Chapter 699 Don't Be Too Selfless
The old lady thought that after the children graduated and started working, they would be relaxed and start to enjoy happiness.
Who knew that things would change again after the children started working.
"The eldest son failed the civil service exam and complained that the family had no connections and did not give him a back door. When he took the second civil service exam, he said he would spend 100,000 yuan to gain connections, and his father also gave it..."
But the boss spent 100,000 yuan and only got a position at the grassroots level in the countryside. In the end, the boss quit and ran back.
He said that the money was small and hard work, and it would take countless years before he could return to the city. There was no hope.
"When the second child got married, the other party asked him to come to the house. We thought that if a boy came to the door, he would be the one who would suffer and be looked down upon. If he didn't agree, the second child would fight to the death and refused to break up with her, so the woman said she wanted to buy a house.
,If you don’t buy a house, you won’t get married…”
Later, I bought a house for my second son. After all, their custom is that when their son gets married, his parents buy a house and give him a bride price. Everyone does this.
Unfortunately, my second son divorced two years after I bought the house and got married, and the house was taken away by the woman.
Later, when the second child got married, he still had people come to his house... They had no choice but to agree and gave the second child money, and then he built his current house with the help of his father-in-law.
Su Bao interjected: "Then you are quite rich..."
When she saw the old lady's death, she felt miserable and thought that their family had no money.
Who knew they could give the eldest son 100,000 yuan to get married, then buy a house for the second son, and finally give money to the second marriage... According to the final result, each child will also receive a share of the family property.
"What about my daughter and youngest son?" Su He asked.
The old man sighed: "When we gave the eldest son 100,000 yuan to establish a relationship, my daughter said not to give it. When we bought the second son a house, she also said not to give it. My daughter said too much and got angry. The two sons said in turn that she was a girl.
The sons fight for the family property."
There was a quarrel between the brother and the sister. The daughter was angry and said it was unfair. The daughter had done so much and got nothing, and the son wished he could wipe out the family fortune.
Su Bao nodded: "That's right!"
According to what was said before, the boys in the Cai family are all monkeys, and they all make excuses to study and review while working.
My daughter felt resentful in her heart, but she still helped her parents with their work.
She herself may feel that her brothers are unreliable.
The old woman's face turned bitter: "We didn't favor boys over girls. In those days, everyone said it was useless for girls to study, but the two of us gritted our teeth and sent her to high school no matter how difficult it was. We also spent money if she didn't get into college.
Let her go to college..."
"When she got married, we gave her 100,000 yuan as a dowry, and her husband's family gave her 100,000 yuan as a bride price, and we returned it all to her..."
After the daughter got married, the land in the village was divided into two equal parts, one for her and the other for the younger son.
But my daughter still felt it was unfair, saying that her parents didn't help her, but they only helped her older brothers.
"The youngest loved to play when he was a child, but after he dropped out of junior high school, he just idled around. He found it hard to give him a store at home and had no future..."
"Finally, he fell in love with a girl and went to the village to get married. So he always blamed us for not caring about him when he was a child. Both of his brothers were from the city and he was the only one in the countryside."
Anyway, they try their best to give their children what they want, but the more they give, the more unfair they feel.
The old woman burst into tears: "We helped this one, and that one got upset, and we helped that one, and that one got angry. We gave them everything, but they thought I was old and useless."
Sometimes she doesn't know what she did wrong?
Love every child and give to every child what you can.
After the real estate is divided, the rural land will be divided, and after the rural land is divided, the inheritance will be divided.
I cook, wash and clean their rooms for them, pick them up after school and carry their schoolbags to carry their things.
After living on campus, I go to pick up clothes twice a week, take their dirty clothes home and wash them, wash them and fold them neatly before sending them to them.
After work, she sympathizes with their hard work. When she comes home, she washes and brushes dirty shoes and socks...
But the final result was that he shouted at the door of his eldest son's house all night, and the eldest son actually pretended that he hadn't heard him all night.
The old woman's face turned bitter: "Little guy, do you think I did something wrong?"
Su Bao shook his head, nodded, and shook his head again.
In fact, she doesn't know either.
She thinks that parents treat their children badly and make them resentful. This is a normal cause and effect relationship.
Unexpectedly, parents who are very kind to their children will also make their children resentful...
Su Bao pondered silently for a long time before saying: "Maybe... when your child is this kind of person, no matter what he does, he will end up the same..."
Su Hewen nodded: "Some people complain all the time in their lives, while some people survive from the cliff and are grateful again and again. It has to do with people."
Su Jinmo finally interjected: "Go ahead and reincarnate..."
Children may not understand and think that selfless dedication is right, but the reality is that people cannot be too selfless.
In this example, the old lady was so selfless that she even took the child's dirty clothes home to wash for him after he was admitted to school.
To put it cruelly: the child's selfishness is actually caused by her habit.
Su Bao shook his little head: "Don't say it, don't say it, go and be reincarnated~"
Burn more money and the old lady will suffer less on her way to reincarnation.
She is just a child. What can a child do? Burn more paper money~
Su Bao scattered a handful of paper money, and then threw another handful into the brazier.
I lit three sticks of incense and put them on the white rice.
The house was filled with smoke.
The smoke alarm beeps.
Not long after, the smoke alarm blared and sprayed out water, and Su Bao quickly ran away with the basin in hand.
Su Hewen picked up the white rice that night.
Su Jinmo grabbed the chicken.
The expression of the old lady who was about to turn into blue smoke changed, and she followed her out in a panic: "What's wrong? What's wrong?"
Su Bao ran to the door and stopped, holding the brazier and looking innocently at the room.
"I'm sorry, Uncle Six, I really set your room on fire!"
Su Jinmo: "..."
It didn't burn... it just set off the smoke alarm, sprinkled water, and soaked the quilts and sheets in the room.
Su Hewen, who said, "I don't want to join in the fun," was soaked in water.
Su Zixi hugged the notebook immediately. It was OK to get wet, but the notebook should not get wet.
Hanhan...? Hanhan is not here. He was locked up by his father to do his homework.
The old lady, whose soul was already very weak, looked at the group of children who were looking at each other, and suddenly smiled.
She waved her hand at Su Bao and disappeared completely.
Mrs. Su went upstairs with a bang and said: "What's going on?"
Seeing Su Bao holding the brazier, he quickly said: "Put down the brazier quickly, be careful not to burn your hands!"
Su Bao held two yellow talismans in his hand and used the yellow talismans as heat-insulating pads to hold the brazier, which would not actually burn him.
But she still put down the brazier obediently and said, "Grandma, I don't know what happened, but the smoke alarm suddenly sprayed water!"
Her hair was still dripping with water, and her whole little face looked extremely innocent. The others, big and small, also stood in a row very innocently...
Mrs. Su: "..."
Xiao Wu rushed out from another room and yelled: "What! I'm flooded?!"
As a result, he rushed too fast without stopping his wings, and crashed into the brazier held by Su Bao...
Chapter completed!