Chapter 368(1/2)
(Modified later)
A long, long time ago, there were a few high-end private clubs in China with sensual and sensual entertainment. The number of entertainment projects and the novelty of the tricks were enough to make ordinary people jaw-dropping.
Among them is this one;
The club will specially train several very beautiful judo girls to teach the bosses how to play judo. How to do it depends on the quality of the bosses.
Some of them became disheveled and sweating profusely after rubbing them, and screamed in the room.
Some bosses are more polite, more professional, more qualified, and very simple-minded.
Gao Yun belongs to the latter group. He is qualified, so he even put on his judo uniform and kneaded in a serious manner without any distracting thoughts.
He didn't know whether Christine was serious or not. Her face was reddish and her eyes were wandering, and she felt that she was not serious...
"So, you are very open-minded and you are not discriminatory towards heterosexual people, right? You know, I am a bisexual (bisexual), and I have made some mistakes, which seem intolerable to men.
…But I see that you don’t have any bad feelings when you touch me.”
In the small restaurant of the training camp, the two of them took a shower each and chatted while eating. Kristine suddenly raised this question directly, leaving Gao Yun stunned for a moment...
"You should be able to tell that the person sitting next to me watching the show today has the same orientation as you."
Kristine laughed: "Of course I can guess it, but I was still surprised to hear you say it."
Gao Yun thought: "As for the mistake you mentioned, since you say it is a mistake, then let it go... I can only say that prejudice and discrimination are harmful. This is cognitive distortion and a
It is a kind of thinking error. It will limit our vision, hinder people's growth, and is not conducive to our achieving higher achievements in secular society. It will also add a lot of unnecessary trouble and hatred to ourselves, and have a destructive impact on interpersonal relationships.
"
"Every achievement you achieve depends on the breadth and depth of your understanding of the world; every setback you encounter is because of your flawed understanding of the world; this is a rule. So I
Try to look at the world as objectively as possible and let your own ideology transcend the limitations of various concepts. Avoid polarized thinking. It is not an either/or, black or white way of thinking.
If it’s not dealt with above, it will be directly labeled as bad.”
Kristen was aware and confused: "What will you do specifically? I mean it seems difficult to be objective and rational. The emotions are overwhelming."
Gao Yun chewed slowly: "I once read a book called "Burns' New Emotional Therapy". The author, David Burns, is a psychologist. It helped me a lot in managing my emotions.
Based on this book and other books, I have summarized a set of methods that can eliminate prejudice and reduce negative emotions..."
"When I see people who I don't understand, who feel incredible or outrageous, and have negative emotions in my heart, I have to tell myself; everyone's genes, physical conditions, brain IQ, growth environment, race and culture from birth, these are all
It’s different. Because of innate factors and acquired influences, everyone’s qualities and thinking patterns as adults are also different. Even if their social identities are different, their personalities are equal, and no one can be superior to others.”
"At this time, I can feel at ease. I will think in his shoes with an open mind. If my identities were exchanged, would I become a person like him and take actions like him? I think there is a certain probability.
So I understand and accept it... If you really can't understand it, just let it go. As long as it doesn't cause any harm to my interests, it has nothing to do with me, and there is no need for me to have emotional fluctuations or take other measures to deal with it."
Seeing Christine's enlightened reflection, Gao Yun felt that he had made a guest appearance as a psychologist. After talking about it for so long, why didn't the system give him a 'psychological counseling' skill? Do he need to take a certificate by himself? No.
It's necessary...
"Actually, I used to be prejudiced against men."
While Gao was still thinking about it, Christine was deeply touched and confided: "Since that incident, many of my female friends have been supporting me and enlightening me, including actresses who I have only worked with.
But except for my relatives, no man gave me that kind of help. No man did this. Even at that time, most of the people who severely criticized me were men, including that big mouth Donald Trump... I think this is probably me.
Main reasons for changing orientation.”
The butt determines the head. If a woman cheats, the man will share the same hatred; if a man cheats, the woman will also be angry. Most of the two genders cannot understand each other, and they often complain and belittle each other. If there is a man or woman who can read the thoughts of the opposite sex
pattern, then this person must be very popular with the opposite sex...
Gao Yun was also very emotional: "Once your fame reaches a certain height, your good deeds will not necessarily be magnified, but your wrong actions will definitely be magnified. If you do not live according to their ideas, you will have the slightest trace of failure.
Moral stain, then you don’t deserve this love... huh?"
Christine kissed him on the cheek suddenly, which caught Gao Yun off guard: "What are you doing?"
Gao Mou was very angry in his heart. He had not met such a proactive woman for a long time, which made him put down his guard against women. Damn it, boys must protect themselves when going out. When encountering such a scumbag, they must maintain a safe distance.
Otherwise, there will be no room for regret after being taken advantage of...
"Um, I don't know, I just wanted to express my agreement..." Christine seemed to want to quibble, but after hesitating for a moment, facing Gao Yun's questioning expression, she said calmly: "Okay, I just wanted to kiss you.
Just kiss me. If you feel uncomfortable, you can kiss me back."
How can you be so shameless and think so beautiful?
Gao Yun frowned and said: "Christine, I treat you as your friend. And as far as I know, you seem to have a girlfriend now. If she knew what you did just now, would it be a kind of harm to her?"
"No, she doesn't care about me." Christine said: "Just like your girlfriends don't care about you, I cheated on me up to seven times a year since I came out, and she didn't mind at all... Also, I don't care about you either.
I treat you as a friend, don’t think too much about it.”
Gao Yun stared for a moment, said nothing, picked up the dinner plate, stood up and sat on another chair next to him.
He found that this foreign bitch was a bit scary, and her face was thicker than his own. Sure enough, the scumbag who was denounced by the people of the United States and took the lead in dissing the cute president really had two brushes. He decided to stay away from this woman.
"Why are you sitting so far away?"
Kristine deliberately provoked: "Are you scared?"
"This trick doesn't work for me."
Gao Yun said calmly: "Listen, Christine. You are a little dangerous, a little evil. You think you are brave enough to live a free and unrestrained life, breaking through the shackles of gender. You are a serial heartbreaker and can break other people's hearts."
A repeat offender, full of charm...but I don't care. It's wisest for us to keep our relationship at the stage of friends. I'm very satisfied with the current relationship status and don't want any other variables. You know what I'm saying."
Kristine was slightly startled and said: "So you are still afraid. What if I am only loyal to one person in the future?"
"As a friend, I will be very happy with the choice you made, because it means that you have met someone you really like, and that's it."
Kristine was silent for a long time, and waited until Gao Yun was almost finished eating before she said, "Have you ever made a mistake that you will regret for the rest of your life?"
"For now, no." Gao Yun could probably guess her next words.
Christine was a little disappointed: "So, everyone's different experiences mean there is never any empathy and mutual understanding."
Gao Yun spread his hands: "A lot of times it's useless even if we understand each other, because it's related to conflicts of needs and interests... I understand you, but obviously you don't understand me."
"Um...they don't agree?"
"Just let this problem go, go back to the hotel early and rest, remember what I said, we are just friends, friendship comes first, bye!"
Gao Yun felt that this woman might be sick, otherwise why would she be so aggressive with him just one day after they met her? So he left without saying a word.
To say whether I am heart-beating or not, I am indeed heart-beating.
Among the four Hollywood beauties, Christine is recognized as the one with the highest appearance, which is almost equivalent to the most beautiful in Hollywood. After all, Nicole Kidman, Jessica and other goddesses are all old, and they are
However, with the ravages of time, beauties grow old. The beauty of Hollywood is only maintained by these post-90s actresses.
And Hollywood brings together beauties from the Western world. The most beautiful ones in Hollywood are equal to the most beautiful ones in the world...
Gao Yun estimated that according to the system score, Kristen's appearance should be on par with Shen Qiongxiao, maybe even a bit higher. Being kissed by such a beautiful woman, it would be false to say that she had no idea. But if she really wants to develop, it is not a good thing.
It was quite troublesome, so Gao sent me a friend card and firmly refused.
Sitting in the car on the way home, he was reading and reflecting, wondering whether he should be more cautious when interacting with women in the future. After all, there were already four at home and many spare tires, so he would offend a few more.
... Damn, how much is too much? If you have a bicycle, you need a motorcycle. When you ride on the motorcycle, you can watch the sedan, or when you sit on the sedan, you can drive a rocket?
On a whim, Gao Yun couldn't help but close the book and recite a poem;
"Running around all day just to get hungry, and when you are full, you think about clothes."
"I have enough food and clothing, but I also want a charming and beautiful wife."
"If you have a beautiful wife and have children, you would hate to have no land and no foundation."
"If you buy a farmland, it will be vast, and there will be no boats or horses to ride on."
"The trough head imprisoned the mules and horses, lamenting that he had no official position and was bullied."
"The county magistrate is too small for me, and he wants to hang a purple coat in the middle of the court."
"After practicing the emperor's magic to seek immortality, I even want to ascend to the sky and fly across cranes."
"If the world is to be satisfied, there is no other way than to be in a dream."
After reading the poem, Gao Yun sighed, realizing that human desires are endless, but there is nothing he can do about it, and he felt deeply sad!
The guard sat next to him and finally couldn't help but said: "BOSS? What's wrong?"
Gao Yun opened the dressing mirror, fiddled with his hair, and said distressedly: "I'm thinking about how to recycle my damn charm that has nowhere to go! Do you have any good ideas?"
Where is my gun? Where is my gun?!
The corner of the guard's mouth twitched crazily, and after holding it in for a long time, he couldn't help but laugh weirdly: "I heard from the servant that Miss Qin and the others started eating at six o'clock, and it's almost nine o'clock now. They haven't finished eating yet, and everyone has drank.
A lot of wine. You might as well think about how to deal with this situation when you get home."
"It doesn't matter."
Gao Yun waved his hand nonchalantly: "They all stayed here after drinking too much. It's not that there is no room. If they want, my bedroom has a master bedroom and a side sleeper. Counting me, five people can squeeze in."
Where is my gun? Where is my gun?!!!
The guard could only silently give a thumbs up.
To be continued...