Chapter 5625 Don't take it to heart
Xiaoduo took a few deep breaths obediently, sorted out her thoughts, and then told Yang Ruoqing word for word about yesterday's dispute from beginning to end.
After Xiao Duo finished speaking, before Yang Ruoqing could speak, Sun took the lead: "Qing'er, your father and I questioned Duo'er carefully about this matter last night. According to us, the root of this matter lies in our family.
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"Shengnan's father was probably dissatisfied with our family's efforts to persuade the cattle dealer to propose a toast. He felt that our family's hands were being stretched out, so he took the opportunity to have an attack."
Next to them, Mrs. Sun also nodded in agreement, "This family is really ignorant, and others would be too lazy to pay attention to it. Qing'er and Hua'er tried to persuade them to give them face, but to give them face is shameless.
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Mrs. Sun glanced at the eldest Mrs. Sun: "Sister, don't say that, after all, the children are relatives, not to mention the cattle dealer and Lao San have always had a good relationship."
Mrs. Sun curled her lips and sat aside unhappily.
Yang Ruoqing saw that her mother and her eldest aunt were having trouble, so she quickly came out to smooth things over: "Mom, there are no outsiders in this house. My eldest aunt said that because of our injustice. Our family has a conflict with the Xiang family. I believe you
Auntie will always be on our side regardless of right or wrong."
The eldest Sun glanced at Yang Ruoqing gratefully, "Qing'er still understands me, and her words warm my heart, unlike your mother."
Mrs. Sun smiled awkwardly, raised her hand and touched Mrs. Sun's hand: "Sister, I don't mean anything else. Don't take it to heart."
Mrs. Sun rolled her eyes and hummed.
Seeing Da Sun make this expression, everyone felt relieved.
Yang Ruoqing then returned to the topic and turned her gaze back to Xiaoduo.
"My views on this matter are similar to those of my eldest aunt. If we change it to other things, like Jiaojiao getting sick, we can go back and forth, and the Xiang family has no objection. The Xiang family has no objection to other things, but this matter is the only one causing trouble.
If this is the case, it only shows that the ban on alcohol is the rebellion of the cattle dealer uncle."
"So our advice went against his ears and made him feel unhappy. He knew it was unreasonable, but he couldn't resist the temptation of alcohol, so he revealed some of his dissatisfaction to Shengnan's father, intentionally or unintentionally."
"There are no outsiders in this room, so I'll be honest. Men like Father Katsunan are the ones I despise the most. They have no brains, can't think, and are petty-minded. They don't dare to be big bad guys, but they are full of little bad guys."
"This time, Father Xiang came out to wave the flag and cheer for the cattle dealer uncle, but he probably waved the flag too much, and the shouting broke his throat. Duo'er went back to her parents' family in anger, and the Xiang family is probably in a mess now."
Xiaoduo wiped away the tears from the corner of her eyes, raised her head and looked at Yang Ruoqing: "Sister, I can feel it too. When I explained to the uncle, the uncle seemed to be smiling, no different from usual, but he said
If you think about it now, it means something else."
"It's also my fault for being stupid. I've seen him suffer from recurring leg injuries these days, which makes me a little anxious. So every time I see him drinking half a cup of wine, I can't help but give him some advice. It's because I over-admonished him and aroused him.
It's my fault that uncle is disgusted."
Yang Ruoqing grabbed Xiaoduo's arm and leaned forward to look at her: "True words are hard on the ears but help the deeds. It is not wrong to sincerely care about your family!"
"Usually, if our father feels uncomfortable, don't our sisters always keep nagging him in his ears and not allow him to drink?
Our dad is always smiling, that’s because he is our dad, not our father-in-law. Some things can be separated by a slap, so the cattle dealer uncle felt unhappy and couldn’t get angry, so he used to win over his father to get rid of this.
You've argued and cried about this matter, so don't dwell on it all the time, and don't use it to torment your mood."
Xiaoduo understood what Yang Ruoqing meant, frowned and nodded a little aggrievedly.
"Sister, I listen to you, this matter is over, then I will go back to Xiang's house!"
Yang Ruoqing shook her head: "I want you to put this matter down from your heart and not to worry about it, but I didn't ask you to go back to Xiang's house just like that!"
Xiaoduo looked at Yang Ruoqing in surprise, "What should we do?"
Yang Ruoqing said: "You stay at your parents' house. Let the Xiang family dry out for a while and let them reflect on it. When will they show sincerity? Then you and Jiaojiao can go back."
Mrs. Sun nodded repeatedly: "Qing'er is right. He will live in his parents' house first, and a good girl like me will bear children and support the Xiang family, but she will be disliked. Even though the cattle dealer has a good relationship with your father,
We can't compromise on this matter, otherwise our Duo'er will be looked down upon by the entire Xiangjiazhuang people in the future!"
The eldest Sun smiled and said to Sun: "This is the attitude that my mother's family should have. Sister, you must not be trapped by those thoughts of 'sticking it to the end'. This girl is married and living a good life."
, if life is uncomfortable and there is really no possibility of recovery or improvement, then our mother-in-law’s family must show their attitude to support their divorce.”
"When Xiaojie and Zhang Ban had a conflict, I made up my mind to get them to reconcile. It's okay to lose face. As time goes by, everyone will naturally stop talking. But you can't put your daughter's whole life in it just for that little face.
, do you think so?"
On the one hand, the thoughts of sisters Xiaohua and Xiaoduo were greatly influenced by Mr. Sun. On the other hand, both sisters were 100% satisfied with their men, so they could not accept Mr. Sun's words.
But Yang Ruoqing is different. Her thinking comes from modern free women.
"My aunt's words also make sense. A woman's destiny should be in her own hands, and she can do whatever she wants. But there is a premise for everything, which is to marry carefully and not be blindly impulsive. Any marriage that has been carefully considered will be successful.
If you have a child again, you should be careful in running the family, and try your best to repair the conflicts that can be repaired. If the clothes are not as good as the new couple, they are not as good as the old ones. If it is really irreversible, don't delay when it's time to reconcile and divorce."
"I agree with what sister said." Xiaohua said with a smile.
"Let's not talk about it. Let's talk about Xiaojie and Zhang Ban. After the two reconciled, I see that their relationship is better than before. The young couple discusses everything."
"The main thing is that Yan'er will not suffer, her father and mother are by her side, and we are all happy that this marriage has been saved."
Mrs. Sun shook her head and sighed: "Hey, I'm worried, I'm doing fine now, but I don't know if I'll get into trouble again if I develop spots in the future."
Yang Ruoqing comforted the eldest Sun: "Don't worry so much. I think Zhang Ban is actually a good character. Now besides teaching in the academy, he devotes his free time to writing stories. A person's energy is limited, so he put his energy into it."
If you use it all here, you won’t need to worry about anything else.”
Chapter completed!