Backward reasoning, Gao Yun was pushed back for the first time.

Daria was extremely hungry and thirsty, as if the fact that she had not known the taste of meat for so many years frightened him, but what could he do, he could only try his best to satisfy her.

"Holy crap, what kind of underwear are you talking about? There are stockings under your pants..."

"Oh, this is called being careful before meeting your boyfriend!"

"You had a plan!"

"Stop talking nonsense, you don't even know how urgent I am about this battle... Say something nice to me, warrior."

"...Which one sounds good, my black silk angel?"

The two of them are the kind of people who know the right and wrong physically, and emotionally they are also the kind of people who "reappear the past scenes again, and the lotus roots are still connected even though the threads are broken." Even if they are separated for a year, the imprint they have left on each other cannot be erased.

Therefore, there is no need to be polite, just fight with blood and it will be over...

Afterwards, the two exchanged heart-to-heart chats for a while. It was obvious that Daria's Chinese proficiency had improved a lot, and she also showed off that she could read and write Chinese characters, even though the font was at the sixth grade level.

What surprised Gao Yun even more was that Daria quit smoking and at the same time reduced the frequency and amount of drinking. These two bad habits of hers were once deeply hated by Gao Yun. Although Ding Huiyun drank and smoked, the extent was very mild.

She is much lighter, so she can accept it. Now Daria has completely quit, which makes Gao even more happy. This sign shows that the other party is changing towards a trend that he wants to see.

Daria has gotten better and can recognize herself better.

Taking advantage of the fact that both parties were in a very happy mood after the incident, Gao Yun also told him about his current relationship status and invited him to join the harem family. Daria remained silent and just stared at him without speaking...

The atmosphere is a bit awkward.

In order to ease this stiff situation, Mr. Gao gave a belated gift, a book; the Russian version of "The Wisdom of Life", written by Schopenhauer.

"The Wisdom of Life" was written in 1850 and is Schopenhauer's late work. It was this book that made him a world-renowned philosopher and a best-seller and best-selling book in human history today.

In this book, he uses "elegant style" to explore the principles that should be followed in life from a secular perspective.

The general content can be briefly summarized in the words of the author Schopenhauer: "The art of how to spend your life as happily as possible". Or in other words: "The art of how to avoid and alleviate the pain that people encounter in this life."

.

The writing is easy to understand, every sentence is concise, and the scope of discussion is very wide, such as health, wealth, reputation, honor, health preservation and the principles that should be followed in dealing with others, etc. It not only gives solutions, but also gives why

The reason for doing this.

It can help people who are in a confused and frustrated stage of life calm down, understand the overall development of life, know how to arrange their own lives, and then enjoy the greatest happiness and success. In short, it teaches people how to enjoy a happy existence.

"Like many books, it also has the limitations of the times and the limitations of the author's own cognition. You can note down what you think is useful in the book, and put it down and forget about it if you don't agree with it. There are many opinions in this book

I don’t agree, but I think the most useful point for me is this..."

Gao Yun turned over the page of the book and pointed it out to Daria. The passage was written in Russian: "Courtesy is a kind of bargaining chip, an obvious counterfeit coin. Being stingy about using this counterfeit coin is a sign of weakness. On the contrary, spending it generously

This counterfeit coin is wisdom...the use of politeness and friendliness can make even a thousand stubborn and hostile people obedient and convenient. Therefore, politeness is to people what warmth is to wax."

"Many times our parents and teachers tell us to be unconditionally polite, civilized, and a good person. But this book tells us ruthlessly that in order to achieve your own goals, succeed, and facilitate yourself, you must be a good person. …I think this is very interesting.”

Gao Yun was still unfinished, so Daria picked up the book and raised her eyebrows: "So you are polite to others and show off your charm all the time. Are you a good person who has not dated five girlfriends and can't bear to hurt women?"

"Why are we talking about this again? Let me reiterate, even if you are included, there are only four, not five! Shen Qiongxiao is still a little difficult, so we can't count now..."

Daria messed up her blond hair with both hands, and seemed a little hard to accept: "I know, but, okay, I have expected it, and I can actually try it, because I am really unhappy without you. I said before that I I want to be your mistress, and I think so now, so give it a try. But don’t let me get along with them, I will definitely be angry!"

Tsk, it's a pity that I can't be with you Ding Huiyun and Qin Bingtong together. Take your time and don't be in a hurry...

The evil thoughts in Gao Yun's heart flashed away, and he turned to say seriously: "Have you ever considered your future career path?"

"What?"

Confirming that the two of them would renew their relationship, Gao Yun began to ask about his woman's future plans: "My parents talked to you about this matter at my house in Hushi last year and asked about your future plans, but I want to ask you again now, what are your future plans?" What are you going to do?”

Planning for the future is an essential thing for couples. Most girls hope that their partner will have a future plan. Regardless of whether it is detailed or not, this plan must be happy and include both people.

A woman will subconsciously hope that in this future life plan, the man can guarantee her own interests, that she can live a better life, have excellent material conditions, and make her feel at ease for this man. Pregnancy in ten months will give birth to offspring, and the promise will not be abandoned...

Influenced by culture, in China or most East Asian countries, the man's interest issues are the focus in this plan, such as whether the woman works or is a full-time housewife; how many square meters of the house, whose name is written; what brand of car is it, and how many are bought? How many children to have...etc., this is actually the man's promise to the woman.

Of course, Gao Yun's situation is more complicated. He has to commit to N women. But right now, Ding Huiyun and Qin Bingtong are temporarily unavailable. These two are very understanding and understand him well, so they don't need any commitment from him.

Chen Wenqi was too young, he had already made arrangements, and the two of them had no substantial negative contact, so it was not the right time to talk about it for various reasons.

The only person Gao Yun needs to worry about is Daria. She is neither older nor younger and is at a critical stage in her life. Moreover, the two have just reunited after a long separation. Gao Yun needs to stabilize her with his promise and let Daria understand that even if he Having opened a harem, he is also a very responsible man...

The level of commitment in a relationship will affect whether people start or maintain a relationship. In addition, if both parties in the relationship have a stronger sense of commitment, they will regard their partner and themselves as a whole, the quality of the relationship will be higher, and they will be able to Better adapt to changes in the relationship, more inclined to choose not to break up when encountering difficulties, and willing to sacrifice for the stability of the intimate relationship and sacrifice their own interests. Even the level of commitment in a relationship can predict 5 years later , the stability of the partnership after 7 years or 15 years.

Because commitment plays such an important role in relationships, it is abused by many scumbag men. When they have just established a relationship or have not yet established a relationship, they will make unattainable pie-in-the-sky ideas to the little girl and brag about how much they have.

How many years later will they become prosperous, buy luxury cars and mansions for women, become CEOs with an annual salary of one million, and have a bunch of children and travel around the world...

In this way, relatively innocent girls will believe it and feel that this man is very reliable. They will let down their guard and their relationship with him will advance by leaps and bounds. Soon the two will go to bed. When the scumbag gets tired of playing with him, he will immediately put on his pants and leave... Girls

At this moment, it was like a thunderbolt, and I realized that I had been deceived emotionally and physically.

The routine is very old, but it is still useful. Scumbags generally don't draw the kind of cake that can be realized in the short term, such as buying you a bag tomorrow, a watch the day after tomorrow, etc... That way there is actual effort and the effect will be better.

not too good.

They will draw three-year, five-year, or even ten-year-old cakes to make innocent girls fantasize about them, and accelerate the relationship between the two. When they go to bed, they will say goodbye and leave immediately.

But I promise, this method of painting a cake is correct. In fact, a good man can also paint a cake, describe a bright future for his woman, brag about a huge thing, and then brag and brag for a long time until she believes it.

You believe it yourself. From then on, the two of you work hard together and support each other towards the awesomeness you boasted about. Maybe it won’t be truly realized, but at least it will be possible to achieve part of it, and you will also get a wife and a family...

Usually, even if five or ten years have passed and the boast you boasted about has not been realized, the woman will have no choice but to follow you because the sunk costs are there and she has no choice.

Of course, this trick is useless for smarter, experienced women. No matter how big your pie is, they will not be tempted. They will evaluate and weigh your abilities in their hearts to see if you are capable.

Realize it, and even if you talk too much, they will only look at your actual actions and current efforts.

Before Gao Yun and Daria broke up for the second time, they made a phone call to make a promise. Of course, Daria was a woman who had seen the world, so he didn't talk about things but talked about practical things.

However, due to Gao Yun's ability at the time, the future plan given was for Daria to become a travel blogger. This obviously did not meet Daria's expectations and was the decisive reason for the two to break up.

Li Xiao said that Gao Yun deliberately let Daria dump him because he liked the new and disliked the old. He also admitted that there was indeed a small part of the reason. After all, Daria had a lot of bad habits at that time and could not give him anything except beauty.

Gao Yun's love experience can't be said to be that good...

But generally speaking, the reason why the two broke up for the second time was the choice between reality and love. Daria chose reality. There is no problem. Thinking from his perspective, Gao Yun would also choose the former.

Now that Gao Yun is more capable, he directly helped Daria win the endorsement of Chanel and embark on the road of a real supermodel. Daria can have the best of both reality and love in life. Naturally, she is more interested in Gao Yun.

Determined, she chose to get back together again...but unfortunately, now she has to accept Gao Yun's polyamorous relationship.

"I have no idea."

Daria was a little silent. She was still immersed in the fact that she would share Gao Yun with other women in the future. Naturally, she couldn't answer such a major question involving the direction of her life in such a short time.

Gao Yun said slowly and sincerely: "You are 24 years old this year. In the past year, Longtong arranged a lot of catwalks for you in the four major fashion week shows, and also appeared on many magazine covers. You have been promoted very quickly. Now you have won Chanel.

Your total income from endorsements this year should exceed 5 million US dollars, right? In fact, you are almost reaching the ceiling of your modeling career. The top supermodels in the world earn around 10 million US dollars per year, so you are very close to them.

, Chanel will praise you soon, and I will help you."

"So, although your career path has not yet reached its peak, it is time to prepare for transformation... In the future, try to go to as few activities as catwalks and the like, always wear high heels, and have to go on a diet to control your intake. This is very harmful to the body.

Okay. Frankly speaking, I'm worried about you."

"I sprained my foot at the Gucci show this summer and had to walk through the entire show."

When Daria heard Gao Yun's concerned words, her eyes were a little red and she felt a little aggrieved: "It was very serious at the time and I went to the hospital, but fortunately it was just a simple sprain and I recovered quickly. But the doctor said that my body had some nutrition

My bones were very brittle due to unhealthy diet. At that time, I was too tired and scared. I really wanted to call you and seek a word or two of comfort..."

"So we need to prepare for the transformation as early as possible."

Gao Yun comforted: "If you are interested in acting, I can find some acting teachers to train you and continue to let you go into the entertainment industry. I will find some film and television and variety show resources for you. But this is also tiring.

, the achievements are limited, I don’t recommend..."

"If you still want to work in modeling-related industries, you can become a designer, or become a Fashion i fashion idol. And you can use your fame to build your own clothing brand company. I think this is very interesting and developing. I

We can invest for you and support your business.”

"If you don't want to do any of the above and just want to be comfortable and happy, you can retire early and realize your dream of traveling around the world. That's of course no problem. I'll ask Yunqi We Media to give you a shooting team, and from now on you will be a traveler.

If you photograph bloggers, your daily profit will definitely be enough for your expenses. If it is not enough, I will be responsible..."

Every choice is beautiful, enough to make Daria fall into longing and fantasy. And with Gao Yun's current strength, he can easily realize it, what else is Daria dissatisfied with?

No!

The happiest thing for a woman is to have a man who can arrange her future in every detail and live a life that can make other women envious, jealous, and hateful.

Daria said emotionally: "Yun, have you been thinking about it for a long time?"

I just thought of it five minutes ago...

Gao Yun laughed: "Yes, I have actually been caring about you."

Daria kissed her passionately, her light blue eyes full of joy: "I choose the second one, I want to set up my own clothing brand! I want to design clothes for you! In fact, I have been studying design recently... of course traveling

I won’t give up either, I want to see every corner of the world with you!”

Gao Yun agreed, and the two immediately talked about the future...

But after chatting for a while, Gao said with a sincere face: "Daria, I still hope that you can become friends and have a good relationship with them. Each of them is very unique and very charming.
To be continued...