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People who fall in love for the first time, whether boys or girls, often have unrealistic fantasies about love; they desire to be saved by being loved and to save their ordinary life through their partner.

But in this way, he (she) cannot really break free from the shackles. When will his (her) unrealistic fantasy be shattered, his mind clear up, let go of his obsession with being loved, learn to love, and the concept of love will be able to

Only by stepping into maturity can you have true self-salvation.

This kind of sobriety is to realize the fact; whether it is friends, lovers, or even relatives... all emotional relationships in the world are conditional. We cannot desire our own relief and salvation from others. Our salvation is ultimately only

Energy comes from yourself.

The opposite sex who has a crush on you will definitely be greedy for your body; after you have achieved something, the person who wants to get close to you will not only be greedy for your body but also your money, and there is definitely the idea of ​​taking advantage of you subconsciously; they are willing to be with you

The person who gets married must make the final decision after considering your income, education, and family background... You have to know that even if it is your parents, if you do not behave well and are not filial to them, they will not treat you right.

You're being polite. I'll hit you anyway if I should. If you don't correct yourself and get worse, it's normal to cut off the relationship between your children.

If you want to be liked and loved, you must have value!

Although unconditional love exists, it cannot last. Except for loving yourself unconditionally, you cannot love anyone unconditionally all the time. So unconditional love is not the whole of a relationship, but a lucky spark that occasionally flashes in a relationship.

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When we love each other in an intimate relationship, most of the time it is always conditional love, and there are some moments when unconditional love appears. It is the existence of these moments that makes intimate relationships different from ordinary relationships and becomes more intense.

More exciting.

No matter what the situation is or whether the other person may disappoint us, we are willing to choose to love. Unconditional love means that when we love someone, we love the essence of this person. You see the other person clearly,

Both parties realize their own conditions in the relationship, and gradually gain a clear understanding of the other party's conditions through constant communication and commitment. Therefore, unconditional love is by no means a blind love that uses self-deception to maintain love.

Unconditional love is not as imagined, it only requires passion and strong attraction. What it requires is maturity and a high tolerance for complex human nature.

Only if our needs and desires are met: implicit in a relationship partner's appearance, personal style, presence, emotional support, and all the other things that he or she can do for us that are common in relationships.

, it is possible to burst out unconditional love.

Hou Xu didn't understand this before. He subconsciously believed that love should be unconditional and eternal, so he didn't want the other party to know about his family, and he didn't care about his external image. This was because he had never been in love before.

Common misconceptions held by people.

Now after Hu Lucha's practical teaching, Hou Xu's illusion has obviously been shattered. Even if Gao Yun publicizes his information and he himself spends hundreds of thousands to buy a car as a material reward, there will be no

Any complaints.

It is foreseeable that these girls from Nortel will not only comfort Hou Xu's spirit, but may also comfort his body. His second relationship is already certain.

In just one hour, the task assigned to Gao Yun by Li Xiao was basically completed, and what he had to face next was his own emotional problems, to be precise, the problem of officially getting back together with Shen Qiongxiao.

In the evening, Shen Qiongxiao and Lu Qing came to the training camp. Gao Yun had just finished training and was eating a nutritious meal. The three of them met in the restaurant...

"Have you finished signing?"

Gao Yun immediately saw the contract in Shen Qiongxiao's hand and asked.

"I didn't sign it."

Shen Qiongxiao's answer surprised Gao. He subconsciously looked at Lu Qing with a strange look, but what he said soon made him even more surprised.

"I plan to personally invest 600 million yuan in this trust, and I would like to ask your opinion."

To put it bluntly, this trust contract should not appear in a normal love relationship. Gao Yun took it out on the one hand to compensate the harem members for their spiritual debt, and on the other hand to promise to stabilize people's hearts. For Shen Qiongxiao, it is still Compound olive branch.

The meaning of what the other party said at this time couldn't be more obvious. If you don't let me vote, I won't sign. If you let me vote, I will consider accepting and getting back together with you.

Shen Qiongxiao's investment trust actions and the figure of 600 million also have profound significance. This means that she did not accept material gifts from Gao Yun, and the status of both parties is still equal, and they are in a state of economic independence.

Between husband and wife, the woman's financial independence represents personality independence and equality. This will gain her husband's respect and the woman will be more confident. It is even said that whoever has stronger economic strength and whoever makes more money will be more successful. Confidence.

On the contrary, after the other girls signed the trust contract, they were unable to deposit hundreds of millions of dollars into the trust and were unable to achieve financial independence. This meant that they were one level below Shen Qiongxiao and three points weaker in person...

Suddenly, Gao Yun recalled Teacher Li Xiao's words: 'There must be a character in the harem who can suppress all the other female members and make them convinced.'

"Okay, let's vote."

Gao Yun hesitated: "But the share is about to change. How much do you think your share should be increased to?"

"There is no need for an increase. Just keep it unchanged at 30%."

Shen Qiongxiao smiled and said: "Actually, I still take advantage of this. Thirty percent of 2.6 billion is equal to 780 million. I still make a profit."

Gao Yun tried to increase Shen Qiongxiao's share, but the other party insisted that he would not insist and he would definitely be very dissatisfied if he favored other girls.

"Then tell me the contact information of the person in charge of the trust. I will go through the relevant procedures with him and formulate a new contract."

"Okay, I'll explain the situation to him later. Now take note of his phone number..."

After the matter was settled, Shen Qiongxiao changed the topic: "Since I have such a large investment in this trust, shouldn't you also listen to my opinion on the time and specific proportion of the shares of your other women?"

It's quite reasonable...

Gao Yun glanced at Lu Qing, who was listening, and said with a wry smile: "You are discussing business with me, right?"

Shen Qiongxiao raised the contract in his hand: "Yes, this is business. If they pay more than me, of course they will have a greater say. You can listen to them."

Others are really not as rich as Shen Qiongxiao. This is an honest conspiracy...

After a moment of silence, Gao Yun nodded: "Okay, I'll listen to your opinion."

Shen Qiongxiao also explained: "I have no other intention, just to share your worries, so as to avoid uneven interests and causing conflicts between them. Moreover, my 30% share is quite large, and I may have to share it in the future." Other members who I think are pretty good..."

Gao Yun has seen through his "sinister" intentions at a glance. He just wants to be the queen. For the sake of your sincere apology before, I agree.

"When you complete the formalities, complete the capital injection, and allocate shares to other girls, I will discuss it with you. You can rest assured about this."

"Then there's no problem."

After the business negotiation was over, Shen Qiongxiao turned around and left to change clothes and exercise. Gao Yun wanted to stay and be intimate for a while, but failed.

Lu Qing, a big lightbulb, watched the whole process. After President Shen left, she reminded Gao, who was staring at her while eating, "Where is your promise? The promise of the last dance was not fulfilled. This trip to Antarctica Aren’t you going to beat me too?”

Gao Yun paused with his chopsticks in the middle of the rice and said, speechless: "You still remember to dance, wait, I will dance for you after I finish eating!"

Miss Lu readily agreed: "When will the trip start? It was agreed at that time that as long as I let you and Shen Qiongxiao get back together, the three of us would go to Antarctica together. If you don't reply to me on WeChat, are you trying to renege on your debt?"

Gao Yun thought for a while and said: "I have to finish the competition by the end of the year, or it will be the Spring Festival holiday. Otherwise, Qiong Xiao will not have time, and you will have a lot of work matters. I will definitely not miss this. If you don't reply to WeChat, it means you are busy. Forgot, you know the nickname of my tall, honest and reliable young man!"

Honest and reliable? He has a human face and a dog’s heart!

"hehe."

Lu Qing didn't talk nonsense: "Have you finished eating? There will be a dance after dinner. I want to watch!"

"You can at least let me eat..."

"Digestion is fine, but you have to do two more dances."

Lu Qing was arrogant: "I have to dance at least four times, which will be considered as interest, otherwise I will lose your reputation as an honest and reliable young man."

Good guy, I drew a circle and got caught in it.

Gao Yun nodded silently: "Okay, eight dances are fine. Anyway, you did your best to bring Qiong Xiao back to me. Thank you."

Lu Qing's face brightened slightly: "You still have a conscience."

…

The place for dancing was in the deserted yoga room. The dance was so realistic that Gao was a little upset.

The situation is like this, Miss Lu is the same as the guests in the entertainment place, and he is the young master there.

He dances whatever style of dance someone asks for. The first one is a street dance and the other is a modern dance. Although it is a bit difficult, it is still normal. The next two are the kind of sensual dances of the boy band, all kinds of flirting. He could barely tolerate the subtle erotic movements of lifting his shirt and pushing his crotch, except for the last one, Gao Yun really couldn't bear it...

"This! Dance this!"

Lu Qing pointed to her mobile phone. A video was playing on the screen. The background was dim, the lights were flashing, and the music and drums were strong. It was suspected that the shooting location was a KTV, nightclub, etc. The protagonist was a male striptease with an enchanting posture. The muscles are strong and shiny with wax, and she strips down to only a pair of underwear...

Lu Qing was actually very interested: "It's over after you dance."

"I'm convinced, eldest sister, where did you get this video?"

Gao Yun said disgustedly: "Go to KTV and find a male model to dance for you. Five thousand yuan can take you to dance together and make you naked, sweaty and satisfied."

Lu Qing was angry: "Get out! You just said you should dance or not?"

"You must not be able to jump!"

Gao Yun was determined: "Don't jump even if you say nothing. You are a bit insulting."

At the mention of the word 'insult', Lu Qing remembered the first time she went shopping with Gao, and when she mentioned the incident where Gao's academic qualifications were rejected, her attitude softened...

"It's okay not to dance, just sing me a song."

Lu Qing sat down on the yoga mat with her hands on her knees.

"What do you want to hear?"

Gao Yun also breathed a sigh of relief, sat next to her and wiped his sweat: "Don't let me sing too weird and embarrass me..."

"let me see."

Lu Qing tilted her head and stared at him, thinking quietly for a while, and then said slowly: "I don't know what I want to hear. You can sing whatever you want. You can sing whatever you want."

Gao Yun pursed his lips and hummed a prelude softly, lazily, quietly and tiredly. The song was soft, hoarse and gloomy...
To be continued...