can understand the core contained in it."
Li Xiao took a sip of tea and was about to say something, but was surprised by the taste of Lao Banzhang: "This tea is good!"
"There is a piece of tea cake left as a gift from someone else. You can take it with you when you leave."
Li Xiao smiled and waved his hands, thought for a long time, and spoke in a vicissitudes and magnetic uncle voice: "Times make heroes! In the long history, there will always be some key figures who have reversed the trend of the entire era and even affected the world.
development pattern.”
"A nation can only have one genius among millions of people; millions of idle hours in the world pass by, and then a truly historic moment begins to appear, a moment when human stars shine brightly - this sentence is "Human Stars Shine"
"The whole truth of the book "Time"."
Immediately afterwards, Li Xiao asked a question with a serious expression: "Ayun, have you ever thought about how you should spend this life?"
Gao Yun sounded a little panicked. What do you mean? You want me to change the world? Your old lady thinks highly of me!
At this point, Li Xiao's purpose of sending this book is obvious.
He believes that Gao Yun is a genius and can live a more glorious life. Just like the title of the book, he can be the brightest star in the night sky, shine throughout human history, and promote the development of the world?!
"The world is yours and ours, but in the final analysis it is yours."
I'm not good, I don't have it, and I'm not modest. You'd better hire someone else. I think my girlfriend Shen Qiongxiao is quite suitable...
Gao Yun fainted. He thought that the teacher might be hysterical. He was at least somewhat famous. He was neither a scientist nor a politician or writer. He didn't want to make any great achievements and be remembered in history. He just had to work hard to do something he liked.
But Li Xiao was not sick, he really thought so, and taught earnestly: "Use your influence to do something positive, such as establishing an education platform now. You can also make movies in the future. Make breakthroughs and lead in the field of art. You are no longer an ordinary person. You have a very big reputation. Every move you make can change many people unintentionally. The score lines of the college entrance examination and art examination are improved because of you. And you also have Capital, money can be used to do many meaningful things that can make the world a better place. If you are poor, you can benefit yourself, but if you are rich, you can help the world."
Gao Yun had nothing to say and could only agree: "Yeah, you're right!"
"Don't take it lightly! I'm serious."
Li Xiao was also aware of his inner thoughts and said bluntly: "No matter how much progress he makes, he cannot make the people around him progress with him. This person's contribution to society is extremely limited, and he will never be satisfied with 'loneliness' or 'progress'." , you must shoulder the responsibility to make everyone progress, at least to make those around you progress. You are doing very well so far. Now that you have this ability, you must do your part!"
"Yes, I will definitely keep up the good work!"
So and so, finally, Professor Li Xiao asked him to read the book "When Human Stars Shine" and think seriously about how to live, and then left with a piece of Lao Ban Zhang Pu'er tea.
"I'm optimistic about you, come on, apprentice!"
After Lao Li pretended to be cool, he ran away so happily...
Gao Yun finally came to his senses and sat on the sofa quietly for a while in a dazed state. After regaining consciousness, he picked up the book and slowly opened the prologue.
"Those peak moments in history take too long to brew, and every far-reaching event requires a development process. Just like the tip of a lightning rod gathers the current of the entire atmosphere, those countless events will also crowd out They occur in the shortest possible time, but their decisive impact transcends time."
"The shining moments of these stars—these moments are so called because they are like stars that scatter light forever and illuminate the temporary darkness."
The theme of this book can be summarized in one sentence: countless heroes, countless geniuses, and countless self-sacrificial people in the long history have achieved the destiny of history. It was they who changed the world, and it was the world that chose them.
"The rise and fall, everyone is responsible!"
"To benefit the world's life and death, *****."
"To make the world a better place, you come, I come, everyone comes!"
After reading for more than an hour, Gao Yun looked solemn, as if he also felt the heavy responsibility on his shoulders. He folded the corner of the page he was looking at now to make it easier to read next time, then closed the book and took out his mobile phone to Shen Qiongxiao. Sent a WeChat message.
"(Come on) My dear, you have to work hard to develop Yunxiao so that people all over the world can use Yunxiao, improve the cultural quality and ideological and moral level of hundreds of millions of people, and make our global village more harmonious and beautiful!"
Shen Qiongxiao was very busy in the company. After receiving this WeChat message, she felt confused: "...I work hard? What are you doing? Yunxiao is yours too, you have to help me. Come to the company quickly. Are there any new recruits? There are only a few employees, and the senior management team is basically finalized, but I haven’t even met you as the chairman. Let’s hold a meeting to get to know each other.”
Gao Yun was alone and replied quickly: "It's okay, we are one, and knowing you is equivalent to knowing me. In this way, I will sing a song for you and cheer. I can change the world~change myself~change the gap~change Be stingy~ You have to keep working hard..."
Shen Qiongxiao: "What stimulated you? Which success master gave you chicken soup?"
Gao Yun: "Stefan Zweig, the famous Austrian writer's "When the Stars Shine" is also recommended to you, it is an epic work!"
Shen Qiongxiao: "I've seen it. If that's the case, please put down the keyboard, hero, and come over to help me manage Yunxiao. Let us work together to change the world and strive to become two stars next to each other in this long night of human history. The cold star! Isn’t it beautiful?”
Gao Yun: "(Gotou) Tomorrow, definitely tomorrow. Li Min will come over to report work to me later. I can't leave."
Shen Qiongxiao: "(smile) Li Min is not going, come here!"
"Damn, the earth won't spin without me? The sun will go out? You won't be able to see the light?"
Seeing his girlfriend's firm attitude, Gao Yun angrily turned off his mobile phone and had no choice but to call the driver and go to Yunxiao Education Technology Company.
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To be continued...