Chapter 8589 mother and child talk (in)
The surprise in Da Zhi's eyes overflowed, his face was faintly excited, his hands clenched into fists and placed on his legs, and his chest heaved.
"Mom, you are so kind. Having parents like you and dad is a blessing for us as children!" Dazhi said impatiently.
"I, I thank my parents for their support, and I will replace Xiao Qiao..."
Yang Ruoqing couldn't help but laugh. This silly boy was so eager to flatter her in order to please her and agree.
She raised her hand to interrupt Dazhi: "Zhi'er, mother hasn't finished speaking yet!"
"Ah?" Dazhi was a little embarrassed, "Mom, please tell me, my son is all ears."
Yang Ruoqing nodded and continued: "Although your father and I will not arrange your marriage, as people who have experienced it, we will still make appropriate suggestions for you to choose a mate. Whether you accept it or reject it depends on your own decision."
Dazhi understands, my mother is not 100% satisfied with Xiao Qiao.
This was also what he had expected. No one in this world is perfect, especially when it comes to choosing a daughter-in-law, there is always something to choose from.
"If you feel that there is something about Xiao Qiao that doesn't suit your wishes, it's okay to say so," Dazhi said again.
Because he knew that even if his mother wanted to find fault with Xiao Qiao, she had no ill intentions and was doing it for his own good.
But in the end, he has his own judgment to decide whether to listen or not.
Yang Ruoqing nodded. Da Zhi is worthy of being a scholar, with a stable mind and a calm mind.
If it were a young boy of my age, if you had just opened your mouth to pick on his sweetheart, he would have jumped three feet high like a flying monkey, patting the table with you.
"I chatted with Xiao Qiao for a long time before, and you were listening there. Actually, I don't have many requirements for marrying my daughter-in-law."
"First of all, other families pay attention to family background, but our family does not pay attention to that. The most important thing for a boy is to rely on himself. If you rely on anyone else, you will feel guilty and short of breath. Only by relying on your own ability can you be strong."
"So we don't consider the family background of Xiao Qiao's family. We only look at the character of her family. If her family's character is decent, then it's OK. As the saying goes, marry a daughter to compensate for the mother-in-law. You should know what kind of person Xiao Qiao's mother is.
, otherwise there will be a petty mother-in-law who will sow discord between you after marriage, and the relationship between husband and wife will not be harmonious."
Regarding the conduct of Xiao Qiao's family and the conduct of Xiao Qiao's mother, Dazhi is quite confident.
"Mom, not to mention that the uncle of the Qiao family is an honest and honest small businessman, but Xiao Qiao and her third brother are a talented scholar. It also shows that this family is unlikely to be the kind of person who commits crimes."
"Besides, it has been several years since my third sister married into the Qiao family. The two families are close relatives. Qiao's father and Qiao's mother are both open-minded and open-minded. Otherwise, it would be impossible for Xiao Qiao, a girl, to study and become literate."
Yang Ruoqing nodded, "So there is no problem with Xiao Qiao's house, then the next problem lies with Xiao Qiao himself."
Dazhi's face darkened: "Mother..."
Yang Ruoqing raised her hand to suppress Dazhi's voice, "Don't be impatient. Mom said at the beginning that she actually likes Xiao Qiao very much."
"What do you like about Xiao Qiao?" Dazhi asked.
Yang Ruoqing thought for a moment, "I like the bookishness about her, the arrogance and aloofness that other girls don't have."
But what I like even more is because of your love for Xiao Qiao.
Gu Na is the person you like, so Mom loves the house and the crow. But even so, the shortcomings of this analysis cannot be ignored vaguely.
"Xiao Qiao is handsome, delicate, delicate, not short in stature, knowledgeable and polite, and has good character. The most important thing is that I can see that you two have a good understanding of each other." Yang Ruoqing took a sip of the tea in front of her and started talking.
Dazhi also sat aside and listened carefully.
"It is a blessing to marry a wife who is in harmony with you. But marrying a wife is not just about two people having similar interests. You also have to consider your family and your children."
"Mom, let's be honest. If you become a couple, do you want to have children of your own? But Xiao Qiao's health is too bad. From my previous chat with her, I can more or less understand her illness.
You know something, let alone giving birth to children for a woman like her, I’m afraid she can’t even do housework, wash, wash, and sweep!”
Dazhi was a little impatient, his face turned red and he argued: "I am a civil servant, and I will go one step further. I can buy a maid and servants to serve me, and I don't need her to do those things."
"What about the child? Are you looking for someone else to give birth to her?" Yang Ruoqing turned coldly and asked Dazhi in a deep voice.
Dazhi was stunned.
He opened his mouth several times, but could not argue.
Xiao Qiao suffered from many illnesses, including the frailty she brought from her mother's womb. In addition, she also suffered from severe uterine cold.
In addition, Xiao Qiao's right foot has one more toe than others...
Regarding the toes, the only people in the world who know about it were Xiao Qiao and Xiao Qiao’s parents, but now they have a new ambition.
Dazhi knew that his mother, Yang Ruoqing, had just caught Xiao Qiao's first one and was born weak, so he had so many worries. If his mother knew that Xiao Qiao had the other two, she would probably drop the tea bowl on the table...
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Da Zhi lowered his head, and the young man's previous arrogance and arrogance were suddenly greatly reduced. These things also created a barrier between him and Xiao Qiao.
I remember that when his first biological mother was still alive, Dazhi knelt in front of her bed and begged her to help him propose marriage to Xiao Qiao. Her biological mother said the same thing at the time.
There are three types of unfilial piety, the worst of which is not having an offspring. For people like them who are happy with their small fortunes, their first choice when marrying is to have a good family.
Spending money to marry a sick man will not count for the loss of your children and grandchildren, but he may even make you a widower early. Even if you marry again later, it will still be a continuation of the relationship, which is really unpleasant to say!
Seeing Da'an go silent, his face full of frustration and helplessness, as if he was about to give up, Yang Ruoqing felt bad in her heart.
"Zhi'er, don't be sad. Mom didn't ask questions to drive you and Xiao Qiao apart. The purpose of raising questions is to solve the problem."
Yang Ruoqing originally thought that her words could help her son regain his confidence, but as a result, Dazhi's head dropped lower. Not only that, a bitter smile appeared on the corner of his mouth.
When Yang Ruoqing saw his smile, her heart felt more and more uncomfortable, like a knife scratching her.
"Zhi'er, don't be like this. If we have any problem to solve, if we are not in good health, we will ask a famous doctor to tailor an effective treatment plan for Miss Xiao Qiao. No matter how much the medicine is, our family can take it.
Come on, get Xiao Qiao's body in good condition, and your marriage will be happier, right?"
This time, Dazhi finally slowly raised his head and looked at Yang Ruoqing. In addition to being depressed, there was despair in his eyes.
He seemed to be struggling with something, and finally it turned into a sigh. He shook his head and said: "Mom, there's no need to invite me. I know her body well. It doesn't happen overnight."
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Chapter completed!