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Niu Dali didn't expect that summer and winter would have the idea of ​​letting summer and winter grass be separated.
Of course, he had this idea when he saw Lin Yongsheng planning to sell his two cousins ​​and aunts before.
He could see that his aunt and two cousins ​​were not doing well in the Lin family. The three of them were wearing shabby clothes and were very thin. Although it was spring plowing season and the weather was warmer, the temperature was still a bit low. What should I do in the afternoon? But it was still quite cold in the morning and evening.
However, he also knew that it was not easy to get my aunt and I to live.
In ancient times, it was unfair to women.
Divorce seems to be common in modern times, and many people even think that this is just a small matter. Anyway, if you can't continue, you may be divorced without freshness. Let's change to a new one.
But in ancient times, especially for women, it was a bolt from the blue.
In ancient times, divorces were divided into two types. One was a divorce proposed by the man, called divorce of his wife. The husband's family would use the so-called "seven-out orders" to abandon women. Generally, women who were abandoned would be discriminated against and pointed at by people. Under the constraints of ethics, they would either stay alone in the green lamp or commit suicide shyly.
The second type is better. The woman proposes a divorce, called a divorce, which means divorce in a way that is important to negotiate and divorce.
However, a woman who can divorce must have the support of her parents' family, and her family's family background is not weaker than that of her husband's family, otherwise she will only end up being abandoned by her husband's family.
But whether it is to be divorced or divorced, for women, they will not only be coldly discussed, but also people from their parents' home will also suffer.
In addition, people's thinking is that when a married daughter is spilled out, the water is poured out. When a daughter gets married, she has to take her husband's surname and serve her mother-in-law.
Even if you know that your daughter is not living well in her in-laws' house and is close to you, you can come to the door to say good things to her daughter, but you usually don't interfere directly.
After all, my daughter will live in her husband's house for the rest of her life.
But if you marry far away, I am afraid you will not care about it.
This is even more true for women. No matter how difficult or hard life is in their husband's family, they have never thought about separation. There is only one belief that supports them, that is, the daughter-in-law becomes a mother-in-law and the hardships are all the best.
Therefore, few people generally choose to divorce.
Just like Xia Dongcao, even if her family supports her and Lin Yongsheng’s separation, she still has to consider her two daughters to marry.
When choosing a wife, good people will consider a good match and looking at the girls' parents.
As the saying goes, the upper beam is not straight and the lower beam is crooked.
There is a mother who is in harmony. No matter how good her daughter is, she may learn how good she is. She may follow her in the future.
"Grandma, my uncle asked my aunt and grandma to be kind to him. What is kind to be kind to him?" Erya was very curious about what kind to be kind to him, and asked Xia Chang in a low voice.
"You are told not to read more books in normal times, but you don't listen. Now you know what books are when you use them, but you will regret it!" Daya said in a low voice.
"You know, then you said?" Erya said with a pout.
"The uncle asked my aunt and grandma to live separately because he wanted my aunt and grandma to live separately!" said Da Ya.
"Grandma, is my sister's words true?" Erya asked.
Xia Chang touched Erya's little head with pity, feeling extremely sad. She couldn't understand why her two daughters were so miserable!!
The eldest daughter died early.
This is the case with the little daughter!
In fact, Xia Dongchun mentioned the matter of Xia Dongcao and Sei once before.
Xia Dongchun felt sorry for her sister. During the Chinese New Year, she watched her sister and two nieces come to greet her in thin old clothes.
You should know that during the Chinese New Year, the weather was very cold, and my sister and two niece didn't even eat breakfast. When I walked from Linjia Village to Xishi Village, I was trembling with coldness. My niece's face turned white and her lips were chapped. Lin Yongsheng didn't even see ghosts.
At that time, the summer, winter and spring were so angry that Xia, Dongcao, threatened to not live with Lin Yongsheng.
But Xia Dongcao refused, and although Xia Changcheng and Xia Chang couldn't bear it, they did not agree to let Xia Dongcao and Lin Yongsheng get along.
The reason is very simple. If Lin Damei and Lin Xiaomei want to get married, they need to have a family to rely on.
But this time, Lin Yongsheng actually planned to take Xia Dongcao and Lin Damei and Lin Xiaomei paid off the gambling debts, which has already crossed the bottom line in the Xia family's heart.
They could tolerate Lin Yongsheng ignoring his wife and daughter, but they could definitely not tolerate Lin Yongsheng's plan to sell Xia Dongcao and his daughter.
And here.
When Xia Dongchun heard that Xia Dongchun was unwilling to divorce, she immediately refused to fight, "Why don't you listen to me? Lin Yongsheng's beast was planning to sell his eldest sister and younger sister. Do you think he would care about his eldest sister and younger sister's marriage?"
Xia Chuanhe said angrily: "Yes, my sister-in-law, in order to pay off the gambling debts, he can sell you, my sister and the girl to the people in the casino today. My sister, don't you not know where the casino is? It's a wolf's nest. Once you go in, the girl and the girl will be ruined for the rest of their lives!"
The summer and winter grass is so chaotic that it is said.
She didn't know this, but what could she do? Even if she really divorced Lin Yongsheng, could she, a married daughter, still live in her parents' home for the rest of her life?
Even if my parents, elder brother, and nephew have no objection, what do the villagers think?
I'm afraid that their Xia family will be laughed at and be stung.
"Uncle, aunt, I think you should ask the eldest sister and the younger sister about this?" Niu Dali suddenly spoke.
Lin Damei and Lin Xiaomei immediately looked at him in surprise.
Niu Dali smiled honestly at the two of them.
Xia Changcheng pondered for a moment, sighed and said, "Well, Dali is right. Dongcao dared not divorce her eldest and younger sisters, so we should listen to their opinions."
Xia Chuanhe hurriedly advised: "Big sister, I think you all know what life do you live in that family, little sister. It's not something that people can do."
The eyes stared at Lin Damei and Lin Xiaomei, making the two girls a little at a loss.
In fact, Lin Damei and Lin Xiaomei never thought about the separation between mother and father before.
But after hearing Da Ya and Er Ya talk about the things they had at Lao Niu’s house before, some small thoughts arose in their minds.
Before my cousin's family broke down, my cousin's wife, Da Ya and Er Ya lived a similar life as theirs, but since they broke down, my cousin's family has gotten better and better, which makes them have different ideas.
If they and their mother left that home, would life be better than before?
No, it probably isn't worse than there.
They have to get up to work before dawn. In order to subsidize their family income, they also have to follow their mother's daily and nightly embroidery work to earn money.
My father never works and only knows how to bet. He asks his mother for money for money at the end of the money they earn. The money they earned was taken to bet by his father.
If you lose money, your father will vent his anger on them, beat them and scold them as losing money and broom stars.
My mother protected them, and was beaten by her father to the face and bleed.
Chapter completed!