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Chapter 314: Love Thirty-six Questions(1/2)

"What are you doing?"

Gao Yun really took out his mobile phone, and Shen Qiongxiao was extremely surprised when he saw this.

"What are you doing? Do you know that you were poisoned after eating mushrooms? If I don't call an ambulance, you will be frothing at the mouth in a while!"

Gao Yun made an action to unlock the screen, and suddenly regretted not letting Zhang Ye come with him on this trip. It seems that he must learn a lesson in the future. If there is an emergency, it can be treated temporarily without delaying the best rescue time...

Thinking this, Gao Yun pressed the dial button more quickly, and then said:

"Hello? 120? We are at Yunshang Mansion in the ancient city of Lishi. Someone here was poisoned after eating mushrooms..."

Seeing Gao Yun's behavior, the women looked at each other, even a little scared.

Qin Bingtong rummaged through her bag and took out a Huawei mobile phone from it, with a nervous look on her face: "I have your mobile phone here, how did you make a call?"

Gao Yun didn’t bring his mobile phone at all because he was exercising!

The series of actions he just took out his cell phone, unlocked it, dialed, etc. were all done with gestures. The so-called conversation with 120 was just talking to himself with his right hand in the sign of six.

The scene in front of them couldn't help but remind everyone of what Zhuo Beining said about mushroom poisoning. What Gao Yun did was a sign of poisoning!

Lu Qing looked panicked and shouted: "It's over, Gao Yun has been poisoned by eating fungus! Call 120 quickly!"

Chen Wenqi's little hand holding the phone was shaking a little: "What's the number of 120? I forgot!"

Zhang Zifeng couldn't laugh or cry: "It's just 120!"

Chen Wenqi was anxious: "So how much is 120?"

The other girls were extremely anxious, but Gao Yun turned a deaf ear and continued to make a phone call with the six sign next to his ear, urging: "Yes, let the ambulance come quickly, it's urgent!"

Shen Qiongxiao pushed him and looked suspicious: "Are you acting here?"

[Performance; (Professional level) 90%~91%]

It should be said that Shen Qiongxiao's sharp eyes saw through Gao Yun's performance.

Acting comes from life and goes to life. As it is said, walking, lying, sitting and standing, every move is a drama. Gao Yun does not dare to relax on the improvement of various skills...

"Ah."

Gao Yun put away his hands and put them into his trouser pockets. His expression changed from sharp to calm, and he said calmly: "You guys are allowed to joke but not me? Are you playing strip poker?! Let's break up now. It's getting late. I'm going to take a bath and go to bed with Teacher Shen." .”

"... Are you all from Nortel like this?" Lu Qing's eyes widened and she was so angry that she flew towards Gao Yun with a poker between her index and middle fingers, and said bitterly: "My acting skills are good."

Chen Wenqi was the most helpless just now, and now she is also the most angry: "Crazy, you are joking!"

Qin Bingtong rolled her eyes: "It's only eight o'clock, let's wait until we finish this round! I'll give you the phone. You can go shopping on the street when you have nothing to do, and talk to a little sister or something."

I don’t think it’s messy enough, what’s in the house is enough for me!

Gao Yun didn't bother to talk, so he took the phone and sat down by the bed: "What about betting on winning or losing?"

“Truth and Dare!”

Zhang Zifeng said simply: "The last and second last players in each round must answer the questions raised by the top two players in the round. If they can't answer, then take a big risk...do some push-ups or other weird punishments."

"Who suggested it?"

"I."

Shen Qiongxiao picked up his deck of cards from the bed and asked with a smile: "Try it?"

It's also strange. My girlfriend plays poker with a bunch of her competitors, and the winning or losing is a game that enhances feelings by telling the truth?

Is Shen Qiongxiao trying to find out his opponent's mental state through truthful words? To be prepared?

Or do you want to take a big adventure to humiliate your love rivals and make them give up?

But it's not necessary. Why is this necessary? Humiliating a love rival is not in line with Shen Qiongxiao's character. The current atmosphere is also good. It can be clearly seen that several people are relaxed and happy. Is it really just making friends?

This made Gao Yun puzzled.

What should a normal woman do when facing a love rival? Needless to say, when they meet, they will definitely greet each other in the face with various tricks such as Nine Yin White Bone Claw and Stormy Wave Palm.

Even though she is well-behaved, she can't help but make some sarcastic remarks, and then tells her boyfriend to keep a distance from his love rival... This is what Shen Qiongxiao did to Lu Qing before, and it is in line with Gao Yun's judgment of her character.

But now, Teacher Shen actually calmly gathered his love rivals together, and they all played poker together happily? And he also invited his boyfriend to participate in the card game together?

Sick, really sick!

Gao Yun really couldn't understand what his girlfriend was thinking, so he sighed and said, "You guys can play, I'll watch!"

"Try it, just one!" Lu Qing began to persuade, followed by the other three.

"Idleness is also idleness."

"Everyone fights against his own, there is no team."

"Don't try!"

Gao Yun shook his head resolutely. He was sure that the 1 boy and 5 girls originally played each other's cards, but as soon as he joined, it would be his own group, and the other five girls would join forces to beat him. This was It's a sure thing.

Secondly, it's perfectly fine to play a game like Truth and Dare among strangers, but it's really damn dangerous to play in this situation.

Think about it, if Gao Yun loses and faces the punishment of telling the truth, can Lu Qing, a bad woman, spare him?

You don’t need to ask any particularly mean or tricky questions, just ask something simple, such as: when was the first kiss, who was the first person with, how did you fall in love with a certain ex...

What's better?

Even if you don't choose to tell the truth, it would be worse to choose Dare or Dare. Come on, call your ex! Sing a song to the opposite sex who is closest to you and shout twice, "I am a scumbag, I am not as good as a pig or a dog", then Gao Yun Why is it so embarrassing?

It can even be said that in this situation, no games can be played at all! These people cannot get together, as long as they appear together, it represents danger...

Shura field!

This is purely a Shura field!

Seeing Gao Yun's firm attitude, several girls could not force him to play, so the five of them could only continue the poker game.

"Whose turn is it?"

"I'm right 8!"

"Yes J!"

There are two decks of poker cards, and the playing method is fifty K. The winning rule is very simple, whichever side can play all the cards first will naturally win.

Singles control singles, pairs control pairs, straights control straights, three identical cards are called bombs, and they can control the first three. Fifty K can control the first four, two kings can control the top five, and four of the same cards are big bombs. , can manage the first six, sort them in this order, until four kings or eight 2s are the largest...

Since it's not about who has more points, but who can run out first, it's a bit simpler and you don't need to use your brain to score.

But in the game of Fifty K, or in other words, in all poker games, luck is very important, but skill level is even more critical. It is not uncommon to end up losing if you don’t go out with a good deck of cards. The real probability of winning or losing is determined by the player’s IQ. and memory.

If your memory is good enough and you remember what cards each opponent has played, by the time the game is over halfway, you will be able to deduce the cards in each opponent's hand very accurately.

Secondly, if you are good at understanding your opponent's mental state by analyzing her small movements, subtle expressions and eyes, you can also know whether your opponent's hand is good or bad.

If analyzed according to theory, it will be obvious who among the five people in this game can have the upper hand, who can lose more and win less, and who can lose less and win more.

Shen Qiongxiao and Lu Qing are top students majoring in psychology at Peking University. They can basically remember what cards each opponent played and guess the opponent's card type, so they win more and lose less.

Qin Bingtong graduated from Tsinghua Academy of Fine Arts, and her cultural classes were not very good, but she consciously memorized cards and calculated her opponent's psychology, and her winning rate was lower than the previous two.

The two little girls, Chen Wenqi and Zhang Zifeng, are in a worse situation. They have less experience in playing cards, have no awareness of card memory, and have weak skills. Naturally, they lose the most. After playing fifteen games, they ranked first and second. The number of times was actually as high as thirteen. In short, in basically every game, either Chen Wenqi was ranked last, or Zhang Zifeng was ranked second from last.

In other words, the three people with the top three negative rates are probably asked to tell the truth a lot.

Based on Shen Qiongxiao and Lu Qing's guesses about people's hearts, Gao Yun estimated that these three people were already transparent to them, and their characters could definitely be analyzed thoroughly...

Even if you haven't studied psychology, know nothing about it, and don't have such subtle observation skills, you can still understand the other person's personality through some specific questions.

Arthur Aron is a professor of psychology at the State University of New York at Stony Brook. He is best known for his work on intimacy in relationships and the motivational model for developing self-expansion in intimate relationships. He also has one of the most famous works on intimacy in relationships. Classic, the most well-known psychology experiment; "36 questions to make strangers fall in love".

Gao Yun prefers to call it the "Thirty-Six Questions of Love". Once when he met a new girl and was still in the ambiguous period, he would chat with her about these thirty-six questions.

In fact, it is a bit of a headline. The original intention of Arthur Allen's experiment was not to control passion, but to enhance the interpersonal relationships between people. This experiment is a "continuous, ever-deepening, two-way" "Self-Personality Analysis" can help strangers quickly eliminate barriers and build trust. The principle is that intimacy will be enhanced due to self-disclosure.

But it should be noted that these questions are not so much about helping you fall in love as they are about helping you quickly confirm whether this person is the right person. I have also heard that after doing this, it will most likely only make your relationship better, not necessarily make it better. You become lovers.

This questionnaire is a touchstone, not an ecstasy.

In short, this is an experiment that can build an intimate relationship. First, two strangers need to sit down and take turns answering a questionnaire with 36 questions. The whole process takes up to 90 minutes. After completion, both parties shut up and stared at each other for 4 minutes. .

Two people need trust and intimacy to fall in love. The questionnaire is to help you achieve trust. Gazing can create a sense of intimacy.

It sounds ridiculous, but it is said that in Arthur Allen's experiment, strangers who met for the first time fell in love and got married according to this method.

Moreover, this experiment can also be used in social interactions, when chatting with people over meals, or when you have just added a member of the opposite sex on WeChat and don’t know how to find a topic.

There is no need to ask all thirty-six questions in turn in a serious manner, just pick a few interesting ones to ask; there is no need to stare at her or him for four minutes, just look at her or him occasionally with your eyes.

These 36 questions will help two people become more patient and confident in pursuing what they want, and at the same time understand themselves more clearly and understand what they want.

Secondly, these questions can allow you to get to know a person comprehensively in an hour. This is not a superficial household registration check, but an in-depth understanding of three views. You may not be able to do this even if you chat with a person for half a year.

Based on his understanding of Shen Qiongxiao and Lu Qing, Gao Yun estimated that the questions they asked in this truth-telling game should be similar to these 36 questions.

The fact is exactly what he thought. This is what the two asked, in order from shallow to deep, from: If you could change your past experience, what thing would you want to change?

"What is the most perfect day in your mind?" "When was the last time you cried in front of others? When was the last time you cried by yourself?"

Again; share a personal problem of yours and ask the person opposite you how I would handle it...
To be continued...
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