Chapter 25: Marriage and Harmony
The four years of college ended like this. There were joys and sorrows. Everyone had a suitable job. Things were busy. A few of us met every year. Da Lei returned to his hometown and became a village official. Fatty returned to Sichuan to help his father.
I was busy. Xiaomei stayed in Beijing and worked in a state-owned enterprise. I planned to play with my grandpa for a while before going to work. I could also accompany him. I brought my luggage home, and my grandma made me my favorite food.
Zhajiang Noodles, Grandpa is also happy that I can support myself after graduation.
"Grandpa, I will stay with you for a while before I leave, so I can learn from you."
"Okay, but you probably won't be able to rest. Your second aunt will come to see you tomorrow."
"Um okay!"
Early the next morning, my second aunt came to me to help her daughter solve the marriage problem. The two of them entered the house and passed through Grandpa Sun's place in the front yard. When we got inside, we exchanged a few words and I asked if there was anything I needed to see.
aunt
"Ah, look at your sister's marriage problem. I've brought you their horoscopes to help us take a look."
"Well, let me take a look." He took the horoscope and looked at the two people. The horoscope, that is, the birth date, is the stem and branch calendar date of a person's birth. The year stem and the year branch form the year pillar, and the month stem and the month branch form the month pillar.
, the day stem and the day branch form the day pillar, and the hour stem and the hour branch form the hour pillar; there are four pillars in total, and the four stems and four branches have eight characters in total, so they are also called four pillars and eight characters. Eight character numerology is a method based on the stem and branch calendar.
The knowledge of predicting a person's career, marriage, wealth, studies, health and other matters based on the theories of Yin Yang, Five Elements, Shen Sha, etc., also known as fortune telling, is a fortune telling method with a long history in China.
In application, the Nian Pillar or the Month Pillar is used as the zodiac sign to make decisions, but most of them use the Day Stem of the Day Pillar as the main one. The Year Stem and Branch represent the ancestors, the Month Stem and Branch represent the parents, and the Day Stem and Branch represent oneself and brothers and sisters (I am a male).
, Rigan represents brothers, and Rizhi represents sisters; I am a female, Rigan represents sisters, and Rizhi represents brothers), and time represents heirs. Take the life palace, fetal yuan, great luck, minor luck, and fleeting years to match the year of Tai Sui.
, the Five Elements of Yue Ling and others restrain and resolve evil.
Youdao is due to the limitations of understanding. The traditional four pillars are not perfect not only in theory but also in methods. For example, they do not know the mechanism and principles of destiny formation, and they have not perfected the so-called four-pillar sun law and moon law prediction methods and methods. Therefore,
, To learn fortune telling, you need to constantly accept new knowledge and skills, and constantly improve your prediction knowledge and abilities! This depends on the horoscopes of the two people. It is also a question of horoscopes for marriage. Marital harmony is the foundation of family happiness and social stability.
One of the factors is that after decades of life journey, if the family is happy, it will be like a blink of an eye. If the marriage is unhappy, life will last like years. Although people are very cautious about marriage, in reality, there are still a lot of unhappy marriages.
Some are divorced by death, some are divorced by appearance, and some are quarreling all day long. However, there are not many happy marriages that can last a lifetime, especially in modern times when the divorce rate is rising sharply.
Bazi marriage refers to the exchange of Geng Tie by men and women before marriage to determine whether the horoscopes are compatible, which is called "horoscope marriage".
The so-called in-marriage is to match the horoscopes of both men and women together, and conduct detailed research on whether the five elements between the horoscopes of both parties are harmonious, and whether there are serious conflicts in the various luck rhythms of both parties. From this, we can deduce the relationship between the two people in the future.
The good and bad luck of the marriage life, and reasonable suggestions are put forward to prevent unhappy marriages before they happen, thereby improving the quality of marriage. So what are the basic points of horoscope marriage? Xu Xianchao said: Traditionally, the year pillar is generally valued, and the principle is
Do not marry someone who is 6 years older than you. For example, if the woman is born in the year of Horse, she cannot be matched with someone who is born in the year of Rat, because in the zodiac, Horse is Wu Fire and Rat is Zi Water, because Zi and Wu are in conflict with each other; of course, this
There is some truth to this.
These two people are not very harmonious and have some backlash. Moreover, I heard from this sister that they always quarrel and break up. She wants to save this marriage. In fact, in Maoshan, marriage harmony is also a secret skill. It can bring two people who are at odds together.
They came together and made changes so that the two of them could live happily ever after, but these changes would overdraw everything in the future, and since they were overdrawn, they had to pay it back. I can't say it's unreasonable, but it's pretty much the same.
"Sister, have you thought about changing it? You can change it, but you need to bear the responsibility for the future. What you are changing now is overdrafting everything in the future. I don't know exactly what you need to exchange for it. Have you thought about it?"
"I've thought about changing it, but I don't want to give up."
"good"
It was not difficult to change, I asked her to kneel down in front of the altar, and I went to prepare the things needed, 8 candles, two birth dates, two puppets, a bundle of incense, a pile of paper money, and 8 white ropes.
Candles were arranged around both sides of her, and two puppets were placed in front of her. I sat cross-legged in front of her, and let him hold a bundle of incense. Before lighting one, I led the white rope from the altar to the edge of the brazier.
Come down, in order to gather the spiritual energy, then wrap it around her body, fix everything properly, and then I start.
The essence of heaven and earth, the essence of sun and moon, heaven and earth combine their essence, the sun and moon combine their brightness, gods and ghosts combine their shapes, your heart matches my heart, my heart matches your heart, thousands of hearts, thousands of hearts, thousands of hearts, thoughts match my heart
.Go. Burn the paper money and give it to each person, asking her to light the bundle of incense.
He stood up and lit three sticks of incense in front of the Dharma altar, wrote on the notice board, and burned the Dharma Realm's demands directly.
1. Divide the male destiny (made by Qian) and the female destiny (made by Kun) according to the destiny formula, fill in the year, month, day and hour of birth. Then set up the four pillars of the sun law and the moon law.
2. According to the "Table of the Ten Gods of the Heavenly Stems and Earthly Branches of the Sun", the day stems are compared with the four pillars of the Heavenly Stems and Earthly Branches to match the ten gods.
3. Arrangement of the stems and branches of the four pillars: 1. Year pillar, day pillar. 2. Month pillar: According to the "Moon Table from the Year of the Five Tigers", which is taken from the year stem and birth month. Or refer to the perpetual calendar. 3. Hour pillar: According to
"Five Rats escape from the rising time of the day", which is taken from the stem of the day and the time of birth.
Fourth, according to the birth month, day, and hour, compare the month's festival, calculate the number of days and hours, and determine the depth of the Tibetan stem, so as to know whether the Tibetan stem contains Qi: Zhengqi, middle Qi, or residual Qi. Then use the daily stem
Compare the Tibetan stems and choose the ten gods that match the Tibetan stems.
5. Kongsu: Use the Year Pillar and the Day Pillar stems and branches, and compare them with the branches that belong to Kongwang in the middle of the tenth day, and then check whether the four Earthly Branches meet each other.
Sixth, the twelve daily stems: compare the daily stems with the four earth branches to determine the match. Refer to the "Daily Stem Twelve Transport Table" to know the rise and fall of each residence's fortune.
7. Fate with gods and evil spirits: Use the day stem, year branch, monthly branch, daily branch, or other gods and evil figures to match the gods and evil spirits respectively as evidence for destiny.
8. Children’s Guansha: According to the year stem, month branch, and day stem respectively, it is used as precautions for raising young children. 9. Stem and branch generation and restraint: According to the four pillars of heavenly stems, the yin and yang of the earthly branches, and the five elements, the stems and stems are combined and the stems are born.
, Ganke, and branch three associations, three combinations, half three combinations, six combinations, six clashes, mutual punishment, mutual destruction, mutual harm, self-punishment, etc. Whether the combination is formed or not is also indicated with the number of Qi, which is considered
It is inferred that the strength of the Sun Lord will be prosperous and declining, and it will be the helper of good and bad fortune.
10. The stems and branches of the fleeting year: The stems and branches of the year of birth are considered to be one year old, arranged in order, and noted separately in the "Liujia Kongwang and the fleeting stems and branches comparison table" for easy reference.
11. Debate the pattern: According to the five elements of the fate pattern and the configuration of the ten gods, first consider the changing pattern (outer pattern, or special pattern). Is it qualified? If it is qualified, the changing pattern will be used as the pattern. If it is not qualified, then the daily stem will be compared.
Moon Branch: 1. Use the Moon Branch to determine the Tibetan Stem. 2. Use the Moon Branch to determine the depth of the Hidden Stem.
12. The strength and decline of the Sun Lord: Based on the increase and decrease in the energy content of the four pillars, stems, yin and yang and the five elements, combined with the weighted calculation of the lunar branches, the strength and decline of the Sun Lord can be determined.
After doing this, I asked him to take the doll home and burn it on the spot three days later. I changed it, but whether I can control it or not depends on myself. Everything is fixed, and any change is an overdraft.
Chapter completed!