Chapter 99 [Men’s Talk]

Seeing that Qiao Qiao's father was on the verge of an outbreak, I quickly invited him into the house and led him to a room. This is a study. Basically, I am not a scholar, and the study at home is not very useful, but it is a good place to talk about some things.

After Qiao Qiao's father sat down, he took a few deep breaths before his emotions stabilized, but his face was still ugly. He stared at me and looked at him: "Chen Yang, what is your relationship with Qiao Qiao!"

Before I could speak, Qiao Qiao's father was already staring at me fiercely and said angrily: "Don't tell me that I'm a friend! Humph, my daughter won't take off her swimsuit in the swimming pool of her ordinary friend's home!"

I don't know what to say, nor how to say it.

What else can I say? Acknowledge that there is a super friendly relationship between Qiao Qiao? At the same time, I have my own girlfriend... If I say that, no father in the world can stand his daughter being "involved" by such a man...

So deny? Not to mention that this does not conform to my personality, I am not the kind of person who dares to be but not to be. Besides, what has Qiao Qiao’s father already identified now? Is it useful for me to deny it?

He pressed the table hard, suddenly stood up, and then slowly walked towards me... Just when I thought I might be slapped, Qiao Qiao's father's hand was placed on my shoulder. He pressed me hard, as if he was making a decision. Then he walked away, walked back and forth in my study several times, paced, hesitating and thinking on his face.

finally……

"Chen Yang. Let's be honest." Qiao Qiao's father took a deep breath: "I have already been worried about this girl Qiao Qiao."

"Although our family dare not say that it is a wealthy family, it has some foundation. People like us, whether they are married to men or women, are not so casual. In your words, they may think that we are a political marriage... Hey! In fact, I don't really want to arrange a political marriage for Qiao Qiao."

Qiao Qiao's father looked at me: "I only have one requirement for Qiao Qiao. The man she is looking for must be of equal status with our family. If it is an ordinary boy... to be honest, I am not at ease to marry Qiao Qiao to him."

"Well..." I nodded vaguely, but I felt a little nervous: Why did he tell me this?

"It's not that I have a vision, nor that I look down on ordinary boys... In fact, there are some things in this world that you young people don't understand, let alone understand." He said lightly: "A idiom left by our ancestors is actually very reasonable. However, many children who don't know anything about the world now think that after watching a few love movies and a few love novels, they think that love is the most important thing and can ignore all objective conditions."

"The stories on movies and TV can be fabricated at will, such as the daughters of rich families fall in love with poor boys. Or the young masters of rich families fall in love with girls from poor backgrounds... They can unscrupulously advocate this kind of love supremacy, advocating the greatness and loftyness of love... Anyway, in this world, it is not cost money to shout high-profile." Qiao Qiao's father said lightly: "But the principle of being a good match is not understood by those little kids who have no life experience."

I nodded.

He continued: "Let me give an example, a girl from college graduate fell in love with a man with only elementary school education. The two of them may have sparked due to occasional frictions... The people in the family may object. They think that men's education is not worthy of the girl... At this time, the young people around them who are "educated" by those love stories will advocate love first, believing that all those who are organized together are old and stubborn..."

I nodded, it seemed that it was indeed the case.

"But in fact." Qiao Qiaodi's father curled his lips: "The so-called heart-wrenching is only temporary. Over time, even if the two are together, they will gradually discover it. Because of the different educational backgrounds, their respective hobbies, interests, and habits of life are completely different, and even their conversations are very different. For example, women are highly educated, like to listen to operas, watch stage plays, and watch ballet... But these are not liked by men only at elementary school cultural level. For example, men like to make loud noises, like to make noises in public, and like to swear... These are manifestations of the personality that attracts her when the two first met, but after a long time and the freshness passes, they will feel that they are the feeling of being attracted by the women when they first met.

I feel vulgar. When it comes to that moment, I may even feel disliked by a small move. Actually…” Qiao Qiao’s father smiled: “There is a saying that “love can tolerate everything”, which is actually all nonsense that writers make up for fooling people. There is no love that can tolerate everything in the world. Love is very fragile and must be based on specific environments and specific conditions… If two people come from different cultural backgrounds, different qualities, different experiences, and different habits… then love cannot be produced, or if it occurs, it will not be firm and will break quickly. This is what I call a good match. It does not mean money, but all other conditions must be consistent and must be equal and similar.”

I admit that what he said was right, it was really right, and it was very realistic.

Love movies are love movies after all, and I don’t talk about money... The so-called equality does not mean narrowly, just referring to the economic conditions and background of both parties, as well as culture, quality, education, living habits and so on, etc., must be comparable.

For example, in China, it is difficult for a northern man to live in harmony with a southern girl. Even if the two have a good relationship at the beginning, this kind of relationship cannot withstand the test of life. The simplest example is that most men in the north are more masculine, while girls in the south are more delicate and sensitive. Such two people will inevitably have conflicts when they live together. Especially when the initial passion is worn out by the trivialities of life, breaking up is the inevitable ending.

These words are very unpleasant, but they are facts.

Those who sing the slogan "Love can defeat everything" are mostly young children who have not experienced much real feelings.

"Actually..." Qiao Qiao's father said this, and his tone changed: "When I learned that Qiao Qiao was with you, I thought a lot."

"Oh?" I smiled bitterly.

"Of course, you may not understand the mentality of being a father now. That's because you are not on my side. Maybe in a few decades, you will understand." He sighed, with a bit of helplessness on his mature and handsome face: "Jojo's temperament is so weird, I don't want to hide this... Well, or she is more weird than most girls, especially her strange...'habits'."

I didn't say anything-I can't say "Well, that's right. Your daughter is gay."

"So, when I arranged a engagement for her, I actually carefully selected it for a long time... You have seen that young man Li Wenjing, he is very outstanding... in all aspects, and has a good family background. From these things, he has almost no flaws, and I have to admit that he is a very attractive young man." Qiao Qiao's father shrugged: "But unfortunately, my daughter doesn't like him."

"..." I looked into his eyes: "What the hell do you want to say?"

"Tell me." He said bluntly: "Since I knew that Qiao Qiao was in Canada and was with you, I started to think about new issues. You, Chen Yang, a young man, you... well, you look pretty good, and more importantly, you and Qiao Qiao can get along... Of course, the most important thing is the issue of being a match."

"Uh..." I felt I couldn't speak anymore.

"Frankly speaking, if you were just the status in China, I wouldn't even have to think about it and would directly reject you. Because I wouldn't let my daughter have a relationship with a person at the bottom of society... It's not that I'm prejudiced to people, but because of those four words..."

"A good match." I sighed.

"Yes, it's just a good match. If you are a man of ordinary status, I need to think too much. Of course, I won't consider whether he can support my daughter... You see, I'm not short of money. But what I'm considering is whether two people can really live together. Two people from different social levels, who live together, eat, wear, use, say, and do things, will be completely different. During the time period, when love remains fresh, they can tolerate each other, but wait for time

As we grow up... there will inevitably be conflicts. So, I can accept that when I was in China, you were my daughter's friend, but when she was a man, I would be the first to come out to break up you." He said it was certain, and there was no concealment at all: "The simplest example is that when ordinary people are usually having dinner and drinking with friends. But in our circle, communication is a kind of knowledge... If two people come from different levels, they will sooner or later feel that they are not used to each other's living habits."

He is right.

Simply put, Qiao Qiao will only need 8,000 yuan to buy a piece of clothing. Who can stand such a girlfriend in an ordinary man? Okay, or you would say that if she really loves me, she will be willing to live an ordinary life with me.

Then I will tell you that you really don’t understand life.

People buy clothes worth 8,000 per piece, not intentionally showing off or intentionally extravagant... It is a habit that has been developed since childhood, just a habit, and has nothing to do with "dislike the poor and love the rich". She is used to clothes that will be designed by special designers. When each brand is used to new models, the merchant will directly notify her of the new style according to the most considerate and thoughtful VIP service model... In this case, you ask her to accompany you to eat a large stall and accompany you to the night market to buy clothes worth 10 yuan a piece... She is not saying that she dislikes this kind of life too poor, but she just feels unavailable and uncomfortable.

That's all.

I also heard that there were men and women from the south and north of China who were together and broke up in the end, but they ended up being different for the simple life habits: southerners like to eat rice, while northerners like to eat pasta. Both sides do love each other very much, but their living habits are different. In the end, they really couldn't stand such a life, so they had to break up.

If you say, well, I can tolerate eating rice (or pasta) every day for my lover... then, I can only say that you don't understand life.

What is life? It is not romantic love, the illusion of infinite beauty of love... Life is just food, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea!!

I changed color a little: "Are you..."

"It's not a problem now." Qiao Qiao's father looked at me: "My first reaction was that it might not be a bad thing for Qiao Qiao to live with a man. At least she is finally willing to accept a woman...at least it's much better than living with a woman."

He said it very directly, and I had to smile bitterly.

"Then I checked you carefully... the man who lives with her. Finally, I suddenly felt that this might be good news. Indeed, when you were in China, you were still at the bottom of the world. But now, you have made a fortune, you have a certain position, you have power, and even this power is not small. You are very rich now, and you have gradually entered the upper level of the world. From the point of being a good match, you are almost completely in line with it. There are no flaws... Moreover, you and Qiao Qiao are very familiar with each other, and you have the possibility of being together." He looked at me: "As a father, especially Qiao Qiao's father, after a long time of trouble with her lifelong affairs, I suddenly felt that you are actually not bad. Although you may not be better than Li Wenjing, you are indeed very outstanding. If you can become my son-in-law, this is also a good choice."

He looked at me: "Since she doesn't like the man I chose for her. Then the man she chose herself also meets the conditions in my heart. So why not do it?"

I was stunned, completely stunned, took a deep breath, and then slowly said: "Mr. Qiao... Well, Uncle Qiao, do you mean, do you want me to be your son-in-law?"

"It's totally correct." He looked at me with a smile, but then frowned: "But, there are other girls around you now, which surprised me a little... Well, this is a surprising problem... But in my opinion, the girl named Yan Di is actually not a big problem."
Chapter completed!