Chapter 325 Push.(1/2)
"Why, do you know this little beauty?"
Ding Hui saw that Gao Yun had something wrong with his face, and his expression was also one of surprise and uncertainty.
"……how to say."
Gao Yun spread his hands, feeling very puzzled: "She also learned dance from Jiang Jingqi before, and we met her in this way. She is one of my admirers. I also have her as a friend on my WeChat account. Logically speaking, you should be able to see my past
There are messages from her in my circle of friends.”
"get out!"
Ding Hui spat: "Since you and Shen Qiongxiao fell in love, you only posted two posts showing affection in your circle of friends and haven't updated them since. What do I think? You still have to look through the ones from half a year ago regularly? Do you really think I have a crush on you?"
You are a shameless person!"
Gao Yun thought the same thing. Ding Hui and Feng Miaomeng should have only met recently, so naturally he couldn't see the latter's message in his circle of friends.
The atmosphere fell into a brief awkwardness, and then Ding Hui waved her hands and said: "Don't think about this, I have already broken my love. After I sleep with you, we can play together again."
Damn it, is this monster so big?
Gao Yun understood what was going on, but he deliberately asked: "What can three people do?"
Ding Hui paused in her hands, looked at him with a narrow look, stretched out her tongue and licked her lips, and said meaningfully: "What do you think?"
Damn! Gao Yun suddenly discovered that this bad woman had an extremely long tongue, and the tip of her tongue was pink and pointed like a snake...
Can't bear it, can't bear it!
Gao Yun's evil level was still a bit low, so he changed the topic and said, "I can leave it to you. Can you tell me how we met?"
Ding Hui said while typing: "About a week ago, she took the initiative to add me on Weibo and said she was a fan of mine. I thought she was good-looking and we chatted well, so she added her on WeChat..."
As he spoke, he seemed to sense something was wrong, and frowned: "She should know that you and I are friends, why didn't she tell me that she also knows you?"
Gao Yun chuckled: "So, the reason why I contacted you is because you sing well, or because I am too handsome and charming?"
He looks like he needs to be beaten, but he’s rich and handsome, isn’t he?
Ding Hui looked at him: "Bring the phone, let me take a look at the chat history of the two of you."
Gao Yun was very generous: "I have my mobile phone with Qin Bingtong. You can ask her for it later. She is just an admirer. I haven't even responded to her messages."
After saying that, Shi Shiran left. He didn't take such a small thing to heart and went straight back to the bedroom to prepare for bed.
The size of the bed is 2.6 meters x 2. The British national treasure bed brand is known as the "Rolls-Royce" of beds. Gao Yun lay on it without feeling sleepy at all. From time to time, he thought about calling Shen Qiongxiao, or directly calling Shen Qiongxiao.
Thoughts such as going to find her and so on were dismissed one by one after a few seconds.
In short, I still can’t let go, can’t let go, so can’t let go...
However, after a brief moment of emotion, Gao Yun regained his senses, thought for a moment, and smiled inexplicably.
"Dong dong~"
"Enter."
Qin Bingtong and Ding Hui opened the door and came in. The former put Gao Yun's mobile phone on the bedside table: "Mobile phone."
The latter carried two bottles of red wine, put them there too, poured two glasses of wine, sat on the bed, picked up a glass and poked Gao Yun.
"Drink? Let's chat."
Gao Yun took a sip from the cup and asked, "What are you going to do?"
"We'll meet tomorrow and talk after we go to bed."
Ding Hui had a casual expression like a scumbag: "I don't care who she comes to, just see how she behaves in bed. If you like it, continue. If not, bye bye."
Gao Yun sighed inexplicably: "It's great."
Qin Bingtong may also be afraid of being slept on, so she deliberately stayed away from the monster Ding Hui, sat on the other side of Gao Yun, and asked with concern: "Uncle, aunt, and your sister's family will arrive at nine o'clock tomorrow morning, what will we do then? "
"They are already used to me breaking up with each other. You prepare wine and food. When they come, I will go shopping with them, buy, buy, buy, and bombard them with all kinds of sugar-coated bullets. They should be able to coax them..."
Gao Yun yawned. Today's training was too heavy and he was still physically exhausted: "Are you two okay? I'm going to sleep."
"Can you sleep?"
Ding Hui was suspicious: "You got over your broken love so quickly?"
"Lift your butt!"
Gao Yun greeted him, got into bed and wrapped himself tightly in the quilt, and said casually: "It's just a breakup. What do you mean, life is all scratches except life and death. It's not like we won't be able to see each other again. If I go to the company tomorrow, I can see you." By the way... besides, all six of my exes took the initiative to dump me. They were so heartless when they dumped me, but what about now? None of them want to get back together with me. How hairy is Shen Qiongxiao? She regrets taking the initiative. It’s time to get back together! It’ll be sooner or later!”
"..."
Ding Hui was surprised: "Are you so confident?"
Gao Yun shook his head and said: "What else should I do? It is impossible for me, the dumped one, to ask for reconciliation. It is impossible for me to take the initiative to ask for reconciliation in this life. I rush to beg the other party, hoping to be moved, and praying for reconciliation is all nonsense. .”
There are actually two types of reconciliation. One is true reconciliation: it is often manifested by the dumpee actively asking the dumped party to get back together, and the other party truly realizes the value of the dumped party. The second type is false reconciliation: often the dumped party takes the initiative to seek reconciliation. The party who dumped the person gets back together, or one party immediately agrees to get back together after showing slight regret. Neither party truly realizes the preciousness of losing the other person. Even if they get back together, they will be separated soon.
As for getting back together, there are also techniques, or routines.
Gao Yun suddenly asked: "What should a person do if he doesn't know how to swim and drowns?"
Qin Bingtong guessed: "Shout for help?"
"There won't be anyone around for a while?"
Gao Yun replied directly: "Generally speaking, in reality, drowning people will cry for help, and then rely on instinct to struggle in the water. Their strong desire to survive prevents them from giving up. In this state, they have completely lost their rationality. Thinking, I don’t know what to do to really help myself out of the predicament. The correct way is very simple. He only needs to relax his limbs and straighten his belly, and maybe they will float on their own. But a drowning person does not have this thinking ability. In other words, they dare not try this. In the drowning state, their strong desire for life makes them dare not do nothing, because in the inherent thinking of human nature, doing nothing often means giving up."
Ding Hui said: "But the harder you struggle, the faster it sinks."
"Yes." Gao Yun nodded: "Most people after a breakup are also in this state of drowning. They are emotionally drowning. They have lost the ability to think rationally. They feel constant pain and are troubled by powerful negative emotions. Extreme despair. Feeling extremely pessimistic and feeling that there is no hope. Constant feeling of confusion, not knowing what to do, not knowing what is right and what is wrong. Feeling of trying to get lucky, and fantasizing about taking the initiative to find the other party in case the other party Agreed to get back together... Most of their practices and actions are based on instinctive and subconscious reactions, rather than rational plans based on purpose and effect."
"There is a well-known effect in psychology called the 'incubation effect'. It means that sometimes when learners try their best to solve a complex or problem that requires creative thinking, they still cannot solve the problem no matter how hard they try. At this time, Temporarily suspending active exploration of a problem may play a key role in solving the problem. This pause is the 'brewing effect'."
"So in terms of the 'brewing effect' and 'emotional drowning', my wisest choice at the moment is actually not to do anything. When Shen Qiongxiao separates from me, she has experienced and felt enough punishment and pain. , maybe there will be a new turning point.”
Once, when he broke up with Daria, facing friends such as Diao Jun, Gao Yun used another more naked answer to talk about the issue of reconciliation, such as using value, lack of emotional value leading to breakup, etc. I think If you want to get back together, you have to increase your value, and the other party will naturally look back...
But the current breakup with Shen Qiongxiao, in Gao Yun's view, is not because of his own lack of value, but purely because of Shen Qiongxiao's own twisting. When will the other party straighten things out, and when will he be able to let it go?
And facing two women, the previous answer was too ruthless, so he chose this more tactful and more appropriate answer.
Ding Huixiao: "I think you are delusional. Although I don't have much contact with Shen Qiongxiao, I can tell that she is definitely not the kind of person who will turn around."
Gao Yun said calmly: "How can I be a loser? I have always been Bai Yueguang! If she wants to get back together with me, she has to catch up with me. It doesn't matter if she doesn't want to, I can do whatever I need to do and continue my life. , it’s the same without everyone.”
After a pause, he looked at the two of them again: "What's going on with you two? Why don't you go back to bed and warm my bed?"
Qin Bingtong and Ding Hui originally wanted to comfort Gao Yun. After all, he and Shen Qiongxiao could be said to be a standard model couple. They were not in love anymore, so they might be very sad to break up now... Or they also wanted to take advantage of the situation. , and when you look at the other party’s state, it’s obvious that he has completely come out of it, and there is no need to comfort him. He is still in the mood to attend class!
"Then I'm going back." Although Secretary Qin said this, his butt didn't move, and his eyes wandered back and forth from Ding Hui and Gao Yun.
"Secretary Qin, you can go back. Ayun and I still want to talk about music for a while."
Ding Hui looked at the one lying on his side: "Isn't there an empty bedroom here? I'll sleep there today."
"Don't talk nonsense!" Gao Yun said with a smile: "What kind of music are we talking about at night? And you know my music level. I can only say that I understand some music theory and can sing."
"Not only can I sing, but I also have certain literary qualities. That's enough!"
Ding Hui affirmed: "You have just fallen out of love, and now this emotion is particularly suitable for music creation. Let's talk about what's in your heart. I'll find some melodies on the guitar in your bedroom and see if I can write another one for you. Song."
Gao Yun was really moved. After all, who doesn’t love music?
"Bingtong, bring us paper and pen!"
Let’s talk about shitty music, maybe we’ll start talking about it!
Qin Bingtong sneered in her heart. She had no good impression of this woman since the day she met Ding Hui. She was even more annoyed when she waited for her to move into the villa directly as Gao Yun's friend and an unknown singer. But at this time Gao Yun agreed. , she could only find paper and pen, put them on the bed, and left immediately.
"You guys chat and go to bed early."
Before leaving, Secretary Qin glanced at Gao Yun several times resentfully.
"Click."
The door closed, and Ding Hui took a sip of wine: "Your secretary is very good-looking, can I do it?"
Gao Yun sat up in shock when he heard this: "Are you sure? You can bend her too?"
"It's difficult, but you can try."
"...Farewell, please spare her. I'll be thankful that you two can have a good relationship and not fight."
"This is too simple."
Ding Hui nodded indifferently, then stood up and took off her shoes and pants...
"What are you doing?" Gao Yun suddenly stood up on the bed with the quilt still wrapped in his hands. He almost called Qin Bingtong back. He regretted it in his heart. Sure enough, he still couldn't believe this bad woman who wanted to sleep with him all the time.
Damn it, you're going to sleep with me right after I break up, can't you wait for tomorrow...
"My muscles have grown too fast recently, and these fitness pants are too tight, which makes me nervous!"
Ding Hui kept her hands on her hands and took off her pants extremely fast. In a few seconds, only a pair of black pure cotton sports underwear was left on her lower body. Then, with her long legs and bare feet, she took the piano from the bedroom.
The Martin guitar was on the stand, and he was sitting cross-legged on the bed again, lowering his head to tune the piano.
The distance between the two was so close that Gao Yun could even see the line of white letters on the front of Ding Hui's underwear in English: "For man is man and master of his fate."
To be continued...