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Chapter 256 Thinking Lessons About Love(1/2)

"Monitor? What are you talking about?"

get out of class was over, and the two deputy monitors who were sitting in the front row consciously moved closer, and other students also sat faintly around Gao Yun.

There was an innocent-looking girl sitting not far away. Gao Yun remembered that her name was Wei Qian. She was Chen Wenqi's roommate and the one she had conflicts with. At this time, she was looking at Chen Wenqi with slightly jealous eyes.

"We're talking about this movie."

Gao Yun glanced back and forth at the two girls and thought: "The director of this movie is Italian. When teacher Xu Haofeng explained this movie, he thought that Malena did not represent a woman, but Italy. The director of this movie

The homeland where all Italian people grew up from ancient times to the present, it is beautiful and devastated, and finally returns to plainness. The male protagonist is the director’s perspective as an Italian. No matter what the female protagonist becomes, he will love her forever.

Beautiful motherland. I feel these deep meanings are very clear."

"But the analysis of the male protagonist may be too simple due to time constraints."

Chen Wenqi opened the first few pages of notes and saw a few keywords written on them, which were a growth line for the male protagonist in the film. The boy went from "materialistic" bicycles and trousers to "lust" to "suppressing desire" and wrote letters.

I wish Malena happiness and psychological growth.

Jiang Panqiu took a look at it and said, "It's okay, it's quite detailed."

"It's just on the surface of the movie, and it's not deep enough or broad enough."

Gao Yundao: "Disregarding what Teacher Xu just analyzed, this movie also tells the story of a child who ends adolescence and enters early adulthood. The conflict between self-identity and role confusion changes to the process of facing the conflict between intimacy and loneliness.

Most of the people in our class are in the stage of adolescence and have not yet entered early adulthood.”

"ah?"

"Are we the same as that little boy? No way!"

The classmates whispered, some disagreed.

Chen Wenqi pricked up her ears and quietly picked up the ballpoint pen. She wanted to know the meaning of this awkward and eloquent sentence that she had just commented on.

The students in Performance Class 21 all sat around Gao Yun. After all, they had made an appointment to have dinner together after school in the evening. Secondly, they also wanted to hear what the monitor could say differently after Xu Haofeng's class.

Gao Yun looked around and realized that it was time to fulfill his duties as a psychological committee member, so he spoke.

"Eric Erikson, a famous American psychiatrist and a representative of the new psychoanalytic school. He believes that people go through eight stages of psychosocial evolution, which becomes psychosocial development. These stages include the four stages of childhood

stages, one adolescent stage and three adult stages.”

"Erickson believes that each stage has a special contradiction or "crisis", which can also be said to be the "central problem." The smooth solution of the central problem is the prerequisite for the healthy development of personality. When the task is properly solved,

A more complete identity will be obtained. If the core tasks are not processed successfully or fail, the personal identity will be incomplete and incoherent, which is not conducive to mental health and personality."

The classmates were all dumbfounded and looked at Gao Yun with an unclear expression.

"What are you talking about?"

"I can hear these words clearly, but I just can't understand them..."

"I understand, but I don't seem to understand."

"No matter, write it down and talk about it later, turn on the video mode, monitor, continue!"

More and more people gathered. In addition to the freshmen who had just left after class, the "seniors" outside the corridor also entered the classroom to join in the fun. After a while, some students from the 20th grade acting class, led by Zhang Zifeng, also left. When I entered the classroom to observe, there were so many people that it seemed as if the get out of class had not ended.

"Coming? Wait for me for a while."

"Yeah." Zhang Zifeng nodded repeatedly.

Gao Yun said hello to Xiao Erfeng, then transformed into a teacher and continued explaining.

This entire theory is called ‘Erikson’s Eight Stages of Life Development Theory’.

The eight stages appear in an unchanging order and are consistent across cultures. Because they are determined by genetic factors, but whether each stage can be successfully passed is determined by the social environment.

As long as we are in modern society, everyone will go through these eight psychological stages as they age, but some people will complete it in advance and enter the next stage, some people will postpone their repayments, and some people may be stuck in a certain state for the rest of their lives.

This stage cannot be advanced.

It doesn't matter whether it's in advance or postponed. I'm just afraid that the card owner won't move.

The adolescence that Gao Yun just mentioned to Chen Wenqi refers to the transition period from children to adults, usually between the ages of 12 and 18. I believe everyone knows this.

However, what is the central problem that children at this stage have to face? How to solve it successfully to move to the next stage?

I'm afraid not many people understand. Even if you are a parent with a child in adolescence at home, you don't know the problems your child is facing now. Even these adolescent children themselves don't understand.

The question was a bit awkward, so when Gao Yun finished speaking, Chen Wenqi was very confused. She felt as if she had never been to school and her IQ had been crushed.

What does the so-called "conflict of self-identity and role confusion." mean?

"Actually, this can be translated into three questions - who am I? Where is the value of my birth in this world? And what is the direction of my future life?

"Identity" can be understood as "true self". Simply put, this stage is an important stage in the formation of adolescents' self-view of the world. Adolescents begin to think about who I am, where I come from, and where I am going from the role I play.

Similar philosophical issues. Understanding the relationship between one's present and future in social life, and the determination and formation of self-consciousness. This is identity, that is, a sense of psychological and social identity.

Facing a group of classmates who were listening attentively, Gao Yun sat on a chair, thinking back, flipping through his notes, and said: "The male protagonist in the film was obviously in adolescence at the beginning. On the one hand, the heightened instinctive impulses of teenagers made him

He develops a liking for Marlena, but more importantly, he doesn’t know his position in society, who he is, or what direction he has, which is a situation of imbalance in self-positioning.”

"Everyone can clearly find in the film that the male protagonist's feelings for Marlena originated from desire. For example, when he first met Marlena, he would have lustful thoughts and often imagined Marlena's naked body, but he did not have the courage to find her.

To strike up a conversation, I only dared to steal some underwear to vent myself. I wrote a lot of childish love letters for Mariana, but failed to hand them out. When Marlena was treated unfairly, I didn’t have the courage to stand up and speak for her. This is the same thing.

A manifestation of sexual immaturity, unstable personality, and role confusion.”

The classmates suddenly became enlightened, and some male classmates joked with each other.

"Lao San, you are like a bear. You haven't passed puberty yet!"

"Go away!" The male student who was commented like this was very angry: "It seems like you are so good?!"

Gao Yun continued: "The problems of teenagers at this stage are more complex and diverse in real life. You can find that in many high schools or universities, famous school belles and beautiful girls, or those who have good relationships with boys, almost

They have all been subject to very unsavory rumors. They may be slandered as slutty like Marlena in the movie, or they may be said to have a weird personality, stingy and introverted..."

"Some may be true, but most of them are false. Even the male and female classmates around me say so, and those things are all based on rumors and cannot be verified. We who are on the edge of gossip can only accept this one-sided information with suspicion.

.”

"And those who spread such rumors, and those who believe them easily, are also manifestations of immaturity, unstable personality, and confused roles."

"..."

The students looked vaguely at Chen Wenqi and Wei Qian. The former was taking notes carefully with a pen, while the latter was fidgeting with her hair with hidden panic in her eyes.

Gao Yun didn't say much. Some things just need to be mentioned, and then he switched the topic to the movie: "Fortunately, the male protagonist's father is very competent. After discovering that the male protagonist stole women's underwear to vent his anger, he immediately used violent methods to educate him.

She raped him and clearly told him that this behavior was wrong, and then took the male protagonist to a brothel to let the female teacher there take a physiology class, which played a very positive role in shaping and growing the male protagonist's personality.

"

"Ha ha."

Both male and female students laughed. This clip in the video can be said to be quite large...

Gao Yun smiled and then said: "Then we can find that as the film gradually develops, the male protagonist gradually matures, his feelings for Marlena gradually rise to love, and the element of obscenity in his dreams becomes more and more

He wanted her affection more and more, and fantasized about kissing Marlena. He also beat up the classmates who insulted Marlena, and showed no fear in the face of the male classmate who was a head taller than him. After the war, when

Everyone began to torture and despise the heroine. At this time, the boy wanted to silently protect her and help him out of the bottom of his heart."

"He saw the ugliness of the world, and he also understood the miserable situation of Marlena. He knew what he should do at this time. He went to visit poor Marlena lying on the bed. At this time, the male protagonist expressed his deep feelings for Marlena.

His feelings are more of pity, sympathy and love. This kind of love is sympathetic love, a kind of love that wants to protect the weak as a man. Marlena is his sexual enlightenment teacher in life, and also his influence on life.

The turning point of enlightenment. At this time, Renaldo has grown up. He has grown from an immature and ignorant boy to a man who knows how to love. He wants to share Marlena's pain for her. He sincerely

I want to protect Marlena from getting hurt again.”

"So he tried his best to do what he could. When Marlena's husband returned from the war, the male protagonist plucked up the courage to write to him and decided to help them. He also left his real name Lei in the letter.

Nado... This is completely different from the cowardly him before. At the end of the film, Marlena accidentally tripped while walking on the beach carrying an orange, and the oranges spilled all over the floor. He didn't hesitate at all and got on the bike.

He helped pick up the oranges and said the first formal words to Marlena: "wish you good luck" (wish you good luck). This is the only time the male and female protagonists look at each other and have a conversation in the whole story, and it is also the last time."

"This shows that the male protagonist has successfully solved the central problem of adolescence and gained courage and loyalty. In short, it means defending. He has given everything he has unconditionally for the cause of justice and spared no effort to uphold justice. He has used up all his strength.

Strength to help Marlena."

"From desire to love, from timidity to bravery, after a period of difficult exploration, the protagonist Renaldo completed his self-identity and finally formed a commitment to values ​​and moral beliefs. After adolescence, he entered the

The next stage of life…”

Gao Yun sighed lightly, then looked at everyone sitting and said playfully: "Dear students, now, do you think you have passed this stage of adolescence?"

"..."

Freshmen, you look at me, I look at you, most of them are silent, thinking about their usual actions, are they really as courageous and loyal as the teenage male protagonist, and have completed their self-identity?

Sophomores, juniors, seniors, graduate students and other senior students were whispering to each other.

"There is a rush to take a meditation class!"

"Awesome, the ideological training class and video appreciation are better than what the teacher teaches."

"With this depth of thought, I finally understand how he got the first place in the history of art exams."

"The God of Clouds is the God of Clouds, awesome!"
To be continued...
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