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Chapter 103 The importance of identity equality

 Daohua's tenth birthday was not a big event, and she did not invite the ladies from the family to come over to play. She just had a simple bowl of longevity noodles with her family.

"Daohua, haven't you and the Zhou girl always been in contact? Why didn't you invite someone to your house today?"

After eating longevity noodles, Mrs. Li, Mr. Sun, Ms. Wu, as well as Yan Yihuan, Yan Yishuang, and Yan Yile all sat in the old lady's room and chatted with her.

Daohua glanced at the second aunt who meant something. Yan Wenjie's failure to go to Wangyue Academy still made the people in the second room have a grudge: "My sister Zhou and I have only known each other for a short time, so it's not good to invite someone rashly.



Sun shook her head and said in disapproval: "Daohua, it's not that the second aunt is telling you that your idea is wrong. The communication between people relies on walking around each other. If there is more contact, the feelings will naturally be deeper."



Daohua smiled: "What the second aunt said is true, but I think that when dealing with each other, it is important to have equal status, so that we can get along more comfortably, don't you think so?"

Mr. Zhou is the former Chief Assistant, Mr. Zhou is the current Minister of Civil Affairs, and the Zhou family’s family status is much higher than that of the Yan family.

Although the Zhou family is pretty good to the Yan family now, it is all for Xiao Yeyang's sake, not because of the Yan family itself.

If the Yan family rashly flatters the Yan family at this time, the Zhou family may not say anything publicly, but privately, they may look down on the Yan family.

Besides, Zhou Jingwan is a arrogant person at first glance. She always needs to be supported and pampered by others. She usually only needs to send some gifts to each other to maintain the relationship. She will not take the initiative to invite people to her to make her feel uncomfortable.

What?

Sun didn't expect Daohua to say that. She was slightly surprised, and then smiled and said: "You girl, you are too thoughtful. Why do you little girls need to think so much about playing and socializing with each other?"

"Listen to Second Aunt, send an invitation to the girl from the Zhou family, and get closer to her. The Zhou family has a wide network of people in Xingzhou, and with her taking your sisters, you and the girls from all the families in Xingzhou City will definitely

Get familiar with it quickly."

This is her purpose, to let her two daughters go out and socialize more.

After coming to Xingzhou City, she deeply realized the importance of identity.

In the county town, even though she is just the county magistrate's sibling and the head of the household is just a white woman, she can still visit various houses alone.

But in Xingzhou City, unless her sister-in-law leads her, she can't even enter other people's houses.

She couldn't even get in, let alone her two daughters.

The life of the head of the family has been set. If the two daughters want to have a good future, they cannot rely on their own father. Now they can only count on Wenjie.

But even if Wenjie has a future, it will be many years later.

Let the two daughters have more contact with official ladies. In any case, their knowledge and horizons will definitely improve. Isn't this better than staying at home and studying hard?

As soon as these words came out, Yan Yihuan and the three of them all looked at Daohua. Obviously, these words had entered their hearts.

Daohua's expression calmed down. She discovered that the people in the second room seemed to like teaching others how to do things. This was true for the second uncle and the same for the second aunt.

When interacting with people, she likes to let nature take its course and does not like to be too specialized, especially for utilitarian purposes.

Mrs. Yan didn't know much about the social rules of wealthy families. She thought it would be a good thing for Daohua to have more contact with girls of the same age, so she didn't say anything.

Mrs. Li is aware of the rules of each family's interactions. Although the interactions between children do not need to be so particular, their behavior is still affected by their family status.

For example, if Daohua and the others associate with Miss Zhou, then Daohua and the others will have no choice but to lie low to Miss Zhou.

Mrs. Li glanced at her daughter, who was obviously unhappy, and Mrs. Sun, who seemed to be trying to persuade her, and stopped her words with a smile: "I haven't prepared anything today, how can I invite others to my home? Let's do it next time."
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Immediately, the voice changed and the topic was changed.

Wu also helped change the topic and looked at the old lady with a smile: "Mom, I heard that the wine you and Daohua jointly brewed is ready to drink?"

Speaking of wine, the old lady immediately became interested. She really didn't expect that wine could be made by just sealing grapes with rice flowers.

"It's ready to drink. It tastes pretty good and isn't too intoxicating."

Daohua smiled and said: "Grandma, drinking wine is good for your health, but you can't drink too much. If you like drinking, just drink one glass every day."

The old lady nodded: "Don't worry, your grandmother is not greedy. But you are a greedy little cat. The last time I opened the seal, I still carried you back to the yard."

Daohua smiled. She really didn't blame her. The wine tasted so good that she drank it directly as a drink. Unexpectedly, the stamina was too strong and she fainted.

"The Mid-Autumn Festival is coming soon, and my eldest brother and the others should be on vacation by then. My fourth brother has been clamoring for wine early in the morning. When they come back, our family can enjoy the moon and drink wine at the same time."

After hearing this, the old lady immediately laughed heartily.

When people get old, they like to have children and grandchildren around them.

Sun spoke up again: "Isn't the young prince also studying in the academy? Daohua, why don't you write a letter to the young prince and invite him to our house to celebrate the Mid-Autumn Festival?"

Hearing this, Daohua couldn't help but want to just roll her eyes in return.

Why is her second aunt’s face so big?

She didn't even want to make friends with the Zhou family, let alone Xiao Yeyang, who was a member of the royal family!

The status gap is too big. You have to stand on tiptoes and stretch out your hands to reach it. Aren’t you tired?

She has only one thought for Xiao Yeyang, and that is, if he gets close to the Yan family, she will do her best to repay him and keep the relationship between the two parties as balanced as possible.

But if he alienates the Yan family, then she will not rush to please and fawn over, because it is probably useless. With his status, there are too many people who fawn over, unless there are interests involved.

, don’t mention how disgusted it will be.

Of course, the Yan family has a weak foundation, so she still hopes to maintain a good relationship with Xiao Yeyang. In this way, although she will take advantage of him a lot, she will try her best to make up for it.

Mrs. Li looked a little unhappy and looked at Mr. Sun calmly: "Second brother and sister, please don't say this again in the future. How can the little prince communicate with Daohua?"

"Also, when going out in the future, it is best not to mention the young prince's affairs in front of outsiders. Royal children are not something ordinary people can talk about."

Mrs. Sun's face was a little stiff. Mrs. Li had always been very kind to her two sisters-in-law and rarely got angry. She would never have said such straightforward words before.

"Sister-in-law, I understand." Sure enough, a woman's greatest confidence is that her husband strives for success and her children are successful. My sister-in-law didn't speak so forcefully in the past!

Afterwards, Daohua did not stay in the house, but returned to Daohuaxuan.

At this time, Daohuaxuan is no longer as empty as when we first moved in. Various varieties of wall-climbing roses have covered the entire garden corridor, lush and green, with flowers in full bloom.

The yard and flower beds are also full of colorful flowers.

The breeze blows and the fragrance is overflowing.

"Girl, the flower shop will open soon. If business is good, will we have enough flowers to sell?" Many flowers in the yard have been transplanted into flower pots, but they cannot be moved anymore.

"Don't worry, I have carved out a piece of land in Zhuangzi specifically for planting flowers."

"What about winter?"
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