Author: Cha Nuan

"It's just that this matter is important, and we, the couple, attach great importance to it and want to discuss etiquette matters with Uncle An Min and his wife as early as possible, so we took the liberty to come here."

He Chengye and Mr. Lu spoke with great humility, and their actions showed respect and courtesy.

Su Shaoyuan and Lu had only met He Yanxiu before, and thought he was excellent in appearance, talent, and conduct. Now that they met his parents, they immediately understood why He Yanxiu was so outstanding.

Parents and tutors are like this, and He Yanxiu is naturally the same.

It can be seen from this that the He family has a good family tradition.

For a woman, getting married is not just about being in love, the most important thing is to look at her husband's family background, family tradition, the relationship between the sisters-in-law, etc.

He Chengye and the Lu family are like this, Mrs. He loves Su Yujin very much, and her brother-in-law He Yanzhou is still young, but it is said that he is also smart, lively and sensible...

It can be said that this marriage is a match made in heaven, and there is nothing inappropriate about it.

Su Shaoyuan and Mr. Lu were happy, and they had a great time talking to He Chengye and Mr. Lu about the Six Rites.

The two families even sat together for a pleasant lunch at noon, and chatted until the sun turned west, before He Chengye and Mr. Lu left.

Su Shaoyuan and Lu went out to see each other off.

Before leaving, Mrs. Lu took Mrs. Lu's hand and said with a smile, "Our parents have not met for a long time. Logically speaking, at this time, all the focus should be on the marriage of Yu Jin and Yan Xiu."

"It's just that my husband and I have a limited number of visits to the capital every year, and time is even tighter. So I thought I would tell Mrs. He about this matter, and Mrs. He could help me keep an eye on it."

"As Madam said, our two families are already in-laws and have a close relationship. If you have anything to say, just say it." Mrs. Lu also said with a smile.

"Mrs. He also saw it. I am Yujin's aunt. I also have a son and a daughter. My son is a thoughtful person who makes his own decisions in everything. He has his own plans for the marriage. My husband and I can't talk about it, so we can only let him.

go."

Lu said, "I am also thinking that no matter what kind of marriage he finds, I, as the future mother-in-law, will treat other girls well in the future. It is not a big deal."

"It's just that my little daughter has reached the age of marriage, but she has not found a suitable marriage. My husband and I are considering that in the future, Shao Yuan will work in the capital, and Yu Jin will also be in the capital. If Ruoruo can also work in the capital,

If we find a suitable husband's family in the capital, the three brothers and sisters can take care of each other and support each other, which is quite good."

"So I rashly spoke to Madam and asked Madam to help keep an eye on her to see if there was a suitable person to help me look at each other."

When Mrs. Lu heard this, the smile on her face became even stronger, "My wife asked me to help with something, and it turned out to be this. Madam, don't worry, just leave it to me. If there is a suitable person, I will

Just tell the lady."

Seeing Mrs. Lu's willingness to agree, Mrs. Lu thanked her repeatedly, "Thank you so much, Mrs. He."

"There is no need to say kind words as a family."

While laughing, Mr. Lu quickly ran through some people he knew who were of the right age, never married, and had decent moral character.

Su Yunruo is good-looking, has a cheerful and free temperament, and has the demeanor of a general's daughter.

But Su Yunruo, a knitting girl, is good at everything and has the dignity and virtuousness of a lady. Such a girl has no worries about finding her husband's family.

But even if you don't worry, you still have to find a suitable one.

Su Yunruo is Su Yujin's cousin, which means she is a relative of the He family. No matter what, she cannot be careless and must be chosen carefully.

But even if you are selected, you still have to let the other party know that there is such a Su Yunruo.

After all, according to the situation in this dynasty, most men come to propose marriage...

Mrs. Lu thought for a while and felt that instead of going to the screening and seeing each other, it would be better to take Su Yunruo out to the banquet directly when she encountered various banquets.

Cast the net everywhere and focus on catching fish!

Very good!

After Mr. Lu finished planning the matter, he began to make arrangements to invite the official media.

A matchmaker comes to the woman's home to propose marriage. This is the first step of the six rites, acceptance.

And the gift that will be sent to the woman's house on the day of acceptance must be solemn and formal.

In addition to some auspicious things in etiquette and customs, Mr. Lu planned to add some more, so as to show his importance.

But, what should I add?

Mr. Lu searched in the library for a long time, but felt that he couldn't choose any good ones, so he simply opened his private library and picked one or two from them.

After finishing picking out the things in her private treasury, Ms. Lu still felt that it was not enough. After thinking about it, she went to Mrs. He's yard in the afternoon.

Mrs. He just woke up from her nap. Before she could recover, she yawned and asked, "Why are you here at this time?"

"I was preparing to receive gifts, but seeing that the weather was hot today, I cooked some rock sugar mung bean and lily soup and brought it to my mother to relieve the heat."

Mrs. Lu smiled very shamelessly, "Also tell mother what my daughter-in-law has prepared in the past two days. This is the gift list. Would you like mother to take a look at it?"

Mrs. Lu was very safe in doing things, and Mrs. He was originally very relieved, but this was about the marriage between He Yanxiu and Su Yujin, so Mrs. He still took it over and looked at it carefully.

"Everything is good." Mrs. He nodded slightly, "But why is there so much space in the back?"

"My daughter-in-law wanted to add some more, but she didn't know what to add, so she came here to ask her mother for advice..."

Hearing Mrs. Lu say this, Mrs. He immediately understood the key point. She stretched out her hand and tapped Mrs. Lu's forehead, "You, you have something to say that you can't say clearly?"

After that, he asked the maid next to him to get the key to the warehouse, "Go and choose what you want. Remember, you have to choose the best one!"

Mrs. Lu has been married to the He family for so many years, and she has never asked her for anything. Now that she has come to her for her granddaughter-in-law, she can do anything with dignity.

"Thank you, mother." Ms. Lu thanked her with a smile, but then said, "My daughter-in-law will pick out what she has chosen, but I don't need the best one..."

You have to save the best for later, so that you can enjoy the scenery when you give out the betrothal gifts.

"It doesn't matter." Mrs. He waved her hands nonchalantly, "Just do as I say, I know what you are thinking about. When the betrothal gifts are given, I will go to the emperor and the noble concubine to ask for some rewards.

"

Mr. Lu, "..."

The old lady is indeed an old lady.

Even better than her abacus!

…

The gift of acceptance was delivered to Su Yujin’s home on an auspicious day.

This is just a courtesy, everything is just a formality, and the process is quite easy.

Once the Nacai ceremony is over, the marriage is considered settled, and Su Yujin will enter the marriage preparation stage.
Chapter completed!