About adoption
"Fathers and mothers, please understand that although the child is in Jin Nan's name and usually lives with his grandfather, Father Xiang, in the old house, Father Xiang relies on Sheng Nan and Xiaoduo for support. In the end,
In the end, the burden of raising children still fell on Shengnan and Duoer.
And Sheng Nan is a man, the male leads the outside and the female leads the household. Duo'er takes care of the children, washing and cleaning. We still have to ask Duo'er carefully about her wishes and never force her!" Yang Ruoqing solemnly said again.
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Yang Huazhong and Sun both nodded seriously.
Yang Huazhong told Sun: "Tomorrow we will come to the pasture to see the calves. Please take the time to convey our thoughts to Duo'er, and then ask her carefully about her wishes."
Sun agreed.
She wished she could go back and talk about it.
Yang Ruoqing added: "Mom also wants to convey my attitude. My attitude is to stand with Duo'er. If she doesn't agree, I will help her carry it. If she agrees, I will remain silent!"
Sun smiled and patted Yang Ruoqing's hand gently: "Okay, okay, I will make it clear."
By the time the matter was finished, the two or three miles from the pasture to the village had been completed unknowingly.
When they arrived in the village, everyone was busy with their own business. Yang Ruoqing went home, washed her hands, changed her clothes, and then took the time to visit Jiang Guiling and her daughter in the fifth house across the road. They chatted for a while before returning. They spent the whole day dealing with various things like this.
The chores passed by quietly.
This is the life of farmers, there is no grandeur, only trivial things in the water.
But everything is closely related to our food, clothing, housing and transportation, as well as the joys, sorrows and joys of ordinary people.
The next day, Sun had a hasty breakfast, washed her and Yang Huazhong's clothes, fed all the chickens, ducks, geese, cats, and horses in the backyard, and then hurried to the pasture.
Yang Huazhong didn't go today because he wasted two days working on the pasture.
I will stay in the village today and go to the hundreds of acres of wheat and rapeseed fields at home in the morning.
There are hundreds of acres, and it is not something that can be walked around in one morning. He plans to wander around first in the morning and then in the afternoon. Anyway, he will spend his time on this in the next few days.
If there is any problem, notify the long-term worker to fix it. As the boss, you have to take care of it.
Otherwise, everything depends on long-term labor. People only take wages to do things, and they will not really care about the crops in the fields.
Yang Ruoqing was also busy at home. Taking advantage of the fact that it wasn't raining, she naturally washed what needed to be washed and what needed to be dried in the sun, making the house dry and tidy.
Because the climate in this place will have several rains one after another every winter, causing one round of cooling after another.
If possible, take this opportunity to pop out the cotton, whether it is to make new bedding or buy cotton-padded clothes, pants and shoes for the elderly and children at home, you must hurry up.
After all, the solar term has passed the "Beginning of Winter", and the next step is "light snow". You can't be busy singing when the weather is warm like the cold horn bird, and be upset when the weather is freezing and the north wind is howling!
After a busy day, I even took time to go to my parents' house next door to see if Mrs. Sun was back.
As a result, not only did Sun not come back, Yang Huazhong also didn't come back at noon. When the couple came back from the fields together in the afternoon, Yang Ruoqing found out that he had gone to the pasture for lunch at noon. After dinner, the couple went to the fields to check on the situation.
Then call it a day and go home.
"Mom, how's the situation over there in the pasture? Are the calves all well?" Yang Ruoqing asked.
Speaking of this, Mrs. Sun was happy, "The eight calves with milder conditions are all healed. Now they are eating grass and are jumping in the pasture."
"The two that were more serious before are no longer serious. Although they are not as energetic as the other eight, they are still out of danger. Your uncle, the cattle dealer, praised you again, saying that this wave is all your fault. Wait.
When the cattle are released next year, or the slaughtered meat is sold, I will definitely send you beef!"
Yang Ruoqing smiled at the first half of what Sun brought back, but she stopped laughing after hearing it.
At the end of the book, the calves she tried so hard to save still couldn't escape the fate of being killed and sold as meat?
Rather than that, it would be better not to save them and let them end their lives early.
But then I thought about it, Taurus are just like humans. The first second we come into this world, we are destined to end up dead.
Life is originally a process whose outcome cannot be changed. Since it is a process, then just enjoy the process. Why think so much?
In this process, human beings have experienced various joys, sorrows and joys, from childishness to maturity, from gain to loss, gain and loss again, over and over again, from which we understand what is the true meaning of life. This is a process of cultivating the mind.
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And the same goes for Niu Niu.
Therefore, no matter humans or animals, there is no need to fear death, but to embrace life with open arms. Even if death is tomorrow, then if I am still alive today, I will face everything with a smile.
If there is reincarnation, the worst it can do is have a bowl of Meng Po soup all over again. What are you afraid of?
"Qing'er, today I asked Duo'er and the others about raising the baby girl. Come on, let's come in and talk."
Mrs. Sun came over and held Yang Ruoqing's hand, then entered the courtyard with a mysterious look on her face.
Seeing her look like this, Yang Ruoqing guessed that it was probably the Xiang family who had discussed it. In addition, Sun went over to convey Yang Huazhong's intention to Duo'er, so Duo'er either figured it out or compromised.
"The Xiang family plans to wait until the calf is completely healed, then go to the mountains to inquire about the girl's condition. If it's similar, they will take her out and raise her."
"Well, what about Duo'er? What do you think about Duo'er?" Yang Ruoqing only focused on this.
"Duo'er? She didn't say anything when I went there, but she took the initiative to tell me. It seemed like they were discussing it after we left yesterday. Duo'er seemed to be a little moved, and she seemed to be half-reluctant."
"But after hearing what I said about your father and I, she nodded readily. Hey, everyone is doing it for Jiaojiao."
Yang Ruoqing could only laugh.
Mrs. Sun continued: "Duo'er said it herself, it's not that she doesn't want to adopt the orphan girl, she's not that kind of cold-blooded person. She herself was brought back to our house for adoption by you,"
"If our family didn't adopt her, she wouldn't have the good life she has now, so she also wants to be a good Samaritan and pass this kindness on, especially if it can bring good luck to Jiaojiao, it will kill two birds with one stone.
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"I advised her, I said good intentions will definitely be rewarded. I remember when she and Hua'er came to our house when they were six years old, I was kind to them, and they knew in their hearts that now they are just like their own daughters, they all respect me, and I
You've made a lot of money. Duo'er laughed when she heard this, and she was even more willing to adopt the orphan girl. Qing'er, do you think this is true?"
Yang Ruoqing just smiled without saying a word.
People are different. It doesn’t mean that if you dedicate your heart and soul to others, you will definitely be rewarded.
Are there too many stories about Mr. Dong Guo and the wolf, and the farmer and the snake?
Chapter completed!