Chapter 1303 Postpartum depression of two men?
Chengcheng couldn't laugh or cry, "Isn't it normal for mothers to have a tendency to protect their calves after giving birth? Why is it that you have this problem in our family?"
Some mothers are very exclusive after giving birth and don't even want anyone to hold their baby.
Some people don't, and anyone can hold them.
Chengcheng thought she was fine, but Jin Fanmo was a little more serious than her. Like Lu Mingwei, he had to take his son with him to work for fear of being taken away.
Chengcheng wanted to persuade him, but when he came to deliver food, he always hid his son on his chest, pulled up his clothes, and acted like no one could take his child away. It was indeed very similar to the mentality of protecting a calf after giving birth.
Chengcheng couldn't laugh or cry, so she stopped trying to persuade her, "Then don't forget about your career, it's your dream and hobby."
Jin Fanmo hugged his son and coaxed him, then responded casually, "I know, you can feed your son some food after you finish eating. He's hungry."
Orange orange....
"Did you listen to me?"
Jin Fanmo handed her son to her and went to take off her coat, "He's hungry, feed him quickly."
Orange once again...
Who is the mother? Why does it feel like Jin Fanmo is more motherly than her?
This child looks like his own child. Look at everything in this area.
Chengcheng was helpless and fed Kuku with a look of despair.
Over the weekend, she told Tiantian about this, and Tiantian looked as if she had seen a ghost, "Is your family like this too? Oh my God, what's going on with these two men? Why do they have such good behavior?"
In the past, I heard from colleagues or close friends that as soon as the husband comes home, he will miss the child for at least two or three minutes. When he cries, he immediately throws it to his wife without even looking at it.
Who would have known that it was the other way around in their family? It was the husband who hugged the child when he got home, it was the husband who fed the child, and it was even the husband who held the child without letting go.
Now I don’t even want to go to work because of my children.
Chengcheng Tiantian sighed simultaneously, with a distressed look on his face, "What is this?"
"I'm telling you, Lu Mingwei carries his son to work every day. He doesn't do surgery now, but brings in new doctors. He holds his son to his chest every day, and the boss is talking about him."
Although it is our own hospital, we do not take our children to work.
Lu Mingwei was reluctant to let go of his son for the first two days, so he naturally refused to listen and still held his son in his arms to teach the new doctor.
In the end, his family reported him, saying that he was unprofessional and did not take his work seriously, so they reluctantly took him back to Mrs. Chi and hurried back to hold him after get off work.
Chengcheng said the same, "My family Jin Fanmo did the same. He said he wanted to take his son to teach the students, and he didn't even do the experiments. It's crazy."
But I couldn't talk about him in front of Jin Fanmo, so I could only complain to Tiantian, "He is very worried now, and he is also very concerned about protecting his cubs. I don't dare to accuse him of anything."
It seems incomprehensible to ordinary people, but every family's postpartum situation is different. Now Jin Fanmo and Lu Mingwei both seem to have postpartum depression. They don't dare to accuse them of any abnormalities, for fear of hurting them, they will be really depressed.
That's not good.
Sweet desserts are like pounded garlic, "No, I don't dare to say anything to Lu Mingwei, just because I'm afraid he won't be able to think about it."
Now their roles have been reversed and they can only understand and understand each other.
Chengcheng ate nuts, "I heard before that there was a pregnant woman who didn't have morning sickness during pregnancy, but her husband did. Now it seems that there is indeed such a real story."
Therefore, the situation of Jin Fanmo and Lu Mingwei is normal.
"Just let them go now. After this period, they will probably recover slowly."
Tiantian agreed, "Yes, let's just let them have their way for now and wait until things calm down."
When it was time to go to work next week, Jin Fanmo really carried the child on his chest and a daddy bag on his back, which contained milk powder, diapers and everything.
I saw that he looked like a nanny, and even asked Chengcheng to drive him there.
Three orange lines on your forehead, do you think you don’t have your own car?
But you can't say that. If you say it, you'll probably have a quarrel, so you have to accept your fate and take him there.
After arriving at the place, Jin Fanmo didn't get out of the car and looked at her slowly, "Honey, it's my first day to take up the office with the children, will you accompany me in?"
He actually has social anxiety, which was something he didn't have before.
Chengcheng suddenly felt a little sorry for him. She didn't suffer from postpartum sensitivity and depression, so she let him go.
And seeing that he looked very insecure, I immediately got out of the car, held his hand, and said, "Let's go, I'll accompany you in."
Chengcheng is wearing high heels and a windbreaker. She is tall and looks like a grown-up.
He led the weak and helpless Jin Fanmo in and said hello to the students.
"Hello, classmates, let me introduce myself. I am the lover of your Professor Jin. Today, my husband brings his children to teach you for the first time. I hope you can respect each other in class. He is a husband and a new father.
Dad is also your professor."
"I believe that he can teach you a lot with his professional knowledge. I hope that your classroom interactions will be more pleasant in the future."
"One more thing, my husband has been a little sensitive recently. I hope you can be more tolerant and considerate. He will also give you more knowledge in the future."
"This is the shopping mall shopping coupon I brought today. One for each person. Just treat it as a small gift for the first time. I hope everyone will accept it."
The class monitor came to hand it out. When the students saw that the shopping coupon actually had a denomination of one thousand yuan, and even saw Chi's seal, they were immediately surprised, "Are you from Chi's?"
Chengcheng avoided the important and took the easy, "I am just a wife who is worried about her husband. Please take more care of my husband in the future."
The students felt short-handed and had listened to Jin Fanmo's class, which was indeed very professional, so they all nodded and said yes.
Jin Fanmo saw that they were all bribed by Chengcheng, like little wives, and the corners of his mouth raised slightly.
During the first class, Chengcheng did not go back and listened in the last row.
Jin Fanmo took his children to class for the first time, and he was a little unsure at first, fearing that he would be laughed at by the students.
Unexpectedly, once Chengcheng got through the operation, the students became very obedient and only focused on his professional knowledge in class.
Moreover, Xiao Kuku is very well-behaved and falls asleep as soon as he listens to his lecture.
I wake up immediately after class and drink milk.
I immediately fell asleep again when I got to class.
Jin Fanmo wanted to say something about the fairy baby, and praised Chengcheng, "Our son is so well-behaved, how come we have such a well-behaved child."
Chengcheng looked at the little guy who was drinking milk with suspicion. Why did he feel that his son was not good, but fell asleep because he felt too boring in class?
However, she had no evidence for this matter and did not dare to tell Jin Fanmo, lest he think too much about it.
"Seeing that your class goes so well, should I go back first?"
"Will I pick you up again at noon?"
Because Jin Fanmo attends the first half of the day every day, and the other half is for experimental operations, and it is not convenient to take care of children, so another teacher is asked to attend.
Jin Fanmo nodded obediently, "Okay, I'll wait for you."
In the past, he was reluctant to let Chengcheng drive to pick him up because he was afraid that Chengcheng would be tired.
But recently, he has been particularly dependent on Chengcheng. He asks Chengcheng to deliver him wherever he goes, hugs him when he is unhappy, and even asks Chengcheng to take him home.
Chapter completed!